A month of love and one of our generous user here Sis @carisdaneym2 celebrated her birthday few days ago, because of that she wants to share some of her blessings by giving a challenge. For those who haven't read Sharing $50 and 10 NFTs for my 21st Birthday Celebration, just click the link and read the criteria.

Knowing ourself better is one of the most important thing we must do. To know what our weaknesses and our strengths, and those challenges that gives us lesson to be better in life. Now, I am going to share another part of myself as I answer the three questions given for the challenge. This is based on my own opinion and own experience, that hopefully some of you can relate and learn.

But first let me Flex to you my sponsors, one of those persons who guide and support me throughout my journey here. You guys can check them too:)

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What do you see as your best character trait?

Being a human diary. Honestly, I am not good in giving advices, sometimes when someone share his/her problems I became speechless, especially when I'm also suffering in that same problem, but one thing I can assure is I am always there to listen no matter how long it is. I've been thinking that maybe one of my purpose in life is to be there when a person needs someone to talk.

When I got in college I have these group of friend. They have different characteristics but there's one thing that they are all common, and that is they secretly talk to me about their problems. And those problems that they have shared are always written in my heart and mind, and never ever share to anyone. I also have these 3 classmates, we are not close but I don't know why they open up their problems and tell the reason why they will stop in studies.

That's why, if I can relate myself to an object, I would say that I am like a diary. Just open up your happiness and problems in me and I will surely keep it forever as a secret, it's only between you and me. Maybe I can't help to solve it, but I'm there to listen and lessen your pain.

What mistake did you learn the most from?

Being kind to much. I do believe that kindness is next to love, but as I grow I realized that there are people who don't deserved kindness. I mean, we should be kind to everyone, but if you see a person who didn't change or just to improve him/herself then don't tolerate.

I will highlight those people who likes to borrow money. It is really good to help people who are in need but then the problem is, most of them don't know how to pay back. Sometimes it's them who get angry. Just like in my case when I was in highschool, I always save from my allowance so I can help my classmates when they need money. But then, one of my classmate abuse it, she borrow 1k($20) which I save for how many months because I only have little allowance, I even sacrifice my fair, but she didn't pay it back. Because of that, my parents didn't allow me to help others in terms of money.

What is the most important thing in a relationship?

Love. Love is everything, it's a representation of our Almighty God. Once you love a person then every good thing will follows. But, saying to the person how much you love him/her is not enough, you must prove it through your actions as Actions speak louder than words.

You can love a thousand of people but you can only be inlove to a one person. So in terms of relationship, especially for those who are just single, choose a person who is in love with you. This will turns him/her for being faithful than being a loyal.

I have seen a lot of videos about force marriage, those girls that are crying because it's not their will to be in that situation. I know this is other's culture and tradition but I really don't see genuine love on this. While those parents who push their daughter to be in this situation is like pushing them to be a rape victim.

But again, love is the most important element in this world; because of love we are created and because of love our life have a purpose. And in relationship, love must be keep on burning until your last breath in this world.

That's it! To Sis @carisdaneym2 hopefully you notice my entry. Once again belated happy birthday and I wish you the best.

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Author's love message :

Hello lovely readers! How was your day?

Yeyy! I'm so happy with my new sponsor. I'm actually surprise and it's a big amount. To @OurKitchen , nice meeting you and thank you for giving your sponsorship

GOD Bless. Hugs

February 11, 2022

-Ling