"Questions, a whole lot of them unanswered but have you ever considered the fact that may be the people you're asking don't know what to do and maybe they are lost and everything seems to be completely blurry."
When you're single the questions like "Hey why are you single?" So then you get into a relationship but few week later the question is well "When are you going to get married?" And then you get married now the question is well "When are you really going to have kids?". Like seriously it does goes on and on and certainly an answer is expected fyi I'm still single 😊.
The unrelenting quest to drive people insane with our questions should stop, there are times when you just need to be right there to answer the replies and not just drop them and go then our responses are left hanging. Let's be quite practical now anytime you ask maybe having a negative mindset, your words have literally made people a casualty of the war they fight in them just very much waiting to see the light. Your questions have backed them into hiding and for any chance they get at resurrecting will fade.
So let's bring it down to this platform "what intentions are hidden behind every questions?"
Do you want to use the slightest opportunity to know people better or to roast them just for their creativity or their art. We are all humans we cant grow without challenging ourselves and listening to critiques too, but there are more to it than just asking someone a few questions. Most times our responses comes from a place of hurt, we have to try to read people before we throw questions at them. If only our written stories could talk you'll be surprised how your questions peirces through.
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Could it be me, maybe it's my fault, maybe I didn't calculate the equations properly, maybe I'm just someone who needs to be spoken to, maybe I wished they didn't see me the way they did, maybe I'm desiring to be better but I just don't know how. You gotta have to lead people and not chastise them, you got the power to stop this from happening but you chose to let them see it the hard way.
We have this mindset of feeling bad for every one thing that seems bad out of many good things, it makes us wonder if our strengths and our capabilities are at it's best.....
our senses becomes too sensitive that you could smell the aroma of hate coming from that person but nonetheless you really did amazing. You can never get away from the askers, what you are to do is ignore don't adjust to adjust to what they they expect from you. You are not the first to be faced with this issue, many have gone through and have better understanding on what to do.
My advice to everyone reading this I love you though, please don't call someone out publicly just for the sake of proving to yourself. Its hurtful you really are doing much harm than you imagine it to be. Please respect each person, regardless of how powerful you are....like I said in my previous post the main goal should be achieved. We are all in one place to accept creatives.
Thank you for your time. Happy Sunday and please stay safe.
Open hearts become open books.
Rusty' s warmth welcome to newer accounts
Be careful what you use as your identity
The world is void without you in it
Bye for now.
|15 AUGUST 2021|
in life critiques are everywhere, we dont need to please them just treat them with kindness and maybe somehow they'll realize..these kinds of people in my life I just pray for them because we cant change them, only God can do that