Swallowed Her Words - Internet Infidelity

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Toot toot toot!!!

This is a short but funny story from 2013 actually that I just stumbled upon. Let us start with the topic of cellphones, we can text message, can Yahoo message or Skype, Telegram and there are all kinds of text message apps to boot.

Well, some people password lock their cellphones for personal security, and others hide things from their partners. Uh oh. Password protection is one option, and another would be to delete any old messages that may be incriminating.

Apparently, for a 19-year old Brazilian girl, that was a little too complicated. Her boyfriend had rightfully suspected she was cheating on him and wanted to view her cellphone text messages to which she decided the best thing to do was swallow her cellphone! That's right! The whole cellphone!

The object appearing on the X-ray to have been stuck at the intestines apparently was causing some pain. No kidding and she was rushed to the hospital to save her life.

The old saying for her:

"You can hide the truth, but it always comes out in the long run".

Based on that story I came across the internet, makes me think about Internet Infidelity.

How To Know You Have Gone "Too Far"?

First of all, how do you define infidelity?

Infidelity :

1. unfaithfulness: unfaithfulness or disloyalty, especially to a sexual partner

2. unfaithful act: an act of unfaithfulness or disloyalty, especially to a sexual partner

Microsoft® Encarta® Dictionary

What defines unfaithfulness?

Unfaithfulness:

1. adulterous: engaging in sexual relations with somebody other than a spouse or partner

2. untrue to commitments: untrue to commitments, duties, beliefs, or ideals

Microsoft® Encarta® Dictionary

Had to do that so we do not have a President Clinton moment here:

"I did not have sexual relations with that woman... my p**** was just in her mouth".

LOL Sorry about that.

Okay, now that we have that established, can we say that flirting online is "unfaithfulness" or "infidelity"? Well, unless your spouse married you with a belief or an idea that dictates that's what they expected out of your marriage, then yes we can call it that. Of course, flirting can go further and turn into a whole other mess of issues (phone calls, video chat, video play etc...) I don't think it necessary to go into graphic details here.

Why would someone engage in internet infidelity? (not to justify it)

1. Loneliness

2. Low self-esteem

3. Living in separate locations from the spouse

4. Lack of sex/romance in the marriage

Now, what if (the unfaithful) you express your concerns to your spouse (items 1-4) and there is no change in their behavior, and they make no effort to work with you as a spouse should strengthen the relationship or misunderstanding? Are you now justified in being unfaithful? My opinion is NO.

Funny and I will say this though- My husband is a very talkative Mr. Congeniality person and did advise someone once to be flirtatious online. After addressing the issues didn't work so they could show their spouse that others did appreciate them.

Risky move!

Why would he suggest such a thing? To make them jealous, to force them to take the issues seriously and step up to the plate and make a change.

His suggestion worked inadvertently actually. His Facebook friend didn't try to do anything in their spouse's face, but by and by, their partner did start getting jealous of the internet and ended up hijacking their accounts, got passwords etc and started snooping around which led to a big fight as well as them working things out and the romance and appreciation returned. Funny how things turn out, huh?

How to avoid getting caught up in the web of inappropriate internet behavior?

1. Realize you made an oath to God to be faithful to your spouse (this should be all it takes).

2. Have all your accounts (social networks and emails) open for your spouse to look at whenever they wish. This will definitely stop you cause you never know when they might look.

Random thoughts this busy Monday.

Welcome to a fresh new week, my dear friends. Checking back on late today - I just got back home from an all-day errand day. A little tired, but some obligations are done. Whew. How's everyone? I hope all is well. May you all have a fantastically fabulous and awesome week ahead wherever you are in the Universe.

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Anyare kay ate girl? Nag cheat xa taz nakalimutan niyang mag-isip.

Gusto kong e suggest sana kay ate girl sa ibang mag jowa jan na nag cheat na.

  1. Umamin ka, pag tinapos niya relasyon nio at mahal mo xa, deserve mong masaktan kasi salawahan ka.
  2. Umamin ka at pag pinatawad ka, wag mo ng ulitin ui. Be faithful. Pag xa nagkasala sayo, give him a chance too.

My point is, umamin ka kesa lumunok ng cellphone taz mapapa hospital.

(Ay, napasarap ako magdaldal dito🤭)

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2 years ago

Haha. Nataranta po si ate gurl! 😁

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2 years ago

That woman who swallowed her phone, how big was the phone? Amazing! :D :D We really should guard ourselves and not fall into those innocent chats for that is where everything starts.

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2 years ago

Di parin ako makapag move on sa nakalunok ng selpon hahahaha jusko naman bakit ba kasi kailangan pang mag cheat?

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2 years ago

Nothing wrong with a bit of online flirting 😉

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2 years ago

That's what my husband told me, Monika :D

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2 years ago

You intro of this article reminds me of my first password of my Facebook Id. It was my crush's name 😂😂😂 it was "143Maryam" hahaha

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2 years ago

Haha Maryam huh?

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2 years ago

Was my crush 🥰

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2 years ago

Yay!!!!!

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2 years ago

I like how you wrote this article. You stated some reasons why you think internet infidelity happens and then proposed some ways to help in avoiding the temptation. Hopefully this will help anyone on the verge of commiting an internet infidelity.

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2 years ago

Tulfo, pasok! hehe

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2 years ago

As in ate linunok na daydiay cp na haha immanay ngarud ate hehe

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2 years ago

Wen, ading hehehe grabe nya?

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2 years ago

Its too sad to say that there are still people who wi not contented enough to their partner so they commit this kind of mistake. Well, every actions we make there's a consequence. Poor girl naoperahan tuloy. Pero sayang ang phone XD

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2 years ago

Kaya nga, sis. haha

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2 years ago

Hala grabe naman, yung phone hehe

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2 years ago

Sakit nun, besh. Yung phone. lol

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2 years ago

Nabigla ako dun sa nilunok ang cellphone. Ang laki ng esophagus. Haha

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2 years ago

di ba, Iyan? haha

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2 years ago

That girl either had a very big mouth or her cellphone was very little. LOL So don't be unfaithful if you don't want to see yourself needing to swallow your phone! Hehe 😉Good morning to you, mi amiga!

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2 years ago

Haha. Amen, Coqui! Happy Tuesday, my friend!

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2 years ago

MY beautiful friend, what a controversial topic you have shared, thank you for this, notice I have never judged or criticized someone unfaithful, however, I do not justify anyone, but we cannot deny that a great majority of infidelities arise due to problems in the relationship, for lack of communication, for lack of trust, for lack of passion, love, affection. We cannot think that because we are living with someone, he or she will be happy, love is like a crop, like a flower, if not watered, if not that heat, that sun, dies, fades like salt and water, then it is there when we have to evaluate our relationships, listen, talk, dialogue, solve

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2 years ago

Very well said, my friend!!

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2 years ago

Him: are you Cheating on me? Her: nope(lies) Him: Can I see your phone? Her: umm, you can't! Him: WHY? Her: I swallowed it! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

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2 years ago

Ahaaaaa!!!!! lol

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2 years ago

Hello. your topic is interesting. I don't have a partner, I am divorced for many years. I have always had friends on the Internet, but without going too far in conversations, you understand. But if I were with a partner, I would do what you say at the end of the post. Clear conversations, no password on my networks. Everything free and available; passwords, accounts, everything at hand. i would expect the same from my partner. zero jealousy. Greetings

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2 years ago

Cheating is cheating, no need to argue with that, even when we are talking to other girls without knowing of our partners that will be considered as a cheating. And also swallowing cellphone is a risky thing for her just to hide.

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2 years ago

you nailed it, tommy :D

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2 years ago

Sa sobrang taranta siguro wala ng naisip na ibang paraan kundi lunukin HAHAHAHA

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2 years ago

Buti na lang mabait si Mr. J ko :) Cheating is a choice, if di happy ang partner pwede naman siguro magusap ")

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2 years ago

True, sis. Napag uusapan naman yan kung gugustuhin.

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2 years ago

:) Tama sis. Kung ayaw na ng both parties, tamang hiwalayan lang. Para may respect parin sa isa't isa.

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2 years ago

yes po hehe.

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2 years ago

Ang seryoso ko ba? Hehehe

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2 years ago

may pinaghuhugutan ba, sis? hehe

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2 years ago

Hahaha pano mo nalaman?

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2 years ago

Geezzz I can't imagine myself swallowing my cellphone. I can't even swallow a pill if I won't force myself. Infidelity gone too far. Why engaged in a relationship if you don't know what you really want yet. Ughh, some people just don't know how to be contented. I feel so bad for the Brazillian girl.

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2 years ago

lol kuya. pagsabihan mo nga si ate :D

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2 years ago

oh yeah.. you made an oath.. and the wages of sin (unfaithfulness) is death....

poor cellphone tho

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2 years ago

sayang yung phone, sis Jean hehe

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2 years ago

haha sayang nga.. pero need din nya operahan.hehe

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2 years ago

Graveh nmn pati celphone lulunukin tlga. Kung wlang trust eh di mghiwalay at wag ng pahirapan mga sarili nila.

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2 years ago

Hehe onga po eh :D

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2 years ago

Ang lupit nmn nya no.. Wla na bang ibang options tlga😅

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2 years ago

Hahaha! Swallowing the cellphone?? That's extreme. I found this writeup incredibly interesting. Infidelity has always been a sore topic though, to some people it can be justifiable and to others it can't.

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2 years ago

The cellphone is the main character, Ada lol

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2 years ago

Ow no. What conversation did the girl had that she desperately swallowed the phone. Hahahah But, my question is, Is it not okay to ask for your boyfriend's facebook account?

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2 years ago

Wala naman cguro masama if ask nya, sis no? hehe

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2 years ago

So far d ko naexperience to sa ex ko.. 🤣 Although si papa nag ganun na dati. Kaso wala pa password2 cp nunn. kya ayun. Huli ni mudra.. Kaya nag warlock.. 🤣

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2 years ago

Naku si mommy pa :D Lagot!

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2 years ago

Wala pa man po akong partner pero naniniwala po ako na hindi dahilan yung pagiging malungkot, stress or long distance relationship para maging unfaithful. Tama po kayo na dapat ay maging open ka lang sa partner mo at wala ka dapat tinatago.

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2 years ago

Naman po. O makipagbreak na langdi po ba? hehe

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2 years ago

Opo hehehhe kesa naman po lumunok pa ng cellphone hahahhaha

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2 years ago

hahaha opo

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2 years ago

Ay! Buking! lol! Haaay, if only people learn to be faithful in the real sense.

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2 years ago

haha lagot si ate :D

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2 years ago

Internet infidelity , ang daming ganyn ngayon sis. I can't really understand why people do those things. Maybe you are right, the things you enumerated above might be the reason. Maging loyal and faithful nlang kasi. Hays :(

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2 years ago

Kaya nga, sis. Taz pabata ng pabata din :(

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2 years ago

Like did she really swallowed her phone just not to be caught that she was cheating,lol! Sad to say there are so many people, young and old commits internet infidelity, High tech ang pangangaliwa ngayon eh.

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2 years ago

Gann na nga, sis ayon sa article na nabasa ko lol

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2 years ago

Be faithful for everything that's the best . And the part of swallowing phone ? Really gravi laki ng bitoka na yan HAHAHA .

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2 years ago

Haha ang galing ni ate, sis no?

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2 years ago

I lost it at swallowing the whole damn phone lol. That was too funny. On a serious note, I can never understand the need for infidelity, it's like people forget there is something called divorce that exist. ughh.

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2 years ago

Haha yeah that phone is funny but sure it did hurt :D

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2 years ago

This is a realistic and moral story for the cheaters. They always pretend that they did nothing wrong. But the matter of fact, they corrupt your trust and faith. Good one dear. Enjoyed it.

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2 years ago

That's very true, arn.

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2 years ago

Hahhaja, naku nalason na sa cp.. In miss col na kuma hahahha😂😅

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2 years ago

hahaha agvibrate ngay, mars?

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2 years ago

Mayat a kitdi taz nakamaximum pay pati ringing volume na wahhahha

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2 years ago

supay haha

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2 years ago

Natawa ako don sa nilunok ang cellphone para lang di mahuli hahaha! Kaloka cheat pa more bakit kasi nauso pa infidelity noh?

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2 years ago

Nagulat nga din ako, sis. Yan kasi ano :D Buti mayTulfo dito satin, sis no? lol

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2 years ago

Hahaha awit sa Tulfo 😂

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2 years ago

haha labas mga cheaters

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2 years ago

Kaya lahat ng account ko, my partner knows every password. Siya din, I have an access sa lahat ng account niya. Kaya pag magloko, alam lahat.😅 Lakas ng tawa ko sa kay Pres. Clinton. Palusot pa rin talaga.!

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2 years ago

same, sis. magkakaalaman na hehe

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2 years ago

That girl must have swallowed an old Nokia phone. Those are hard and indestructible. No wonder have to operate. Moral of the story? Don't be an infidel. And don't swallow cellphones.

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2 years ago

I know, right? :D

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2 years ago

This is really funny and should be serve as a lesson to all cheaters. Girls are investigators, and they also remember everything, like everything, past mistakes, the dates, time of the year, they even save some screenshots and you will probably going to jail if she’s a police officer investigating crimes that you committed. Lol

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2 years ago

Haha indeed, Corpsekunno :D

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2 years ago

What the eff? I cant imagine how that cellphone fit in her throat, down to the esophagus, down to the stomach. Did they hear a ringtone when someone calls? 😂

1 and 2 are on point, especially number 2. All social media accounts should be accessible to both.

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2 years ago

haha sana sinabi na lang nya, fren, no? masmaskit yung maopera :D tama.ganyan kami ng asawa k, fren. open accounts namin sa lahat :)

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2 years ago

Yeah, nagastusan pa siya sa pa-opera hahaha. Samin din, lahat ng social media accounts namin conjugal and shared. Shared means, isang account lang fb, discord, messenger, etc. Ganun kami katipid hahaha.

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2 years ago

hahaha apir tau jan, fren

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2 years ago

For me whatever ways, basta nagkakaroon ng paghahati ng atensyon sa kung sino ang nararapat, cheating na din yon. No excuses. The person must not look at others in the first place.

Anyway, I laughed t that gurl who literally swallowed the phone. 🤧😂

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2 years ago

Amen, sis hehe. Cheating is cheating.

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2 years ago

Ito na nga, lahat ng may tinatago, mabubunyag. Lol! Naalala ko nalang friend ko, ayaw ibigay ng bf nya yung fb password, yun pala may ka flirt na iba 😂

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2 years ago

Ayowwwn oh!!!

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2 years ago

What are your thoughts on emotional affairs? Kasi for me it bears the same weight as sexual affairs, maybe worse pa. Pero grabe, walang gag reflex si siz na lumunok ng phone? Ack.

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2 years ago

Hi, melsiebelsie! Good evening. Thank you for the wonderful question hehe. Well, I am with you on that! Emotional affairs are often gateway affairs leading to full-blown sexual infidelity. Cheating is cheating no matter how small it is :) An emotional affair begins with the exchange of personal information and the information becomes more personal and things slowly start to snowball from there.

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2 years ago

Agree on all points. 50 points to Gryffindor! (or whatever HP house you belong to 😂)

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2 years ago

I live somewhere in the west of that dark wicked forest next door :) Nice to meet you!

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2 years ago

One part I really liked was the denial case of not sleeping with her but his p**** was only in her mouth. Haha🤪😁😁 I found it really funny. Nice write-up as always. You're the boss.

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2 years ago

That cracked me up too, Kris lol. Thank you for the kind words, my friend :) That means a lot!

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2 years ago

Lesson learned be faithful to your partner, especially for girls because they are too investigative once they sense that there's something wrong, Also once the girl asked the question just tell the truth because they knew already the truth before they asked that question.❤😅

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2 years ago

Well said, Codename. Di naman siguro mahirap gawing yung maging honest, diba?

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2 years ago

dpat ko bang ipagtanggol ang part ng lalaki dito?😅😅 I think everyone has a reason, ang lalaki naman kase madali matukso, mahirap lng tlaga umamin kase nandun yung takot, kase mahal mo ung gf mo at nagkamali ka lng, hinihintay na lang tlaga malaman ang totoo kase mahirap maghanap ng tiyempo. Ewan di ko naexperience eh hahaha.

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2 years ago

hahaha can go both ways naman po yan (bababe o lalaki)

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2 years ago

Oh my internet infidelity. Marami nyan ngayon kaya marami rin nagpapa Tulfo 😁 At ang rason din ay yung lack of sex in their marriage/relationship. Tsk

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2 years ago

Noon di pa masyado mga Tulfo tulfo, sis eh hehe. Kaya nga haist.

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2 years ago

Thats crazy haha who would swallow their phone. Yayyy hahah 😆😆😆👀👀

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2 years ago

Natarante si ate, sis :D

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2 years ago

Andrenaline rush hahq

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2 years ago

hahahah

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2 years ago

Either that was a really small phone or she got a huge esophagus.. lols!

Agree on point #1 should be all that it takes. :D

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2 years ago

Lol sad yet funny story, Pich :D Gandang hapon! Kauuwi ko lang pramis.

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2 years ago

you had a long day! haha congrats for finishing tasks and errands ate. Fruitful naman ang pag labas.

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2 years ago

hehe salamat, lil sistah! dinner na kau?

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2 years ago

wala pang dinner eh. hmm .. hehe reheat most likely :D

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2 years ago

naalala ko te nung nagcheat yung ex ko na taga dito, may nabasa ako sa phone nya na "Iloveyou too", tas kinausap ko sya at sinabi na ayaw ko ng ganon. di naman ako nagalit sa ginawa nya, ayaw ko rin magsayang ng pras sa mga ganyang bagay kayahinayaan ko sya

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2 years ago

Thank you, next na lang, sis :)

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2 years ago