Can you respect a Woman who lost her Virginity?

This topic is very hard to discuss because this is all about women. A very serious to discuss. The reason why I wrote this topic for today is because I saw someone posted it on facebook the words that makes me think if which is better.

The post said:

"Tawang-tawa ka sa mga nabuntis ng maaga pero ikaw nga dipa buntis pero tuhog na tuhog na."

I am not good at translating the Filipino to English but the post said,

You are laughing to someone who got pregnant early but you who are not yet pregnant was tasted by many.

I don't know the english term of the 'tuhog' but it is similar means by A woman who slept with a lot of mens and her vigina is very deep already. Sorry for that.

After reading this post and read comments, I am so very shocked because a Lot of girls was commenting there and I don't know if what I will react. Because I admit that i also once, laughed to someone who got pregnant early. But I am not that bad because that someone is the one who did bad to me too. Imagine, being talk in the whole town and many people judged me because of the fake news that she spread around and some dumb and even judgemental people even believed to a clown like her.

If you are curious if what is that news about me? Well, she just spread that I was slept with my Boyfriend and I am pregnant. Even if it's not real because I am really scared of my Grandpa. As you know, My grandpa has a pipe before I am scared of that being used to spank my Butt when I go home late. That is also the reason why I can't even let my Boyfriends meet my Family because I don't like my Grandpa to be angry. I mean, he doesn't want us to have a boyfriend at that kind of age.

But Thanks to her because, I was scolded by My Mom and even my Grandparents that time and the trust of my Mom broke because of that. I don't know why she did that but one thing is for sure, It's because she likes my boyfriend that time and she has a feelings for him and she is jealous to us.

Another one is, Her Mom and Maritesses also did the same. They even call me a whore and they even said that, even if it's not true, I will get pregnant early for sure. It is easy for them to say that as if they are good at predicting what will happen in the future and I am wondering before if they are a retard furtune teller?

But anyways, As a response to that, I just laughed. Because why not? Because I know my self better than them. That even if whatever they will say, it is just a funny words that a reason for me to laughed because I am not that kind of person. Even if I don't have any dream to become in that time and I like to hangout with my boy friends like the friend of my cousins, and I am a rebel, being pregnant by early never come to my mind as an answer to my immature life. I did think and appreciate my Mom's hard work abroad that's why, even if I am not studying hard and not getting a higher grades and with honor back then, I still make sure that I will passed and not repeated. They don't pressure me to get high grades because like i said before, they are all focus to my Sister because she is the oldest one. But, I may not have a honors but I did enjoy my life during my High School days and recovered to my Senior High School days. That is the time that even if I am drunk, I still have a good grades and I have an award during the end of semesters. Lol

• I realize that, That is the important thing you know? For me, I don't need to stress myself to make my parents proud, as long as you are still studying and being a good child of your parents are enough. Just enjoy your life while you are still young because we can't do that onced we will get older but of course, I know my Limitations.

Oh, Studying is also part of discussion I think? I just did share my experience of being labeled and a Food of Gossipers in their table. I share it because there is one thing is an answer to this question.

It is not easy to Judge a Person. To be honest, Laughing to someone who got pregnant by early and being unvirgin for how many times,

You don't have the right to judge the person who are have experiences between the two

Laughing because they got pregnant by the early age? Why people Laughing?

1. Because they are easy to get?

2. They think that they are early to flirt?

Whatever the reason is, we don't have the right to laugh. Because we don't blame them for being at that kind of state of their life why they choose that path instead of waiting for the right time. Because who knows if they just loved the person who became the father of their soon-to-be child?

Because there is this quote, 'Love is blind' once that you fall in love, even what ever your parents say to you, you won't listen. Not only to your parents and family but even to the people around you. Am I Right?

Same to the situation if the woman who sleep with different man. Reading and watching the same situation as the character of the stories. I understand why they did that. Because there are a lot of reasons. And one of them is, there are some woman, that once they are in love to someone, they will do everything just so they can't leave them. That is how Women sometimes they are not or they forgot to be selfish to theirselves. They also lost respect to their self because they will give it all to someone they loved until they lost everything because of Love.

It is easy for the other people to judge them because they didn't experienced being in their shoes.

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But you know what? Let us observe this image above. There are one thing similarity to each other and that is They are both shoes right? They have the same purpose But they have both have a differences to each other but has the same meaning.

The first one are look Dirty right? We should make this as an example of the people who did a mistake of their life.

Meanwhile, The second one are clean and looks beautiful as if they are new. Let us make this as an example to those people who are good at judging others.

You know what? The other one may be look clean But it doesn't mean that it will never be wear and stay clean forever.

Meaning that even if you are clean and have a good appreance outside, the shoes inside has a dirty secret and it will stink too and for sure that someday you will also in the same situation and you will experience them the same as like the dirty shoes. Even if you act as if you are a perfect one or act like a cleanest one, you will still get a dust and you will still dirty and stink after how many years. Because that's life, years can change some things and so the person as well.

Always remind yourself that everyone are also have a stinks of their life. We always commit mistakes. We are not perfect after all. So I am shame to those people who are easy to judge a person as if they know everything about that person.

What I have learned before is when the time that I laughed to that someone who ruined my image to everyone. Why?

Because I realized those what I have said above. I mean yes, she did a terrible thing to me but I don't have the rights to laugh to what she did. Because it's her life after all. I also have some mistakes to my life and I don't have the right to act like a perfect one8. She did bad to me but it doesn't mean that I should do the same.

Conclusion...

To girls out there, You know we are all the same gender so we should never drag ourselves down. You are a girl, we should understand each other and never judge.

Well, I don't support these kind of doings. Because you know that being pregnant by early age are not should be become a normalize and even sleeping with a lot of mens too. But the purpose of this article of mine is never insult those people who have experienced that. Like I said, we don't have the rights to laugh or judge them because we don't know anything about them.

The same goes for people who like to predict the lives of others, if you don't want what you are accusing to happen to you because karma is only in the air.

Before I end this blog, I would like to remind you that this is just my own opinion and thoughts about this topic. Again, you are all free to write, correct my mistames, or comment what your thoughts and opinions about this.

Thank you for reading!

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