Girls talk with My Cousin, Turns to Answering her 3 Questions that she never asked me

Actually, this article was supposed to be published before but I refused to published a very serious topic. So right now I'm gonna answer the 3 Questions that my Cousin never asked me before. But before that I have a Story time if how she ask me those question that I will mention to this article

We are talking about some random things. I remember that it was my free time or vacation time in writing articles here so that I can make my brain to rest a little and I write a article about that you can click to read about that here. It supposed to ask in personal but I refused because I'm not the type of person that is very cheesy, or dramatic in personal because I am a cry baby. I can easily to cry in a sentimental situation because it's been how many years since we last talk to each other and now, we are in our 20s and we are now adult. I asked her, "Ano ang mga tanong na gusto mong itanong sakin ngayon na matanda na tayo?" (What questions do you want to ask me now that we are older?" And of course I don't like to ask me in personal so i told her to send me a Dm.

So yeah, Here are the questions that she want to ask and my Answers Let's start!

1.Would you rather date someone with good looks or with pleasing personality?

After reading this question from her I was like,

Because I know what these question means it is because of my past and I did not expect this question from her but I will answer it.

My answer:

Now that I am now at the serious years of my life. I will make a right and good decision because I am at the stage of when it comes to date someone i like to choose a man not only a boy. A man that I can be with in the rest of my life. I want a long -term relationship and not just a date. So, When i choose a man of course I would rather choose a man with a good pleasing personality because before, my ideal type was always based on their looks and bad boy type. I have a high standards you know and maybe because of that, that is the reason why I am unlucky to have a serious relationship. My relationship was always ends because of cheating lol. So now, I learned my lesson. But why choosing if maybe I can date someone with a Good pleasing personality and he is also a good looking too. Right?

But when we talk about married life, I just want a simple but a happy life with my own family. I want to have a 1 boy and 1 Girl.

2.How would you raise your Children (future children)?

This question makes me in a deep thoughts you know. Because, right now I don't have plans or I am not sure if I will really like to get married and plans of having my own family. Because I am scared of entering a relationship again. But this questions makes me think the word 'What if?', what if I will get married and when I will be blessed of baby? How can I take care of my own children? And then here is my answer:

I will take care of my children in the future by doing all of my best. As of now that I am still young, I will do everything to find a decent job so that I can save a lot of money for our house because my house that I will build will not only for my mother but also for us because my plan when I will really get married is to be with my Mom in one house. If for other child, they will abandon their own mother for me, I don't like to be separated to my own mother and I hope that my Husband will understand and respect my decision in the future.

Anyways, while I am still young I want to save a money for their future. Because I want them to study in the course and dreams that they wanted them to be. I don't like them to experience what I experience in the past like being not able to have a decent house to live because my Family is just poor. I want to give the things that they want, because I didn't experience to have the things that they want just like other kids and I will also want to raised them with a good manner. Sure, Being bad cannot be avoid because of some things that influenced them to do it but I will do my best to teach them what is good and bad, and I will bring them near to the lord.

As for now, I can't promised that I will be a good and perfect Mother to my children in the future but I will do all my best just so I can raise them properly.

3.What are the traits you want your children to have or What life lessons would you teach your children before at the age of 18?

Well, as what I always mentioned to my Article before about me, I have a dark pasts. I am not a good daughter and I am not a good child so i want my children

To not become like me. I don't like them to be like me as a bad daughter and child. I want them to be my opposite and stay kind, have a manner and respect to elders, They will never disobey us as their parents. I want them to be a good Children.

And as of for the life lessons before they will become 18 years old, I want to teach them

• How to enjoy their life while they are still young but I don't like them to abused it. I don't like them to walk in a wrong path I don't like them to be like me that I experience of regretting-regret that I experience being a rebel daughter, I experience drinking alcoholic drinks in a young age and that is not my plan in my life.

• Don't hesitate to Choose and Speak what they want and like to become. I want them to speak what they think and what they like, I want them to follow what they wanted to be because to me, I did not have a confidence before. I don't have a courage to speak and i always have a chain to my neck and I always follow what others want so I don't like them to experience that. If what they like and wants, I want them to speak to us and I will support them as their mother and parent.

• I also want them to learn how to saved their own money for their own future and make them realize how their future important is. I want them to learn how to be a independent when it comes to their future because we don't know when we will gone and died accidentally, what if we will leave them in a young age and unexpected time right? So I will teach them to focus to their goal, dreams, and future because I remember when my mom said that, "Wala kaming ibang maipapamana sainyo ng papa niyo kundi ang pag-aaral niyo lamang ng ate mo. Kaya mag aral kayo ng mabuti."

Talking about future is hard and I am still young to think and plan about it because I don't know if marrying someone is really in my lists in the future because I am scared of entering in a married life lol. But anyways, all of the answers that I said is true and honest and I don't know if I really answered it in good way or I am so very messy because my head is hurt like I drunk alot of alcohol and wake up with a hangover reason why I can't think a better topic for today lol.

So anyways, I will just end my article here. Thamk you for spending your precious time reading my article!

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