Some of the content creators here are in a relationship and married. I saw others writing about their husbands, boyfriends, and partners. And I cannot deny the fact that some also expressed their heartache moments through writing, and it made me come up with my topic for today.

Being in a relationship means trusting someone and letting them come into our lives and be part of it. Some called them their other half. And once you are with someone for too long, you will start to feel and experience the dull moments and boring days, and sometimes the spark is not there anymore.

It is when relationships begin to fail until they break up. You will start to ask yourself, where did the spark go?

I prepared something for everyone. There are ways to maintain the spark in your relationship, and these are so simple. The spark did not go somewhere, and maybe some people don't try doing something. Now, here are a few tips.

• Always ask something new.

Sometimes you have to think about what spark means to you and your partner. Like what they always say, people have different love languages. But you can count on asking something new about your partner to make them feel appreciated and loved. You can start by asking them about their new hobbies and talk about them together. It is a way to show them that you want to keep up with them as much as possible.

• Give attention and put your phone down.

You can relate to this because we use our mobile phones most of the time. But if you are having a good time with your partner, put them down and give your full attention to them. It would be best to do this when you eat together, watch a movie, or have a conversation. Make sure to let them feel that your presence is there.

• Eye contact is powerful.

Some people are not into gestures or physical contact. Some like to receive affection through eye contact, and experts mentioned the scientific backing on this one. Honestly, I find it intimate when it happens, especially during memorable moments.

Science said that this gesture produces neural synchrony, and our brain feels more connected with another person when eye contacts happen. It would be best to normalize doing it while talking. Lock your eyes with your partner to show that you listen and connect with them.

• Try something new together.

You can count on discovering more about yourself as a couple. It would be best if you knew your partner's interests as a person. Some want to travel, so make sure to take them to new places and hang out.

Also, women like cooking, so you can take her to classes to improve her skills. The two of you can break out of your old and regular habits and learn something new. Remember to fill your relationship with fun and excitement by discovering a new environment or trying another routine.

• Start a conversation.

Normalize starting a conversation with your partner – the real one. Some chitchats only involve a to-do list or random ramblings, and it would be best to talk about something emotional.

You can count on creating a connection of your mind with them by asking about your dreams and future together. There are other deeper and interesting topics aside from work or plans for tomorrow. Try to reconnect with them.

Do something to save the relationship and maintain the spark between you. Some relationships are worth saving, but some are not. But remember to appreciate your partner as much as possible, especially if you feel that you lack in showing intimacy and love to them.

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Article # : <262>
Category  : <Lifestyle Blogs>
Author    : <charmingcherry08>
Posting Date : <May 26 2022>

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