I Wanted To Have My Own Child, But I Changed My Mind Because...

hello dear sis, just have seen my name there on your noise app post, happy to know that iam among those winners, its my first time to get such reward.

being a mom is really a big responsibilty, but i believe one day you will be best mum in the world.

Give us a mini-MJ... Imagine having a lot of MJs around...the world would be a better place...with your dashing look and adorable eyes.

Having a child requires deep thoughts. That's why I always marvel when people have s*x without condoms and they act surprised when they noticed she's pregnant. What were they expecting? A plasma TV?

I love how you are evaluating your choices and I know when the time is right, you will know whether you are ready or not and when you feel ready, your mental state shifts immediately. Everything will be fine. I love how you touched every angle because it's important to evaluate.

Hello, I was lucky on this occasion, so thanks for whatever it is that I win, that the truth is I don't even know what it is hahaha.

I read all the comments and responses to this publication and I must tell you that in my opinion you are doing the right thing, if you do not have financial stability that allows you to pay for the education of that child for the first 20 years of his life (this includes doctors, illnesses, Primary and secondary studies until finishing university, which is supposed to be able to fend for itself, so that's why I calculate approximately 20 years), so it's better not to board that train.

And regarding having a partner, it is also very difficult, you and I know why, starting because you are someone very special in many ways, and the truth is you need someone as special or more than you.

And unless the BCH one day reaches about $30,000 and you have about 10 BCH in your possession to begin with, I think that is not going to be possible, but in the meantime, it is not a bad thing that you have that dream present and that it is something that motivates you to move forward.

You are still young although you are going to answer me no, I know that because we have already had this conversation on several occasions.

I remember a long time ago, the first times we started talking XD.

It can be good for you if you don't think about these things, and I think you do very well publishing everything you think and feel so that it doesn't stay with you. Good work.

Meanwhile, keep going, relaxed, with your principles and purposes, without anything diverting you from what you want, and surely when you least expect it, life is going to give you a surprise, what can I tell you with my 55 years, I have seen how life changes hundreds of people when they least expect it.

I hope that when your turn in the queue comes, you know how to take advantage of the opportunity and don't let it pass you by, ok?

A hug girlie girl!

PS: I still remember when you helped me by telegram that time, recording the video, when I had the problem with my wallet. Thanks again for that, don't think I've forgotten.

And thanks for the prize, although I don't know what it is.

Hi sis! Just came here after I saw you paging me on noise. May gani kay nag check ko sa updates before I decided to sleep. Thank you sis!

Bahin sa wanting to have child, I honestly don't imagine myself to be a mom too. Though naay times nga maka hunahuna ko but mas mo patigbabaw jud ang dili tungod kay hago magbantay, og dako kaayo na nga responsibility. At times I thought about it but maybe I'm just in love of the feeling of it but not really embracing what reality would be 😆

It's good to really think about it deeply po since based on your blog it's actually hard. But I know po kayang-kaya niyo yan palagi, I believe in "Mother knows best" supremacy.

Congrats to all winners :)

Definitely when you want to have own child you need to become financially good and ready to change difficulties Some people think its a easy but it's not easy to protect her/him to provide all the facilities

Being a mother is really hard, ang daming dapat e consider. Para ngang even id you are ready na, magiging mahirap pa rjn ang lahat. But malay mo naman, dumatinf pa rjn ang time na magka baby ka? Maybe today is not the time yet?

Becoming a mother I also think of stress, but then we just need to have the courage to be called mummy one day.. Then we know we are fully prepared

As much as the stress is certain and constant, it still doesn't make me not want kids. I love them so much

I'll say this MJ most of us who have children will tell you if they would have waited to be financial ready or have everything in good order we probably wouldn't have kids. Even so, it's still never perfect welcoming a new life in this world. When you become a parent your priorities change drastically and a lot of selfishiness disappears in us because it goes directly into that young baby. Also we do everything we can to give our children the best we can. We sacrifice a lot for them. Hard to explain but that first sight of them changes us forever.

Asides from all of that I believe you can be a good mother.

no one is too ready to have a child. Since nagkaanak ako sis, di ko inexpect yung drastic changes sa buhay ko. bukod sa financial stability, kelangan mo mas maiprepare yung sarili mo mentally and emotionally sa mga bagay na di mo ineexpect. literal na rollercoaster. I plan to work din sana kaso wala pa magbabantay sa anak ko ngayon kaya tiis muna kami.

I have a baby now sis and it's actually life changing, ang daming nagbago sa buhay ko.. Personally, ako ang bilis ko lang mairita pero I try my best na ma control

Have you really considered and come up with a conclusive decision? You are afraid of failing at being a mum. The reasons you mentioned are understandable but don't forget the child will also have a father who will assist financially and otherwise.

We all don't have to give birth, but when we decide not to, let the reason not be fear of not keeping up.

I know a lot of working mothers, who work and still make out time for the kids.

Well, it's your decision to make, and I hope those around you should respect it.

In the end, never say never.

Oo mahirap lalo na pag financial ang pinag-uusapan ksi un ung pinakakailangan natin to sustain the needs and wants of a family. Dahil dun kya kelangan ntin kumayod, naiistress pag short sa budget at minsan dhil my gusto taung matapos e mababaling ang stress sa anak kya napapagalitan na lng. Malaking factor din ung pagkkroon ng family oriented at responsibleng partner pra my kahati sa obligasyon ng pagiging parent/s, un lng ang need mo hanapin jeje..

I know that deep inside you want your own child but those things you've mentioned hinder you and all of it are valid especially bringing up a child into the world and let it suffer in the end because you can't provide the needs.. mahirap nga mag work tas may bata, sakin nga na bwisit ako minsan talagang mabalikas gyud naku usahay 😂 maka guilty uy pero tao raman sad ta kapuyon ug mapuno, kapoy jud mainahan..mao nang di na gani unta ko gusto mag anak utro pud.

I literally understand you sis, because it ain't really easy to become a mom. I can understand with your frustration because my son is also like your niece. His also naughty and that's the reason why I lessen up my screen time as he always demand for my attention. But I am his mother and I can't complain since his part of my responsibility and after all, his my first priority.

Mix emotions yung mararamdaman mo sis pero sauna lang yan masaya magkaroon ng anak.ako nga sis 18 years old ako nagkaanak ngayon parang magka barkada lang kami.share na nga kami ng mga damit at pwede ko rin sya masabihan ng mga secrets hehehe.syempre may stress pero kya mo rin lagpasan lahat yan.

Sa dami natin iniisip sis kaya pabago bago yung takbo ng isip natin. Ako sis I'm married na pero for now di pa ready kaya hindi muna dami pa kasing mga goals na kailangan muna unahin.

oh, dapat ge hire nalang ka as nanny oi with pay. yes, with pay. di baya lalim. wa gani ni nako gepa antos akong mga parents-in-law nga mag 24/7 bantay kay hasol jud kaayo ang mga bata. mao hands-on ko sa duha. ang boy mag watch tv, ang girl mag independent play. hehe

Never say never... you would be an wonderful mother. You are strong, stubborn and hard working 💪

O my God, my name is on your list, Thank you my dear It sounds like you want a child but something (the points you already mentioned in the article) scares you. & This is a good thing that you first want to be independent& be prepared before having a baby

Ninong nya ko HAHAHA but yeah dapat kahibaw gud kas sarili nimo na kaya na nimo mag ing ana. Kung dili pa gani. Ayaw lang sa Haha

I am 30 and I don't think about have a child for now. I want achieve some things first. Maybe in 5 or 7 years 😅.

Lisud jud mahimong inahan or ginikanan sis ko dili pa ready labi na ning gipang mention nimo. Pero pag naa na ,kaya raman sad bisan lisod😁