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Failed Relationships? That's Fine!

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Written by Β Β 295
1 week ago

Love is the greatest feeling that a human can offer to anyone. It defines everything. It is service, mysterious, compromise, sacrifice, patient, trust, hopeful and emotional.

But how do you handle failed relationships? Have you experienced it? Or not yet? I hope not.

There's nothing more devastating if the relationship is no longer working and there's no other way but to let go of each other.

Others would say, why would you give up? If you truly love the person, you will never give up on him/her. Fight for your love!

You know sometimes, making the right decision doesn't always mean taking the green light. Sometimes it's better to consider the red light and refocus. Most especially if you have exhausted all the efforts and sacrifices but you feel like you're the only one making an effort to make the relationship work.

Failed relationships? Of course, it's not fine. You made plans together for the future, you invested so much time, emotions, energy, and efforts to be together, and then all of them will be wasted? Are you kidding me?

Well, I hope you will not beat me to death if I say that "you should be thankful". Yeah, I know. That's silly. That's the craziest thing ever!

Wait, let me explain. I'm not a love guru or a love and relationship advisor but this is what I've learned from a friend of mine's past relationship. For the record, I haven't been heartbroken and so devastated about the relationships. I just had a couple of breakups but those were just puppy love and petty ones.

What I'm trying to say is that the situation solely depends on how you handle it. Meaning, the outcomes basically rely on how you get through the circumstances.

If you had a 10-year relationship and just broke up, you can't move on right away. You built memories together, you can't just erase everything overnight. It's okay to cry, it's okay to feel lonely. The negative energy that flows within you is valid and so you will need to undergo the healing process.

Mind over matter. You should reach to the point of shifting things the way it will give you a positive outlook in life. Think of it that this breakup will just lead you to the right person. That you are not meant for each other and you deserve someone better.


Back in my college days, Rosie was a classmate and good friend of mine who had a long-term relationship with our classmate too, Carl. They've been in a relationship since we were 1st year of college.

They're like glue, they always stick together. The class would know that they are in a fight or misunderstanding if they're distant from each other, if one doesn't go to the canteen with the other, or go home with the other.

Their relationship was very strong though. when we separate ways after college, we can still see them together in one photo. They both went to Cebu for work. They were absorbed from the company which they had rendered their on-the-job training.

They looked so in love with each other. Their relationship was transparent to the public and so if you're someone they're close to, you would know that they're not okay because of the posts they do on Facebook.

Until one day I opened a friend request and it's the girl's new Facebook account. I accepted her friend request and asked her about the reason for her making a new one. She then told me that she wants to avoid toxic people. I got curious and stalked her old profile and there, my hunch was correct.

Lately, (years before I discovered read.cash, I check Facebook sometimes but now, rarely) I noticed something off with her posts and she's been sharing posts about self-love and moving on. Then, the guy is nowhere to be found, and the photos together were deleted.

When I checked the guy's profile, he's now with another girl and had a baby.

I never thought this guy would cheat. I mean, we were college classmates so I know he behaved back in college. He was so kind and sincere to my friend.

So yeah, Rosie and Carl broke up. They were together for 6 years. It was very hard for Rosie to move on. But then 2 years later, it seemed that she found the one for her because she's now happily married.


You see, failed relationships do not define you as a failure. Everything happens for a reason. Take Rosie as a good example. Just be hopeful.


Thanks for reading!

Keep safe everyone ❀


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That's painful I have a friend also and they have the same case the boy cheated when my friend went to another place to work and because of that until now the girl can't just really trust another man she had a lot of suitors and that suitor turned into finding another woman dahil Hindi nila maantay na sagutin sila, and I feel bad for her because if that she seldom trust man already!Her ex-bf had a wife and a baby already! And now she had another suitor and it's been a year already I wish she could find the man who will love her!

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1 week ago

See, the guy didn't even realize how much damage he caused for the girl to be that distrustful to men. After all, men are trash. Aww hahaha. πŸ™ˆπŸ˜†

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1 week ago

Yay not all naman hehe siguro di sila nakukuntento pero naniniwala pa rin ako sa karma yay sana nga makahanap na dn ng bf kaibigan ko para di na laging bitter yay.

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4 days ago

Hehehe. Sana nga. ❀

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4 days ago

i don't know any people like that and I don't really bother πŸ˜… but I've had a few failed relationships and I've been fine after so it's not such a big issue

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1 week ago

Of course you should, they've lost you. It's their loss. Haha

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1 week ago

dunno who lost who but let them be, I'm happy and I'm getting better at crypto and das enough for me

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1 week ago

Yup. That's way better. Self-love muna. Hihi 😁

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1 week ago

Parang classmates ko din.. From 1st-4th sla magjowa.. After grad nagsariling landas na bawat isa

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1 week ago

Kase every day kasama eh. Tapos after grad na, tumingin sa iba. Haha

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1 week ago

I think so too. Failed Relationship is just another way to find the better and right one though moving on is really hard but in the end, it is still a blessing in disguise. Like what your friends experienced. I won't say that the guy did not do something bad but I think they are not just really meant to be. Kumbaga pinagtagpo para matuto at para maging better version of themselves. Maybe the guy also changed or maybe not. But I am happy for your friend Rosie kasi happily married na siya to the better and maybe right man for her. 😊😊😊😊

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1 week ago

Yeah. Both of them were meant to be as instruments for experimental. Hahaha. What's more important is yong life lesson na nakuha nila.

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1 week ago

tama. hehe. in the end pareho naman silang happy.

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1 week ago

Ako iniisip ko na lang kung hindi talaga kayo para sa isa't isa, hindi talaga kahit gaano pa kayo katagal. Kasi di ba meron iba na saglit lang sila magjowa pero happily married pa rin. Or years na pero nagbreak pa din. Gaya sabi ng nakakatanda, meron at merong tao na nakalaan para sayo. Di ko lang alam sino ang sa akin πŸ˜…

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1 week ago

Mahintay ka lamang po. Baka na traffic pa si the one. Hehe

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1 week ago

Hahahaha. Ano siya nasa bahay. Bawal lumabas COVID. 🀣 Kapag wala ng COVID, ayun mattraffic na siya. Hahaha

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1 week ago

Mga kaklase ko ganyan, akala mo po matured na eh 16 pa lang naman mwehehehe. May mga ex nga sila tapos di ko lang alam yung mga magjowa kong mga kaklase sila pa rin. Sana maghiwalay sila hahahah joke

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1 week ago

May bitter tayo dito ah? Haha

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1 week ago

Di naman haha kaasar lang kasi. Wala pong tl sa age na 16/17

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1 week ago

Meron din akong college classmates madam na ganyan. Carl din pangalan nung lalaki, Tinay naman yung girl πŸ˜… Halos ganyan din ang story nila. Pero sila nagkabalikan ulit recently, akala ko hindi na hehe nakakapanghinayang kasi sinusubaybayan ko pa naman sa social media yung love story nila kahit sobrang korni na minsan πŸ˜‚

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User's avatar sc
1 week ago

Hahaha. Mastadong public kase madam pero decision nman nila yon. May second chance pala sila.

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1 week ago

Yes! It's okay not to be okay hahah! Bitaw oi, been there sakit jud labi na ng pagtoo nimo na kamo na jud pero need jud nimo e let go coz if not mahurot na jud ka.. That's life!

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1 week ago

Uuuuy, naka relate sya πŸ€” ga wonder jud ko sa imong lovelife ba. Hehe

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1 week ago

Eto ung sabi nila na "sau tumagal sa iba ikinasal".. hopefully, makakamove on din xa, reach out to her ksi she needs someone to lighten her burden.. she will soon find someone better than him..

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1 week ago

She's already married. πŸ˜…

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1 week ago

Jajay,,antok aq kagabi d q nabasa ung huli😁

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1 week ago

I agree hihi.

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User's avatar Yen
1 week ago

Personally I think that's what dating is for, to get to know each other's feelings better. If it doesn't work, it is better to break the relationship than to get married, have children and then separate.

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I agree. The children will be the most affected if it happens. πŸ’”

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1 week ago

Yes, it hurts the most when a relationship ends. Children grow up without the feeling of love in their parents.

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1 week ago

Marami akong failed relationship pero di naman masakit. Ahahha. Madali akong ma fall out of love. Ung ex ko nga na isa diko tanda if 2 or 3 years tinagal namin. Tagong relasyon pa. Di rin ako masyadong nasaktan. Awan baga, may problema ata puso ko. Heart breaker na ata ako madam 😒. Tapos di pa rin ako crush ni kwash 😭

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1 week ago

Nakooo madam. Di yun totoong love. How will you know if it's true love if you don't take the chance to confess? πŸ™ˆπŸ˜†

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1 week ago

Naa jud mga in ani nga relationship nga abi nimog sila nay mgkadayunana nya dili d.i.. kafaetz ba ana oi.. pero okay ra kay naa lagijud purpose ang tanan nga nahitabo..

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1 week ago

Faetz gyud kaayo oy. Pero molabay ra lage ang tanan. Don't get stuck. 😁

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1 week ago

I thought this was about you. Hehe, makulbaan man sad tag pina-live.

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1 week ago

Hahaha. Dili oyy

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1 week ago

If you want love , let the Guy Marry. If he loves you , he does everything for u. One friend when his friend say that he loves his daughter, he told him if u want milk , you have to purchase the cow. He means no relationships before marriage

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Well I guess it's a proof that if you're not meant for each other you will never be together. May mga pagkakataon na akala natin siya pero hindi pala. Malay mo blessing in disguise pala yun sa friend mo para makilala nya talaga yung taong nakatadhana sa kanya.

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1 week ago

Yes, she's happily married na. πŸ˜…

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1 week ago

See?

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