Every Cloud Has A Silver Lining
Every Cloud has a silver lining So don't quite until you achive what you always wanted to achieve, don't stop until you reach your destination. Our life is too short to worry, to stress so give up on your anxiety, worries, sufferings not on your dreams and goals.
Our life is not as sweet as honey. Our life is not as smooth as butter. Our life is not a bed of uncountable Roses. Keep in mind, if you want to enjoy the enchanting beauty and imposing aroma then you must need to accept and endure the pain caused by the visible thorns of Rose. So make your mind strong and make your heart grateful to see the goodness and positivity in every situation even in the worst situation.
Don't afraid to give your dreams a second chance Just because you had faced several failures in your past. Not every day is the same, nothing stays for ever so does your problems, worries too. Don't be afraid to fail as your failures symbolizes your growth, your aliveness.
If you fail then it does not show your weaknesses. If you fail then it does not make you a born failure as everyone fails at something but giving up easily, accepting your failures, making excuses, refusing to try again does. So accept your failure as lessons not regrretment and continue to try again and again. If you can't accept losing things, people, if you can't accept your mistakes, if you can't accept your failures , if you can't continue trying over and over then you can't win too. It's up to you what will you choose, but make sure to decide as soon as possible before getting too late.
Every problem has a hidden solution, you just need ti be calm and find out that hidden solution Peacefully. Learn how to accept failures without any regrretment and overcome your mistakes. Don't be afraid or ashamed to accept your failures, your mistakes because these are the things which makes you more strong , more courageous than ever.
When you start to fear of failures or of making mistakes that's the very moment your fears start to swallow all your potential, passion, talents and creativity. Don't be so weak that you can't help yourself from withering over time. Give yourself the permission to excel, to create something great, to do something worthy instead of giving yourself the permission to fail and fear.
Use your failures as stairs to reach succes instead of using your failures to hide and burry yourself. You can't be successful if you avoid your failures by making lame excuses as your failures helps you to wakes up again with more energy, more power.
We can't control our both bad and good days, thoughts from popping up in our life which are bothering you, tormenting you, tearing you apart, but we can choose our response, our reactions towards them.
The fear of failures prevents you from achieving your goals, from reaching your destination, so he strong and fight back against to your problems.
We can't be successful until we give up blaming others along with yourself for facing problems, failures As you can't be successful until you accept your mistakes and work on it. Embrace your failures, your flaws as a part of yours.
Be positive and hopeful in every situation as, if you stay positive in every circumstances You win. Get out of your mistakes and breath freely for a while. Remember, the less you respond yo negetive peoples, negetive thoughts the more positive your life will become.
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6.40pm___24.02.22
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Wars Inside You
Our life is nothing but a blend of constant war, ebbs and flows. Sometimes we win against our enemies such as our anxieties, depressions, sufferings , longings and Sometimes we lose against our enemies, this is a very common law of nature where one person can't win always with remarkable outcome and on the other side se can't always lose too. So try to balance your imperfectly perfect life by accepting what Almighty is planning for you and giving to you.
It is quite normal to have some silences inside you which you have yet to explore and fill. It is quite normal to have some war yet to fight and win. It is quite normal to have some wounds yet to heal but the thing which is not normal is to give up easily without giving yourself a second chance, without believing on yourself for the second time.
Be easy on yourself. Trust on yourself as there are still lots of things inside you that are fighting a war just for you So be brave, give your best efforts, help yourself by believing on you. You are more stronger than you show. Your are more braver than you seem. You are more capable of doing things than you think. So never ever mistrust yourself because you are more worthy than you feel.
Our life is just like the weather. As nature has some bright,best, beautiful days and at the same time she has some gloomy, stormy days too. Just like this in our life, Somedays will give you give you worst and unkind vibes which you will want to forget and on the other side some days will be give you best, blessed vibes which you will want to remember until your last breath.
Keep in mind, our worst and unkind days helps us to reflect the true power, capabilities of ourselves which we try to hide and burry in the deepest corner of our heart But even after all of these stay positive and live for these unkind days as these days are more than all the rest.
Learning and growing is an endless process so if oneday you fail, if you make any mistake then don't be harsh on yourself because your failures, your mistakes are the proofs of your aliveness and the continuation of learning & growing. You need love , self care, softness, kore chance, pateince and the most important "TIME".
At some point in your life, you need to learn the art of letting go and accepting because one can't achive anything by holding those things which are beyond one's control.
Don't fear to show your weaknesses to the world. We all are weak in something, in defferent ways. You can't make up your weaknesses just by hiding it, so don't not be ashamed at your weaknesses, we all have them.
Always try to be the best version of yourself, the best person you can be. Be kind with yourself, be kind even with those which are continuously making you tired.
Keep chasing your dreams even your unfulfilled dreams too. Keep trying even when you're failing again and again. Keep believing on yourself even when you're broken. Keep loving yourself even when you are shattered completely.
We all are born warriors, we just need to stand up and show our fighting skills in fighting.
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22.02.2022__6.38pm
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Today, Love Yourself A Little More
Take a oath and **Today Love Yourself A Little More** by spending quality time with yourself. We are the human being not only made of flesh and blood but also made of countless emotions So try to take care of your emotions by giving most of your time and attention to your own emotions. Take a break from all those things which are bothering you and try to spend most of your time alone to love, appreciate, experience yourself more.
Don't waste your time hoping to get the love of others in vain. Spend most of your time doing things that make you feel like yourself. Spend most of your time with your own self and try to bring out the best in you instead of stress on you. Become a priority in your life and love yourself little more than others.
**Today, Love Yourself A Little More** by giving yourself the permission to say "NO" when you need to.
***What we allow is what will continue*** so when you feel uncomfortable with something or someone then dare to say no without hesitating for once. We all have the innate right to treat our own selves with best things so just go for it.
Be a good person with a kind heart and soft mind but be brave enough to save your soul from withering by saying NO loudly and freely. Don't apologise for doing something what is best for yourself. Remember, Saying NO does not make you a bad person. Saying NO does not make you a mean person. There is a crystal clear difference between being mean and standing up for yourself, so don't make any bewilderment between these too. When you say "YES" to someone else make sure you are not insulting and not saying NO to yourself.
**Today, Love Yourself A Little More** by avoiding making comparisons between yourself and others. We all have different potential, talents, taste, dreams, destinations so there is no valid point of making comparisons between each other in futile.
Don't measure your dreams, your progress using someone else's ruler. Compare yourself to the person from yesterday instead of comparing yourself with others. Be easier on yourself as no one is perfect.
Don't lose yourself, don't hate yourself, don't belittle yourself because you still have a lot of time to make yourself be what you want, to achieve what you wish. Keep in mind__ **"Don't compare your behind- the -scenes with someone else's highlight reel."** ( Steven Furtic )
**Today Love Yourself A Little More** by being honest to yourself. Don't try to waste your time by deceiving yourself for the sake of fake happiness of others as no matter how much you try, the person you can never fool is your own self.
Give yourself the attention, the love, the care which you truely deserves and be the person who you really are. If you wanted to be trusted by others then try to be honest with yourself first.
Today stop hating yourself for each and everything you are not in actual and Start loving yourself for everything that you are in real. Today fall in love with yourself a little more. Today fall in love with your Insecurities and imperfections a little more. Today choose yourself, your happiness over others a little more.
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20.02.2022__7.15pm
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Stop Being So Afraid To Be Confident
**Stop being so afraid to be confident** because you don't have to conquer the whole world at once to prove your capabilities, strength to others just try to be yourself confidently because nowdays it is very very difficult to be your own self So try to prove your power by becoming yourself.
Our life is indeed very small yet on the other side one have to live a very lengthy life it doesn't matter whether they want or not So whatever you decide to do or achive in life, make sure it makes you happy and contented.
**Be Confident** when people start throwing Peebles of negetivity and hatred at you remember one can only succeed when others start to say negetive things just to stop you from achieving and accomplishing your goals and dreams.
Don't waste your precious time trying to avoid negetivities, enmities instead of this try to made a greatest and biggest Kingdom of yours, made of these things. You can't avoid criticism, negetivity and toxic thoughts of others until and unless you do nothing, say nothing, hear nothing, feel nothing and be nothing.
There is a saying, "**It is not death that you should fear, you should fear never being alive"** so learn to live your life to the fullest instead of fearing for those things which does not even exist in real.
**Stop Being So Afraid To Leave** wherever you feel unloved, uncared, unappreciated. You deserve more good things than you think So claimed those good things which are meant just for you by breaking all the shakles of fear and Insecurities.
**Stop Being So Afraid To Stay** alone because there is nothing better in the whole universe than a peaceful and content moment with your own self. Live every moment more when you are alone. Cherish yourself, adorn yourself with the precious ornaments of self-love and self-care.
Strength lies in loneliness so whenever you find yourself in seclusion just find your strength. The bravest person is who is not afraid to be alone. You are like a mine because there are many valuable things in you So try fo find them whenever you're in solitude.
**Stop Being So Afraid To Show** your gratitude those people who made you laugh when it was difficult to even smile. Don't afraid to show your indebted behavior to those who helped you to understand your true self importance. Never hesitate to shower others with your grateful attitude because a grateful heart and mind is a magnet to endless miracles and happiness.
**Stop Being So Afraid To Help** those people who needs you the most, who needs your help thinking that you are infallible and worthless. We need to remember each and every person has at least one particular purpose to perform so never ever see yourself as a worthless person.
**Stop Being So Afraid To Continue** struggling because oneday each and everything will take place for you all of a sudden unbeknownst to you at that time You will be glad the most and proud on yourself for not giving up easily.
**Stop Being So Afraid To Making** that life which you always wanted to live. You're the creator of your own best and abundant life So lend a helping hand to your own self before anyone else. Take the responsibility and make yourself the person that everyone dreams of becoming.
Open your closed eyes, try to kindle the sparks inside you with your hardwork, strong and not giving up mindset. Make everyone jealous in a good way with your burning Passion and flowing adhesion. Unlock the doors of your good destination with the key of hardwork and patience.
Don't hate yourself for being hollow because you have so many missing parts of yours to collect and meet still. If you're suffering now then give yourself proper time to heal because only time can do what reasons can't.
Don't let other's wind of envy and hate affect your sail. Your soul have been waiting your whole life sulphureously to reconcile with you. So gather all the parts which you currently have and which you had lost time ago and make yourself more precious than ever. Today, stop being the inseparable shadow of others and start being you.
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19.08.22__7.22pm
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Be The Mirror Which Reflects Goodness
**Be The Person That** spreads goodness everywhere, No matter how small your contribution is always try yo sprinkle goodness in someone's life because you never know whose life your sprinkled goodness can change wholly.
Be the mirror which only reflects goodness to everyone. Never hesitate or think twice before showering someone with your goodness, good thoughts, good words, good intentions because these are the only things which will reflect back to you. One attracts the energy that (s)he give off so we must need to spread goodness.
Our good deeds are just like boomerang So do good and your good deeds will surely come to you in unexpected ways. Be good to everyone even to them who hates you because we can defeat hatred with only love.
We can do good things silently so try to spread goodness silently and let your good deeds makes noise in the form of someone's wide smile and peace of mind. Try to do good things unbeknownst to others because it is the deeds which matters not the size of your audience.
Don't allow the bad actions and intentions of others to decrease or derogate your good deeds and thoughts.
**Be The Soul That loves every soul**, Love is the abstract and intangible thing which we can't hear or see or touch but to feel. These feelings of love can turns a gloomy day of someone's into a brightest and happiest day.
Wherever you go leave a mark on people's life by spreading your love. There is no perfect tone for showing your love to someone else. Whenever you speak, Speak with love and kindness. Let your love works like ambrosia which does nothing but heals.
When we will start spreading love as swiftly as we spread hate and negetivity only then we will make a Heaven like Earth where nothing but joys and laughter will prevail. In a world full of hate and negetivities let your love bloom like wildflower and spread like wildfire.
**Be The Person Who** stays gentle to each and every living soul. Your gentleness can never be your weakness but this is the identity of your utmost strength. So try to be gentle with others along with yourself as much as possible.
Be gentle not because you have to be but because you are kind by heart. Be gentle not because it is necessary but because no one knows whose heart still hide wounds that never bleed. Be gentle with yourself the most when you are trying to gather the parts of yours which you had lost long time ago. Be gentle with everyone because no one knows who is fighting a silent war.
You don't need to be violent to accomplish something, You can shake the whole world with your gentleness.
**Be The Person Who has** compassion for everyone. One can't heal the whole world at once but one can begin the process of healing with a small and mild voice of compassion So let your compassion be the language of your soul.
There is a grace and beauty in compassion,adore, embrace and feel it with the eyes of your heart. Nowdays, Compassion is the medicine the world needs the most.
Compassion is juts like an invisible thread which helps us to adjoin to those we love and care with our whole heart. Alter your every voice of authority to a voice of compassion and see the real magic.
Make yourself happy by making others happy. Happiness never decreases by being shared. Instead of hatred and jeulousy, allow love and compassion on the place in your heart that people left hollow.
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Be The Main Charecter of Your Life
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Be the main charecter of your life and create your own story to inspire and empower someone. We all are here to perform a certain and predestined role which we need to accomplish before falling in the lap of bitter death. No one knows which day is their last day so try to live, love, feel each and everyday as if it is your last day on earth. Take your responsibilities, perform your duties as it's where your true power and capabilities dwells. Be the main charecter of your life which you always aspired and desired to be.
Live With A Purpose
'Purpose' or 'Dream' is like a steering wheel which helps us to follow the right path and reach our wished destination therefore each and every one needs to have at least one purpose in life as without a purpose our life is like a boat without oars.
The first step in becoming a main protagonist of your own life is to have certain purpose to fulfill. The worst thing you can do with your life is to spend it without any purpose. When you start to wake up with a purpose, you begin to change the whole world along with your own self. Make your life in such a way, You do not have to regret about it in the future.
One has to have at least one particular purpose and work on that, for the life he has always wanted. Try to figure out who you are, what is your main purpose instead of figuring out people's opinions. Be the main charecter of your life and live your life to the fullest.
Set Boundaries
When you are wanting and learning to be a main charecter in your life, one of the most important thing is to develop self-confidence and create boundaries for the sake of your own good mental and physical health.
Setting boundaries is your own responsibility towards yourself. People will surely continue to do what you allow. You are the one who need to understand what is and what is not allowed in your life, as no one will tell you about these.
If you're not feeling comfortable with something which is happening to you or if you feel you are being forced to do something then Dare to say NO.
Don't compromise with your boundaries for someone who doesn't even care for you in actual. Don't compromise with your boundaries for someone who disrespect you or treat you like a mere option. Remember those people who truely loves you will never be offended by your boundaries except those people who were and are benefitting from you.
Try to love yourself enough to set boundaries. Don't forget that your life and your time is too precious to waste. Need to remember, you can be good and great person with generous heart and a soul full of kindness and still say NO, don't be confused about it.
Be A Flame In Frozen World
In a world where you can be anything, choose to be a flame full of warmth, complacency and bliss in a deeply frozen world.
Be the person who can melts all the sorrows, pains, sufferings, longings that have accumulated in the minds and hearts of not only yours but also others.
You don't have to spend anything for this, Your love and kindness are enough to keep the flame of yours burning for ever.
Try to be the main charecter of your own life by helping others, by showering others with love and kindness. Be yourself a main character and help others to be the main character and best version of themselves in their life. Be the one that everyone want to be.
No matter what ever your story is, how small your story is always try to be the main charecter of your own story. Make your own story as beautiful as fairy tales and then share it with others. Your story is worthy to shere with others. ~~•••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••~~
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6.35pm__16.02.2022
Rules For Abundance Living
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It is pretty normal to wish or desire for a life, full of abundance and copiousness. But often we start to blame ourselves, the Almighty for not having all those things which we wanted to achieve once. Often we start to compare our life with others, often we start to make comparisons between those things which we have and we don't have but others has. These are the reasons which makes us sad, depressed and force us to feel unfortunate which is not true in actual. There is no particular reason behind feeling content with our current life and solvency with what we have, but we can follow some steps with which we can make ourselves feel that we too have a affluent life.
Begin Each Day with Intention
Each day is a new opportunity to do something great, to achieve something best, to make ourselves better, to make our place more cozy and comfortable in this World. When the sun sets , everytime it leaves some luminous colours behind , these colors are the promises which sun makes to us of a new day to come just like this When we try to accomplish something, often we leaves our failures behind but it doesn't mean that we will continue to fail in future too but our failures are the proofs that we are trying our best, we are learning through our Mistakes and growing little by little, remember broken crayons still color so don't make you feel you're useless and unworthy.
Don't stuck between your past and future, each morning is a new golden opportunity to start anew. What we do today is what matters the most, so break the shakles of your unchangeable past and unpredictable, uncontrollable future and start working for today. Try to Begin each day with a proper intention and then see the magic of taking little steps and altering a bad habit into a good one.
Replace 'I Wish' to ' I Want'
We all want lots of things in our life which is pretty normal instinct for a human being. But we don't have any idea that ' I Wish' is just nothing but a day dream in disguise. Just by wishing something we can't do anything in our life until and unless we make any attempt.
We can't know our power, our capabilities untill we tests ourselves so just stop wishing and try to do something for achieving your desire and goals. Nothing can happen overnight, everything needs a proper and enough time to happen so it may take days after days, months after months, years after years to take place to become successful which is normal so don't lose hope and faith in yourself and on what you're doing currently to make a better impact on your life . In the process of giving your best and trying your hard, don't lose hope just wait patiently and believe on yourself, believe on the magic of Time. Today, take a oath and try to alter **' I Wish' to 'I Want'.**
Spread Your Kindness and Lend Your Helping Hand to Someone
'Kindness' is the most powerful weapon among all which can change not only one or two persons but the whole world. In a world where we can be anything, we should be kind to ourselves and as well as others. If we show our kindness to someone else it doesn't diminish the love for ourselves or it doesn't cost anything but it can make a great impact on someone's life so we always need to try to lend our helping hands to others because **It is good to be blessed but It is best to be a blessing to someone else.**
You can't achieve your true success until and unless you are sharing your kindness and helps to others to become successful. Our deeds are just like boomerang, just like the saying **What we Sow , We Reap,** so always try to help someone with your kindness and generosity, your one simple act of kindness can help someone to feel loved, cared. Help someone else to grow but try to lend your helping hand and shower someone with your kindness without expecting in return because the true act if charity begins when you help some without any expectations.
End Each Day With Gratitude
'Gratitude' is one of the main keys to open the door of never ending happiness so learn to nurture and nourish the habit of feeling gratitude by appreciating and to be thankful for what you already have while you persue that thing you want.
The most simple and hard thing is to show and feel grateful for those things which you have which almost all of us can't do.
Be grateful because Gratitude works like a magnet which always attracts miracles, positivity, success, beautiful things. Be grateful because Gratitude helps you to see what's there insted of what is not. Be grateful because Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. Be grateful because Gratitude helps you to feel enough with what you have. Be grateful because Gratitude helps to achieve more and more. Be grateful because a heart full of gratitude helps you to see the beauty in everything. Be grateful because Gratitude helps you to live a successful and fulfilled life.
Be grateful for what you have now because nothing will be the same in a year. make Gratitude the habit if yours the see the hidden miracles which are waiting for only you.
The main key to get an abundant life is to stop wanting more and more , and start appreciating what you already have. If you can't appreciate what you have currently then what makes you think that you will be grateful for what you will achieve in future. You can't buy abundance in market by spending lots of money, Abundance comes from within so makes your heart capable to attract and reflect abundance in every step and habit of yours.
Thank you soo much my readers, commentators, upvoters, subscribers, sponsors for being here with me and giving me your precious time, support and love.
Currently if I'm not visiting your articles and replying to your comments then it doesn't mean that I don't love you or not interested in your articles, I do love all of you specially those with whom I'm really attached deeply and accustomed to interact every day actually I'm trying to focus more on my studies , I hope you will do understand. Stay safe and healthy.
`6.22pm__15.02.2022`
Become Your Own Best Friend
We can't deny this eternal truth that We all are social creatures so we can't live alone, we need someone to accompany us, to spend time with us. But in the process of creating new relationships and maintaining old relationships often we ignore our own self, we give most of our priorities to someone else unbeknownst to us.
When we give most of our attention, priorities, love to others as a natural reaction we gets some heartaches, some heartbreaks, some pains, some sufferings which is pretty normal to happen.
Over the years, I have had learned nothing but how to become my own best friend, how to love myself with the whole heart. No one knows yourself more than you do, so try to become your own best friend instead of trying to find someone else. You are the one who will be there for yourself so never ever neglect yourself just to please others in vain.
Though I'm too strong to break now, but I also have a hidden side which is already broken and entirely impossible to entwine again. There were uncountable nights when I just shed tears silently, I cried not because I was hurt or broken but just because I wanted to make myself more tired, more weak so that I could sleep peacefully.
Over the years, I realised I need to be my own best and bossom friend, I need to learn to comfort myself without the help of anyone else, I need to learn to overcome the pains which I was and am dealing with . It was not easy for me to accomplish all these things but the best thing is I made it though I had to sacrifice a lot of people and things and I earned the most precious things, Myself and My Self-Love, now I have nothing to sacrifice so I'm not afraid at all to give myself all those things which I truely deserve. It is a never ending process which I'm still learning.
Just like others, I too had a pile of dreams and goals which I wanted to achieve but now I no longer crave for any kind of earthily materials, now for me my inner peace is the new success and destination. There comes a time in almost everyone's life when you can feel physically, emotionally, mentally sick just because you think you are not good enough, you can't do anything, you can't achieve anything, no matter how much you try.
Currently some people are asking me that 'They used to be your best friends, most cherished people but now why are you so mean to them?? Why you have changed this much??' I believe many of us have already encountered with this types of questions just like me where you don't have any proper answer to give them. But now I know why I'm behaving like this to them__ Sometimes you need to show people their deserved place and behaviour so they can't treat you like a trash again. Whenever I give some bad behaviors to someone in return, it hurts me more than that person as I'm not accustomed to do it but sometimes you have to do something which you have never done not because you want to hurt them but because you want to save yourself from decaying and withering.
Now my first and last aim is to be happy. I just wanna be contented , not confused, not hurt, not harmed, not withered, not stressed just Happy and Peaceful. We always considers a smiley face as a happy personality , a happy soul but not all the things works like this because sometimes some people can be sad, depressed with a wide a smile. They don't smile Just because it makes them more beautiful, They smile Just because they want to avoid some unnecessary melodrama and conflicts. There are some tears in the heart that do not reach your eyes,so you need to smile whether you want or not.
One can see the brightest, the strongest, the fun loving, the funny side of mine but unfortunately or fortunately no one knows that I also gets depressed very often which I wanted to show to my closest ones but now I don't want to show the broken side of mine because when people sees the fragile side of yours, they tries their best to break you again and again.
I have changed a lot I can't even describe how much. I'm not that girl anymore which I used be. I'm not regretting for all those things and people which and whom I lost as in the process of loosing, sacrificing and compromising I found a real gem, Myself.
Some people says that I have become heartless, maybe they are right I have become heartless just because I'm using my heart-less. My heart has already altered with a hard and tough stone so naturally my heart stopped a long time ago, the heart throbs I'm witnessing and listening is just nothing but a mere echo of my decayed heart. Now, I'm nothing but a mere shadow of myself.
It seems I'm stuck between my past and present. It seems I'm stuck between all the choices I have made and the opportunities I was and am too afraid to take.
The worst trait of mine is, When I cry about one thing I always ends up crying about almost everything which are messed up in my life. The best trait of mine which eventually makes me proud about myself is that I cried, I screamed, I suffered at night silently but I never ever gave up on life,on happiness, on people who truely loves me.
I just wanna say Keep taking your time for yourself until you find who you are again. If you feel low now then remember we sometimes need to go down just to rise again with more energy, more enthusiasm, more brightness just like the sun. We all are destined to lose and be lost but make sure you still have yourself, you still have your love , your care for yourself. No matter what happens, No matter what the situation is just try to be yourself as **Being yourself is a Bliss itself.**
Thank you sooo much for being here with me and giving your precious time. Thank you my readers, commentators, upvoters, subscribers, sponsors, and Rusty for your support and love.
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The Myth of Echo and Narcissus
**"Echo and Narcissus"** is a tale of the many forms of love, Love for oneself and for others. The story of **"Echo and Narcissus"** is a marvelous one, belongs to both Greek and Roman mythology and this story is taken from **Ovid's Metamorphosis**, a Roman mythological epic poetry book from Augustan age which contains 15 books in total and this story belongs to **Book -III.**
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Echo, was a beautiful mountain nymph ( young and beautiful minor dieties in Greek mythology ) from mountain Citharon in Boetia. She was educated in music by the younger Muses and she had possessed unimaginable and indescribable beauty for this good reason she was chased by both Gods Apollo and Pan but she rejected them both.
Many of us know about Zeus(Jupiter) the great god of both Greeks and Romans who contributed his 100 in creation mortal lives. Zeus took a witty step by using Echo in a good way not for any romantic reason but as a wall to keep Hera (Juno), her wife in dark about his illicit relationships with others nymphs Where Zeus was making love with other nymphs, Echo would talk to Hera and keep her busy for hours, distracting the goddess from Zeus's indiscretion. After knowing, Echo's true intention Hera cursed Echo by making her unable to speak her mind, but she will only be able to repeat the last words spoken by others.
On the other hand, Narcissus was a handsome young man from the city of Thespia in Boetia, he was the son of water nymph Liriope and Cephissus. When Narcissus was a mere child, the blind seer Tiresias made a prophecy to Liriope that ***' Narcissus would love a very long life until He discover himself'(***the meaning of which could be interpreted in many ways).
Narcissus was so handsome that people used to compare him with Adonis,the god of beauty and desire. He was admired and courted by both male and female, mortal and immortal but he refused all of them.
But God had different plan for both Narcissus and Echo, they were predestined to meet but it would be not a good and positive meeting for either of them.
As always, whilst wandering through the deep wood Echo saw a young handsome man hunting a deer with his companions. Echo was astounded with the charms of his beauty and immediately fell in love with him and started to chase him quietly. The more she looked at him, the more she felt heartache and overflowing desire for him, she wanted to confess her immense love to Narcissus but the curse of Hera forced her not to do so.
As Narcissus was separated from his companions during hunt, so he called out **"Is Anyone There?"** He immediately heard the voice of Echo repeat the last word back to him from the deep woods. Amazed Narcissus answered to that voice by saying **"Come Here"** but by the bad influence of Hera's curse Echo was only able to only repeat **"Here"** but when he saw that nobody is coming towards him so he thought he is the owner of that repeated voice.
He shouted again by saying **"This way, We must come together"** , Echo considered this line as a direct proposal from her beloved and she happily repeated **"We must come together"** and throw her arms around him. Narcissus was amazed by this sudden occurrence so he exclaimed **"Hands off! May I die before you enjoy my body"** cursed Echo whispered in reply **"Enjoy my body",** by doing this she felt humiliated , ashamed and fled from that place.
There is a saying, ***"The more you hurt, the more your love grow***", to prove this saying as an eternal truth despite being humiliated by Narcissus Echo's love for him only grew and grew, her love was too powerful, too heavenly and this strong love eventually decayed her withered her. She decided to spend rest of her life alone longing for Narcissus, she gradually withered away until that was only left her lonely voice of Echo remain today.
In this story Echo was just one of numbers who was rejected by Narcissus, apart from her, Ameinias who had fallen in love with Narcissus and was spurned by Narcissus, he took this rejection as badly as posible and commited suicide in the threshold of Narcissus's home, killing himself with his own sword that had ironically been given to him by Narcissus.
Some people say that, It was none other than Ameinias who called down the curse of gods upon Narcissus on the other hand some people say it was one of the multitudes of rejected nymphs who prayed the love of Narcissus or some people say the creatures of the forest who loved Echo were devastated by her death so it could be one of the reason which fallen upon Narcissus.
Nemesis, the goddess of retribution heard the calls for revenge against Narcissus for brutally rejected many mortals and immortals. She decided to intervene by punishing Narcissus so she attracted Narcissus to a flowing spring full of crystal clear and calm waters, as he was tired of hunting, he took merely one second to take a break and quench her thirsty throat.
When he was going to drink, he started noticing the handsome reflection of him in the natural mirror for the very first time. His own Beauty astounded him, his surprise turned into fascination, his fascination turned into love and love turned into unimaginable obsession. He became unable to breath, to move, as he was captured by his own beauty and lead him to burn with desire for the person he saw in the water.
He tried his best to embrace, to love the tremulous figure unbeknownst to him that the figure is none other than his own reflection. By the fear of losing his beloved, he began to panick to touch the reflection,after waiting for hours , he started to freeze , trapped by his very own insolence and lead consigned to a fate that he had consigned many others with his merciless rejection.
Narcissus died of sorrow by the clear stream, admiring his own reflection, totally unable to move despite the pleadings of the Naiads( Water Nymphs) and Drayads( Tree or Wood nymphs) who had observed Narcissus waiting sway, as they too once were in love with him so they built a funeral pyre for him but unfortunately or fortunately when they came to place the body of the handsome Narcissus upon it, they could not find it as all that was left was a flower only with white petals and a yellow core , `the Narcissus flower.`
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An another version of the death of Narcissus tells that he died because he felt the pain of the unrequited love that he had for his own reflection and he realised the sufferings, the longings that he had caused to so many mortals and immortals. Some people believe that,even now in the underworld Narcissus still looks at his beautiful reflection in the waters of Hades.
In this tragic story both Echo and Narcissus chose death or rather nothingness after being heart broken. Echo lost her will to live after being rejected by someone whom she dearly and purely loved while Narcissus chose to abandon his life after realising that he was unable to love anyone else except himself.
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The myth of Narcissus and Echo is about a selfish boy who loved his own image than anyone else on the other side this myth is about a lonely boy who had the inability to love anyone else.
The transformation stories of both Echo and Narcissus could be interpreted as a warning that the invisible line between Love and Obsession is often smaller than we think and Both unrequited & too much self-obsession is dangerous.
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In my point of view, Narcissus was not that brutal which we think as he just wanted to enjoy his life by hunting and wandering in woods insted of pushing himself in any relationship. You can tell your own opinion about it.
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Mythologies doesn't only record or glorify a culture's history just like Iliad or Oddyssey did, but there are lots of mythologies that gives us lots of life lessons too. The myth of Echo and Narcissus is not only gives us pleasure but also also serve as teaching tools too, just like__
**The first thing I learned from this story is, to be admonish the trap of self-adoration. Don't Think that you're perfect and there is no one like you. Self-love is important but too much self-obsession is very hazardous and destructive.**
**If someone reject you then you don't need to hurt yourself as well as that person who rejected you. Because you can get the love of your life for the second time but once you ruin your life as well as that person's life who rejected you, you can't get the same life for twice.**
**If you don't like someone then instead of spurning them brutally, take your time and tell your good intentions, the reasons why you don't love back that person peacefully.**
**We all have the innate right to choose our life partner so If someone is telling you NO or rejecting you then you need to respect that person's decision whom you love and take her/his NO as No, you should not curse that person for rejecting you. If someone rejecting your love then it does not mean he/she is humiliating you, insulting you, she/he is telling their choice. If someone is rejecting you then it does not mean there is no one who is meant for you. Don't give up on your life just like Echo, because there are lots of people who truely loves you, cares for you, find them and love them back.**
**Prepare yourself as a strong person who would easily bare any kind of rejection. Our life is not a fairy tale, so we will get endless rejection from the world so it is better to make ourselves as a strong person instead of a weak person who curse everyone. Don't be like Ameinias who could not take rejection in a good way and gave up his life.**
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You Are Flawlessly Unique
Often we make ourselves sad and inferior by making numerous void comparisons between us and others. We are the one who are knocking ourselves down and making a prisoner of our pernicious thoughts.
We know that We all are differently , We have different talents, passions, capabilities but even after this We never fails to throw ourselves in the puddles of false comparisons. We are continuously running towards 'Perfection' without knowing about it as we forgot that 'Perfection' is nothing but a mirage _The more we run towards it, The more we suffer with agony. We need to give ourselves acceptance not because we need it but because we deserves it. We need to remember that_____
The World Is Grateful To Have You
Almost all of us have made fun of ourselves at least once maybe in disguise___ Almost all of us have denied that we too matters. Actually we are entangled in a web of lies in such a way that even the truth seems to be a transparent lie.
We have the idea about our capabilities but for the sake of others, just to please others We do not even hesitate to deny our own existence. We thinks that *' I'm totally useless, I can't accomplish anything, for all I'm nothing but a burden'.* But we need to realize that Nothing happens without a proper reason So if you are here then there must be a difinite reason behind your existence, there is a pre-planned purpose for you which you have to fulfill Maybe that certain reason or purpose is hidden now. So you need to try to find that secret purpose of yours , Instead of cursing yourself just remember that The whole world is grateful for having you. You're precious and capable enough to make a contribution for yourself as well as for the world.
Life Is Not Always Easy But Don't Give Up
Your life is not as sweet as your favourite candy. Your life is not as lovable as your parents. Your life is not as smooth as butter. Your life is not as soft as cotton___But Your Life is as poisonous as your hidden enemy.
So whenever you feel your life is giving you hard times, you are not capable to tackle all these tests then take a long breath and prepare yourself for a great war. You're a great fighter, you just need to learn how to play with your sword.
There are endless ebbs and flows in our life, So if it seems that you're drowning now then you must learn how to surf on those huge tides not to give up. Those people who has the courage to fight against all the obstacles, hardships, ups and downs No can defeat then easily. You are one of those persons So try to create Your own golden unforgettable history instead of giving up. Make yourself so strong that you can fight and conquer against all your fears and the opinions of others.
Everyone Has A Reason For Being Here
As I already said that, the world is grateful for having you So it's obvious that each and everyone has a fixed role to perform.
Some people have too many big dreams and Some people have small dreams but the common and main thing is We all have a certain role to perform, a certain reason for being here.
So whenever you feel You're nothing, You have nothing to fulfill just close your eyes try to unearth your concealed purposes. Don't regret, Don't feel slandered for yourself. You're more precious than you think and seem.
Your Journey Is Special
Each and everyone has a special and certain dream to fulfill So casually it is normal that we need to take different paths for our destination. So one should not blame or curse oneself for taking and walking on different path. By taking and walking on different path doesn't make you worthless , there is no valid reason to feel unworthy, inferior than others. Just believe on yourself and your journey, You will surely reach your own destination one day.
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Lessons From The 'Sky'
The amazing and wide canvas of nature full of beauties and mysteries, refers to everything which is above the surface of our mother earth and under the mighty sun. We are not alone under the sun, there are billions of glittering stars, twinkling planets, shining sun, flicking moon who are observing us, watching us , encouraging us to go beyond our expectations and imaginations.
When I was just a mere kid, I used to stare the mighty sky specially the mysterious starry sky out of inquisitiveness and fascination but now when it seems that I'm losing my interest for everything even for myself, in this crucial time the charms and conundrum of endless sky is the only thing which is motivates me to live my life again.
The sky is not only satisfying us with it's desirability and elegance but also provides unremitting worthy lessons. Our life is too similar to the wide sky where the vastation of sky symbolises our life and those cottony fluffy clouds are like our memories, floating here and there. Every moment which I spend talking and gazing at the kinky sky, it astounds me each and everytime with it's daintiness, comeliness and shoreless lessons.
**🌼 We Are Not Alone In The Universe**
The celestial and humane sky has fascicle gifts hidden with it, We just need to find out those clandestine treasures. We are not alone in this vast universe, there are incalculable entity which are embellishing the sky and making it more presentable, more gorgeous.
Just like those biggest yet tinniest thing, Allah, the almighty has clasped each and everyone with their loved and cherished one. There love , their support, their encouragement leads us towards our destination, helps us to acquire more and more.
So whenever you feel that you are totally alone... Whenever you feel there is no one to feel you, to hear you, to love you, to hear you, then don't rush Just take a break for a moment and recall about that person and memories which once made you loved, cared, who brought smile on your face.
**🌼 Dealing With Positive And Negetive Situation**
Lots of events happens in the sky gradually. We see and feel the mesmerizing sunrises, magnificent sunsets, soul-soothing rain, sensational rainbows and blazing sun and the same time there are also presents horrific occurrence like thunderstorms, lightening , hailstorms etc. Just like this each and everyone's life is a admixture of melancholy, complacency, postive and negetive situations, no matter how much we try we can't take aside our despondent and negetive ambience and assimilate prosperous & auspicious ambience with the metamerism and perdurable circumstances.
We will witness many incidents that brings peace and contentment which will help us to live & love our life to the fullest and at the same time, we will also endure lots of negetive and appaling phenomenon in our life. They are able to tear us into pieces and make us fragile. We all have the courage hidden within us which helps us to deal with both negetive and positive situations smoothly, we just need to find out them and use them properly.
🌼 Understanding The Flow Of Life
In this temporary world, nothing is permanent, every thing must have to lose it's own existence oneday it does not matter whether one want or not.
We can't see and enjoy the same appearance of sky again and again for eternal, there will be surely somedays where we could watch a crystal clear bluish and triumphant sky which will engulf our soul with complacency, bliss, energy and on the other hand there will be some days when we could see the gloomy and overcast sky with lots of thunderstorms So when you are going through from stormy, gloomy, rainy days Please don't forget to be grateful for those sunny, shiny, fulgent days which you already witnessed in your past. Don't regret or make complaints over those things that makes you sad and cry.
Happiness comes into waves , if you are experiencing bad days now then one day this unwanted curves will be alter with your wishes ones. Our Almighty has already planned our life, actually we are living a predestined life where your worries , the habit of overthinking can't change your anything but they can ruin your peace. So try to understand the ceaseless flow of your life and try to be as strong as rock.
🌼 Fall, If You Want To Fly
We all have engraved some secret wish and goals in the diary of our heart but out of fear We don't let them flow or come out. We need to discern that until we take the risk, until we show our courage by stepping our of our comfort zone We can not know our power and capabilities.
We are the ones who are making numerous unbreakable fences of our own negetive thoughts and fears. Try to embrace your two hidden wings and fly without the fear of falling. Don't let the fear of yours control you and absorb the energy & competency you have.
Your hardships, your troubles are not trying to stop you from flying rather these things are helping you to prepare yourself to fly high.
Don't let your fear of failures burry your dreams.
**Sometimes you need to fall before learn how to fly high. Just remember If you never try then you will never know who you really are. If You are afraid to be fall again_ then, You are afraid to be rise again...**
**Spread your wings, learn how to FLY_______ And, Do everything to touch the SKY.**
🌼 The End Is The Beginning
"The End" is actually an illusion as there is no such thing like this in real. There is another world beyond the "END" So when you find you can't do anything now, everything is over then please take a break for a while not for eternal and stand up again, begin your unfinished journey anew with more courage , more strength towards that marvelous world which is situated on the other side of the horizon which is hidden from human eye.
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5.49pm__08.02.2022
A Life Full Of Meaning
Are you leaving a meaningful life? Maybe Yes or Maybe No, but for me I was not living a meaningful life until I decided to change some of my habits. But first of all, we need to know ***What does it mean to have a Meaningful life?***
Though each of us had a different perspective about everything so I'm not delving deep into this topic insted I would love to share my own perspective.
So according to me, When one feels contented and amenities with one's life and at the same time others too feel satisfied with that person's deeds, then it is may be a meaningful life. I know that we are not capable of making each and everyone happy or make them feel satisfied with our every deeds but when most people will feel contentment through our work that is the time when a meaningful life is formed. If we don't have a meaningful life then we can surely make a meaningful life by following some steps.
So allow me to enlist some of those steps__
1.Loving Others
'Love' is the most powerful and expensive thing in the world which many of us can't hold or share with others. Without it our whole world would be heartless full of violance.
In a world where many of us are talking about wars, violance, deaths, murders , Be a dissent who is willing to change the world with the most effective and efficient weapon named, 'Love'.
The greatest thing one can do is to help someone know that they are not unworthy instead they are loved and at the same time they are capable of loving others too.
Try to be differ from others who can see good in all things and people. Don't be so selfish as We shine by lifting others , by loving others. Take your time to make others loved along with yourself.
Whenever you see yourself breaking up, tearing into pieces Try to scatter love and kindness for yourself and for others , Doing so may not be able to make you feel better like before but it will help others not to tear into pieces.
Love others as much as possible, don't wait for the outcome, I'm assuring that you will never feel regrretment by loving others. Don't blame yourself if someone betray you, if someone doesn't value your love then it is not your fault as their behavior reflects their charecter and your behaviour reflects your charecter.
2.Finding Passion
Often we waste most of our time comparing our self with others, it shows our futility to find our passion. Often we waste most of our time regretting for not having a great passion like others but the truth is we are the one who is continuously trying to burry our passion.
We need to keep in mind that we can't find our hidden passion by just wishing, by just looking at others and making false comparisons.
Don't waste your time in vain insted work hard, try again and again with sufference and then you will find your passion and when you find it then just cherish it with your whole heart instead making endless comparisons.
3.Living In The Moment
Often we does the same mistake over and over by mourning about our unchangeable past and worrying about our upcoming future , In consequence of We waste our beautiful and fruitful present.
We need to realize, Our worries can't take away tomorrow's hardships and yesterday's deeds but it is capable of snatching away today's peace and happiness.
Whatever is going to happen in our future, will surely take place No matter whether we worry or not. You can't change your mistakes which you made in your past and can't alter what is going to happen in future but you can control the way you are responding towards your obstacles, towards what is happening.
Your worries can make you feel exhausted and broken so break the chains of worries before it breaks you. Don't chase your future and don't live your past, try to love and live your present. Today, you have the opportunity go build the future you want so just go for it and use this golden chance.
4.Giving Back To The Universe
We all have heard that, **"Sharing is Caring',** I firmly believe in this saying.
Some of us think that, if we gather more and more then obviously it will surely make us happy but unfortunately or Fortunately our lives do not work like this. `The more we give, the more se share The more we earn, the more we get.`
You don't need to be super rich for sharing, you can still make a participation by sharing a little. Your little act of kindness, your little act of sharing can turn one's gloomy life into a beautiful and glowing one.
5.Experiencing New Things
It is really bothersome to spend our life in the same way again and again. That is why we need to experience new things, it will not only help us to enjoy our life to the fullest but also help us to gain some afresh discretion and earn sagacity.
Satisfy your hungry soul and eyes by wandering, by tasting new things. So, Try to make a habit of tasting new things and try to step out from your favourite and cozy comfort zone. Experience your life, experience new things to the utmost.
Some journey are meant for you, you just need to be fearless and accept that predestined purposes. Try to quench your thirsty eyes, by wandering and making experience each day anew.
6.Making A Difference
We all have some dreams, some aims which we have hid in the deepest corner of our heart for the fear of other's opinions, judgmental words. We are murdering our own self, just because we are different from someone else.
Keep in mind that the word, "SAME" is really tiresome. So dare to be different. One can't create history by copying others, by living the same life. One must need to be different to create a History. Be the puzzle which no one can't solve easily.
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Are you betraying Yourself??
Are you betraying Yourself?? Have any of us asked this question to ourselves??? I guess many of us did but I have never asked this question to myself until today which is one of my biggest mistake I have ever committed but there is a saying, **"It is never too late to learn".** So today, please ask yourself **Am I betraying myself??**
But,,, how do we know we are deceiving ourselves?? Well, let me explain about it. Here I will be sharing some points, depending on my own perspective, maybe your perspective is different so please bare with me.
**✨Not Asking For Help When You Need Or Want It**
We are the social creatures, we can't live alone just like this we can't accomplish anything alone to do. We need other's help but sometimes when we think of asking someone for help, We feel inferior, ashamed, disgraced. This idea of ours is completely wrong and meaningless.
We need to keep in mind that when we ask someone for help, None of us become inferior as it is our common human instinct.
**Asking for help from someone does not reveal our weaknesses,** Actually__ **It is the proof of our aliveness. It is the proof of momentum. It is the proof that we are growing. It is the proof that We are learning. So, never be ashamed to ask for help.**
We are not blessed with any kind of super power So don't brag that you can handle everything, you can deal with everything, you can achieve everything all alone. We must remember that At some point in our life, we have to take help from someone, no matter how tiny their participation is.
✨Saying "YES" To The Things You Don't Want To Do
How can I forget this which made me the harsh person I'm today? The numbers of times I have done this particular thing is implausible to count. I have brutally murdered myself many times before, just in the hope of making people happy in vain.
Unfortunately or Fortunately, I did not succeed in my work but I found out the most precious thing, My Soul, before it is completely destroyed and decayed.
I have said "YES" to many things for uncountable times just because I did not and could not want to hurt others but I did not realize this selfish act of mine is killing me inside.
Luckily, I was able to free myself from those firm clutches. I can't say, that process was easy for me to perform because it was truely not. I had to going through a lot, I had to fight a lot silently to get this done but at the end of that silent battle I got the most precious thing "Myself".
So please think twice before saying "YES" to anyone. If you think your one "YES" is capable of destroying you then no matter what happen don't utter "YES" at all. Don't be so harsh on yourself. You too have feelings. You too have a mortal and fragile heart. Try to little kinder to yourself.
✨Not Allowing Yourself To Take A Break
We need to heed that we are human, not machines, made of flesh and blood. We may feel tired, exhausted, It is pretty normal but what is not normal is Not to allow yourself to take a break when you need it the most.
Often we become so tough and harsh on ourselves that we don't even consider that we need a little break. "Rest" or "Break" plays an important role in our daily lives as it helps us to replenish our lost spirit and energy again, We must remember that we can't serve anyone even ourself from an empty vessel.
Allow yourself to take a break___ **Give yourself what you deserve___** `Respect your Body, Mind, Heart and Soul, the world can wait for your comeback. There is a perfect time for everything, don't get so much caught up in your work that you forget to reward yourself with a needed break.`
**✨Keeping Quiet Because You Don't Want A Confrontation**
This is one of my worst habit which I used to cherish and water in my daily basis but unbeknownst to me , People contemplated this habit of mine as my weakness, as my fault, They deemed that I'm wrong each and everytime that is why I'm not making any commotion, I'm accepting their each and every judgmental & false opinion as I'm the one who is guilty though I was not in real.
After a millions moon passed, I tried to establish my place but even after this I did nothing but help them to change their fancies about myself and then they all started to blame me, to hate me to their fullest with their whole heart. Now tell me `Was it my fault to unveil their colorable fancies?`
I guess NO as it is my innate right to raise my voice against those forces which continuously trying to hurt me, wither me. I just wanna say that ______ ***No matter what happens, No matter how difficult the situation is, No matter what people think about it, Don't fear to raise your voice in order to save you.***
✨Hiding How You Feel
Often we try our best to hide our emotions and If our emotions are sad then it is more difficult to show because we knows that no one will value our emotions instead they will mock us at our situation, they will make fun of ourselves.
But even after this, we should not hide our feelings from those people we care about, if we continue to hide & burry our feelings for a long period then at the end of the day, It will hurt only us.
There is nothing in the world but our unexpressed feelings that cause deep wounds in our heart which is incurable. Our feelings does not make us weak or fragile but it is the immense and tranquil proof of our aliveness, it is the proof of our strength So never ever try to hide your feelings.
We try to hide our feelings but we forgot that our eyes speak too. But we also need to remember that we must not reveal all our feelings and in contrary don't hide all your feelings. Just try to balance the ewer of your emotions. **The word "TOO" is very hazardous.**
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I'm not good at expressing my thoughts but k just wanna say that___ Please take yours sincerely & seriously, Don't be so harsh on yourself,. Respect your heart and soul as well as your body,. If you need help them please go for it without any hesitation.
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Choose Your Thoughts Wisely
"Thoughts" are the unspoken words of heart and mind. What we feel it comes in our mind in the vague shape of thoughts. So basically we can say our untold feelings is our thoughts and these thoughts leads us to speak.
We have & need to choose our feelings wisely, I mean to say we have to embrace our positive & good feelings and throw away our negetive & worst feelings with which we are hurting our own selves and this etarnal process will continue I'm our future too.
Our thoughts can make us, our thoughts can break us too. Our thoughts can motivate us, our thoughts can demotivate us too. Our thoughts can give us strength, our thoughts can diminish our strength too. Now it's up to you which one to choose. But think twice before accepting anything,it will protect you from any kind of danger in the Future.
According to a research, Each and every human being have almost 6,000 thoughts per day. Most of our thoughts which comes into our mind are negetive, We all know that we can't control over our thoughts and mind completely but We can choose them carefully and wisely. We all have possessed this super power to choose our thoughts, we just need to use it properly.
First of all , We should have to separate all our thoughts like a good purifier because our negetive and worst thoughts can make us mentally paralysed, can make us physically & mentally sick just like dirty water which makes us physically ill.
Your thoughts are the most powerful weapons of yours, with the help of this weapon you can make one's life miserable and at the same time, you can make one's life beautiful, now choice is yours but remember your thoughts are the reflection of your inner soul.
Change the bad & the negetive thoughts of yours and you will be able to change the whole world. Choose your Thoughts before becoming your Words. Choose your Words before becoming your Action. Choose your Action before becoming your Habit. Choose your Habit before becoming your Charecter.
Try to be little bit careful with your words and thoughts Because once they are said They can't be forgotten.
So train your kind to be braver , stronger than anything else. Don't let negetive things control you, your good thoughts. The negetive people will force you to think, to do bad things but you're the one who knows what your heart wants, what should you do for creating a happy world for everyone along with yourself.
Choose your thoughts carefully and wisely, and let your good thoughts, good intentions create golden shinning history.
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I want to stop my dancing fingers here as I'm dealing with headache since yesterday I don't know what is the real reason behind this unexpected and unwanted headache but I need some rest and some care in order to gain good health again. I'm sorry if I'm taking lots of times, I hope you all will understand my situation.
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Things to Remember for a healthy mind
Today, What a enchanting evening to welcome another new month , but sadly I can't upload the marvelous and jovial scenario of today's sunset as my poor network connection is giving me an immense headache. Today is really a beautiful and memorable day for me as one my best Sis complete her 500+ views in Read.Cash, I am talking about none other than sis @Ellen-he , this news really made me glad and joyful, so I just want the best for her and another good news is I found my long lost twin sister @LeticiaFelize ( actually ours thoughts matches almost every time) all credit goes to read.cash for this two wonderful gifts. (Sorry for tagging you without your permission 😅).
Let's start today's topic___
Nowdays we are so busy making useless and endless comparison between our own selves and others. We are trying to measure our talents and passions with others in vain though we know that we all are different and special in our own way, so there is no valid point to make comparisons between ourselves. Today, I just want to share some thoughts which I always says to myself. You have another chance to create history.
Tommorow is a new day
**Tonight, just like the bright and glowing sun sets, try to put your troubles, your worries down and try to count your blessings which you have got all day long, try to remind yourself those good deeds which you have done today.**
**It's okay not to achieve all goals, aims which you wanted to achieve, Tommorow is another new golden chance, another new day to work for your goals.**
**It's okay to make mistakes as most of us does the same, so don't curse yourself for those things which you did not do today as you wanted to do, tommorow will be better.**
**It's okay all you did was survive, tommorow will be your day with no mistakes and regret if you wish.**
It's okay if today was not your favourite day as our life always offers us a brand new chance which is called "Tomorrow".
What happened today just forget about it but not the lesson you learned. The Sun will rise again for you. So don't let the bad days force you to feel and think that you have owned a bad life. Just work hard and try to make your life better little by little without regretting for once.
**You are Strong**
**There are so many moments in our lives that seems to have come to destroy us, our whole life completely but we need to realize that those worst and destructive moments are the right time to show and use our inner strength and braveness we have been hiding for years.**
**You're stronger than you think or seem so never underestimate the power which lies within you. Remember that there is something hidden within you which is greater and mightier than any obstacles.**
**We must realize that Strength is not about how you handle yourself before you break, it is all about how much you can endure after you have been totally broken and you have no other way to rescue your decaying soul, withering heart.**
You are Enough
**There are so many people who will come to you and try to make you feel weak, fragile, broken but you knows the truth that how much strong you are. If you continue to worry, feel insecure about your existence then you are the one who is giving the permission to belittle and insult yourself.**
**Remember that, your worth, your value doesn't decrease based on someone else's inability to see and feel your worth. You should remember, you're enough , you're millions times enough.**
**I wish you never see yourself as unworthy and useless because you could not become what someone else wanted you to be. Try to recognize your worth and show them what you can do who are doubting you.**
**If a person you love, adore make you force to question again and again if** ****'You are Enough or Not'**** **then just ignore them and know that They are the one who are not enough.**
**You are Capable of Everything**
I know we all have lots of dreams and aims in our heart which we badly want to achieve but we must accept that we can't achieve, we can't fulfill all our dreams and desires not because we are not capable but because it is the law of nature,we have to accept this if we want a happy life to live.
If you can't achive some of your goals then it does not mean that you are a born-failure , there is nothing which you can do. This is just a lie which you are embracing for many long years in vein. If you fail then it doesn't not mean that you will never be able to taste the sweet Victory and you will continuously fail. You just need to admit that you are so capable of many wonderful and great things, just try to find out your capabilities and then cherish them.
You are Important
Sometimes we thinks that we are not that important like others, we are totally useless, but is not right. This world needs you that is why you're here, loving, living, breathing and fighting, We all have some predestined purposes to fulfil, so you too have some purposes to perform. Try to give all your attention on your work, on your passion, on yourself instead of other's unimportant opinions and judgments.
You don't have any idea how good , how important you are but others can see your importance, your worthiness just like those butterflies who don't know the winsome beauty,jovial colors of their songs but the human eyes know how beautiful it is.
`Don't belittle yourself, Don't bully yourself, Don't torture yourself by asking again and again that___ "Am I worthy?" "Am I Enough?" "Am I Capable?"`
You are capable of everything, you just need to admit it.
Closing thoughts :—
I hope you all are having a fit body with a grateful mind.
Thank you sooo much for reading my article and giving me your precious time. Thank you Soo much my readers, commentators, upvoters, subscribers, sponsors and Rusty for believing on me.
7.31pm__01.02.2022. Lead image source :— Unsplash.com
Be kind to unkind people too
Our elder ones always give us an advice to be kind with everyone. It is one of the most precious advice we have ever got from our elders, right? And why precious? Because with our kindness we can do anything, we can change the world in a positive way, we can turn a bad person into a good one and we can do many more effective yet positive things. But have we ever wondered to be kind with unkind people too? If you have not then don't worry as we all have never thought I guess including myself.
We love to judge others and sometimes to be judged too by others for everything, we start blaming others for their unwanted and unexpected behavior.
Have we ever thought why they are like that?? Why they are behaving so badly? Never , we have never wondered about it. There is a hidden reason behind everything. If you can't find that reason then you shouldn't talk to them badly either because our bad behavior will work like a fuel which would encourage them to become more fearful, more brutal, kore bad person.
Some people says **'Treat People the way the treat you'.** Maybe they are right but I'm totally against of this rule. Just think__ `Can you put out the fire with the help of fire??......` absolutely not. Then how can you change a bad and unkind behaviors of others by treating them in the same way, just think about it. Trader everyone specially the unkind people much better than they treat you. If a person's bad behaviors leads you to do the same then how can you say that you're better than them???
You don't have to listen to their every word, in the same way you don't need to answer them back in their own tone. If some person disrespect you, talk to them with respect, this simple act of yours can change a person's perspective for lifetime.
Always try to be that person who struggled yet still inspires their worst enemies. always try to be a little kinder than someone needs.
In a world where so many are trying to hurt others ,Be the one who can comfort them.
Be kind wherever you go because some strangers somewhere still remembers you just because you were kind , nice and polite to them.
Try to treat each and every people with kindness because behind every happy and smiley face is a untold and unwanted stories that could use more love, more kindness.
I know you're getting and dealing with lots of hurtful words, disgrace and negetivities but make sure that you are not returning any of these to anyone.
Have you heard that___ `speaking kindly to plants and animals helps them to grow beautifully and wonderfully then imagine What speaking to Humans can do in actual.`
One can never know from what someone is going through so don't make the false judgment about others. Every single person you meet is fighting their own battle silently you know nothing about them. But remember, in the process of being kind to others Don't forget to be kind to your own self.
It is true There is never a better time to show your kindness, to console someone. Every moment is the perfect time to create an unbreakable, eternal bond of love and kindness for yourself as well as others which can't be broken by the unkind words and behaviors of others.
If you can't be kind to someone then you can maintain your quietness instead of hurting others with your unkind attitude and words.
Be kind to yourself first then share this magic with the whole world coz if you have no pity,no love for yourself then how can you share with others? We can't share what we don't have. So don't forget to be kind with others...
Closing thoughts:-.
This is the last day of January and naturally tomorrow we will enjoy another new month, the month of love.. In this upcoming special month don't forget to tell your wish and show your love to that special person who is living in your heart. Confess your love before getting to late. All the best to all of you.
I hope you're having a great day with a fit body and cheerful mind.
Thank you sooo much for giving me your precious time and reading my article. Thank you Soo much for showing your love and support as always. Thank you my readers, commentators, upvoters, subscribers, sponsors and Rusty for being here with me.
Thank you sooo much @Tomi-Ajax for believing on me and giving your generous soponsership. I'm really grateful towards you.
`6.58pm_31.01.2022 Lead Image source:—https://unsplash.com/photos/_PDPRax9dm8`
A Grateful Heart...
... is satisfied with what it has
We all have some dreams, desires which we have engraved in the diary of our heart and mind. It is really necessary to have some desires because these are the things which pushes us to wake up every single day and work hard for achieving that thing.
But the most important thing is__ `one need to feel satisfied with what they have while working for what they want`. Often we think those people are really lucky, blessed and happy who have everything in their life but what we think is not always true.
**We need to realize happiness is not about having all the things which we want and always wanted to achieve, it is about enjoying and appreciating all you have right now. Look around you and try to appreciate, enjoy what you have because nothing will be the same for always. Just think if you are not thankful for what you have achieved in your past, what you are achieving in your present then what makes you think that you would be happy with what you will achieve in your future.**
***If you have enough clothes to wear, enough foods to eat, a house to live and sleep then what is stopping you from being content with your life???*** The answer is your Excessive Greed and never ending wants. You should feel grateful because if you have these things which I have mentioned then you are already richer and happier than many other people who have nothing.
Learn to appreciate what you already have and you will have uncountable things to be content about. If you start to look what you don't have in your life then you will never have enough.
There is a saying, **"Don't let your ice cream melt while counting someone else's sprinkles."**
The grass is always greener on the other side, but you knows the truth about it, so be happy with your current situation and work hard for your future. There are lots of people who are happy with less than what you have. Enjoy and appreciate everything what you have before getting too late.
...is joyful to experience another new day
A lot of times we don't get what we want, a lot of times what we think does not happen and it is pretty normal to all of us. It is not that everyday should be equally good and blessed. If everyday were equally good and great then we would be forced to suffer from a monotonous and irksome life.
It is not possible for us to win everyday and on the contrary it is totally impossible for us to lose everyday. Our life is a harmonize of continuous Victory and Defeat. If you fail to achieve something then don't lose your hope, confidence or will, don't feel worthless as every failure is a great lesson, every fiasco has some energy within it So try to imbibe that energy and work hard for your dream again and again.
Not everyday will be the same, just because you have failed today doesn't mean that you will fail tomorrow too. Everyday is a new opportunity to create a history So instead of regretting over your failures, over your mistakes, wasting your time continuously, Embrace each and everyday with a joyful and with a beating heart which always crave for success.
...sees beauty in everything
Beauty is an abstract thing and it lies everywhere but after this we are often unable to see & find beauty in everything. Actually we already have created an invisible standard of beauty with which we are accustomed to measure the beauty of all. Everyone and everything has their own kind of beauty but not all of us can see it with our bare and blindfolded eyes that is why we need to open the eyes of our heart which never betray us. We should make our heart the most beautiful thing which can see the real beauty and hidden beauty.
There is a different kind of beauty in everything & everyone but it is up to us which one we will choose 'the invisible ugliness or visible beauty.' Try to use your heart as much as possible to see everything instead of using your two mortal eyes because one can clearly see with the eyes of their heart . Our heart never can betray us but our mortal eyes can. In this world no one is ugly, everyone & everything is beautiful but in different ways, we need realize this thing. The beauty which we want to find in someone's face will surely change and decay over time but the beauty which your heart and soul carries will never decay or fade away.
Closing thoughts:—
What a new opportunity we got to enjoy and feel the beauty of another new day with lots of enthusiasm. Are you enjoying your day to the fullest? Are you appreciating yourself, what you have? Are you content with your life?? Let me know about it...
Today is the last Sunday of this month, so enjoy as much as possible because you will never get the same day again for twice.
Thank you sooo much for giving me your endless support and love. Thank you sooo much my readers, commentators, upvoters, subscribers, sponsors and Rusty for being here with me and showing your love.
`30.01.2022__6.15pm` `All pictures belongs to Me`
Vision__Agony__Triumph
Before delving into today's topic, allow me to remind you What is Vision first. I know you all are familiar with this term but I want to call up this term in your mind again.
What is Vision? The ability to think about or plan the future with great imagination and intelligence (Oxford Dictionary)
Vision
We all have engraved some untold stories, dreams which we want to make in real and achieve , it is quite normal instinct for human beings. Often we make confusion between Dreams and Vision due to our vague concept about these two. We consider these two particular things are same but somehow has two different names, which is surely not. These two are not only different by their name but also by their functions and definition too. Though they are completely different from each other yet they shares an invisible connection between them.
Dreams are nothing but drift of our imagination on the contrary Visions are scripted efforts to effect change. On the other side, Visions are future based picture which one want to create in real and it gives the inspiration to the beholder(according to Google). It is surely right though.
Our Visions guides us towards our dreams using a proper and correct way just like those steering which guides a ship to guide in a right direction.
Many times despite working hard we failed to achieve those which we wanted, this happens not because we lack of talent, competence, we have not owned our inner esprit or capability but because we do not make any proper strategy or follow any correct plan. We just blindly follow others to reach our goals. Just think even after having your eyes if you walk, do every house chores blindfolded then Can you do any work properly?? The answer is big no, we can't. Just like this if you want to achieve your goals without doing any hardwork, without making any strategy, without planing then you will not be able to achieve anything and naturally we will fail. Before proceeding erratically towards your dreams___ Take your time. Make plans for your aim. Make proper strategy for your goal. Don't compare yourself with others. Don't rush, don't stress, just go ahead towards your dreams using your hardwork and crystal clear vision.
Your vision is born from within you, you just need to give all your priority, attention towards it. Without "Vision" one can't achieve anything but at the same we must have to remember that We should not rush towards perfection instead of this we need to rush towards our progress because at the end of the day it matters the most.
**Agony**
The step towards one's Goal is to endure the pains of hardships and obstacles. If one can set a goal and want to achieve that goal then one must have to endure some hardships, face some obstacles, overcome some pains.
Our life is not that beautiful, is not sweet like candy ,is not full of satiety and contentment like our Dream Realm where we can earn anything at anytime. Our life is very different from Dream Realm where one must taste the bitter truth, hardships,anguish, longings.
So if you want to acquire something then you need to give up all your fears first coz the path to achieve something is very harsh and full of sharp thorns. You have to walk through this path bear foot in order achieve your goals.
You need to take some break sometimes and think that ***Are you making your present that way, you want to see your Future??***
One need to understand that even if he/she did not fulfill their goals today then it's still possible to achieve it tomorrow. If you are tired then learn to take rest not to quit.
Agony, hardships ,obstacles are the stepping stone of a successful future. Don't fear of these things.
Great things never come from your comfort zones, so leave your comfort zone. One have to water their dream like future with their hardwork, with their sleepless nights.
**"The difference between 'Try' and 'Triumph' is just little 'Umph'."__Marvin Philips**
**Triumph**
If you can make a strategy, if you can bear all the pains given by your tough life and reality, if you can overcome all the hurdles then you're the only one lawful succession of success. No one can succeed without hardworking, without overcoming hardships. You can't make your life Beautiful in a sudden, your life gets better by constant change.
Just remember, The bigger the goal, the bigger the trouble. If you want to taste the sweet and juicy fruit of your success then you must have to work hard, overcome your pains and agonies. Miracles really happen but to those who can work for it and fight it.
Work hard. Put all your worries and fears aside. Use your clear vision like torch and go ahead.
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Thank you sooo much for being here with me. Thank you for giving me your precious time. Thank you my readers, commentators, upvoters, subscribers, sponsors, and Rusty.
Wishing you a great evening...
Irene (6.06pm__28.01.2022). PS :— Pixabay.com & Unsplash.com
My life is like a Quiescent Sea
It has been pouring cat and dogs since yesterday and it seems that this bad weather symbolizes my inner side and is forcing me to recall all the worst things which happened earlier which I don't want to do.
***My life is like a silent sea*** , tranquil, placid, unruffled from outside but lots of endless currents of emotion is shaking my world each and every moment which I can't control.
**I'm becoming a whole new person each day. Sometimes it happens with my will and sometimes it happens without my will. There were lots of "Sorry" rather than "Thank You" in my dictionary but now I'm trying to replace that unwanted dictionary of mine with a new one where I want to see just one word "Self-Love".**
Back then, I was afraid of being forgotten, of being left behind. I wanted to be seen, heard, cared, loved by someone but no matter how much you try there are some people who could hear you speak a billions words for a billions time and still don't understand you and on the contrary there are some people who will understand you without saying a word, they can understand your longings, your sufferings through your silence, I wanted to find out this type of person but now I want to be that person.
After suffering a lot, I realized that some of my dear ones are polluting my soul, poisoning my heart unbeknownst to me so it is better to tear myself apart from everything which are causing me unremitting heartaches and wounds but believe me it was not as easy as I thought. It took lot of courage, lot of time to cut myself off from them but I ended up with a bunch of satisfaction and propitiation, it matters the most... Is not it???
I can still remember the worst day of my life when I chose others over my own self and decided to abandon my beating heart just to follow & engrave a small place of other's stone like heart.
I'm a minor compared to my age as because my brain and heart tooks lots of time to swallow all the true fact , to see the real color of all people. I used to have very hard time when I used to suffer a lot just to know the real intentions of my society, of my surroundings, how to cut myself off from some people. I never wanted to give up on people even on worst ones I considered that if I put more efforts, if I grind more, if I push myself more, if I give more energy, if I give more time then I would be able to make them happy. I did my best , I gave my everything up to make them content , happy but I failed to do that. I wish I realized this thing before, that no matter how much you try, no matter how much you give, no matter how much you love them_ there are many of us who will continue to hurt you for innumerable times. No matter how good you are, there are some people who will continue to demotivated you, disbelief you, discourage you but you know the real truth, you have seen the real potential of yours.
My parents are really proud of me not because I have achieved lots of things which I did not but because of my strong will power and strong charecter, they says that `"Our daughter is very strong and can handle any situation"` __but deep inside I know how many rivers, made of my precious tears, I allowed to flow through my cheeks and am still allowing them.
Whenever someone hurt me dunno why I try to be more strong than before silently by using some comforting words instead of defending myself from those hurtful, awful words and I know I will continue to do this again and again. I always try to convince myself that I need to be more strong, more courageous, more brave after all you can't please everyone so you have to strong because someone somewhere is waiting just to hurt you. I can't say anything to them in return, I can't hurt them in return, I can't defend myself from them not because I'm weak, fragile but because I know they are human too, they have their feelings too. I would love to drown in a ocean of my own tears than to hurt someone else in return because I know that if I hurt someone then at the end of the day I will be the one who will hurt and suffer the most.
I have learnt that this world will accept you only when you become like them but now I don't want to accepted by someone because I will be myself. I have learnt that ***people will hate you for no reason, they can go to any extent to prove that you are a bad person though you are not in real. But you know the truth, you know who are you in real. If you're worrying because of other's opinions, if you're overthinking because of other's judgment then please don't you can't change their imagination about you by worrying but your worries can hurt you in return.***
I have changed myself a lot and I still have lots of things to change. I have become a whole new person, now I want to see myself from someone else's point of view again for once, I just want to know what they feel about me now. I'm not regretting at all for my worst past or for my worst experiences because `My worst experiences, worst days has woven courage, braveness and self love on my every inch of skin and in my heart.`
I was afraid to stop loving others but still I did but now I realized `The end of loving others was the beginning of loving myself.` So I should not feel guilty for this coz I did the right thing.
We should distance ourselves from others even for once because this absence of yours, this distance between you and others will help you to realize a lot. If you're regretting because if your late realization then remember ***'A late bloom is still Beautiful.'***
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Let me finish here for today. As still I'm enjoying a rainy evening here. Though I am bored now because of the same dumpy weather but to be honest I really like the continuous music of dripping rain, so l want enjoy the real music to the fullest.
How was your day??? I can't wait for a new months, just after a couple of days we will be able to enjoy and welcome another new month in this new year. I hope you all are fit and fine both physically and mentally. Don't roam outside until you have some urgent work.
Thank you sooo much all my readers, commentators, upvoters, subscribers, sponsors and Rusty too for all your endless supports and for reading my not-so-interesting articles. Thank you for giving me your precious time and thoughts.
`Irene (6.09pm_26.01.2022) Lead image source :—https://unsplash.com/photos/KMn4VEeEPR8`
Happy Mensiversery to Me
It is really great feeling to feel when you just joined an unfamiliar platform out of curiosity with lots of confusion, hesitation, lack of self - confidence and ended up loving that particular platform, I'm talking about read.cash one the most beloved platform.
I was really curious about Read.Cash back then when I first heard about it and just wanted to try it for once as I had no self-confidence so I thought I would be able to survive here, can't achive anything but I was totally wrong. That is why We need to try all the things before giving up without trying and we need to know our hidden capabilities. Read cash has many more things to serve on our plate just not money but also lots of trustable friends, lessons, knowledge.
I created this account one month ago, the exact date was 23.12.2022 so yesterday I became a month old user but I was not able to celebrate this achievement of mine because of my hectic schedule actually I'm preparing and giving most of my time to my studies as my exam will be started from tomorrow but I can't spend my day without writing nothing here , I was really lucky as I had some old drafted articles one of which I published yesterday. I think I'm going into wrong path so let me allow to put all this things aside.
Now I became one month old user though still I'm feeling like a newbie compared to others who are already 3,4,5 months old user and some of us are 1 years old user too.
When I first decided to create an account I was battling with my mind and thoughts as I thought I would not be able to give anything to this platform where everyone has lots of stories to tell. Even after this negetive feelings I decided to join and from my co-writters I learned lots of new things and am still learning & need to learn more things. I have gained lots of things here the most important thing is a group of faithful and lovable friends, they taught me that___
we need to share everything with others because sharing is caring , we need to value our friendship , distance can't be a hindrance between real friendships, we need to focus on good and positive things , we can learn anything from anyone as we are not supreme so we need to value others, we need to show our gratitude towards everyone.
Maybe we do not know each other in person but they never fails to give their shoulders to lean on our worst and darkest days, they never fails to support each other, they never fails to show their love, they never fails to shower us with their blessings.
This particular site came to me unexpectedly but now it has become an inseparable part of my life. I was just a simple introvert human being who even used to hesitate to leave a small comment on other's articles or reply to others but read.cash gave me the courage to build myself up anew. I'm not that good in expressing my thoughts, I used to battle with my mind and still am battling to write something, to express what I am feeling right now. When I first joined I did not have the slightest idea what to write here or how to get started but there is a saying **"Time is the Best Teacher"** and it is actually true , time will definitely give you a moment to flourish and bloom. Sometimes we need to get out of our comfort and cozy zone to get to know ourselves better and this is the exact thing which I did .
In my first article I set some goals, luckily I have fulfilled some of them.
When I first joined read.cash , I wished for at least 40 members within a month but I ended up with 51 family members. Is not it great? I think it's huge and I didn't expect that I will be able to have these much of members. Those people are really amazing who trust on me and touched that subscribe button. You gave me a reason to continue my writings.
I'm really happy that I already fulfilled this wish too and this article is going to be my 22nd article. I'm really blessed for having those people who clicked my article, read them and share their support and love , I'm really lucky that Rusty noticed me after writing my first ever article in read.cash from that time he never forgot to visit me , I'm feeling blessed for this, Without them I couldn't be able to do this.
#ErdoV is the first person who upvoted my first article, I can't tell what I was feeling that time by seeing this notification, I'm really grateful towards this person who helped me to gather all shattered my self confidence and gave me the courage to continue my work.
I have already told that I had no idea about read.cash, how it works so `BCH_LOVER` is the one who told me and taught me about to activate my soponsership block , she even instructed me step and by step , I'm feeling blessed for having you as one of my most cherished virtual friend .
There are so many people who unconditionally giving me their love and support, a big thank you and and long warm hug to you `Ling`, `Ellen-he`, `Talecharm`, `Garrethgrey07`, `Sequoia` , `kingsley` `bloghound`, `Jeansappire39` for standing always there for me. I'm really unable to write the name of all of you who supports me not because I don't adore you or not know your name but because I have a very tight schedule and I have to give most of my time to my studies and wish me luck 😁 for my exams which will held tomorrow.
I can't really express what I'm feeling now, but I guess you can feel me. Right?? Of course you do...
I hope this is enough for today, I hope you will understand my situation.
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Thank you @Talecharm for renewing your and upgrading your soponsership, it's a huge reward to me from you. You never disappoint anyone. Thank you Soo much for believing on me again.
How was your day? I hope you all are mentally and physically fit and fine... Don't forget to love yourself, you deserve the best thing in the world. Don't forget to treat yourself in a great way.
Thank you sooo much my readers, commentators, upvoters, subscribers, sponsors and Rusty for being here with me, for showing your love, for giving your support.
`Irene (24.01.2022__5.55pm) Lead image→ Made by Canva`
The Best Moment of Your Life
We all want the best and positive moment of our life when we want to do everything, when we want to achieve everything. But can you say that "`When the best moment of yours will come?"` Surely no one can say this, I guess but many of us give an alternative answer by saying that it will definitely come very soon and I'm waiting for that special moment to come.
We have to realize if we want to learn, achieve something then we have to stop waiting and dreaming in vain and we need to work for that desired thing if we continue to live our life in the same way again and again then the best moment of our life maybe will never arrive.
There is no perfect moment for anyone. We have to transform every moment even the worst into the most beautiful, magical and wonderful moment. We can do this easily. `How???` By stopping worrying about the past and those things which we can't control which already had happened in our life, by stopping running madly towards our upcoming, unpredictable future, stopping gathering sorrows and negetivities.
Don't make yourself a prisoner of your own thoughts, of your own past. You're free to live, you're free to love, you're free to fly. Try to open the eyes of your heart and see the yellowish warm sunbeams, the beautiful wide sky, live every moment beautifully and enjoy every moment as the best moment of your life.
We can't deny the fact that, many of us are not living our life, not living our dreams, `Why??` Because we are living our past, we are living our fears. We need to realize, Our fears are trying to hide all our dreams, all our potential, our desires. Our fears are stopping us from achieving all the things which are actually possible to achieve for us. So don't allow your fears to control you. Don't allow your fears get in the way of anything, specially in your most desired and cherished dreams.
Our fears are not actually real because our fears are not actually happening and they are based on things that have not happened yet and don't even exist. Try to replace a fear of yours with a dream, with a wish and choose to focus on that instead.
We should not be afraid or worried about people, about their judgmental words because if they want to see you as a good person then they definitely will and on the contrary if they want to see you as a bad person then they definitely will, no matter how good you are.
The more you try to show them the good side of yours the more reason you give them to hurt you, to knock you down, to break you because they already know that they have a small part of yours which will always care about what they say, what they do about you.
Be confident and don't belittle yourself for the sake of others. Give the most of your time to you instead of wasting your time on those who are trying to push you backward and negetively. You can't change others opinions, other's thoughts, other's point of views , you have to understand your potential,your good intentions lies within you not in their opinions. You have to believe that `The time itself is stronger and much more able to prove your potential, your good intentions, your point than you're`.
You don't need to be perfect, because no one is perfect. It is enough to do the best you can today with what you have within you right now, often we put too much pressure on ourselves just to please others. Start weaving your dreams with what you have and make every moment special and magical.
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I can not live with you
I'm really tired now. I'm tired of everything even of myself too. Why? Because of a invisible demon, which never fails to creep in my mind and hunt me, like a hungry Lion.
By the word 'You' I'm not referring to any person, this 'You' is actually a group of phobias, which are making me their victim again and again.
We can't deny this fact that we all have some phobias no matter how hard we try to act brave or courageous but deep down we know that they are preying us silently. I know it's pretty much normal to have phobias, I do have too but there is a difference between others and me Because I have endless and uncountable phobias which are making my life miserable and afflicted and from which I immensely want to get rid of.
First of all allow me to tell what a phobia is__
A phobia is a type of anxiety disorder which is a strong, irrational and unrealistic fear of something, it can be an object, person, animal, activity or situation.
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1.Acrophobia
Acrophobia is "The fear of Height". Acrophobia is a type of anxiety disorder in which the victim experience an intense fear of heights. This phobia is quite normal and common among us, I guess.
This fear has occupied my mind and my brain in such a way that I'm totally unable to enjoy the ostentatious scenarios of sunset and sunrise from my roof top, I'm really fond of these two things.
Whenever I try to go upstairs even in my home or enjoy the magnificent view of something standing at the edge of my roof top , it seems that I will fall down from that space and a sudden shudder starts to chase me and makes me unable to move and speak. Even now I can feel that fear while writing and recalling that invisible ghost.
Though I have acrophobia still I want to enjoy that scary experiences and feelings again and again, this is the mysterious instinct of human beings__The more we fear something the more our brains become eager to enjoy that feeling.
2.Ophidiophobia
'Ophidiophobia' is ' The fear of Snakes.' A single and vague sight of snake can make me afraid and scared.
My brain doesn't need to see any real sight of a snake their photo is enough to make me falter and mumble.
When I was a kid I used to tell my mom to put some stickers on their photos present in my biology books. Luckily now I don't need to repeat those scary moments as I already gave up that subject. Their obscure visibility can increase my heart throbs and bring a mini heart attack.
3.Hydrophobia
'Hydrophobia' is the extreme fear of water in simple language.
I don't know from when I have this hydrophobia. I was really surprised when I found this hidden and sudden fear of mine for the first time because I used to enjoy swimming with my cousins and friends as much as possible in my childhood days and I was accustomed to think that I'm a mermaid that is why I like water to much. But all this things changed when I found out this phobia.
Even now I bathe with my widely open eyes coz whenever I try to close my eyes my phobia leads me to an strange and eire phantasy land where everything seems to chase me with loud screams. Believe me I fears water more than I have told in this article as I'm totally unable to give you a proper explanation about my fear of water.
4.Hemophobia
Hemophobia is the fear of Blood or injury.
This phobia can be proved miserable for a person specialy for girls. I have already told in my previous article that I wanted to be an Astrophysicist but apart from this my second career option was a Doctor. I tried my best to overcome my fear as I immensely wanted to join medical field but I sadly failed.
Once This phobia made my life more miserable than one can think when I was standing in the threshold of my puberty. I fainted numerous times when I first encountered with the common monthly problem among girls(I hope you will understand) but after trying and trying again and again finally I conquered against my Hemophobia, I'm really happy for this achievement of mine.
I'm trying to win against my others phobias but it is really a hard thing to do coz I have lots of phobias apart from this I have__
**Agorophobia**l, is the fear of open spaces which never fail to burry the ambivert side of mine and uphold the extrovert side of mine.
**Claustrophobia**, is the fear of enclosed or right places. I feel suffocated whenever I try to experience elevator or any other closed and small place, for this reason every single time I have to choose stairs over elevator whenever I goes to somewhere no matter how eagerly I want to try.
**Glossophobia** , is the fear of speaking in front of audience. No matter how greatly I prepare myself I always end up with embarassing myself with a visibly shaking and sweating body.
**Helmenthophobia** , is the fear of earthly worms , I just can't see them crawling in front of me. Whenever I see them their fearless still awful sights gives me uncontrollable pulpitition.
**Lepidopteraphobia**, actually it is a fear of butterflies but it sometimes refers to the fear of Caterpillar. Whenever I see a beautiful butterfly, their former other state triggers my brain and creates an unimaginable situation filled with anxieties and imbecility.
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My life is full of phobias. So I want to live my life without them just for one day. I don't know I'm wanting too much or not but I'm hopeful about that special that day when I will be able to live my life to the fullest.
Some times my closest and dearest people make fun of my phobias, I hate this thing the most. Often some people say that I'm along with other people who has phobia are acting just to catch their attention but it is not like that. We don't act or try to catch their attention, they need to understand.
I just want to say please don't make fun of others specially those who phobias because they are not acting, they are suffering each and every moment, they are trying their best to conquer their fears.
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Let me allow to ask about you well being. How was your day? I hope you all enjoyed your day with a fit body and great enthusiasm.
Do you have any phobia?? You can share with me ◉‿◉
I just want to stop my writing here. Wishing all of you a great evening.
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Try to Be A Piece of Peace
Not every day of ours is equally beautiful and great. Our life is a mixture of endless sorrows and happiness, no matter how hard & much we try to remove our pains and longings from our temporary life we are totally unable to do so but we can change our negetive mindset into positive one.
We have to accept each and everything our life is giving to us whether we want or not. Sometimes when you feel low, broken__you are allowed to cry and take a break for a while. Sometimes we have to live with these unkind things but we are human beings, full of emotions So we need some time to relax , we need to do those things which makes us happy and peaceful.
Whenever I feel broken I try to reduce my pains by listening music, watching cartoons, spending time with my family excluding these I try to alleviate my sorrows by sitting in my little garden observing those tiny pieces of nature and peace. Their vibrant colors, enchanted smell never fail to bring some color in my colorless life. Their charms and beauty are enough to brighten up someone's day. They not only lightens and brightens up our day but also gives some worthy lessons too.
Let me allow to explain some of them...
1.Accept Yourself
In the world of Artificiality, we are becoming so obsessed with our outer beauty that we can't even hesitate to bully our own body for the sake of others. Often we think we are not beautiful and worthy like others. Just think once that if you don't accept yourself then why would the world will accept you. You need to understand 'To be beautiful means to be Yourself'. We don't need anyone to accept ourselves, our beauty. Just be the person by whom you want to be accepted.
Maybe the weed flowers are not as beautiful as Rose or Lotus but it has it's own Beauty and charms. The weed Flowers reminds us that we don't need to be a Rose or a lily to show and look beautiful coz we all are beautiful just the way we are. Remember when you start to accept yourself, that's the moment when the whole world will start to accept you.
You're beautiful. You're worthy. You're enough. Just accept yourself just the way you are.
2.Learn Your Own Superiority
There are lots of people, dweeling with you, who will tell you that you're not enough, you're totally unworthy, you're not capable to do anything ,but you have to realize your true worth and capabilities.
Sometimes, some people will try to belittle you but you're the one who knows the whole truth. Often words can't reveal the real truth and this is the exact thing which some people are doing to manipulate you. Learn your own superiority and don't depend on anyone to show the Real You.
You're more beautiful than you look. You're more braver than you seem. You're more stronger than feel.
3.Take Your Time to Bloom
Maybe this world is temporary and short though in this world nothing can happen overnight, even magic needs time to happen.
When you feel everything is going against your will, this is the exact thing which has the ability to make you great. So just take a long breath and take your time to bloom.
Maybe you're now feeling broken and unworthy , maybe you have very few petals in your petiole like life but it doesn't mean that you're not enough.
Our life is full of ebb and flow. Be gentle with yourself specially in your most difficult and darkest days. Shower yourself with love and acceptance, give yourself everything which you deserve. Everyone blossoms in their very own time , so you will be too. Don't bully yourself for tha sake of others.
4.You Are More Worthy Than You Think
Often we think ourselves inferior and others superior, this is the most common problem among us. Your value doesn't depend on someone else's opinion so don't listen to them.
Don't make yourself a prisoner of your own thoughts. Don't belittle yourself just to please others. Don't make fun of yourself for the sake of others.
5.Do Not Compare Yourself
Each and every one have possessed their own beauty. Don't measure your progress using someone else ruler. Don't value your beauty using someone else's eyes. We all are Unique, different from each other this is the exact thing which makes us special and beautiful so there is no point to Compare yourself with others.
Often we hide our potential and talents when we start to compare ourselves with others.
6.Every Pride hath a Fall
Often we equate Pride and Self-Confidence but we need to understand these two things are totally different from each other.
Where self confidence helps you to grow and develop on the opposite side Our Pride always belittle someone else. Don't let your pride rule your goodness and generosity. Our beauty, our fame, our money, our position all are temporary and so we should not feel proud too much on these things. We have to realize Every Pride hath a Fall so instead of being too much proud show your Kindness and generosity.
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Let me allow to use this opportunity to ask your well being.
How was your day? I hope you all are fit and fine & had a great day.
Thank you sooo much for being with me and reading my article.
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Finding Some Ray of Hope
It's just me or there are some people like me who feels low, devastated, broken without any proper reason.. Often I feel difficult to breath, to love but I'm little bit lucky coz there are something which never fails to entertain me , to give some motivation, to give some hope in my lonely glen. Those two things are Music(Playing Guitar) and Cartoons.
This particular instrument has been my friend ever since I started to learn this and the other most favorite thing is Shinchan. There is no one who is not familiar with this famous Japanese manga series written and illustrated by Yoshito Usui. Can you believe me that I have spent whole watching this cartoons and playing with my guitar.
This particular Manga series not only gives me fun and a ray of hope but also gives me some lessons too.
Let me share some of them ___
Enjoy Your Life to the Fullest
Our life is like a roller coaster ride, full of ups and downs. Nowdays, we are becoming so obsessed with earthly materials, money, fame, success that we have forgotten to enjoy our life. On the contrary this character teaches us to never take any stress seriously and to be happy in what we do. We should take every situation, good or bad, lightly because by worrying we can't solve any problem but it can increase our worries and troubles.
**Always Be There For Your Friends**
In this changing world, we are becoming selfish day by day and now we don't even think twice before betraying or killing our friends mentally and silently.
Now days, it is really hard and rare to find a loyal friend because this world is filled with lots of fake friends, silent murderers, back biters. He taught me in this fake world no matter how difficult the situation is, no matter how much misunderstandings we have , we should not hurt or betray our friends . We forgot that the most beautiful and expensive things in our life are not things, they are people.
Be Real You
Many of us are really afraid and shy to show our real US in public. We never hesitate to wear uncountable invisible masks just to hide our own self. But he taught me We should not feel afraid or shy , we should not change our real identity, we should not lose our originality for the sake of others, we should not feel shy for ourselves. Just be Yourself no matter what happen.
**Be Fearless**
'Fear' is not just a single and small words, it has a huge impact on our life. Often we give up our dreams, our desires for our fears. Our fears prevent us from fulfilling our dreams, letting us live as we wish. He taught me to be Fearless and to face our fears .
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Be the Soul that Never Gets Tired of Learning
There are endless knowledge lying everywhere one just need to notice them and gather them. When we feel hungry we feed our stomach like this when you feel you're mentally hungry just feed your brain and mind with positive words and thoughts. Maybe our life is short and temporary but those lessons which we learn are permanent. We can get lessons from our past from our relationships, from our pains _ just open the eyes of your heart and you will find everything which you need in order to make yourself a priority and happy soul.
I'm not that good weaving words or giving a good introduction , so give me your pardon and allow me to delve into my thoughts.
**If You Want to Make the People around You Happy, You Must Find Your Own Happiness First. Being Selfish is not always a Bad Thing. Sometimes it's okay to be a Selfish.**
Just a couple of years ago, I was so eager and interested to make others happy and content with my works. In the process of making others happy, actually I did not achieve anything except lots of knowledge & self love but I also lost almost everything, my own happiness, my dreams, my desires, even my own self. What did I earn by losing these precious things?? Absolutely nothing but longings , pains, heart aches, miseries but even after losing all these worthy things I could not even make them happy and content for a single day. I was such a failure, no I guess I was nothing but just a fool who wanted to make others happy in vain.
After suffering a lot, after losing a lot, I realized now I should just please none but my own self. But when I started to love myself, to give a little bit attention to myself , some people began to tag me as a selfish person, I'm only thinking about myself, I'm not spending my time with them. Was I a selfish? I guess NO coz I can explain about that. I was just trying to give some of my love, care, attention to myself after a long, very long period. So surely these things doesn't make me a selfish person because I too deserve all these things along with themselves. I'm not hurting anyone, I'm just trying to heal my wounds which I got throughout the years .
You can't give anything to anyone if you don't have that thing so like this you can't love anyone if you don't have any love for yourself. Giving yourself Self Love does not make anyone selfish, if even after this someone things you're selfish then let them think about you anything. Just remember, sometimes we must need to chose ourselves first before choosing anyone else, when other refuse to do.
When You Are Tired Get Some Rest. When You Are Sad, Go Ahead & Cry. It's Okay to Cry.
When you feel physically tired just go and take some rest and when you feel you're mentally tired then go ahead & cry. Our shading tears do not symbolizes our weaknesses, our fragality, it just symbolizes our aliveness.
I was once afraid of crying in front of someone but I realized it is totally okay to cry sometimes, to shed some precious pearls because our tears are the rivers of our soul, so just allow yourself to continue the flow of your broken and shattered soul. If you are getting some mental peace by crying then just go for it. Don't think about anyone or anything. You're totally allowed to express your longings and sorrows in the form of tears.
Please Count One Two Three or Think Once before You Do Anything Atrocious.
I have saw and observed the proud behaviors of lots of people who thinks they are supreme, what they think & do is absolutely right and one must obey them in any condition, they never think once before uttering anything lethal.
One must know the true power of words. A single and small word can break us, can make us, can motivate us, can demotivate us, can heal us like ambrosia, can kill us like poison. It takes the same time and energy to utter a bad and good word, though it's up to you what you will chose but one should choose a good word instead of bad words. One must know a small word has great and huge impact. So please count one, two, three or think for once before uttering anything which will only break people's heart instead of their sorrows.
Adults Can't always be Right. We Make Mistakes until the Day We Die.
Let me ask you one thing__ if someone who is younger than you come and tell you that you made a mistake and you should correct that? What will your reaction will be? Surely, you will be angry and maybe you will scold that person. It is pretty normal to do coz none of us would like our mistakes to be pointed out by someone specialy from them who are younger than us.
We thinks now we are adults so it wouldn't be possible for us to make any kind of mistakes but this idea of ours is totally wrong. We need to understand adults, old people can make mistakes too. None of us are free from error. We must need to realize that adults can't be always right because it is the most common instinct of human being and will continue to make mistakes until the day we die.
So accepts your mistakes as soon as possible, don't be afraid or feel shame for this. Your mistakes are the proofs that you're alive, you're still trying, you're still growing and learning through your mistakes.
It is Okay to be Less than Perfect
Sometimes, it's totally okay to be less than perfect as the word 'Perfection' is a myth and illusion itself. No one is perfect and no one can't be as well So it is better to show who you really are instead of hiding your imperfection because your 'imperfection' are the only things which makes you special and unique.
One should give their attention on their progress in lieu of imperfection. 'Perfection'is a mirage , the more we crave for it the more we lose our peace and happiness. So just try to be the better version of yourself, not to be perfect. By seeking 'Perfection' in yourself madly , you're just abusing your physical and mental health ,so stop comparing yourself, stop seeking perfection in yourself,, just love yourself as much as you can.
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So by the mercy of Almighty, we are able to see another beautiful, shiny, glowing, bright, sunny yet cold morning. Don't waste your day by overthinkingbsndvtry to be the love which you always wanted to achieve.
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Not to Do List
Hello World!!! About 16 days has already passed in January, this new day is going to lose it's existence too and I am the only one who didn't do anything productive in this month . I'm not regretting for those days as I'm always spend my days like this. I'm not good at making to do list as I always fail to follow those goals that's why I don't even try to write all those things which I wants to do. But now, I'm trying to make a 'Not to do list' , I hope I will be able to follow these this time, let's see what my future holds for me.
Let's delve into today's topic without farther delay....
**Believe in every Words & Opinions**
Often we makes mistakes by listening to others. We forgot that words can't always reveal the truth. We have to remember our real value does not decrease because of someone's lame opinion who are not able to see our worth with their open eyes. So don't hate yourself for everything you are not in actual just to please others in vain and start to love yourself for everything you are in real because people believes what they want to believe.
Never allow yourself be made a victim of others. When you depend on people to build yourself up then you're the one who are giving them the power, the right to bully you, to break you down.
You don't need someone else's opinion to know your true value. Let them judge you. Let them gossip about you. Let them misunderstood you But don't allow your own self to doubt your real identity. Just keep shining brightly as usual. Don't listen to everyone, don't believe in every words & opinions because `Opinions don't define your Reality`
***Overthinking***
Some of us including myself as usual loves to worry or overthink everytime about our future, about our past, about our present, about people, about our surroundings and about plenty of things.
We need to realize that overthinking can't take away our tomorrow's troubles, yesterday's pains and sorrows but it has the ability to take away today's peace and happiness.
Whatever is going to happen in future will surely happen no matter how much we try to stop from happening them , whether we overthink or not So it is absolutely better to give our attention to our beautiful present in lieu of our past and future.
We have lots of worries in our life , most of which never happened to us and surely will neverever happen to us too. By overthinking we often create those problems which don't even exist in actual.
Overthinking can't do nothing but to ruin our happiness. By overthinking we can't change our unchangeable past or upcoming future but we are just wasting our precious time and our lovely present. And these things will steal your joys, all your potential So stop overthinking and work for your future in your present coz `overthinking will lead us to sadness.`
Giving Importance to Negetive Thoughts & Negetive People
I , We, need to take a break from all the negetive thoughts, negetive people for a while because now it seems too heavy to carry for me and I'm no longer able to carry those worst things anymore.
Our lives will be much much better if we can stop the negetive thoughts and negetive people from attacking us. We need to change our perspective towards them, how we engage with them. Observe them,listen to them but don't believe them. Let those worst things pass like clouds. When you stop to give them your attention they will pass, this is the exact thing they can actually do So don't worry about those negetive personalities and thoughts.
Dweeling on Mistakes
It is the most common thing, we all do. Can't we deny this? I guess no one can deny this true fact.
We all are allowed to look back at our past but we are not allowed to live there for a long period. It will hurt us, only us. `If we continue to live at our past ,if we don't let our past die then our past won't let us live peacefully and happily.`
We need to forgive ourselves for making plenty of mistakes but we should not forget those lessons we got from our mistakes, learn from your mistakes, it will never give you a chance to regret over your past. Forget your mistakes but don't forget what they taught you.
Don't curse yourself for your mistakes because everyone makes mistakes not only you. If you make any mistake then it doesn't mean that you have to pay for those mistakes the rest of your life. Remember some experienced people also makes some mistakes, it doesn't mean you're a failure. Mistakes are the proofs of your aliveness. `Mistakes makes stories & Stories makes Histories.`
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We Are All Different Shades of the Same Color
Allow me to start my today's article with a casual and simple question. What is your favourite color? If you don't have any particular favourite colour then can I ask you, Which color do you like the most?
Some of you will say some common colors such as green, red, orange, pink, blue, violate, black , white and some of you will answer some unique colors such as Claucious, Skobeloff, Viridian, Aureolin, Celadon etc.
Mine most favorite and cherished color is Black. Just like me, there are millions of people dweeling in this Earth whose most favorite color is Black too. Why I love the Black, the most because it symbolizes royalty, elegance, mystery, sophistication. We can't deny the fact that sometimes this mysterious color somehow always manage to attract us towards itself even if we don't want to and this is where the power of this mystical and enchanted color lies.
We all have some love, some passion , some weaknesses for this arcane black color, Am I right? I think Yes. We all love Black color until it comes to the color of our skin complexion. This is the exact moment and thing when not all people but some of us starts to hate our favorite Black color. Can we deny this? I think NO.
Each and every moment, we continue to harass and taunt those people, who got less white skin both mentally and physically until that particular victim dies completely. This painful death can be both physical as well as mental. Some of us are silent murderers, every single day we are murdering someone with our painful, knife & poison like brutal words and behaviors.
Some white skinned people starts thinking of themselves as supreme, we need to understand that just our white skin complexion doesn't make us superior. We all are same. We have nothing special under our white skin complexion.
Those people who got less white skin, they are just fighting each moment just to establish themselves in our so called civilized and developed society where we believe in equality but we don't even think to give them their freedom. I consider that's why Black color also represents Certainty & Authority and It's a burning symbol of the Eternal Struggle between Day & Night, Good & Evil, Right & Wrong.
In our new developed era, we should realize our skin complexion,our language, our grades, our position can't define anyone's true identity, real potential, actual talent. We are different yet the same. We all have different types of talents, passion. So none of us are superior and none of us are inferior. We all have something which makes us great, special and unique & you don't have to be perfect just to please others in vain but you can be your best version.
***Let me share one of worst experience related to this Color__***
Currently, I'm standing in my second year of my college life. We all are familiar with the idea that college life is one of our best life where you meet with lots of new faces with different kinds of aura and personally and just in a few days they becomes our family. Though we were able to spend just 4 -5 months with each other face to face in two long years because of this endless and unexpected lockdown. Even after this, I got a crazy circle of friends in which we have total 11 members, believe me each and everyone are as crazy as special. Maybe we are different but we are inseparable, so there is a girl in our group who has a dusky but glowing skin which is quite normal to have because of our weather.
As she got dusky skin, so for this reason some students (not my other classmates but the students of other departments and other classes) used to bully her , taunt her badly though she is the prettiest girl in our whole class but sadly they never noticed her hidden yet open beauty because of her dusky skin completion.
We should understand that our skin complexion is not in our own hands, we can't control this particular thing so it is better not to set fire their soul with their Insecurities by using our lame hurtful words. She was really frustrated then and tried to commit suicide for once or twice but luckily she survived and a few days after that incident she told us that she want to undergo plastic surgery and some skin lightening treatment. We had nothing to do because it's her personal life but one thing we could do so we tried to convince her not to go for surgery and postpone other lightening procedures because she was pretty then too with her dusky skin and if some people can't see her beauty then maybe they are the one who are blind and it's their fault not her, they should fix their eyes and change their poisonous mind. It is possible that those people who never fails to bully others maybe they have no heart, no soul they are just living like a zombie and they are trying to hide their own weaknesses by bullying others , so we don't need to worry or take stress because of some blind and baneful people. We should not listen to those people, they are cowards as well as weak coz they are just trying to put on an invisible veil on their Insecurities.
Instead of listening to those people, accept yourself as the way you are. You don't need to change anything, the world will change its heart and eyes. You're enough, you're beautiful. Don't try to change your true color because of some colorblind people coz no matter how many times you paint yourself with different colors all the time those people will not satisfied with you . So one thing we can do is to leave them behind and try to work on our own selves.
One need to realize that if the universe did not need you then you wouldn't be here, people will believe what they want to believe so no matter how much you try you can't change their's mind and perspective, so instead of changing your own selves love yourself as much as possible.
Just remember, **"Black is always Elegant and Powerful".**
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How was your day Dearies? I hope you all had a great day and a blessed health.
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The Queen of Hills
'The Queen of Hills' or 'Darjeeling' is one of the famous and important Hill Stations in India. Darjeeling not only have it's desirable and graceful beauty to show but also have plenty of things to serve us.
India is the land of diversity. Here, you can find anything at anywhere. If you are a nature lover then this is the perfect place to wander , here you can enjoy Hill, Beach, Valley , Plateau, Plain land, Desert and many more things. Darjeeling is situated in the Indian state of West Bengal which is my home state too and at the same time my state is called as 'The Sweetest Part of India'.
Food
It is well known that India is famous for it's food too. If you are a food lover then it is also a perfect place for you because you can enjoy lots of things here but the most famous foods is our street foods . Our food is delicious, palatable, savoury as well as cheap. If you come to Darjeeling then don't forget too eat their special items such as Momo (Steamed flour dumplings stuffed with meat or egg or vegetables and served piping hot with spicy, sweet and sour soup) , wai wai Mimi (noodles with spicy boiled potatoes) , Thukpa (homemade noodle soup with meat or egg or vegetables) , kinema (indigenous fermented soybean food), Churpi (Hard Cheese), Gundruk and most cherished thing "Tea" specially butter tea.
Darjeeling can be proved as Heaven for Coffy and Tea specially Tea lovers coz this place is actually world wide famous for it's enchanting and fragrant tea.
Flora & Fauna and Circumstances
Darjeeling has many uncountable things to give you. It's picturesque view of the world's third highest mountain 'Kangchenjunga' will leave you astonished and flabbergasted.
In Darjeeling one can see nothing but snowcapped Kanchenjunga, torrents flowing down of the mountain slopes, lovely tea gardens, landscapes with firs, pines, cheerful fun loving people, modern yet colonial charm, 4 thousands different types of flowering plants, 3o0 types of ferns including rare fern tress, rare animals and rare birds too. The beautiful peach colored haze of night sky , shimmering lights ( houses in night) gives a divine aura.
If you come here , then don't forget to enjoy the ride of the Darjeeling Himalayan Railway or Toy Train, a narrow gauge mountain railway which is one of the UNESCO World Heritage list.
Darjeeling is blessed with with huge number of amazing places and specieses , richness of culture, natural heritage, flora and fauna.
If you are an animal lover then you can wander in some national park and wildlife sanctuary such as Chapramari Wildlife Sanctuary, Mahananda Wildlife Sanctuary, Kore Pokhri Wildlife Sanctuary, Singalila National Park (famous for rare Red Panda, a very rare and endangered species) , Neora Valley National Park, Tiger Hill( India's only collection of Siberian Tigers and some other rare speciese), Pandamaja Naidu Himalayan Zoological Park ( famous for it's snow leopard) , Happy valley state and many more.
We have Six seasons in India ( Summer, Monsoon, Autumn, Pre-Winter or Late-Autumn, Winter and Spring). Here in Darjeeling, weather comes with different faces , each season has it's own charm and grace.
We have hundreds of festivals here, each state has their own festival among with some national and common festivals, that's why India is called "The Land if Festivals". So as usual, the festivals celebrated by the residents of Darjeeling also vary widely and follow their unique customs.
There are lots of things about this amazing place crawling in my but now I'm out of time.
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Thank you sooo much for being here with me and bearing my with me patiently. Thank you sooo much my readers, commentators, upvoters, subscribers for your generous support and love.
Irene 6.40pm 14.01.2022
All photos including lead image was captured by me(except the photo of 'Momo'.)
This is Me as a Weirdo
I'm the born C.E.O of imagining fake romantic scenarios
I'm the proud C.E.O of imagining fake scenarios. Sometimes I cries over those sad things which had never happened to me and sometimes I laughs over those romantic & happy moments which also had never happened to me and I'm sure these moments will never take place as well.
I loves to make my own realm made of my weird imaginations and thoughts and it seems I'm the only Queen of this realm. Let me share one of my weird imagination.
I'm that kind of girl who wants to get married & thinks about the life after my marriage but whenever my parents start to talk to me about my marriage (I'm 20+ , it is pretty much normal age to get married in our country) I always refuge their request in a brutal way. But deep down, I'm fighting with my own self coz I want to get married because of the increasing pressure of my society where a 20+ girl can't study farther and on the other hand I want to continue my studies as I feel happiness in this thing and I wants to become a successful, independent person. That's why I always try to balance my pressurized kind my imagining fake scenarios . Am I weird , I think so but you can't blame me for this.
I Break My Own Heart by Expecting People to be as Attached and Loved to Me as I Am to Them
I'm an ambivert kind of person in actual but the extrovert side of mine always try to conquer the introvert side of mine but unfortunately my Happy, cheerful personality and extrovert side of mine always end up with lots of heartbreaks, unbearable pains and uncountable sorrows given my others.
I expect plenty of things from everyone, their care , their love, their kind words and in consequence I always hurt my own self. This is the worse side of mine which I badly want to change but currently I'm unable to doing so but I am hopeful that I will be able someday to change this.
I Used to Sleep Next to My Books Hoping that It Goes into My Brain by Osmosis
I always wanted to hold the mesmerizing first position without studying 😅 and luckily somehow I managed to top each and every class. I used to sleep next to my notebooks, books coz I was accustomed to believe that it will help me to obsorb the knowledge of my books, after a couple of years, eventually I realized how childish I was back then... I did know about the term 'Osmosis' that time but still I used to believe something magical will happen if I continue to sleep next to my books.
Now, I do not crave for that charming first position, it seems I'm loosing my interest in everything. Now I can't shape all my thoughts, imagination like before as I used to do. Now I can't concentrate at anything, after surrounding with lots of happiness and peace still I do not feel those happiness and peace. Now, I feel breathing is also a burden for me. I can't do anything those things which I wanted & want to do but after all these things still I'm hoping for a better life.
Maybe I am not too Beautiful but I Can Wash My Face in Public and Still Have the Same Eye Brows and Same Face
Nowdays, we all can see we are giving most of our priorities to beautiful people. Beautiful peoples ( of course I'm talking about outer Beauty) are getting more opportunities, more attention than those people who looks average or less beautiful. Now we are becoming so obsessed with our beauty that sometimes we don't even think once or hesitate before putting tons of makeup or undergoing painful surgeries and other procedures.
In this era, will people still accept me for not doing anything for our society or for showing off my real identity? I think NO, but believe me I don't care about those people who gives their attention to some reserved category. I can proudly say, I had never put on makeups except face cream which I also use barley.
I may not look beautiful according to some people but I can wash my face anywhere at anytime and still can look like before.
I barely use moisturizer or any face cream before going outside because I believe in inner beauty which is permanent & eternal but our outer beauty is temporary and it will decay over time.
Instead of Studying, I Like to Stay on My Phone and Worry how I am Going to Pass
I am that kind of student who doesn't like to study and at the same time who doesn't want to quit her studies too. Most of my time, I waste my time thinking and worrying about my exam but I never tried to study regularly and give my 100% efforts to my studies. I starts to study whenever I get my exam schedule. This is one of my worst habit which I don't want to remain with.
I Am Not Like Other Girls__ I Know What I Want for Dinner as I always Have Been Thinking about It since Launch.
I am that kind of person who wastes most of my time thinking about her food , yeah!!! I'm a huge foodie but sometimes I don't like to eat too.
I think it is better to think about my food instead of those selfish people and back biter who never loses any chance to hurt me.
I got a plus point, I mean I'm blessed with a fit body , no matter how much I eat I never get fat. I'm neither too fat nor too thin. I can't deny that I don't gain weight coz gaining weight is pretty much normal for food lovers . If I gain weight still it doesn't not make me look fat so I'm really happy with this blessing of mine.
I Love Talking to Myself
Well, don't laugh at me because of my weird behavior, umm!!! Don't worry You're allowed to laugh at me :-) but just a little :-|
I'm enamoured with this habit of mine since my childhood. Yeah I'm a weirdest kind of person from my childhood. I feel loved, cared, seen, heard and get lots of happiness,joys by doing this weird thing.
If you see me somewhere sitting alone, insensate or benumbed then don't think that I'm sad or hurt coz that time I'm just trying to make some pleasant conversation with myself and enjoy a special time with me. Basically, I uses to talk to myself everytime even while I'm helping my mother in cooking or I'm encountering with something I just start to talk to myself as if I'm standing in front of lots of people and they all are watching me as if I'm a big celebrity.
As I show off my introvert side to all that's why I try to keep balance with my extrovert side too by doing this kind of things.
My Famous Last Sentence is ," No, these questions won't come up in the exam".
As I have told before that I'm that kind of student who don't want to continue study and at the same time I don't want to quit my studies too.
Actually, I start reading 10-12days before my exam so whenever I feel that my syllabus is not complete yet or I will not be able to complete either so instead of worrying I simply tell to myself that "Don't worry these questions won't come in your exam, so have some fun and try to study" . I say this line just to comfort my worries self and believe me it works 😂
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I want to stop my boring topic here for today but I'm thinking to write other parts coz there are lots of things which I want to say. I do not know if I am making all of you bored or not, you all can tell me about it. I have lots of things to say which are stored in my head and which I only can share here because of mischievous cousins. No matter how hard I try, no matter where ever I hide, they always do magic like something which is why they find my diary everytime and not only this they read it aloud in front of everyone and never lose any chance to make me feel embarrass. Am I allowed to cry? I can't beat them because at the end of the day I love them >.<
I'm already feeling sorry for my not so cool and non interesting confession and topic.
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Thank you sooo much for bearing with me and my boring topic. Thank you sooo much for your kind support and I conditional love.
How is your day going? I assume that you all are having a great day.
`Irene 5.55pm 13.01.2022 Lead image source :— U splash.com`
Our Life is like a Camera
We all want overnight success, fame ,money, position and many more things to achieve which we can't count . We should understand we can't achieve anything overnight. We have to water and nurture our dreams, aims, goals with our immense hardwork and lots of sleepless nights, plenty of sacrifices.
Some of us including me when we feel we are unable to achieve something which we want then we start to give up easily. So it is obvious that why we We will never achive anything for this reason we start to waste our precious time and talent. We start to follow negetive things, we start to obey the negetive people ,We start to lose our own self, we start to lose our motivation. We are capable of everything, we just need to focus on positive things.
We have to realize Every single thing needs enough time to happen, we just need to work hard. Lessons and motivation are everywhere, just open the eyes of your heart and see the magic.
Yesterday I was fighting with my camera, I wanted to take some clear Pictures of my beloved moon but I did not succeed at my work. Maybe I could not take any clear shot as I wanted to take but I got a idea about today's topic, lemme share now.
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Focus on What is Important
We all are wasting our time by focusing on negetive things, negetive people, and useless things. We should make sure what is important & good for us and what is not.
Sometimes we badly need to leave something behind in order to be successful and happy in future. Knowing what to leave behind is as important as knowing what to focus on. Sometimes we need to let all unimportant things go and work out for something which is significant for us.
One simply can't focus effectively on two things at once, so choose and sort out your main priorities wisely and carefully. Give all your priority, focus, hardwork to that thing only. Prioritizing sharpens our vision and with this we can easily focus on the most important things.
Try to focus on positively. Try to focus on positive People. Try to focus on your own self. Try to focus on those things which will help you to grow and prosper.
Develop from the Negetive
Our life is like photography, we need negetivities, negetive people, to develop successfully and beautifuly.
We all know that we need dark room in order to develop beautiful pictures, so if you see darkness in your life then don't panic or worry , be assured that your life is going to prepare a gorgeous picture like future for you.
Capture the Good Times
Our life is a mixture of good and bad things. Sometimes you will enjoy good times and sometimes you will experience bad times, this is called life.. Nothing is as useless as our worries coz good times gives us pleasure & happiness and bad times gives us experiences and lessons.
Often we make mistakes focusing on bad things, bad people, bad times and for this reason we forget to accept and cherish the good things, good people, food times in consequence we encounters with uncountable failures. We have to remember, when we start to focus on good things, the good things gets better and then best.
When You Feel Things are not Working Out , Take "Another Shot"
It is pretty much normal to fail, it happens with all of us So be patient when things are not working out according to your plan and wish. Just remember, you have to go through and endure the heavy and worst things to get the best .
When you feel now your brain is telling you to give up, Just take a long breath and continue to work hard , don't stop until you are proud of yourself because often our brains makes us fool by providing wrong signals.
Don't give up easily when you can't see a single ray of hope , the results of your hardwork, just be patient with yourself. Some great and best things take time to happen even the darkest clouds have the bright sun behind them. Don't give up before you even take the first step towards your goal. Don't rush something you want to last forever. Be Patient__Be You...
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Thank you Soo much everything for bearing with me and being with me. Thank you sooo much for you worthy love, support.
Lead Image source :— Pixabay.com
Irene 5.47pm 11.01.2022
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