When I open Facebook, YouTube shorts, a girl's dance video is circulating all over social media. The girl who became famous overnight because of her dance video.
And I'm thinking that many people who have made a name for themselves in education, who have become successful because of their skills,
why wouldn't their videos become famous overnight?
Why don't they get fame?
Why are such people not interviewed?
But then I realized that such videos get fame only when people demand to watch such videos(bitter truth).
Guys!! Always promote something that has a positive impact on you. And Skip unimportant things from your life. That's the best rule to live peacefully.✌️
The best moment is when your sister knows your heart before you say it.
Honestly, I really wanted to eat noodles at that time. Thank you Allah for giving me such a good sister.
Being a single!!
S= smart
I= independent
N= ???
G= gleaming
L= less stress
E= expert advicer
If you are married, do you miss single life? And if you remember, what memories do you remember?
I remember when I was younger, people older than me were getting married and now I'm older, people younger than me are getting married (hehe how bad luck I'm) . I think I will die single. It is said that the marriage sweet is a sweet that even those who don't eat it regret and those who eat it also regret it. But today single people have a lot of swag because they are legends.
Here I discuss Some swag of being single.....
***Enough sleep:***
Who says being single is bad? By being single, we can sleep comfortably. There is neither wife's tension nor girlfriend's tension. We go home and focus on just our sleep. Most of my friends who are married go home from work and take the piss out of their angry wives first. They says that their cycle starts with their wife and ends with them. Apart from this, the ability to think and understand anything else is lost. (Haha how poor they are..)
***Less stress:***
A single man's life has maximum tension of his job and if he gets a job, that tension cancels every tension. But married and Mingle people become weak under the tension of others. Married people are more stressed about their children's studies than themselves. They have the tension of good training. But a solo person is free from all such stress.
By the way, no girl has come in my life yet. But the day I get married all the freedom I am enjoying now will be gone. It is not that married life is not good, but in it, a person is not able to find time for himself. He lives in the struggle to please others. Make sure to take time for yourself after marriage so that you don't neglect yourself.
By the way, I couldn't remember any word from (N) in the word **"single"**. If you have it in your mind, tell me.
And enjoy a solo life. ....Because these days will not come later.
***That's it!!***
It's all about for today. I hope you spend your day with full of happiness and prosperity. Have a good day ahead.
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The biggest suspense
***Greetings and salutations!!***
We meet many people in our daily life, we say goodbye to many people and we add many people to our lives. It is a part of our life. And it is said that human rather must have an important reason for coming into our life. That reason can be either a good lesson or a good moment. The people of earlier times were exactly the same from the outside as they were from the inside. They did not have two faces. But there are two great suspenses of this generation and let's talk about what they are:
***Who is playing with you:***
In this era it is very difficult to recognize who is playing with us. Because there are people everywhere to pull us down. They hinder us from reaching our destination. But the saddest thing is when someone plays the role of enemy by being his friend. Because people who seem good but time shows their true face. And the biggest regret is then to believe only such people. Therefore, in this age it is very difficult to recognize who wants us well. And only time reveals the innermost being of a person, so we should not blindly believe anyone.
***Who is exactly with you:***
If any one person breaks our trust, then our trust in everyone is lost. We tend to think of all people in the same category. We believe that if the person we blindly trusted can betray us, then everyone can betray us. So we don't even recognize those people who really want us well. We don't know who is right with us. Once a person's credibility is hurt, he needs time to believe in people again.
So this generation is going through both of these things. We are bad to those who are good to us and we are good to those who are bad to us. Every man must have suffered such an injury in his life that caused him to fall from a height to the ground.
Therefore, the most difficult task of this generation in this world is to believe in others. Everyone is reeling with the same suspense. No one has 100% trust.
***That's it!!***
It's all about for today. I hope you spend your day with full of happiness and prosperity. Have a good day ahead.
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Some changes are painful but necessary!!
***Helo guys!!***
In life, a person falls into many bad habits, from which it is sometimes very important to get rid of them. But man begins to understand that he will not be able to escape from these evil things. But let me say one thing that nothing is impossible in this world, by trying we can do everything that is necessary for us. Just don't give up.
What are the things that people have become addicted to and don't want to give up? Let's talk about it...
**Smoking:**
One of my uncles smokes. And it has become impossible for him to quit smoking. Just like we cannot live without water, smoking is also playing this important role in his life because he too cannot live without smoking. When I told him to give up this bad habit, he said that half of his life has passed, now he can't give it up. Quitting smoking is very difficult for people who have become addicted to it. But it is also very important for them to leave. If a person falls into these bad habits, he cannot become a successful person in this life.
**Over eating:**
Some people dream of being smart but don't stop overeating. They eat whatever they get to eat without thinking about how bad it affects their health. Such people do not eat three times a day, but when they feel hungry, they start eating and fast food becomes an addiction for them. This is a very bad habit that should be given up. Not only do they damage their stomach, but they are also unable to set any goal in their life. Because overeating is enough to spoil the body figure.
So we should set some goal in our life and follow it. We should make a time table and adopt the habit of walk after eating.
Apart from this there are many other habits like drinking alcohol. Which people have made their habit as fashion. And despite knowing its ill effects, they continue to use it.
A person who has these two habits, if he leaves them, he will feel peace in his life. But I also know that it is a very difficult task. But if a person makes a firm commitment to himself, he can make the impossible possible.
That's it!!
Thank you so much for your precious time. I hope you spend your day with full of happiness and prosperity. Have a good day ahead.
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My morning thoughts
***Helo guys!!***
I know it's afternoon but I woke up late so it's still morning for me. Haha
Sometimes life seems like a cycle. Wake up in the morning, take a bath, have breakfast, then go to work, have lunch, dinner and then sleep and start the same routine again the next day. People rightly say that if childhood is gone, only responsibilities are left behind.
***Memories of childhood:***
***"We used to feel the small happiness of childhood, but now we get as much happiness as we want, but we don't feel the same happiness as childhood." Agree??***
As a child, the only thing that fit in my mind was to study quickly and play with friends. But now months used to pass without meeting friends and now there is no proper time to even talk. Sometimes I wonder what the next generation will do. They will indeed go into depression because the world is running so fast that if we stop to relieve a little weariness, we are left behind.
***Struggle of sleeping:***
I remember one of my brother's words that ***"sleep was fulfilling in childhood, now only tiredness fulfills."***
Now it is like that, after working long hours, we fall asleep as soon as we lie down. Well, I'm one of those people who falls asleep within seconds of laying on the bed. I don't have to struggle to sleep. Otherwise, there are some people who struggle to sleep for one or two hour and when they fall asleep, they do not get enough sleep due to the lack of time. I consider myself lucky in this case. Lol
***Spread happiness:***
Some time ago, when I sit down to have breakfast, a beautiful couple comes to my mind after seeing the combination of bread and jam. Like these two are made for each other haha. "***Life is like a jam, the more you spread it in your life, the more peaceful your life will grow."***
It is my daily routine to bring happiness to the face of a person who is very sad because I have made it an important part of my life now and I feel that by doing this my Allah would also support me fully. Have you ever tried this thing that if you bring a smile to the face of someone who is depressed, believe me your whole day will go very well. If not, now make it a part of your life.
Btw I have had my breakfast some time ago and today I am not in the mood to go anywhere because today my friends are coming to my house so today we will relive our childhood memories. Sometimes such a meeting should take place. we all are going to relate our two month journey with childhood because none of our talk is complete without relating from childhood.
***"A good and true friend is also a medicine to relieve tension."***
**That's it!!**
I hope you like it. I hope you spend your day with full of happiness and prosperity. Have a great day ahead.
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Tale of Today's generation
***Hey guys!!***
I remember when I was a child, there were small cars in the shop near my house which I used to save my pocket money and buy. Even then my father had a mobile but I was never interested in using it. Because we 90s child were engrossed in our own world. We used to play with friends from the street and neighborhood. I used to be the craziest while playing cricket because then I was famous among my friends for batting. And believe me those days were golden days. I didn't know what love was then and (unfortunately still don't know haha). Yes, but today's generation knows this all too well. I am surprised to think that the children of today are losing their childhood. They are eight or ten years old and have grown up.
**Socially connected:**
You all must have seen how today's generation is obsessed with mobile. Rather, if I talk about children, they do not eat without mobile. Try it and see that the nawala (bite/chunk) will not enter from their throat until they see the mobile phone. Today's kids know about apps that we never knew. Most of today's girls are losing their virginity at the age of fourteen or fifteen. Children's Tik Tok accounts are created. They are putting their statuses in Facebook and Instagram in such a way that reading their statuses does not think that they are children.
If this situation continues for these children, their future will be ruined. Keep an eye on your kids.
**Heart broken:**
There is a lot of trend of elopement marriage. At the age of education, children are falling in love on social media. Children are suffering from depression and anxiety. At the age of eighteen, we are getting to see the heartbreaking status of those children. Our generation was supposed to go into doctor engineer fields, but what path have they taken? Attempting suicide has become an easy task for them.
***Do you see a bright future for your child?***
Maybe not!!
And you know what!! the biggest mistake in this is the parents who give mobile phones to their children and forget what their children are doing on the mobile phones. Always remember one thing that if your child is quiet for a few days outside of the normal routine, do not leave him alone. Because this is a red signal that your child is going through difficult situations. Keep your children frank with you so that they can share everything with you.
So, Keep eye on your children to save their future.....
***That's it!!***
Thank you so much for your precious time. I hope you spend your day with full of happiness and prosperity. Have a great day ahead.
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Pros of own business/freelancing
**Helo guys!!**
If you work in a company or somewhere, you will know how you have to be punctual. And if ever you need leave due to some urgent work, then you have to work hard for it. And then you hardly get a holiday or two. By working in other's company, you cannot do anything of your own free will. You have to work at the under of others.
But own business is the only work in which we give our hundred percent and we can do whatever we want.
**They can do their work at any time, at any place:**
Today is the age of freelancing. And whoever is familiar with this skill and is an expert in it, then he is tension free even in this period. Time-space has no meaning for him. Rather, he need a laptop or mobile and net packages for this. And sitting anywhere he can talk to his clients and accept their order.
My friends who are working on Fiver and Upwork say that they have done better by learning skills than studying. They says that if a daily order is worth a hundred or two hundred dollars, it only takes an hour or two to do it. For this, they do not need a place, even if they are in the university, they start their work there or if they are at my house, they take orders from their clients. And earning twenty thousand per day is not a small amount for a Pakistani. Because it fulfills both needs and desires easily.
**Time spend with their family:**
A person can provide a proper time to their family with their business or freelancing skills. They can always make outing programs with their family. They don't need anyone's permission because they are their own boss. And believe me, the fun of this work is doubled if we are the boss of our own work.
On the contrary, if we work in a company, we don't get time to sit with our family and we slowly get away from our family. Then our job is only to earn money. Because we work with one idea and that idea is to make money and fulfill needs. From which we start to go towards depression and anxiety.
**A lot of Respect:**
One of the biggest plus point of freelancing is that there is a lot of respect. Every client speaks with respect. And if a client's behaviour is not good, we can also cancel his order. Because all these things depend on us. People call us Sir and we earn a lot of respect at a young age.
***But remember one thing that all these demand one thing from us and that is "hard work".***
So we should learn freelancing by working hard for a few months. If you are not interested then start your own business because I always say one thing that ***"salary only fulfills the needs, but the own business fulfills the desires."***
***That's it!!***
Thank you so much for your precious time. I hope you spend your day with full of happiness and prosperity. Have a great day ahead.
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Always remember two things in life.
One is that "if ever you get success and fame, don't despise anyone."
And secondly, "never hurt anyone's heart because of you."
Because progress and honour is something that comes and goes, but humanity and conscience should always be kept alive at every point of life.
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One day you thank yourself!!
***Hey guys!!***
The period from childhood to youth and the period from youth to old age is a great truth of a person's life. Because we cannot be child or young for forever. Old age awaits us. I have heard that many people have many regrets in old age. In which not fulfilling your dreams and not giving yourself time is the biggest regret.
How nice it would be if we could do everything in our young age that would make us feel proud and grateful in our old age. Because it is not necessary that we also have to repent in that age like other people.
What can we do to thank ourselves in our old age?
**You thank yourself for Not giving up:**
Every person wants to be a successful person but it is very difficult for him to decide in which field he wants to be successful. Because now this age is such that many fields are before us and we don't know where to start our journey. We should make one field our profession and devote all our efforts to it. But first give yourself some time to see in which field you can work better. In which field you have more interest, when you know this, you will automatically start giving your hundred percent in that field. And will not deviate from their path until they reach their destination. One thing should always be remembered that there are many U-turns along the way and many difficulties which you must face and if you bravely face them then success will not far away from you. In old age, you will thank yourself for not giving up to your field.
**You thank yourself for your beautiful soul:**
No matter how much a person gets fame or progress, but unless there is humanity in him, he does not deserve to be called a human. But if you are a good person, you will never put another person in trouble, but you will help others out of trouble. If you are a successful person as well as possessing a good heart, believe me, in old age you will not regret the fact that you wish you had treated people with good behaviour.
**Thank yourself for listen to your heart:**
If you listen and believe your heart, it will be the greatest happiness for you. Today's people take advice from others before doing anything, even though their heart is willing to do something else, they take advice from others and follow their advice. And when there is any loss, at such a stage they are left alone. If a person has been following the advice of others throughout his life, he will surely regret in his old age that he would have listened to his heart.
On the contrary, a person who listens to everyone and does what his heart desires, then that person will never regret.
`Take a look at yourself and see if you are doing something that you can thank yourself for. If not, start a journal for yourself.`
***That's it!!***
Thank you for your precious time. I hope you spend your day with full of happiness and prosperity. Have a good day ahead guys.
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Boost your confidence
***Greetings and salutations!!***
This age belongs to the person who has confidence. Without confidence we will be left far behind in this worldly journey. And if we lag behind, we will not reach our destination.
I think in this era, there will be a world difference between the people who are sitting at home and the people who are working outside. A person who judges the outside world will have the confidence to talk to others, while those who stay at home will lack confidence and be mostly shy.
We need to keep some very important things in mind to build confidence in ourselves. And what are those important things, let's talk about it.
**Walk fastly:**
Well, we can judge the personality of many people by some of their actions. Walking style is also a process that nurtures our personality. If we look around and walk slowly, we will be called an immature because It is not necessary to judge what is happening around all the time. By straightening our shoulders and walking briskly, we feel a confidence within us. And it shows others what kind of person we are.
**Talk slowly:**
***Never interrupt others when they are talking. Because this is awful behaviour.***
Some people speak so fast that most of their words are not understood. And we have to ask them again. Try to bring so much politeness in our speech that the next person becomes a follower of our style. Speak slowly and enunciate the words so that the next person can understand what we are saying. This will also give plus point to our personality.
**Eye contact:**
We heard that
***"Practice makes a man perfect"***
But in this post the phrase will be
***"Practice of eye contact makes a personality perfect"***
I used to be a very shy boy, if someone looked at me and talked, I would answer them with my face down. Later, I started talking by looking into my own eyes in front of the mirror and Alhamdulillah I am on this stage that I can talk by looking into the eyes of others. Believe me, we can confuse the next person by adopting such a style. And eye-contact brings a confidence in us that allows us to easily communicate with others.
**Well Dressing:**
If a man's dressing is good, his personality is revealed. Good dressing does not necessarily mean expensive dressing, but good dressing should be the dressing that suits our personality. And it is very important that our dress is well ironed.
Believe me, Adopting all these things can improve our 70% personality. If you lack any of these, try to adopt it.
***That's it!!***
I hope you like it. Thank you so much for your precious time. Have a good day ahead guys.
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Happy new month and new day to you all.
October has started but the heat is not letting up. That's why I thought of having an juice party. Actually, I was drinking juice yesterday when a local kid came and asked me for juice, so I thought why not make a party for them all.
Bringing happiness to children's faces is a very precious thing. I hope they all will be happy.
Comfort zone
***Hello guys!!***
I would not say that some people but I would say that almost all people dream of having a luxurious life. That they have a good car, a good house, a good job. But we see this dream sitting in our comfort zone where only our dreams are born but we do not reach towards fulfilling dreams and towards success.
***Why can't we fulfill our dreams?***
Because we have imprisoned ourselves in our comfort zone.
Now the question arise that ***"what's the comfort zone"?***
The comfort zone is also known as the panic zone, the stretch zone and the stress zone. Our performance in this zone is either zero or very slow. And we sit in this zone and dream big but we don't put in the slightest effort to achieve it.
*Why don't more of us succeed by staying in this zone?*
**We don't take risk:**
We all want to do a business in which we get only profit, where we do not suffer even a little loss as a business owner. When we suffer a little loss in business, we get discouraged. As many successful businessmen as we looked at, all of them had taken a lot of risk. And by not giving up on this risk, he has become a successful businessman. So how can we say that we get success without risk? We should not be afraid of risk. If we want to be successful in business, once we have to go through this reality. And whoever removes himself from this reality will also leave this zone.
**We don't try to fulfill our dreams:**
There is no doubt that nothing can stop us from dreaming. But it is not enough to just dream, we must also strive to make it come true. We just sit in the comfort zone and dream of becoming a successful person without any effort, without any struggle.
**We have to build a good body but not work hard for it:**
Well, one thing we guys want is to have six packs, a good and fit body and toned biceps. But many people only think this but do nothing to make it a reality. And if some people try to push themselves out of that comfort zone, they want to get that success quickly and not have to work hard. One thing we should always remember is that if we want to become a great person or if we want to fulfill our dreams, we should talk less and work more.
All successful people have dreamed big and worked hard. And his life was not easy. If you ever sit down and ask any successful person what he has lost and what he has found, you will know that he has faced a lot of difficulties to reach this stage.
**That's it!!**
Thank you for your precious time. I hope you spend your day with full of happiness and prosperity. Have a good day ahead.
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Either one or the other!!
**Greetings and salutations!!**
I have read many articles where people select this and that options. And I have also written some articles about it. Today I thought to write an article on the same topic.
`Before that, let me tell you that one of our writers of this site has been selected in the national team. And I am really happy to hear that my sister is on her way to a good destination. Congratulations` @Bibijani01 `.`
Let me now come to my point.
**Whole wheat or totally white?**
Wheat bread has been made in my house since I opened my eyes. No one in our house can eat flour bread everyday because it causes stomach problems. Sometimes I have to eat white bread outside in hotels but I am not fond to it. So I'm all about whole wheat lover.
**Smoking or non smoking?**
If it is said, "Cigarette is far away, I am also allergic to cigarette smoke" then it will not be wrong to say. Because I don't like smoking at all. Yes, I know a lot of guys my age smoke for fashion and to look cool. But believe me, they are leading their lives to death by their own hands.
I am such a guy that if someone is smoking sitting next to me in a bus or in a car, I forbid him to smoke. Sometimes I think that many people could be on the right path if these cigarettes are banned.
**Curly hair or straight hair?**
Maybe I would have curly hair if my mother didn't cut my hair when I was a child. Because my mom says that when I was born, my hair was very curly. But now my hair is straight. One disadvantage of straight hair is that it has to be combed frequently. And those who have curly hair, I think if they don't comb it every week, it won't make any difference in their personality. Haha isn't it??
**Classic or modern?**
I am not a modern guy but I do take care of my dressing. My dressing matches my personality. Yes, but I don't buy very expensive clothes, I have to check the tag of things before I buy anything. Middle class family is of classic level. I am not very conscious about dressing, I just buy what suits my personality even if it is very cheap.
**Think before you talk or talk before you think??**
Between the ages of fifteen and twenty, I used to speak first and think later. Often when I had a fight with someone, after the fight was over, I would have good answers in my mind. And I used to think that I wish I had given this answer during the fight. But now I think before I speak. Because we have control over words until we speak them, but once we speak them, we cannot undo them. A wise person is the one who thinks before speaking what he is going to say. Because words have the ability to kill others.
**That's it!!**
Thank you for your precious time. I hope you spend your day with full of happiness and prosperity. Have a good day ahead.
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The most relaxing place in the village is where the tubewell is running. Today when I went to my friend's village, seeing the tubewell there reminded me of my childhood because I used to bathe a lot when I was child.
Many memories are connected to a tubewell.
Impressive skills
***Hey guys!!***
One gets to eat while sitting in life as long as one's parents are alive. But after that self-earning and self-feeding becomes an important part of life. As long as there are parents we live a life of luxury and it depends on us whether we work or not. Some people have gifted skills which later they groom their skills and make it a source of earning. Not everyone is gifted with natural talent, some have to work hard. There are many skills in which people have interest and they go further in this field by grooming that skill.
**Sewing:**
Sewing is a fine skill that most girls pick up. Some choose this field for earning and some go into this field to design their own clothes. Along with cleaning the hands, it takes a lot of effort. Tailoring is a job that is hard earned as well as highly respected. But most of the people consider this task as a very small task. But not everyone has this skill. Some people are fond of sewing and embroidery from childhood and at that age they think that they will make this skill their source of earning. And that is the best decision.
**Cooking:**
Many people love cooking and baking. And boys are also working side by side with girls in this field. In earlier times, if boys were fond of cooking, it was not considered good in the society. Because earlier people thought that cooking is only for women, but if you look now, more boys than girls are running hotels as chefs. Interest of cooking is developing in them. And they are earning by grooming this childhood skill to become a better chef. As time is progressing, parents have also started giving importance to their children's interest. And this passion of boys has found a destination.
**Writing:**
Writing is an art and skill in which we have to write down our thoughts, imagination in words. People are earning so much from content writing that they are building their new homes out of it. Many children realize this skill at an early age that they are made for. And some who start grooming it from the start become good writers. All the people on this site are writers who are earning while improving their interest and skills. And I think I have the skill of writing.And this passion in me is born from reading novels. The more novels I read, the more I became interested in writing. Yes, I am not a very good writer but I love to write. And I want to improve this skill.
There are many other gifted talents that can be seen in children from early on. So try to send your children to their field of interest. Do not board each boat together so that they cannot reach their destination.
**That's it!!**
Thank you for your precious time. I hope you spend your day with full of happiness and prosperity. Have a good day ahead.
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Tea, cool weather, fragrant air and lots of thoughts are a great combination of solo person.
Sometimes you have to nourish yourself with these things. And I am lucky that I got this time to spend with myself.
Enormous weaknesses
**Greetings!!**
Every human being has strengths and weaknesses. But the biggest weakness is the one that can embarrass us in front of others. We need to get rid of some of our inner weakness. And how can we know our this? We should give ourselves time and notice which point of ours is making us weaker day by day. Due to which we are not able to groom properly.
Which weakness makes us vulnerable to others. let's talk about it....
**Shyness:**
I remember when I was studying in school and the teacher was lecturing my class, there were many points that I did not understand. I used to have many questions in my mind but I was always shy while asking the teacher. That's why I would tell these questions to my friends and they would get up and ask the teacher and would praise by the teacher. In this case, I used to be shy and therefore worried that my teacher would insult me. If shyness is lost in us then automatically confidence will develop in us. That's why we should not be shy when we asked anything. Shyness drains our inner confidence and we become a weak person who only finds a corner to sit alone.
**Sensitivity:**
Being sensitive is not a bad thing but sometimes being sensitive puts us in a very difficult phase. This age has mostly become an age of selfishness where those who feel for others regret it later. Some people make us weak because of this quality of ours. Because people know what kind of nature we have, they share their problems with us and we immediately get ready to solve their problems without thinking whether it is right or wrong. But later when we suffer a loss, we realize how wrong we have done. Sensitive people can't bear the tears of others, so they always lash out. We must keep a soft corner within us but use it where it is needed. This point should always be remembered that:
`"We should not melt at everyone's tears."`
**Self criticism:**
We need to realize that we are human and we can make mistakes. If we don't do something perfectly, then there is no need to criticize ourselves. We should never give up on our mistakes. We should try again and again so that we can do our work well. If something goes wrong with us, instead of cursing ourselves, we should console ourselves that we can also make mistakes because we are humans, not angels.
*Therefore, we should always try to make our weaknesses our strengths.*
**That's it!!**
I hope you like it and spend your day with full of happiness and prosperity. Have a good day ahead.
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Cherish your relationship!!
Just as plants need water and sunlight to grow, same relationships also need some very important things to nurture.
Nowadays man has become so busy due to earning in his life that he has forgotten to spend time with his loved ones. There is no doubt that money is very important but along with money, your loved ones need you the most. Just as fulfilling the needs is a part of life, in the same way, giving time to your wife, children, sisters is also an important part in life, which many people are forgetting these days.
What should we do to cherish the relationship?
**Loving message:**
If a person takes some time out of his time and gives lovely cards to his wife or his loved ones after a few days, it increases the love in the relationship. If you can't give cards, write a nice sweet message on a page and give it to your wife Or by going to your office and taking time out from your work, a sweet message can bring a smile on your wife's face.
*"I know I don't give time to you due to busy schedule but you are an important part of my life which I never want to take away from myself."*
or
*"I am missing you"*
If such a message can make your life beautiful, then you must adopt this method.
**Share your moments:**
Nowadays people are more prone to depression and anxiety. And very soon the partners become irritated with each other. So don't say anything that will only cause anger. Remember your good moments and the time spent together. Believe me, doing this will only put a smile on your face. And a couple will spend good time together.
**Always stay with your partner:**
There are some couples who are happy if their needs are met, but if they have a hard time, they start fighting. A good couple always looks out for each other. If one of them is having a hard time, the other should understand and support their partner. If they understand each other, then the difficult times will pass well.
**Say thank you:**
Thank your partner for bringing joy into your life. Show him how important he is to you. If he gives you any surprise to make you happy, thank him in a nice way. Saying thank you tells your partner how much you love his surprise.
Believe me guys!! If you make these small things a part of your life, then half of your tension can disappear.
**That's it for today!!**
Thank you for your precious time. I hope you spend your day with full of happiness and prosperity. Have a good day ahead.
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Canker sores
**Helo guys!!**
We all know well that health is a thousand blessings, but we realize it only when we have an illness or an injury. Whoever has any disease, whether it is leg, stomach, ear, teeth, he only prays to Allah for a healthy life because of the pain. Most people say that toothache is very painful, some people are saying that earache is more excruciating.
Pain is not big or small, pain is just pain and man prays to be healthy instead of any other wish or desire.
I get mouth ulcers every month. And I have taken so many medicines from doctors but none of them gives me relief. My pain lasts for a couple of weeks and resolves on its own. The medicine did not relieve my pain even a little. **Then I searched about my disease and found out that what I used to call mouth ulcer is a canker sore disease**. In which white spots are formed in the inner space of the tongue or lip, around which a red circle is formed. When this ulcer occurs in the mouth, neither drink nor eat anything.
There are some types of it which after reading I realized that my ulcer is in a normal way. But one type of it is very dangerous in which the small spots inside the mouth merge together to form a big spot which causes a lot of pain even while speaking.
**Why does this ulcer happen?**
The number one reason for this is that we have heat in the stomach. We start eating hot things more, which causes heat in our stomach and these rashes come out in our mouth.
Another reason is that often while we are talking or eating, we inadvertently bite our lip, which leads to mouth ulcers.
Another reason is that we brush our teeth too hard, which often causes ulcers on the inner surface of our gums and lips.
**What is the treatment for it?**
If the canker sores develop into a large pimple-like form, doctors treat it. Some doctors also recommend multiple tubes in the normal way, including tubes like ***Bonjela, kenalog, Smojal*** which completely eliminates our pain for some time. But in its proper treatment, injections are also used.
My pain is relieved with Kenalog tube. But I haven't got it properly treated yet. Now I try to eat fruits and healthy food and also have a bowl of curd in the morning. It is very important to add a plate of yogurt in the morning breakfast because it is very useful for the stomach.
**That's it!!**
I hope guys you like it. Thank you so much for your precious time. Have a good day ahead.
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Aims of today's child has become just to score marks!!
**Hey guys!!**
History is a witness that whenever the result of a child in the family has to come, those family members who have never spoken till now, are the first people to call us.
*How many marks did your child get?*
*Or our child has more marks than your child ?*
It doesn't matter if your child has scored low marks, next time he will work harder and get good marks. Etc.
Our education has become dependent only on numbers. The first question asked is how many marks you got. No one asks how your experience was. The subject you have studied, is your concept clear in this subject or not?
`What is concept?`
`Concept of topics helps a child to recognize knowledge, evolution, position, proportion and quantity. So that they can understand in better way. When the child understands each topic better, it will be easier for him to move forward. For this it is very important to understand the basics`.
The aim of today's child has become just to score marks. For that, he just learn the books. And parents are also very happy to see their children's numbers. But as the child's class increases, his subject also becomes more difficult. And when it becomes difficult for him to get the marks, the families think that their child does not study anymore. The child starts getting scolded and the child stops taking interest in studies. **I have seen many experienced people whose marks in their studies were very low, some even failed, but their knowledge and their teaching method is even better than the toppers.**
So I think parents should force children to clear concepts instead of forcing to get numbers. I have also seen people with 1000/1000 marks or A+ grades who go for a job and fail the interview only because they have zero knowledge. So then a person thinks that as much effort as he put in getting the number, if he put as much effort in clearing the concept, then he would have succeeded.
**Closing thoughts:**
My purpose of writing this article is that never scold your children about numbers. If your child gets good grades, praise them, but tell them that just getting grades isn't enough. It is also very important to understand each topic. Even if they take tuitions, still give your children two hours of study time a day. Try to explain things by different activities or experiments. So that they can learn better in future.
It's all about for today guys. I hope you spend your day with full of happiness and prosperity. Thank you for your precious time.
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Boredom is the first step towards new thinking!!
**Greetings and salutations!!**
I hope guys you all are fine and enjoying your day with prosperity.
In today's age, mobile is highly preferred to relieve boredom. If we are bored, we mostly look at social media or different movies. And if we see small children who are of learning age, when they cry or to relieve their boredom, we put mobile phones in their hands.
**Have any of us ever noticed that we are limiting children's ability to think?**
A little child cries or if the child tells his parents that he is bored, then the first thought is to get the mobile in the mind of his parents to relieve the boredom. Because today's parents have started to consider mobile as the only means to relieve boredom.
**Is being bored a bad thing?**
**Why do we misunderstand boredom?**
We misunderstand boredom, while being bored sometimes gives rise to thoughts that hardly ever cross our minds.
`Boredom's main purpose is to stimulate new thinking. If your child is getting bored, instead of making him to pick up the mobile phone, stimulate his inner talent. That talent can be a drawing, art, cricket, football etc. A toddler has many options to relieve his boredom. Just ask them what they want to do, trust me they will start telling you a lot of activities.`
Let me tell you!! **why parents give their children cell phones?**
Because they make it easy for themselves. They think that if the mobile is in the hands of the children, then they will be able to do their household chores or office work easily. Parents have only made their work easier and children's difficult by making children hold mobiles. Parents do not give time to children to think about activities.
Believe me, If you compare the child who uses mobile more and the child who participates in more activities, there will be a world of difference in the thinking of these two children.
I am not saying that mobile should not be used at all. Rather, I am saying that along with using mobile, children should be given different activities. Parents should never let children hold mobile phones for their own convenience.
**That's it!!**
I hope what I am trying to convey has reached you. Thank you for your precious time. Have a good day ahead.
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Pain is not a vain
**Greetings!!**
Life is the combination of happiness and sadness. Man experiences joys and sorrows in life like day and night. Some people either learn something by being patient or some cogs lose courage. In our eyes, the image of pain is bad. But have any of us ever realized that if there was no pain, how could we feel pleasure? Pain is not necessarily bad. Pain sometimes teaches us lessons we can't even imagine.
**Do you know what is the most important reward we get from pain?**
**We are closer to God.**
In happiness, a person is so busy in his celebration that he forgets to thank his Lord. But pain is the only means by which we remember God and get closer to Him. We pray for him to get out of this difficult phase.
When pleasure comes after pain, it has a different feeling. It was not like ordinary happiness. Rather, it is a special happiness. If someone breaks up, then that person goes through the stage of pain and then he remembers his God that why this happened to him. But God has thought much better for him and when man endures this time patiently, God blesses him more than before.
Or if a person loses his job, everything is over for him in a second. Many of his needs stop. In a time he again goes to the zero stage۔
But Who knows if He who is above thought better of this man than this job? Yes!! There comes a time when that person gets a better job than before and then he thinks that what happened to him was very good and in that case he is satisfied with the decisions of God.
So guys, whenever you are going through pain, you must hope for something good. The one who gave this pain will also take you out of this stage. Allah is only testing us. So always be patient at such a stage. Because by getting angry and crying we will not get the first things. Be patient and waiting for your happiness moment.
The end!!
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I hope you all are well guys. I am here after a long time and I hope to get a good response. Let me tell you that I was busy with many things including my cousin's marriage and my course. I hope you spend your day with full of happiness and prosperity guys. Have a good night .....
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Who wakes up in the morning and greets his mother first?
Believe me, doing this makes our whole day better. It seems as if our mothers' prayers act like a protective layer around us.
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What I choose??
**Helo dear Readers!!**
So, who is happy to see the rate of BCH? Ahh obviously everyone. And I hope BCH will rise more this month. Let's see the final rate of BCH at the end of this month.
Today we all friends were talking in WhatsApp group, then one friend suddenly asked that if you all had to eliminate any two of these options, which option would you select?
And what were those options, I share with you.
Overthinking
Relatives
Study
Mobile phone
So these were four things and everyone had to eliminate two options from their lives.
*I selected overthinking and study*
I chose Overthinking because a person at my age has a lot to worry about. The biggest worry for boys at this age is how will he earn? In this age, if we do not get a job and we remain dependent on others, then this is the biggest problem. And if he is the sole breadwinner in the household and he doesn't get a job, he is the most overthinking person. Same thing happened with me. I am very worried about the job. Many hours I think about my future. I have also applied for teaching seats but I am not getting any response. I need a job. And I think about it a lot. So I want to eliminate overthinking from my life just because of this reason.
Study:
You must be thinking that study is the basic need of a human being. I know that and I agree with you. But here I want to end the system of study which is going on in my country. I want to tell you what the exact reason was:
70% schools and colleges have not a practical labs
I remember when my 10th class practical papers were done, only paper sheet was given to our class. We had the whole class in the lab and there was nothing in the lab except two or three flasks. And some months ago my sister's papers were done and this same system was held in her paper. There is a difference of eight years between me and my sister. And in these eight years, we do not have lab materials in the lab class here in the colleges. And such a system is not only in one or two college or schools but seventy percent people pass the papers without doing practical.
Our government does not pay attention to this issue. Today, if we are behind other countries in terms of study, the only reason is that practically nothing is explained to the students. It is not enough to give the paper after reading from the books but understanding the topics by practically is the most important thing. Most village students do not know about microscope, how to use it. Just showing in the book is not enough. Our government desperately needs to fix our education system.
If our government wants a scientist from their country, then they need to think in this direction.
I thought it necessary to select these two options first But if there was no option of study, I would have selected relatives instead.
***If you were in my place, which two options would you select?***
Wait, I know No one wants to eliminate mobile phone from their life. Because it has become a necessity for everyone. Hehe.
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Have a good night!!
I was lost in sunset view
With friends, we boys sometimes go out for a walk. But the fun of going out with family is different. When we go out with the family, we boys have a responsibility. Which is very important to do. Yesterday we all planned to go out as a family. I was accompanied by my mother, sister and cousins.
***With friends we can go out anytime. We don't care about time. But when the family is together, the timing has to be taken care of.***
We left home at 5 o'clock. We actually didn't go anywhere that special. But the place was made special because of the sunset view. We stopped by a river. Where everyone took lots of selfies and pictures while sitting. Everyone enjoyed the ice cream there.
First let me show you a sunset view:
My whole family went home before seeing this scene. But I had my cousin with me just to capture this view. Because I didn't want to miss this magical scene. Yesterday when I was there taking these pictures there were some plants so I tried to capture the sun on the tip of the plants.
I know that if someone was a perfect photographer in my place, he could have captured this view much better on his camera. I have taken these pictures with my mobile phone. And I am not a good photographer but I love to capture photos. And sunset is my weakness.
I don't know why I like Sunset View so much. Maybe I like it because it's the sign of a new day rising. I see the sunset view as a sign that our troubles are abating soon.
Do you like sunrise view or sunset view?
Kindly inform me. So that I know your taste.
It's all about for today guys. I hope you like it. Thank you so much for your precious time. I hope you spend your day with full of happiness and prosperity. Don't forget to help others because this small act makes your day very peaceful. Thank you so much my dear readers.
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Stay safe, stay happy and stay healthy. Have a blessed day guys.
Peace .....
I'm getting my motivation back
Today I am uploading the article after a week. And as I write this article, I'm wondering if I've been too careless. I haven't missed a single article in three months. But in this month I have wasted many days. It's not that I was too busy to write an article. ***Actually I needed a motivational boost which I was missing these days***. And I'm sorry I couldn't read anyone's article.
And would you believe me, I pulled out my BCH wallet today and looked at the price, and **I was happy to see that BCH had reached $110.**
The reason for not writing my article was one of our Muslim events in which I was busy and the other was that my motivational energy was lost. Which I have taken back by spending enough time alone today.
And those who are giving their time to this site even in difficult times, I salute them. ***I think I will get this motivation from you guys***. Because you are the one who cheers me up here. Sometimes a person should take a break from their work. Taking a break doesn't mean we give up and never do the same thing again. So, Rest and join your work re-energized.
Well my last week has been great. Many guests came to our house. And it was very important to give them time. Dinner parties happen a lot in our family. So my whole family was engaged in the same event. We have had eight consecutive dinners in eight days. Today was a free day and I spent some time alone and anchored myself. Believe me, eating rice and meat in those 8 days made me lose my appetite lol. Therefore, my mother made a special vegetable curry. And I enjoyed the vegetable curry so much today that I felt like I was in the air for a while. Hehe
And my sister teased me a lot today. She has been watching India's famous dish momos(dumplings) all day. And told me to bring it from the market. But believe me, after walking around the market for an hour, there was not a single shop of momos anywhere. So, she decided that tomorrow she will make it herself at home. That means I'm going to have another upset stomach tomorrow.
****Anyways, I hope I can write articles daily now. If I am not able to write daily, then I will write an article in two days.****
It's all about for today guys. I hope you like it and you will not forget me. I hope you spend your day with full of happiness and prosperity. Don't forget to help others because this small act makes your day very peaceful.
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Stay safe, stay happy and stay healthy. Have a blessed night guys.
Peace.....
Find a place for a barbecue
**Hey Readers!!**
You all know that Sunday is our Eid. And this event is very important for Muslims. So has everyone completed their preparations for this event? I bought a dress for myself. My sister has been shopping for two weeks. Today, when I asked her, she said that I have to buy a matching bracelet. Shopping of girls is a lot of effort lol.
The weather was great yesterday so we all went out for enjoying after the rain. We didn't decide where to go. We just had a bike on which we rode. Along the way we bought fritters and samosa. Because not only girls but also boys love to eat these things in such good weather lol.
We bought the fritters from the wheelbarrow and there was a lot of oil in it. But I can say with certainty that they were more delicious than McDonald's. My friend and I enjoy it a lot.
I really missed the tea with the hot fritters. If it was found in this place, I would definitely take it.
After seeing this scene, our friends decided that we would go here and have a barbecue on the evening of Eid. Because we couldn't find a better place near home like this . Now just pray that the weather is good on Eid۔ Because only if the weather is good will we be able to enjoy. Otherwise we have no mood to party with mosquitoes. 😂
The kids were playing when we got a little further on the bike. I couldn't take pictures of it. Because it was raining and my mobile was not waterproof haha.
Some children were playing cricket and fighting with each other. I was very happy to see their fight. Even if a person fought in his childhood, all his anger would go away in a few minutes.
For a while we roamed our bikes. And then I left my friend at his house and went home on my own.
When I got home, I was sitting with my father and gossiping a lot.
My advice to you is that if you have good weather, you must go for a walk outside. Because in summer, it doesn't feel good because of the heat, but if the weather is good, never miss this chance. It is fun to feel nature in such a weather.
I had a great day yesterday. How was your day yesterday and today I hope you had a lot of fun with your family.
It's all about for today guys. I hope you like it. Thank you so much for your precious time guys. I hope you spend your day with full of happiness and prosperity. Don't forget to help others because this small act makes your day very peaceful. Thank you so much my dear readers and sponsors. You encourage me to write here.
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Stay safe, stay happy and stay healthy. Have a blessed night guys.
Peace.....
Welcome to my city "Rain"
**Hey guys!!**
Today, after many days, I have seen the rate of BCH. I thought I would see it in a few days, then maybe the rate would go up. But it is stuck in one place. Haha. How nice that day when I wake up and BCH rate is skyrocketing. This day will surely come. Hope should be good.
Anyways, how is your weather today guys?
When I woke up in the morning, the weather was so hot that I didn't think it would rain today.
***But He who is above is Able to do all things. Without Him, not a single leaf can move by Himself. He can do anything at any time. Yeah, I'm talking about God who cannot see his servants in distress. Thank you God 🙏***
Everyone was thinking that there would be no rain at all because there was not a single cloud in the sky. But in an hour the sky full of clouds. It started to rain heavily. It is still raining heavily۔
How hopeless we humans are. At one point, everyone thought it wouldn't rain this month. Because the sun was hot enough to boil. If we went a little far from the fan, we would sweating. But now looking at the weather, no one can say that it was hot in the morning.
Raindrops are coming out of my window and touching my face. And you know the importance of that. I am really very happy.
I am lying in my room without a fan and I do not feel the slightest heat because the cool air is entering from the room and the window which are enough to comfort me.
Animals, birds and plants will all be happy. Because I think these living beings may be praying for rain. And now they are swaying happily. The soil on the plants has become transparent due to the rain.
I will definitely take a shower in the rain after completing this article. Thinking about this reminded me of my childhood days when it was raining a little bit, wearing trouser shirts and bathing in the rain with friends. And when it got a little cold, we would go into the room. Childhood rain had its own fun.
Sometimes a person needs to be a child to refresh childhood memories. I can't express my happiness. That's all for today. Because I don't want the rain to stop hehe.
Have a good day guys.
I hope you like it. Thank you so much for your precious time. I hope you spend your day with full of happiness and prosperity. Don't forget to help others because this small act makes your day very peaceful. Thank you so much my dear readers and sponsors.
Stay safe, stay happy and stay healthy.
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Peace.
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