So a while back I read an amazing book about building resilience from the harsh realities of life. It was recommended by my therapist, which was one of the best books I have ever read. I had promised that I was going to go over the book in more detail but I had put it off for a long time. I had recently spoken with someone about past trauma and she told me that she has a hard time with toxic people in the past who continue to haunt her with memories. I realize that I had let myself become dominated by my traumatizing past and it has pushed whatever joy I had out of me. I feel that it is time to take control of myself again and start going over the book again in more detail. This book has four different types of resilience: Relational, Street, Resource, and Rock Bottom resilience. The first type of resilience that I will go over is Relational Resilience. There are seven chapters that cover the topic of Relational Resilience. The definition of Relational Resilience is the ability and motivation to put effort into life because of the dependency on people who are counting on you. This could mean more than just family and friends but also people with who you interact and who depend on you for their own motivation and support. The biggest example in my case: my Noise.cash followers. When I mentioned that I was taking some time off for myself, a lot of people have voiced their support for me to get better because they enjoy my content so much. Now, I want to make regular posts because I know that there are people who want to listen to what I have to say. There is also a special friend here that is always wanting me to make sure that I am doing fine. This is someone who not only cares so much for me but is also dependent on me to keep our friendship strong. It is the reason why I need to continue to honor the people who are close to me for their companionship. In the next post, I will go over the first chapter and first of the seven parts of Relational Resilience. In each and every post of every chapter I go over, I want to share a link to the book which I have bought the book from. This is an affiliate link, which means that if someone purchased a book from the website using my link below I will receive a small compensation as a token of gratitude. It also supports the author who made the effort to write this book to help millions of people who struggle with their own personal problems. The link leads to the physical copy of the book, but there are other reading options as well such as audio or digital: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B00M0R19RE&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_RRJ8VE2QH1HC4VWD4NZZ&tag=carnessial-20
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Yes true here are so many friends of you who are sincere and wanted to listen you long time you were missing
شكرا كارنسيال ،الكتاب مهم جدا وانا حقا سعيدة لانك شاركته معنا اعرف من هي الفتاة المقصودة انها صديقة مشتركة ،شكرا لك لانك تهتم حقا بالمشاعر الانسانيه ،اردت ان اكتب لك بالعربية وانت تستطيع الترجمة
I'm glad you enjoyed it. I enjoyed reading the book again and discussing it with people who need some advice on dealing with past trauma. You can write to me however you want. 💖
كيفك حالك صديقي العزيز ،ارجو انك بخير انا حاليا في القرية في زيارة عائلتي ،ارجو ان عملك يسير بشكل جيد
Hey. I just finished work for tonight. It is going okay but I received a few emails that a few things I have done could have been done better. 😱 But I am not too worried because I have been told I've been doing a good job anyways. Today was very strange because I went to bed right after I finished work last night and I woke up this morning. I was disappointed with myself because I like being awake at night. Hopefully, I can stay awake tonight and sleep during the day like I'm supposed to do. 🦉🦇 I hope you are enjoying your time with your family. 🥰
Haha you want to be a night owl, I still slept at five in the morning, I'm not very happy in the village, I don't like it, it's boring and I miss the sea so much
Yes. The good news is that I stayed up all night and I am ready to sleep during the day again. I'm sad to hear that you are not enjoying your time. It seems that you love the sea 🌊 so much. The last time I was by the sea, it was night time and I was watching a sea turtle lay its eggs. What is it about the sea that you love so much?
I love the sea and everything in it. It is my best friend. I enjoy meditating looking at it, at its waves and its voice. Yes, I cannot live without it
That sounds wonderful. I wish to one day visit the ocean again. It has been a long time since I have visited the ocean. I have been to two different oceans in the Pacific and the Atlantic. Both beaches that I have visited had cold water but in some parts of the world it is warm. Speaking of temperature, the temperature has gotten warm during the day and cold at night but today it is actually quite cold as if it's winter again. I honestly do not mind it since I like taking walks during the night. It looks like we are going to have a few days of cold weather but by next week it should be warm again. I'm hoping that you would go back to your town and enjoy the beach side again.
I hope the weather is better for you, my dear, and you go to the beach, there is nothing more beautiful than the sea, I just got home, it's half past twelve at night
Hey darling. I hope you're doing fine. The weather is still currently cold at night and in the mornings but it gets pretty good during the day, which I do not go out much anymore anyways. I saw in your post that you are back home and that you are happy to be back home close to the beach again. I'm glad that you are back to your favorite spot again.
Welcome my friend, here it is summer, yes I have returned to my favorite place in the sea. Thank you very much, how is your work on the Internet?
My job is going great. I feel I can work every single day and not be too tired or stressed. It's funny because I only get a few hours of sleep and I do have to drink a 5-hour Energy Shot to wake up while I'm doing my job but I feel that it is because I'm not too exhausted at the end of the day. I feel that I have to be a lot more active so that I can get some proper rest.