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If you do not water your plant, it will shrivel up and die. If you do not feed your pet, it will starve and die a slow and painful death. If you do not continue to add firewood to the fire that is keeping you warm, the fire will die out. If you do not take care of your relationships with the people in your life, they will also die out and will likely never recover. The second chapter of emotional resilience of the book The Resilience Breakthrough mentions how important it is to maintain a healthy relationship with friends or family: by working on it. Many people assume that if a relationship requires work to keep it going, then there was something wrong in the first place. This is the absolute opposite of what is required to keep a marriage together, a family with a strong connection, and a friendship with good people. For people to build strong connections, there MUST be open communication all the time to continue to learn about each other. Not only openly speaking with each other, but also that you feel safe to express yourself to the other person. If you feel safer keeping a secret because you are scared to say how you feel, then the relationship is not healthy and is most likely ready to fall apart. There are ways to improve or implement your relationship: 1. Don't isolate - stay involved in a conversation and do not criticize a person's opinion. 2. Look past an annoying behavior and remind yourself that you have your own which surely makes you less than the ideal company at all times. In each and every post of every chapter I go over, I want to share a link to the book which I have bought the book from. This is an affiliate link, which means that if someone purchased a book from the website using my link below I will receive a small compensation as a token of gratitude. It also supports the author who made the effort to write this book to help millions of people who struggle with their own personal problems. The link leads to the physical copy of the book, but there are other reading options as well such as audio or digital: read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B00M0R19RE&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_XJ8BVMBNG5D4ZAS88JQ7&tag=carnessial-20 Image by Ulrike Mai from Pixabay.
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The book is really wonderful and I think I really understood its content, it talks about all human relationships and how to deal with ourselves and with others close to us, I hope you benefited from reading it and that you found the person who deserves
The book is absolutely wonderful. That is why I love sharing it because it is beneficial for people to learn to respond to the negative events in their lives instead of wishing and praying for only the positive events to happen. I cannot wait to share more of the book.
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Hello my friend how are you I hope you are fine, I haven't been here for days
Hey Lavi. I have been away from here as well because I did not feel like posting lately. I noticed that when I look at your posts, there are fewer people replying to them. It feels like there are people who stopped using this platform as well. I am glad to know that you are enjoying your warm summer. There are some good things and bad things that are happening right now to me. The good thing is that I am still with my work-at-home job. I absolutely want to keep working the job because I can move anywhere and work from anywhere. If it wasn't for my stupid, broken car I would have saved more money to live somewhere better because right now I hate where I live. The bad thing that happened is that I got mad with my roommate because the stupid man treats our apartment as if he is the only one who lives there. He keeps leaving dishes unwashed because he cooks a lot, does not flush the toilet sometimes which means we have ugly stains on the toilet bowl, and he leaves the window open in our bathroom open after he takes a shower which blows air inside and makes our sink dirtier. Right now he is not living here for a few days but I am a little bit worried because he brought a police officer into the house a few days ago because I had my hand on my gun when I yelled at him for the mess he keeps leaving. I am worried because I do not know what he is planning when he returns sometime later ( I don't know when he is coming back), but I am looking for a new place to live. I am going to visit a place where I do not have to pay rent but I have a second job looking after a man's dogs while I live with him. If I like this place, then I can save money while being around dogs. 🐕🦺🐕🦺 Otherwise, I would be paying almost twice as much if I move to a different house where I get more space and privacy.
Hello my friend, this roommate is really annoying but please don't be so rash and foolish I am afraid you will hurt yourself, it would be better to live alone
You are right. It is easier to live alone than to live with someone who I hate to have a roommate. Unfortunately, they are no apartments or homes that are cheap enough to afford to live alone. I am currently still paying off the car but I am almost done paying it so that I can just focus on saving up money. As of right now, it doesn't seem like there will be trouble because I have not seen or heard my roommate since he came back yesterday. Anyways, I was working yesterday and when it was nighttime I decided to light up my candles and lanterns to see how it looks like. It looks so beautiful to me and I was just sitting there when I was finished with work just marveling the beautiful flames. Now I understand why I prefer the night because it feels more calm because everyone is basically relaxing after a hard day at work but to me the night time is my time to be active.
I hope you are always happy, and that you are comfortable, the candles are so beautiful, did I tell you that I love candlelight so much, it looks so poetic😍😍😍😍
Yes the first time I lit my candles, I was so happy with the way they looked. The only problem is that they give off heat and it makes the room hotter than it is, especially in the summer. They would be perfect during the colder months. I hope you are doing okay. I noticed you haven't posted in a few days but I hope that you are enjoying your summer. 🏖😎