Remain Alert When The Red Flags Are Flying!
Let the red flags warn you. Allow the signs bring you danger yet dare to look at every positive angle through your very own lens. It hurts to break but it is a remarkable moment that builds you. Whether you are honest in a relationship or not, you would always want to protect yourself against dishonesty and secrecy. Remain alert when the red flags are flying!
No one is perfectly perfect in a world that is full of lies for everyone seems to be perfectly imperfect. In the past, I had opened my views about the red flags in a relationship through a writing titled, "Waive The Red Flags And Wave Your Flag!". Being in a relationship is the best feeling in the world when two hearts are beating as one but it could also be the worst when your heart is broken into pieces. Whether we like it or not, the red flags in a relationship are truly existing but after all, choosing the right decision would always be at your end.
Perhaps in every relationship, red flags would give you the worst feelings. Let the red flags warn you. Allow the signs bring you danger yet dare to look at every positive angle through your very own lens. It hurts to break but it is a remarkable moment that builds you. Whether you are honest in a relationship or not, you would always want to protect yourself against dishonesty and secrecy. Remain alert when the red flags of love are flying. And just let yourself seek for the truth would always display at a perfect timing.
Remain alert when the red flags of love are flying!
You may often hear or experience about cheating in a relationship that is also a red flag. Cheating is a combination of dishonesty and secrecy. When one is dishonest, someone tends to take lies just to feel a short term comfort as one escapes a reality. On the other hand, when one is secretive, someone tends to hide a painful truth in all ways possible while things go wrong between lovers. One of the red flags of love could be having trust issues to a lover most especially when cheating comes into play.
Based on a real life experience, I could attest that dishonesty and secrecy are happening in a relationship through cheating. Remembering the old days back then, I was once cheated and even tasted how hurtful it is to be betrayed by the one you truly love. Fate lead me to be broken for once in my life. Little by little I felt like I am broken into pieces as I carried a heavy world, for it happened to me personally at a least expected time. He cheated and I cannot bear the pain in my heart. What a painful experience to be hurt yet it is also a best feeling to be loved. And that to commit dishonesty and secrecy in a relationship would always be a choice, and so with cheating. However, everything was over in the past and I had already accepted a painful truth with grace and dignity.
Consequently, the red flags of love are flying in a society that is so uncertain and unpredictable. Cheating is like a red flag that is filled with the elements of dishonesty and secrecy. Admit it that whether you are very honest in a relationship or not, you would always want to protect yourself against dishonesty and secrecy like cheating. Regardless of the situation may be, just remain alert when the red flags of love are flying and be mindful of the following:
Let the red flags warn you to bring danger signs yet dare to look at every angle of your very own lens as you choose a wise decision. Right is right and wrong is wrong. To commit dishonesty and secrecy through cheating would always be wrong. Dare to do for what is right even if only a few are honest. Be honest in a relationship even if others are not, will not, and cannot. If the red flags are already flying toward you, yet still fail to recognize it, simply reject comfort if and only if it makes you blind. Do not be blind with love when it already ruins your life. Simply trust that trust is an essential element for love to last forever along with a wise choice and decision of whether to stay or let go.
God is fixing your missing pieces. Time would surely come that you would be whole again. When time comes that the only person you dream for to be a partner in life is not meant for you, just let go and let God fix for your broken dreams. Remember to keep a strong, patient, and hopeful spirit, and just be fully grown through the worst. You may cry a river or an ocean of tears but never ever forget to rise once again and cherish the scars of yesterday. Even if you fail in love for some time, just say yes for love always and forever for it is the greatest matter that exist in the world, and learn the art of treasuring the best teachers in life through worst experiences.
Revive yourself with the best teachers in life. It is often through the worst and hardest lessons from the best teachers in life literally and figuratively that you may learn best as you become a great warrior who is becoming bolder and stronger timely. And a part of the best teachers in life is to be broken hearted. Accept a reality that not all things are beyond your reach and control for the red flags in a relationship could either ruin or make you. It hurts to break one day and it is so painful to be broken, yet it is also a very remarkable moment that builds you. Let being broken hearted make you a better person deciding for a best future as you greatly hold on and believe that all would be right and alright in time.
Moreover, choose for what is right, and that right is right and wrong is wrong. Reject comfort if and only if it makes you blind. Keep in mind that God is fixing your missing pieces. Simply let go and let God fix for your broken dreams. Just be fully grown through the worst so that you could rise once again and cherish the scars of yesterday. Most importantly, regardless of the situation is may it be sweet or bitter, just say yes for love always and forever.
Whether you like it or not, no matter how sweet a relationship is, there would always be bitterness. Love is not always like a bed of roses for sometimes a relationship is like a bed of thorns along with the red flags crossing your paths. But be always mindful to protect yourself against the red flags of love leading to dishonesty and secrecy through a great faith and a strong belief that your ways would always be enlightened and illuminated by the most luminous and powerful light from above. Remain alert when the red flags are flying!
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I am for sure looking out for those red flags!!! Thanks! :)