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I am now happy with my partner. And maybe some of you thinks that love life became so easy on me since I have been sharing how lucky I am to have my boyfriend now in my life. You are all wrong. I have been in so many heartbreaks too. Will you be surprised if I told how that I have been ghosted once?
Yes, you have read it right. One guy ghosted me and I could not forget that moment and how it happened. A part of my brain just do not forget it easily. And I am here to tell you another story.
I was in Senior High School back then and I have a friend who's taking Maritime. And as expected, he is with guys always. One time, he called and asked his friends to say hi to me. I greeted them and they said hello. Later that night, someone messaged me and told me that he was one of those guys that I had greeted. So, we started talking.
We were just talking in Facebook messenger first, and when we felt comfortable with each other, we exchanged numbers. We started calling each other, and he was singing songs for me before. I was really comfortable talking to him. We both love Mathematics, and also we were from the same strand Accountancy, Business and Management (ABM). I thought it was a perfect match.
We have met in person with our friends. We sometimes travel on the way to school together, and he sometimes wait for my dismissal so we could ride a bus together too. Everything was normal. Until the day that I could not forget came.
He told me that his load will expire in two hours. I asked him if he will register another promo so we can talk and text each other. He told me he will not. I was expecting a chat from Facebook messenger, but nothing came. I have waited for more than 5 hours, but he did not message me. But guess what? I can see that he is online.
I was so confused why he ain't sending a message to me. And I did message him. I asked him why he ain't messaging me. If you are a user of Facebook messenger, you know when your message was ignored. Yes, that is what happened between us.
One day, he just ignored my message. And that is when I realized that he ghosted me. I did not ask him why and what did I do to deserve that. I do not want him to feel so manly by asking him what went wrong. The only thing in my head before was, if you'll go, then go. I was not born to beg for someone to stay. And yes, he ghosted me.
Since he left me with a big question mark in my head, I did not bother to ask him or send another message. I will not make myself look pathetic over him, who is just a man. That is my mindset before after that. If he wants to go, then go. The door was always open if he is leaving. But, I really experienced the night where I asked myself where it went wrong, or if I was not enough. That is how it will be if you are left hanging, right?
If you are with someone or talking to someone, never ever ghost them. You do not know how hard it was to ask the questions why, how, and what. Just tell them that you do not want them anymore. Tell them that you want to end it, and leave. Do not just walk away without saying a thing, or without giving them a hint that you will leave.
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