We Have To Fight Our Fears

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You can relate and reflect if I say that most of us have fears. Some people will find it weird, but they cannot control their emotions toward things and situations. Some people here have already experienced anxiety and scared when in a position that shakes their inner core.

Maybe they are not a big deal to others, but I believe that not everyone has the same courage and strength in facing fears. And it is my inspiration to compose another piece from me. Luckily, there are tips and techniques that we can practice to lessen the anxiety we are feeling. We can cope with them by trying the ways below.

Take a time out. 

There are days when we feel drained and flooded by fear and anxiety. It would be best to breathe, take a break, and clear our minds. We can calm down and rest by having time out from what makes us feel scared. Start with a few distractions, like walking around the neighborhood and chitchatting with people in the community. Also, you can prepare a cup of tea and think about positive things while sipping.

Do not try so hard to be perfect.

Sometimes we want to fit in and try so hard to be enough and perfect in someone else’s eyes. We are afraid to experience rejection and be left out. Embrace the reality that life can also cause stress. There are bad days, and it is normal for everyone. Also, there are setbacks that we need to do because life is messy sometimes. We cannot control things to be perfect for us. 

Learn to face your fears.

We avoid the situations and things that scare us, and it only causes us to be afraid more. It would be best if we learn to face them. Some people mentioned that their fears faded away when they practiced facing them. It requires patience and courage, but remember to do it one at a time. The journey will not be easy, but you will get used to it in the following days.

Think about the worst.

We can only defeat our fears if we think about the worst. You can start by imagining scarier situations. Some say that the fear we feel will run away once we start chasing them and not walking away from them. I think it could be one of the best solutions that we can do for ourselves.

Try to imagine and visualize a happy place.

Sometimes we are like kids who are afraid of the dark. We always call our moms for help and imagine that they are holding the light. It is also similar to having fears. We can count on visualizing a happy place with our loved ones. Close your eyes and embrace safety and calmness in your mind.

As for me, I imagine myself walking on a beautiful beach and playing with the waves whenever I feel sad or scared. Also, you can count on happy memories, even if they are from your childhood days. Feel the positive vibes and let the happiness soothe you. You can achieve relaxation out of your fear of doing it.

These are the things that you can do to fight the fear inside you. We all know that it is not easy, but it is never too late to try. You can benefit a lot from trying to chase away the fears. Let me know if this composition helped.


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Published : <May 15 2022>
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Fears help you develop resilience. Resilience comes from facing your fears. You become better in your your surroundings and transform yourself above the fear and into bigger and better success

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1 year ago

I absolutely agree. Fear helps in making us stronger and braver. You got the good points there. 💯

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1 year ago

Cast away those fears and we will consider these points you have listed.

Find the goodness in and outside you, when faith is on, fear will shy away itself.

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1 year ago

Thank you. And you got the points. Kailangan talaga natin matutunan kung paano mawala lahat ng takot at matuto tayong harapin sila. Salamat sis.

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1 year ago

We should never allow fear in our hearts. It will never allow us to have progress in life.

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1 year ago

I agree. We should learn how to cope up with those fears :)

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1 year ago

For me, face the fear by way of slow motion, don't rush and make sure we have enough time to extract it carefully. Others like to subject themselves entirely. Fear is something that somehow controls us, and that is bad; we shall be the ones who hold our fears, hehe

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I agree. Facing our fear takes courage and patience too. It is not just a one-snap thingy. When the fear began to have more control, then things would go worse. But learning how to cope up little by little would really help a lot.

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