"LDR Feels!"

|#232| 27th Article of the Month

|03.28.2022 @4.31 PM|

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"Are you in a relationship today?" May it girl to girl, boy to boy, or with opposite sex? What's your status? I mean, your current situation with him or her? Are you together or in a Long Distance Relationship?

Good day my Readcash fam all over the world! How are you today? Doing great? Happy new week everyone. Aigoo! Its the last week of the month already. Look at how fast time flies fellas. Woah! I'm a little worried now, I'm still jobless. Its two months more to go and I will be in my third year as a jobless person. Crap!🤦 Anyways, don't be bother about it, that's my personal problem and I should be the one to handle it.

For today's blog, I've got to decide on sharing with you my personal opinions and experiences of being in a Long Distance Relationship or LDR status. I know some of you can't relate with this especially those who are still single as of this moment, but I bet some of you will do. Just a mere guess.

For all you know, MGD and I are already engaged. It happened last October 04 2021, during the celebration of my 23rd Birthday. (Ohh! Now you know my age. Lols. XD) Meanwhile, MGD is currently working as a part time Physical Education Instructor at SLSU Sogod Main campus, and as a SK Chairman in their Barangay. So, it can be concluded that we are in a LDR status. Well, there are times that he visited me, but we are just having a short time together because of his work and I understand that. On the other hand, there's a part of me that seemed uncomfortable about this kind of set-up.

I worry too much.

- A lot of times being in this situation, worrying about him got my concern. The moment he felt sick and I am not there to take care of him. I do think of going to his place but unfortunately time and luck is not on my side. As for you know, even at my age, I still can't go out without a permission from my parents, especially from my papa. Another thing is that I don't have enough money to use for my travel expenses in going there. And last night, he chatted, telling me that he has a fever. I really am worried because I can't go to him right away. I just told him to eat properly and then take some medicine as a first aid and if gotten worse, (wag naman sana) he should go to the doctor.

I ended up worrying too much about him because he has a poor immune system. I don't know why. Even his mother told me that he should not overdo things because he can easily get sick. I do suggested him to take some vitamins to boost his immune system but he don't want to. As hardheaded he is, he just ignored me. (Aigoo!)

I overthink things.

- I will be honest, I do have trust issues. I told you before that I do have a problem about him being near with other girls. I am a jealous type of person, and I admit that. I don't want him to be with other girls, that excludes his work mates. But there are times that I've got jealous about it, (a long story to tell.)

I came to the point of overthinking things, especially when he is busy. That's what he always said to me. I felt bothered everytime that he does. I think, maybe he is with some other girls. I got carried away.

I easily get into a fight.

- In connection to the second one, when I got carried away, I ended up having a fight with him. We then argue about the issue and then came to the point that even those things that are not related and should not be part of the argument, I ranted it all to him. The worst thing I did is that I cursed him. I told him this and that. He seemed casual but I know he was hurt too. I got carried away but its not an excuse for me to say that hurtful words to him. And I did sorry for that.

Another thing that triggers my anger being in a LDR status is when he go somewhere but he will not told me where he was going and with whom. And what makes me furious is when he go somewhere and he will just told me if he is in there, already. ("Sino bang hindi magagalit diyan?") Well, I am not obliging him to do so, but as his girlfriend, he should think about how I feel, right? And for me, in that way, he will show respect to me as his girl. Correct me if I'm wrong, but that's how it works for me.

I make decisions in a hurry.

- I ended up telling him that we should be together. That we should rent an apartment and live in there together. I am insane, I know. But what else should I do? I miss him, I worry about him, I want to be with him. He does the same. On the contrary, I also think about the consequences. And telling myself that I should not rush it. Gladly, God knows it. Here comes a situation that I just ended up saying to MGD that we should not do it right away. I want a legal basis on doing that. I'm not saying that living together without legal papers or not being married is bad, but for me, I want it first. We have preferences you know, and that I think is my choice. Before living with him, I should become his wife, and he, as my husband.

You know, we don't know what will happen next, and I am just being careful. Once being married, you can't easily untie it. You should stand your vows, "For better or for worst", "In sickness and in health, "To have and to hold," and whatever it is that you vowed in front of the altar, judge, mayor, and to the people who witness that. (Advance ako mag-isip eh'. Lols.XD)

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"Trust and Loyalty," that I think are the most important things being in a relationship, may it in a long distance relationship or the other. Being a partner, we should always think about the consequences in every action/s we make. We all know, when Trust is broken, it will never be back for good. We might say that, "I Trust You" over and over again, but there's a so-called, "Gap." I just remembered when Mr. Daniel Padilla said, "kahit anong tago mo nang sekreto, lalabas at lalabas talaga yun." That's why, we should learn to oblige ourselves to preserve the Trust given to us by our partners. (It can also be applied to our family and friends.)

What can you say about it? Feel free to leave your comments! And that would be all for this blog my Readcash fam. Thank you for spending your time. Take good care of yourselves!❣️

MAY THE GRACE OF THE LORD BE WITH ALL GOD'S PEOPLE!😇

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