The old me love socializing and making friends. Talking and sharing my feelings and thoughts with others gives me satisfaction and belongingness. I trust easily so even my plans, my dreams, and even my goals in life are being shared with them without any hesitations. It excites me; the feeling of being heard by someone gives me comfort.
But, as time goes by, these matters start to bother me and give me uncomfortable feelings. And believing that the sudden changes to a person how he/she deal with me is normal, but I was all wrong, I trusted that the people and the atmosphere that surrounds me is healthy, that everything helps me, and pray with me to get through is just an illusion. Not knowing that the people who are near me only brings toxicity.
I, therefore, realized that not everything is meant to be talked and shared about, here are the reasons why:
Not all people are good listeners
It gives the great feeling that someone hears and listens to all your rants in life. That comforts you and has some pieces of advice to someone you thought they’re giving sympathizing with you but deep inside they’re happy knowing all of your struggles and sufferings.
Not everyone that smiles and talks sweet words is your friend
Some people who smile and sweetly talk to you are the people who stab you back. The evil ones disguise themselves as an angel, but their hearts are rotted with envy and hatred towards you even with or without reasons.
Not everyone is happy with your progress
The people who clap and praise your success are not even the real ones. But rather they’re the one who badmouths you and curses you. Make and spread your flaws and imperfections to others to cover the idea of your success.
Your success gives them idea to drag you down
Not everyone is glad to know that you’re showing some success. These somehow give them the idea to turn you and drag you down. The ways you share all the processes along your journeys give them some hints or ideas about your weaknesses and strengths. These things will be their weapons against you.
Your downfall gives satisfaction to their grudges
The more you shared about your failures gives the more satisfaction to their grudges. The more they know about your difficulties the more they become happy and contented. The more you permit to know you from within the more they’re satisfied knowing all your rants and complaints in life.
These factors give me some realization that not everyone deserves to know everything about you. Not everyone is true, and not everyone is there for us. You can only recognize those people who are real when they’re with you when you’re down and struggling. These people that surround you are toxic that suffocates you.
This is a reminder that losing toxic people is a win. Nowadays, it’s not about how many friends you have; it’s alright if you only have one, two, or even none. The most important is to have peace of mind and heart, that’s really what matters. Do not be afraid to lose something because you know that you can win even more without them.
Keep hustling in silence, and let your silence scream for your success!
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Date Published: December 5, 2021
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