"10 Major Reasons why your Partner get Tired in your Relationship"
Happy Weekend everyone. Its Saturday again! Five days to go, it will be the end of the month of March. Aigoo! "Pa-April na pala. For sure, marami na naman makaka-experience nang April fools day." For sure, some of you here already prepared for that. Anyways, how's your day? How did you spent your Saturday? House chores? Or you went out with your friends, family, or your special someone? Me? A usual day again.
For boys;
How did you treat your partner? Did you treated her well?
For girls;
Did you received a proper treatment from your partner?
(Vice versa)
In today's blog, let me share with you the "Ten Major Reasons why your partner get tired in your relationship" based on a TikTok content I saw last night. So let's not hold this long, bare with me and let's see if this is really true.
You knew already the things that will trigger his/her anger but still you didn't avoid it.
- I remembered one time that I had a fight with MGD because I get jealous with another girl. I said to him that I don't want him to be near in that girl but he still do it. I confronted him and told him that I want to end our relationship if he will keep doing it again and again. Unknowingly, he had a crush on that girl. I was really angry because of that. And I really ended our relationship at that time. But yeah! We still chose to sort things out.
He/she forgave you but you did it again.
- "Chances are not for always." Those who deserve it will get it, but for those who doesn't deserve it, sorry not sorry. He/she forgave you for doing a certain thing, but after that you chose to do it again. Why? He/she forgave you but you are just taking advantage of it.
Though its your fault but you didn't insist to sort things out.
- "Ma.pride masyado?" Let's not go far. Well, its not like I want MGD to look bad, but I tell you, he is so "ma.pride." As in, though its his fault, he will not admit it. He will just wait until I cooled down. But I guess, somehow he is just showing his maturity side, especially when I am really burning with anger. Lols.
Though he/she cries but still its nothing for you.
- I sometimes felt this one. Like, even though I cried, I felt that its just nothing to him. He will just let me cry until my tears run dry. There are times that I just cried but he did not know it, and I don't let him to know it. I just want to cry out loud just by myself, especially when I have a problem and I don't want any other people to get involve to it. I just want to handle it by myself.
You keep complaining why he/she change though you are the reason that he/she changed.
- I kind of laugh at it, but yeah, I do experienced it. Like what he said to me, "Change your attitude because I don't like it anymore." (Straight forward) And then, I came to the point that I changed, and then he said, "You have changed!" Like what is his problem? He want me to change but now that I changed he still has something to say. Its kind of confusing, but I, little by little sort this thing out.
"If you love someone don't change him/her, let him/her change for you."
You are just neglecting the things that he/she forbids.
- Though he/she keep on repeating his/her self in forbidding things but you are just neglecting it. You are doing what he/she don't want you to do. You are just a like a happy-go-lucky one. (I can't explain it further.XD)
He/She has a bad attitude but you chose to tell it to others.
- You complain about his/her attitude. But instead of telling that to him/her personally, you chose to tell it to other people. Are you making him/her look bad? What's your real intention?
You really want to win when you had a fight.
- In times of crisis in your relationship, I mean when you have a misunderstanding, you wanted to win it. The same as being "ma-pride." You keep insisting that you are right and not letting your partner explain his/her side.
You just keep telling him/her that you will change for the better but you are not working on it.
- "Promises are meant to be proven, not to be broken." You are just giving him/her a false hopes if you will keep promising him/her that you will change for the better but you never did.
You make him/her feel strangled in your relationship.
- I somewhat felt guilty about it. I even received a scolding of it from my mama. She said that I should do it because aside from the fact that MGD and I are not yet married, it will just make our relationship toxic. "Thanks ma, for helping me realized that its not making our relationship healthy." Actually, there are also times that MGD made me felt that way.
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"Be kind and compassionate to one another; forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." - Ephesians 4:32
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