😥😪 so much relate with this. When it feels too overwhelming you feel alone, useless, tired, at punung puno lalo na pag ung asawa mo na inaasahang katulong mo sana ay d supportive. Mapapaiyak k n lng pagkatapos mong saktan ang anak mo. Nakakabaliw tlga, you even think of killing yourself.

I hope the woman will be able to seek professional help.

I pray this woman gets through this ordeal soon enough so that she can take care of the other child. And hope the husband supports her.

I don't think that woman will ever forget. May God help her. I don't have a child of my own but I know that as a woman you need to talk about this thing with your husband, even doing daring stage. some men are so great that if you don't tell them that this is their responsibility they would never know, they won't do it , not because they are wicked but because they simply do not know. Like you said mothers are amazing. They are simply the best 👌❤

let us pray for them momma kawawa si ate kung ganyan din naman talaga ang asawa wala na ngang segurong trabaho dipa maka asikaso ng anak ma dedepress ka talaga nyan. Iwan nya nalang sana ang lalaki lalo na wala na talagang pag asang mag bago at magpaka husband sakanya.,:(

This story is very scary,,, especially for mothers who give birth and raise children but the fact is that when husband and wife establish a relationship and have children, they should be with each other at all conditions. As you described your relationship with your husband, every couple should learn from

Grabe ang sad nong post,di ako nagalit sa ina kundi sa asawa nia. Nakaka pressure din minsan. This is the reason bakit ayokong mag asawa. Mababa ang pasensya ko at ayokong magkamali sa bandang huli Your so lucky for having a good man. Di lahat blessed kaya masasabi kong out of ten, iisa lang ang may matino at responsableng ama.

It make so sad even the one who think who don't have any feelings or emotions will cry coz mother is everything for us and we know importance of this relation and may Gob bless every mother with good and respectful childs and husbands.

Napakasad nman po niyan sis and nakakaiyam para sa bata na maranansan ang ganun . Ako po tatlo ang anak ko sa panganay ko ako unang nahirapan ang aswa ko nagtatrabho sa malayo kami nasa probinsya nong nanganak ako sa panganay ko. Simula nong makuwi kmi galing hospital pagka panganak ay iyakin siya andon yung natutulog akong nakaupo karga lang siya kasi kapag nilapag iiyak. Andon yung time na inaaway ko asawa ko kasi sa mga oanahon na yun anjan dapat siya katabi nman tinutulungan ako dahil sobrang hirap tapos nabinat pa ako dahil nga iyakin panganay ko.. my times din na naiinis ako sa anak ko pero hindi ko inisip na saktan siya tulad ng nasa fb na yan. Pinagpanalangin ko nalang na lalaki din siya lilipas din yun sa una lang. Buti nlang at lagi nman akong ginagabayan ng pamilya ko especially ang mama ko kaya ngayon tatlo na anak ko kaya ko ng ihandle sila kahit na malayo parin ang tatay nila sa amin.

Mother is supreme. Weaning a child is a full-time job on its own. God help every nursing mothers because if you don't control your emotions, you may lose your mind

Mothers' sacrifices are immeasurable. I really felt bad for her because she was left all alone. Some guys are really useless for leaving the mom and the kids.

Good gracious, I can feel her struggle as a Mother. Mali yong ginawa nya, sobrang mali pero di natin malalaman yong bigat ng dinadala nya coz we're not in her shoes. Siguro napuno lang talaga sya, sobrang bigat na kaya di na nakapag isip ng ayos nag dilim ang paningin Oh Gosh. Nakakaawa sya, nakakaawa yong anak nya sana manlang madama nong asawa nya yong hirap na nararamdaman nya NGAyon. Oh Gosh. That's why I don't want to be a mother. May tendency na maging ganito ako.

Postpartum Depression is really not easy. Kaya dapat tinutulungan ng husband yung mga asawa nila. Hindi madali ang pinagdaanan ng mga babae sa tuwing nanganganak. Nalulungkot ako after I read the post. Bakit kasi may mga irresponsible na mga lalaki. Sana magiging ok na yung si ate na nagpost. Kawawa ang mga bata eh.

This is really sad and emotional too. I feel for the mother. I have always prayed to God for the right and responsible man who wouldn't leave all to me alone. At least the Bible says both partners should be helpmeet for themselves. Well, I think every woman is strong just as you have said. Most times, something like this happen to those who aren't ready for marriage but they opt in by all means.

There are single moms out there who still take care of more than two without the father there. She needs to be strong and also consult a counselor to help her too.

This is very saddening, actually minsan nagagawa ko yan yung mapagalitan anak ko lalo na kakaidlip ko lang tas sya gising na. Nakakapagod naman talaga 24/7 maging ina, I cannot blame her lalo na lack of support sa partner hahaayy sana maging okay na sya bhe kawawa din mga bata.

Nabasa ko din yan ate and nakakalungkot talaga. Ramdam na ramdam ko yung pagod ng nanay. We should really need to be careful in choosing the man that we will spend the rest of our lives with.

Oh no,It's really sad. I am felling bad from my heart for this mother. Mother is the best gift for every childs but she is really in bad condition. father also have some task for their children's. It's tough for taking care a baby alone. Father should understand his wife's pain and also should support her.I don't know why husband wants baby but forget take care about their wife! Hope she overcome the problems with great strength!

The mother was not really at fault, though her actions were wrong. But the husband is to be blamed, what is the essence of marriage? Is it not for them to be with each other, no matter the condition. He now abandoned her, which is bad. I feel for the woman

Oh my! This is so painful ma'am.🥺 Postpartum is not a joke. I heard a lot true stories about it. I'm hoping and praying that she will be going okay and please her husband help her.🥺

That's why if you are not ready to have a family. Please be careful because at the end the children will be suffer. 🥺Praying for them.🙏🙏

Everyone know that mother rule is important in our society whatever you say about her but mother is mother.she should face every type of pain but she want that her children remain Happy 😁. She sacrifice everything for her children. But question is now a days why children's doing bad now a days. In fact I have so many videos and in these videos children beating their parents 😭😭😭😭.

...oh no! So heartbreaking, for how long will she continue living in pain, i think something is missing in that home which is love. Men should should try to understand that child raising shouldn't be for women alone, we all have our role to play in this process. The earlier her husband understand her feelings the better for her, feel so sorry for the woman has she's passing through emotional and mental stress.

This is so sad! I don't know why a lot of people like to have a child but when they get one then things can be different because of one parent. I feel sad for that mom, God is with her and he will protect her from giving up I believe that. So sad!

Yes postpartum is very real minsan kase ginagawa nilang biro but it's very real... Minsan talaga kapag sabay sabay Ang mga bata tapos gawaing bahay and bills you'll go gaga about such things

Man, and heartbreakingly crazy. Full of pains, struggles and emotions. I too, is a full-time mom and I know how hard it is. Both the husband and wife need counselling. Praying for them 🙁

At some point, naintindihan ko yung nanay. Hindi naman talaga madali maging nanay. Nakababaliw, nakapapagod. Pero sana hindi na lang nya dinamay yung bata. Nakaaawa yung musmos, wala syang kaalam-alam sa pinagdadaanan ng nanay nya. Pareho silang biktima ng sitwasyon. Sana ayos lang yung nanay. Sana makapag-isip sya ng tama. Sana may ibang kaibigan, kapatid o pamilya man lang yung nanay. Sana matauhan na rin yung tatay. Ang dami kong sana. Hays.

I want to be mad at her for doing such things to the poor child, and that is very wrong.. But you know what? The oity overwhelmed that. I am angry at this jerk of a father that put all the burdens to the mom alone. At least work for the family so the mom don't have to?! Why bother having a family when you'll become a lazy b*stard?

Moms don't deserve this. They have went through enough when they carried the children for almost a year EACH, giving a painful birth. Just a genuine assistance is okay, bro. I hope that guy still has a conscience.

I find it worrisome when a man leaves everything for the woman to do because she is a woman. It's annoying and no one should go through what this woman narrated here. It's emotional and traumatizing. Someone need to give the husband a high five with a metal bat on the head. It's insane.

Grabe yun madam yung sakalin ang bata. D ko carry yun 😭 pro post depression is really worse.. Kung walang asawa na tutulong hirap mka move on jan. . Sana ay maging okay na nanay na yan.

I feel her pain, because my partner is almost like that, go home whatever time he wants and go out and get drunk as if he is still single

Naiyak ako dun sa story nya. Dama ko yun pagod, frustrations and hirap nya. Tama ka, hindi tama yun ginawa nya pero siguro nasagad na sya ng husto. I hope she'll get help soon....

Yes, we can kive without a husband but we cannot live without our children. Lage ko sinasabi sa asawa ko noon nagkaprob kami as a couple, kapag naghiwalay kami eh sa akin ang anak ko, kaya ko mawala sya pero hindi ang anak ko. Although di perfect ang asawa ko, may mga flaws din sya as a husband a a father, but he is doing his best to become one and provide everything for us..

Please preach on ma'am. This is a fully loaded article, for the men, the mothers and even the single ladies and gentlemen. Know what you are getting into before it begins. Thanks ma'am. But I feel the woman's pain and still think she will now keep blaming herself again for strangling the child.

I feel sad while reading the post of a mother, you'll see how much she suffer. Being a mother of two children, taking them care alone while your husband doesn't seems to care about your pain is very hard. You're right that maybe she's having a postpartum depression, all she needs is help and i hope her husband will see that. You're really blessed to have a man like your husband po.

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Everyone knows that the role of a mother is really a sacrificial one, it take much sacrifice to noture children. There is a place of endurance because at the very end it ends with celebration and rewards.

Honestly, this is one of the reasons why I want to be self-employed so that I and my wife will have enough time for the family. Most men usually think that family is all about bringing money for food and getting the woman pregnant but they forget that family is beyond that. May God help this broken woman and many others out there with no one to talk to.

This pierced my heart. I can feel her pain. Not everyone is blessed with a responsible half. And yes are, being a parent is great but it is a big responsibility. I pray for her to harm her children again and herself.

Naawa ako sa bata na walang kamuwang muwang at dahil sa depression ng isang ina,Sa pagod ay nagawa nitong saktan ang kanyang anak.Siguro wala nga sa tamang pag iisip at nagawa niya yon..Sana marealize ng nanay na yon na hindi siya nag-iisa.Kung napapagod siya sana naisip niyang humingi ng tulong sa itaas para malinawan ang kanyang pagiisip at hindi siya makagawa ng masama lalo na sa kanyang anak..Nakakapagod po talaga ang pagiging nanay dahil isa din po akong full time nanay..Pero kapag nagmamahal ka ay hindi mo mararamdaman ang pagod kahit pa sabihin nating irresponsible yong ama..May choice ka naman para ewan siya kung hindi na talaga gumagawa ng tama.O kaya kung kaya naman pag usapan ng mag asawa para maayos pa nila bakit di sana nila sinubukan...Hays hindi man natin alam ang totoong storya ng mag asawa..Nakakaawa parin talaga yong bata..Thank you po Ma'am tired-momma sa pag share po ng kwento na ito..Sana madaming mga nanay na tulad ko na sa kabila ng pagod ay maswerte pa din tayo kasi hindi tayo dumating sa point na kailangan ng manakit ng bata.

I really felt sorry for the lady and began to imagine i was married. I promise I wouldn't treat my wife that way, I'd always be there for her irrespective of how busy I am with work.

I got really emotional while reading this.

I feel the pain too even I am single. I pray her to become strong and okay. On the other thing I am glad that I have a father who was a responsible one. So my mom, me and my siblings are blessed to have him.

Kawawa naman siya sis sobrang physical at emotional drained na siya. Praying na maging ok siya. Napakaswerte na pag natagpuan mo na partner sa life ay understanding at responsable. Naaawa ako sa mga nanay na dumadanas ng ganitong sitwasyon.

Ang hirap 😭. Na feel ko ang hirap na nararanasan niya. Saludo talaga ako sa lahat ng ina sa buong mundo. Pero di ko mapigilan mapaiyak ng mabasa to 😭

Being a mother is unique. We are women, mothers, wives, friends, companions, toys, waitresses, workers and a myriad of things that only we can improve through our lives. If we are mothers we learn more things than mothers with partners. But being alone as a mother caring for your child is very traumatic. In the first weeks of life a great challenge begins.

I pity the mother. It really is not easy to be a full time mom. I've been a full time mom too for 2 years before I get back to work but I am blessed because God sent me a man who is responsible and very appreciative and supportive. I hope she gets a help that she needs this time. I want to hug her. What she has been through is never easy. It's never easy to be a Mother.

This is too emotional for me because I just posted my article on what I went through when I want to give birth so I can understand what she's going through

So I pray that may God take absolute control over her, children and the so call husband I don't know why some men are so heartless

Postpartum Depression is real 😢 many people judge Mother's who's suffering such kind of depression. I sometimes admit I'm easy to get mad, I'm always shouting at my kids when I feel so depressed. I don't wanna hear any noise from them. It's really hard to control when depression attacks. 😔

so sorry for her.. I know how tiring it is, I only have one baby and I have never been tired n my whole life.. but I remember how my husband had been there for me all the time. sacrificing work time and sleep to take care of our baby and to give me time to sleep too..

so it is indeed important to know the man who'll be the father of our children well, it is important that he is a father material and not just a boyfriend material.

I hope the kids are safe. the mom might hurt them... its scary, she is obviously depressed and needs help.

Getting married and being a parent is losing your freedom. Both increase your responsibilities to others. The child is a joint production and all his needs should be met by both the mother and the father. Marriages made without being aware of these, especially being a parent without being ready, can end in disaster.

This is really so emotional, why would a man leave the home chore and kids care to the wife alone?

It is insane, I feel her pain just from the post. I think people should reach out to her because she sound really tired. Caring for children can be very exhausting and it takes both parents to do so.

Hmmm, why isnt he helping her I mean its not her children but their children? Why some husbands so lazy to take care of their own kids😢