@Gently

I was absent from blogging I will first salute all my wonderful friends here on read.cash. I have really missed you people for over a month now, I have missed all the discussion and those good times I had during my stay on read.cash platform. This was really a great place to meet friends and also learned something from others people while also sharing your thoughts at the same time. I have really missed a lot for being absent from blogging for some days now. I didn't even become myself for being absent from my favorite site for over a month now. Not that I really stayed back from here. But I was absent for some reasons. I lost my device and this has been the cause of that that I couldn't visit here. I have tried all my best to buy a new device but to no avail, things are not really easy now. And phone prices is too much in this side. The economy is not really favorable to me here. I really missed this platform and I have also missed reading some interesting post. My device was stolen by some bad gangs. While I was returning back from a long journey at night time. I saw some group of boys heading towards my lane and to me I didn't know what was going on. The next thing they all surrounded me with weapons and took everything that I was with. And because of this incident and how they stole my device, life hasn't been easy with me here. Sometimes I wonder how people would be happy to steal from one another without having the second thought in their minds. They wouldn't even think how would this person feels. People would just react in such a way that would push one another into an evil act. But I know they are good days and bad days. But this incident has really affected me. I wasn't really myself the first day this incident happened. I have stayed for some days without going online or doing any other thing or social media. I'm just staying like that unless if I'm not using someone's phone to do one or two thing. I won't know what's going on in the world. Friends I really came to say Hi to you guys. I'm using my friends device for now I'm still planning to buy my own very soon so that I can get back to my favorite site. I might not be really active as usual for now for I will try as much as possible to respond to some comments. Please don't get offended if I do not respond to you at the right time. This has caused me to pains, and also the plans I had for the year have scattered. I really feel pains inside. But since this has happened there's nothing I can do since they didn't take away my life. At least I still have an opportunity to strive harder. I still have hope in life, if I can't get it today I have hope for tomorrow. Lead image from source Thank you all.

People knows where they're heading to An amazing greetings to all my Read.cash friends. I really want to appreciate each and everyone here. Though is being a while since I make a post here, but all the same I am here. That happen due to some certain challenges I when through that didn't give me chance to do anything. I really apologize for being absent for quite some days. I hope everyone is doing well.? I am very happy to reach out to you guys once again. Today I what to point out some certain things that we normally use to do, or should I called it some mistakes that we normally do. And to some of us we do not see it as mistakes or as if we're not doing anything wrong. There are some certain things that we act wrongly and unknowingly to us we take it as if we are totally right. All this things are what we should try to stop it, or iron them out in order to not to be harmful to those our neighbors living around us in our society as well. There are most people that knows where they are heading to. Before most people take their steps or begin a particular program, they have their own very target. They really have in mind where they are going to, or how they want it to looks like. I likely use to say that when a man become stranded on his journey, it could be that such person started a journey without having no idea of his destination at the first place. People sometimes use to do such, but a reasonable human being will not just begin a journey without any idea of where he wants to end his journey. People knows their way about, they don't just start a journey without having a plane plan on where they are going to, or what will be the outcome of what they want to achieve. People knows where they are heading to before they even make a step towards it. Before they make any action be it bad or good, they have something that they want to achieve. It could be in the end it doesn't work out as they expected, but that doesn't mean that they didn't have their own direction and their own expectations. An artist who carried out a drawing, knows exactly how he wants his drawing to be. He has a plane picture of how he wants his drawing to looks like. He has his own finishing level. But people sometimes try to conclude it for them without knowing their minds, and the exact picture of what the artist have in their mind. Why should we like to conclude what we do not know. Why should we try to conclude for people when those people that we are trying to conclude for, have their own plans already. It is said, pencil in the hand of a creator. Every creator has his own finishing plan, he has in his inner mind what he wants to achieve and the picture he is trying to figure out at his finishing level. So there's no need people concluding for him when he had already have the clear picture on his mind. Everyone have in mind what and how they want their life to look like. But at some point people do try to mislead them. People try to confuse in so many ways. But I am seeing those who easily get confused by people like those classes of people who do not have where they're heading to. Most people knows where exactly they are heading to. It would be when other people comes in with their confusion, they will be able to stand their ground in other not to get confused due to those plans the had in mind. People can easily convince you and take you out from your plan, but what will help you is when you know where you're are heading to, once you have a clear picture of how you want your life to be, nobody would control your life, or no body will help you to live your life. You will be the one living your life alone. If we want to get those things we are hopeful for, we have to know our ending point. We have to draw our own plans even before time. We shouldn't allow People to control us due to our inability of knowing what exactly how we want it to be. People are different and so are their plans. We shouldn't think that their plans should also looks the same like our own. People knows where they are heading to. Lead Image from source

Time management *If you want to buy things without having to look at the price, then you have to work without having to look at the clock.* -Unknown- Time management is the most underrated key to achieving success. If we must achieve our goals we must manage our time well. Everyone is the manager of their own time, once you manage your time wrongly it will really affect you, if not today it will really affect you tomorrow. And then we know that we will never get that same time back. Everything created by God has it's own purpose and it's very own function and it's uses. Time was not just make for fun. It was created for a reason, we don't use time like we do use our mirrors. Time play a very good vital role in human's lives and their activities. Time was made for people to use it accordingly. What I mean is that clock was manufactured to help individuals to achieve their plans well. People that knows how important time is do not like to waste every minutes of their time. The moment what they have in their plan is up they will quickly run into what they have in the same moment. Successful people are those that can make good use of their time, they are good managers to their time. They have time to work, they have time to take a break and rest, they have time to attend meetings. Sometimes I really wonder if they do rest at all, until when I met with one of them and interacted with him. That's where I could discover that they really manage their time well. They have a time table for themselves. So we have to create a time table for ourselves and set up our plans according to the time. This would be the very best way that we can start managing well our time. When we are able to set a time table for ourselves, we would be able to manage and follow it well. We won't just rush into some certain things, rather we will do it one by one according to how we have fixed it our time table. The successful people are the classes of people who don't joke with time. From this angle I will suggest that we start managing our time well, if we want to become successful, we must be time conscious, we have to manage our time, we have to treat our time well. Knowing that once we misuse it, it will affect us in the future. Time management really matters, when we mix up our time it becomes a very big problem to us. There's time for everything. Even God on his own. He has his own time and seasons of doing things. I have being hearing some prophecy from God in the scripture. When he wants to do a particular thing He will say, according to this time. Which means God has a set time of doing things. God is working according to his time. There are time you will called him and he doesn't really response quickly, not that he doesn't really hear your voice, but it'ss just that it is not yet his time. I learnt a lesson when Marry the mother of Jesus sent message across to Jesus, telling him that there's no wine for the people to drink, and Jesus answered. "Woman my time isn't yet come. And behold when came his time he performed a miracle that baffles a lot of people. I once present an opportunity to a very good friend of mine. And I was so surprised by his response, after I have had a brief discussion with him. He replied that he doesn't have time that he has been so busy. And I asked him what he has been busy doing?. He was unable to tell me what really entered my hear. And I later find out that hasn't make a good use of his time. He hasn't create a very good time table for his self and that is why he couldn't tell me exactly what he as been busy doing. I asked him if at all you're that much busy is your account balance as busy as are?. He said no that he is even in need of funds. I told him friend you're busy doing doing nothing. You have to create yourself a good time table, you have to give yourself a little rest. You have to use your time wisely. This is what I explained to him, which I think you might also benefit from it. I told him out of 24 hours that we have in a day. You work at least 9hours. You sleep 7hours. What do you do we the remaining 8 hours? This is where we always waste most of times, I wouldn't blame him or either myself, but at least we were able to fix some certain things back. If we could check the price and the quality of what ever we want to buy well. We also have to do the same with checking our time. Time is money like they say, we should manage it more than we could manage our funds. **Lead Image from source**

Money is power Money is power, money is what makes someone man enough. What do you want to buy that money doesn't involve.? Money is really important to everybody in our society today. People are really interesting in making money, today if you tell people that they are easy way to make money, they will be ready to follow such steps. People have really chase after money and I think that is what makes money to be very powerful today. If a man chase after money, he might not easily gets it, until when money start chasing after him. It will be the more a man keep chasing after money the more money is running away from him. Money is very powerful to the extent that it can turns away a friend's mind from one another.Or it can changes a brother's character towards one another. People really respect those who have money than those who doesn't have. People really regards those with money than those who doesn't have. Nobody will like to listen to people that have no money than those that have. Those with money are those with morale, they can easily command people to do something because they know they have what it takes to do such. Money is power.People with money easily can control the crowd. It's said that what money cannot do, more money can do. There's a hidden secret that lies in the power of money that most people are yet to understand. It was said that money is the second God to a man here on earth after God the over all, and I have really come to understand the saying well. Money helps a lot, money matters alot to men here on earth. Money is really powerful, money speaks faster, money can stop the mess and insult that might come to individual. Most problems we have everyday is being solve with the use of money. Money is power, people uses it to send an errand, people sometimes bribe one another with the use of money. People sometimes get confused on what to do due to the level of money that is being used to threatening them with. Money which can be seen as liquid assets is very important and valuable. People can climb to the highest mountain, or they can do anything just to get this money. Anything that involves money will really get done, provided it done, is really the saying you will hear once anything involve a big amount of money. Even if to kill one another provided it done since a huge amount of money is involves. Some friends can change their character and the way they used to behave before because of this money. A friend ignored his very good friend because of the amount of money he has. Silas and David were very good friends, they planned together, they ate together but something strange happen that David ignored Silas his best friend. David stopped picking his friend's calls, he ignores his friend's chat on social media and in every form of connections. It happens that David won a bet worth many millions of dollars, the only thing he did was to inform his friend Silas that he's travelling out the state that his uncle who stays abroad wants him to come over. He didn't tell his friend what really happened, when his friend later realise what happened he has already blocked his friend's access from reaching out to him. Even when he returns back and saw his friend, he didn't react as if he knows his friend, his friend Silas even when to him and he didn't wanted to talk to him. To him he feels that he has enough money that Silas his friend is not up to his level. And that is how they seperated from each other. Money is power even the small children of nowadays can easily recognise money, before then children could easily recognise toys, if they cry and you give them toy the will calm down, but now most of them don't value toy anymore they easily recognise Money. Money is power. If you have money you will always enjoy living , but life without money is meaningless, life without money is not making sense. **Lead Image from source**

Hello June! Happy new to all my friends, and all my sponsors here on read.cash platform. Welcome to the the month of June, If l could wish you all anything, I wish you all dreams come true in the month of June. I pray all your prayers will be answered, those things you could not achieved in the past month will be achieve this month by the grace of the Almighty God. It is said that the expectations of the righteous shall never be cut off. *Great wishes to all my able sponsors, I really appreciate you all for your kind generosity.* Good bye to the month of may, it's another new month with much hope. The new month of June please be kind and be faithful to all my read.cash friends. I'm pleading with you be nice and be gentle to my friends, be good to them and be truthful to me also, let every moment bring goodnews, right from the sunrise to when it's goes down, just be nice like a lovely mother being nice to her newly born baby I have a strong conviction that God will not leave us half way, he is ever faithful not to disappoint us. There is no mountains that he can't climb for our sake, there's no price hasn't paid. My earnest hope is on him because he has promise that he will go before us, he said when we shall pass through waters ,he will be with us and it shall not overwhelm us, even when we pass through the fire we shall not be burned, and the flame shall not consume us. **Image source** Hello June!, it is I Gently by name, listen to my request that I have made so far. The month with green leaves and roses, the month with joy and blessings. All I need is good things, good message from time to time, All am expecting from you is more testimony, more promotion, more contract, plenty money every way and a hand check of congratulations. I want to shout with a voice of triumphant, I want to sing songs of praises, this is my wishes and my prayers. I believe willyou never forget all my request,? I believe you will never disappoint me?. It's half of a year and very soon we will round up the year, how are you all doing, how is about your target for the year? What and what have you achieved so far?. Let's keep pushing forward, let's keep believing on our efforts, what men called impossible is always possible with God, he is the God of impossibility, he will do what he says he will do, just present all your plans to him, why trying to do the little you can and leave the remaining to God. Friends once again welcome to the month of June, it's a new month, a new chapter and a new page, I pray may this new month of June bring you new things, may it surprise you with gift, may it give you inner peace, joy, happiness, love, confidence. June will not bring you tears, it will not bring you sickness, it will not bring you shame, rather in place of shame you will have double glory, in place of tears you will have fun and laughter. I wish you all a happy new month. **Lead Image from source**

The magic spear Oh where will I ever find my spear.? What will i do to see my spear.? Can anyone help me out.? I am so helpless and hopeless. No body will ever calm my mind except they give me my magic spear. Nothing will transmute my mood unless except my magic spear. Oh spear of confidence, spear of amenity, spear of contentment wouldn't you listen to my shriek, what will I ever do to bring you back.? What did I do wrong that you decided to treat me so badly, I have suffered a lot rummaging for you, yet to no avail. My humble spear of comfort, how I wish you have an ear to hear me, how I wish you have an eye to see my mood, how I wish you have the same feeling for me like I do have for you, you know I so much treasured you, you never know how I value and cherish you, but where you are right now is really giving me a tough moment. How do I know if you are safe, how do I know if you are feeling alright, you know I always place you on a high esteem, where are you disappearing to.? Will they ever do all what I have been doing to you.? Will they give you a time and the value I always place on you.? I will leave you to sumise about it. I have asked questions both secretly and openly on how I can find you, I have gone into the deepest and the unfathomable part of the world, I have gone beyond boundless just in search for my magic spear, but I can finds it, will I ever give up.? No I will not, I will still keep up searching for my magic spear. **Image source** I placed my magic spear on the palm tree, now I cannot find it anymore where is it disappearing to, could it be that someone took it away from where I kept it? After my deepest research and with my sense of sensation I saw a burning smoke near where I place my magic spear, then I when straight to the smoke with my helpless feelings, I asked the burning smoke where my magic spear could be, they replied that my magic spear mistakenly fell into the fire, and it's has been burnt by the heat of the fire. I asked where I could find my magic spear even if is the skeletal part of it, they said that the little hen has scattered the place where the fire were burnt, I asked for the little hen they said that the little hen has been killed by a great hunter, when I asked for the hunters where about, they replied that the gunter has died. I can stop crying for my magic spear which was given to by my great grand father, and it was so meaningful to me, could it be it's my carelessness that made my spear to fall inside the fire, oh what will I say to people when the ask me of my precious gift, what will be my answer, even if they wouldn't ask me about the spear I am totally stranded because of the spear. Where will I start from, no body will even calm me now, I am even over thinking and my temperature is high. The fire that burnt my magic spear I am here waiting for you to join me, why do you want to spare my life, if you were so kind-hearted like that why didn't you spare my magic spear, is either you provide me my magic spear or you come and take away my life. Fire why,? Why did you decide to put me into these mess, even if you were sent by people to burn my spear wouldn't you say no to their evil errand, now that you have decide to wet my tears with heavy tears, what is your gain,? How many amount of money have they paid you, is it a bribe that they bribe you and you accepted such bribe. Where did you vanish to? Mr fire you connive with the little hen and the great hunter and sent away my magic spear of love, spear of coverage, and my spear of peace. I have been deliberated on this issue every seconds and minutes yet i find no solution to it,? This is just a fictional writing, it's just an imaginations that I imagined, I remember those days where our grandfather use to called all of us out and start telling us stories and fiction, I think I can still remember a lot of them, if people are still instersting in such fiction I think I will come up with so many of them. Magic spear is just a stick or a kind of metal form, with a sharp tip, it was used as a good weapon for throwing in those days, it was just like a gun then in the olden days, they were talented people who throw it without missing the target, they were people that was known as spearman. It was transferable, when the father died and he will leave it to the child, so it was just going round like that till is either the spare become lost or something else happen to it. Lead image from source

If not now, when? *Right now is the best time to create your tommorow.* *-**Ken Poirot* *The time is now, the place is here. Stay in the present. You can do nothing to change the past, and the future will never come exactly as you plan or hope for*. -*Unknown* The best time to do what we have to do is now, because if we miss any chance it might not really be possible to get it back. There's nothing that a wise man can do to stop the time, the time is keeping moving everyday by day, so we have to do what we suppose to do, there are much work to do today, and there will be also another work for tommorow, so if we fail to do what we suppose to do today and sift it against tomorrow, it would be so stressful to us. It may definitely happen as tommorow comes we can not completely it and we keep dwelling on postponing, it will definitely become much load to us. So the purpose for today should be done today instead of doing it tomorrow, because we might not know what tommorow may brings. Each day has its own work and it's own condition, everyday was created for a purpose, though we normally use to keep free day for ourselves, I don't think if the day itself does it. Because if it does it time would have waited for us to come back from the holidays. If not now, when.? This is a question that I am asking myself and you too may also like to ask yourself, let me first take out the log that is in my own eye, so that I will see clearly the to take the speck out from those of my friends eye. If I fail to do what I suppose to today, that it will be of benefit for me in the future, when will I do it again.? Is it in my old age that I will do it.? If I stop working hard for my brighter future that it's never late when will I start working for it.? Image source Our youthful age is when we should be working hard for our future, any mistake we make during our youthful age might affect us in our old age, we have to be very careful in the way of doing things today if we want to really enjoy our tommorow. Working hard is stressful, staying broke is painful. So the choice is left for us. Now is the time we have to make our choice, our choice today will tell us where we will be tomorrow, so when we are about to make our choice we should always think if it is going to favour us during our old age. If not now, when? when else are we going to do it, remember that if we decide to work hard today, that will definitely allow us to work less tommorow. This is just a simple skill that is involve in life, and it looks like solving a mathematics problem, once you have the correct formula and follow it step by step, it will be a little easier for you to get the answer, the only way it seems as if it's hard is that we sometimes lack the right formula to do the calculations. There is no need of us waiting for the perfect time,the perfect time is now, the right time is here, as a young person we have everything it's takes to push ourselves, there's no need of waiting for the fitting day, is not everyday that will be perfect sometimes we have to fix in ourselves to make it a perfect and a fitting day. Remember that there's nothing that can even stand on way if we want to achieve something, we can always get to that mountain top if only we want, but it is all about us, we become our problems. Now is the best time for us to move, now is the good time to take actions, because if not now we might not have the chance anymore. I leave you with quotes by Steve Jobs. *Your time is limited, so don't waste it in living someone else's life.* *Don't be trapped by DOGMA-which is the result of living with other people's thinking.* *Don't let the voice of other people's opinion to drown out your own inner voice.* *And most importantly have the courage to fellow your heart and intuition.* Lead Image from source

Your why will help you to find your way *The two important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out your why.* -*Mark Twain*- My humble greetings to everyone on read.cash and a lovely happy sunday to every christians, I am so grateful to have you in my page today. Thank you for always coming around, your presence here is very important to me.. you're welcome once again. What is your why? This has been a question that seems so be difficult for a lot of people to answer. What is your why as being that one particular question that people can search by spending their time on it, the question might looks common but it's not all the little things that we see as they are common that are common. Most things we specify as common is not just common, because from my knowledge I understand that anything that we prescribe as common doesn't really takes time. What is your why.? This Is not just a common question to those who understands it, if it were a common question people would have find it easily to find their why, it wouldn't be a thing that will take someone some years before they could find their own why and begins to walk towards the direction of their why. What is your why? Until you find out the reason you're living life that is when you arrive to the world, remember it's either you're living life or life is living you. All this things goes down to our choice. Why has a lot of meaning, for what cause, what reason or purpose. When you know your why, you will know for what cause you have to do what you are doing, for what cause you should sleep late at night or for what reason you have go through those pains and hard times. Or for what reason you have to study hard or, for what reason you have to work hard, when you find your why that is where your purpose will be easily possible for you to know. It is because of our why that we tends to do what we do not suppose to do, it's our why that will always bring us out from our comfort zone to see life out side the comfort zone. When you know your why you will find your way. When a person knows his why he will not relax his mind anymore, the reason why people are still relaxing their minds is that they have not being able to figure out their why. It is only the little children that will relax thier minds, because they do not know their why yet, their work is just when they are in need of anything they will just walk up to their parents and request for it, and the parents will make sure they provide it for them so their purpose in life is not yet known to them and that is why they don't have problem in life. **Image source** Most people that take no for an answer are those classes of people who have made their why stronger, they have made their why stronger in the sense that they have reasons of not falling back. Those with strong why are not easily to surrender to any suitaution, instead of the falling backward they will rather fall forward, they don't have time to give an excesses, they don't blame other people for being the caues of their failures, instead it will be when they fall they will sit up again, they will even blame themselves instead of seeing others as the fault. *When you know why you do what you do, even the toughest day become easier* *-**Micheal Hyatt**-* This is one of the quote I normally like by Micheal Hyatt. When you know the reason for doing what exactly you're doing, there's nothing you will listen to, no one will easily convince you to stop the important thing you know that if you do it will help you get what you want in the future. Even the toughest time will not stand a chance to stop you, you will be keeping going even when the going gets tough. When writing a story of your life. Don't let anyone else to hold your pen. It is only those who do not know their why that normally allow people to control them. When you know your why move straight to the direction with strength, keep making your why to be more stronger everyday by day. **Lead Image from source**

How do we react to people? *Not that people wouldn't want to help you, but they can't just help you because of your character*. -*Unknown*- There are some situations that people would have asissted us but when they come to think about our behavior the flee away from us. It is not that they are bad people but when they look straightly into our life style they just remember what we are capable of during. Your life style can attract people and they come close to you, and it's can also chase people away from you, those are the reality of life, it's not everything happening that are magic, people are after your character and behavior. You might have everything in the world but if you lack a good character in you that is left for you. They said a rich man has many friends, but a poor man lacks friends, a rich man with a bad attitude will only have a circle of friends that are just going for the riches he has, once they get what exactly they want from them, they tend to withdraw back themselves. When a poor man has a character the circle of friends that he will attract will be those who will like to stand by him, because they when after the character not after the riches he has, this types of friends are the ones we can called true friends, they are the people that will assist and stand by you even in the stormy seasons. What ever a man is, he is know by the people around him. There are people that are looking at you, you might think that no body is watching but let me suprise you they are, people are watching your foot steps to know if you are good or if are a bad type, even some of your secret things it might suck you when people will tell you about it. So what's life that we shouldn't try as much as possible to live a good and simple life with those of our neighbors. What is life that we shouldn't take one another as they are also humans like we are. What do we have that we where not given,? and what exactly do we achieve that other person has never gotten.? We should always have this at the back of our minds, because when we know about this, this is what will exactly humble us to live a good and simple life in our society. Always try to ask yourself some certain questions like, if I die today would people say good thing about me, or if I got into danger would people agree to assist me out.? It is through this questions that we will be able to sit back and amend our ways, always have a heart of helping others. When you have a golden heart of helping others there will always be a resources. Image source I read a certain post on social media, where by a tiger got it's self into a trap. From the story i learnt that the tiger was about to remove something from a spoil kettle and unfortunately to him, when he put in it's head he couldn't remove it's head out, and in the cause of trying to get out it's head from the kettle he left the inside forest where it was, to outside the town where people were able to see him. Since the kettle has cover it's sights he couldn't see any where even when he was close to people he didn't even notice his way about. It's was in a position where people could help him but people were so afraid to render help to him. Because of the character it has people could not help him because they knows if they try to uncover the kettle from it's face it will even fight against the person. The tiger which is a wild animal wouldn't spare people's life if its meet people in the forest, so people are always scared of it when ever they see tiger. So been as it may people were just passing by instead of rendering help to it, but they couldn't just do it because of the kind character it has. Most of our characters and our attitude have chase people way from us, even when we needs help from them, they will become afriad of helping us, with so many thoughts in their minds that if they help ui, that we might harm them in return.. Lead Image from source

How to deal with broken promises *And the sad part is that eggs and promises are meant to be broken* *-**Singh**-* An amazing greetings to you all, I am so grateful to come your way again. I am back again today with the continuation of what makes people to break promises if you didn't read the first part your can do as well to read it here. The first part of the article was an explanation of why people breaks some of the promises they do make to other people. We were able to explain and people came on with good contributions which brought a very good understanding to so many people, which I am truly believe that people have in one where or the order gain a little knowledge about what really makes people to break promises that they have made. I won't explain further, today like I have said earlier what we are going to talk on, we wouldn't be talking with only our mouth but we will be talking with the use of ink and paper, eheheh. Without much ado, let's move straight to what we are having today. How can we deal with the broken promises.? There are ways we can still amend it, like it's said that they don't kill a person who make mistake, rather they caution him or her, or if the mistake was too big enough and it's due for penality they will give to the person rather than killing. The wise people have done so much that they could always be a way out to deal with those who misbehave sometimes, because they themselves they knew that no man is ever smart enough not to make mistakes. We know broken promises will always cause the heart to feel sick, but are we going to remain sick for ever? No we have to keep moving, if the eggs that people sees physically and handle it with much care can fell on the ground and break, then what is promise that people wouldn't break after making it by giving you much hope and trust. Here are some ways , or how we can always deal with the broken promises; Image source Finding solutions They are many ways we can resolve broken promises, the two parties can always come together to find solutions that will help them to stand up again. Unlike what people really do, when ever broken promises occur, some people would say a word like I don't what to even see her with my eyes, or l don't even have time to listen to his nonsense words anymore. When promises are broken it doesn't mean we should kill ourselves,they is always a way out, we can come together and discuss about the causes of it. It shouldn't mean we should run away when ever we experience such. If we can build up our trust again it would be in the place of discussion that we will find reasons why it happens that's way, then we will always look forward for aaway to stop it from not happening again. Practice honesty We have to be honest if we want to deal with broken promises, like in a relationship where we broke the promises we made, I think the best way to avoid it is to bring in honesty. We have to practice honesty, we have to avoid making some promises that we wouldn't be able to fulfill in the end. When we are dealing with the broken promises we have to be very sure of what we promise to each other. There most be a new policy which would be better enough to keep the relationship going. Forgive but don't forget Forgive but don't forget might sounds unrepented. But this doesn't really means people can't easily forgive but when we are dealing with broken promises, we have to forgive but not forgetting the causes that lead to the broken promises that occurred before. If we forgive and also forget, the same mistake might likely comes up again. Know and also accept that some suitautions are beyond your control We can always move forward in any broken promises by knowing that some suitautions are beyond humans control. We know that no body is perfect and there's nobody that answers righteous as his or her name, even if they do answer that is fake name. What I know is that there is no man that is about mistakes. We should always try to deal with broken promises, there's always a way out, for the fact that people are not been able to meet up to their target shouldn't end up the relationship that we were into, we need to know that promises are just words spoken by people. I leave you with this quote" what does the heart & promises have in common? They're are meant to kept, But always end up broken. Lead Image from source

What makes people to break promises *Don't believe someone when they say to never hurt you. Be smart enough to know that no body can keep that promise forever* -Unknown- *Broken vows are like broken mirrors they leave those who held to them breeding and staring fractured and image of themselves.* -Richard Paul Evans- I extend my humble greetings to everyone in the house. I hope everyone is doing good? I am so excited to meet with you once again, your presence means a lot to me. Today we are going to look at what really makes people to break the promises they made. Like it is said humans are humans, human beings are not God, they have the humans nature, So it's only God that we should think he will never break the promises he made to us through our forefathers. But when it comes to humans making promises to others, there most always be a scratch somewhere, humans are humans once things are out of their control there is nothing they need can do against it. Promise which can be seen as a process where by a person assures one another, that he or she will not do this, or he will not do that. Promise is a kind of giving someone a hope, making someone to trust on what you have said that you will do or will not do. Promise can also be seen as someone giving one another an expectations which is very important to them. In the other hand promise can be seen as a oath or vow that two persons goes into. They are promise that people make with an agreement like if you do this, this is what will happen, or if you can help me out, this what I will do. Mostly some of the people that do make promises are those who needs power and they will saying anything that will sounds good to our hearing, or those who are into courtship, dating and others. This are people making some promise like if you can sacrifice your time by waiting for me to finish with my studies, I will marry you in return. Most of the promises that people made involve paying back. Sometimes disappointment do comes in when it is time for one to redeem the promises they have made to each other, paying back time is when I am so so sorry for not been able to keep the promise I made with you. Or something like I am so so sorry it wasn't meant for us to be together. But this sounds so funny at this point the only thing that will comes in will be heart break and discomfort. My question is if you were in such shoe what will you do? But to me since I know that humans are humans that they can definitely change anytime, I will just encourage myself and move on, knowing that it is the promises that they broke, they are not breaking my life. The only assured that they would! Since they couldn't fulfill their promises, that is all right. We always learn lessons in every thing that happens to us, be it good or bad, we must derive an important lesson from it. Promise can be broken just as fast as they were made. People can make promise to one another within a seconds and they can also break it a seconds, it takes people nothing to break the promises they made. Nothing last for not even the life we live, you can see someone being well healthy today and tomorrow you can't see them anymore, that's even the hand works of God that doesn't last forever talk a lot of promises that people will just agree between one another. What only happens when people break the promises, it's either you will feel how your loyalty is being totally betrayed, or your trust as being betrayed. I can say in most cases like in courtship trust normally breaks promises, it could be one another could feels that his or her trust is for granted. This may cause a lot of so many things. Broken promises to a lot of people who were so madly in love with one another can resolve to so many things, it's will only take someone some times to gets well, and also to return back to his or her normal self. Image source There are reasons that makes people to break their promises as we are going to look at it. Those reasons are; Inability to reach those expectations we vow to keep Inability to reach to some expectations we promised people that we will make it up them can easily lead to broken promises, both in courtship and in normal friendship. Let's look at courtship first, it could be we promised our partner that we will buy them so so thing by the month end, and unfortunately we couldn't meet up our target and we keep procrastinating on it without being able to open up to them. In normal friendship it could be we borrowed money from them and we really assured them that we are not going to fail them but unfortunately we fail to reach the expectations we made, and this lead to broken promises. Being careless about some certain things Carelessness being the most destroyer can break a promises, if you are a person that always careless about some certain things, when you see something that you suppose to take action you still keep it and become careless about it, the worst will come to the worst one day where you wouldn't be able to ignore it anymore. Carelessness doesn't really help in a relationship. Lack of commitment Like we normally use to say, it is only change that is constant. People change and promises are broken, people can change anytime, people can become tired of certains commitment they used to carried out before. And when commitment lacks in a particular relationship it is not making sense at all, people can really promise what they know they will not be able to do it, but they are just doing it to make one another to feel exited, which in the other hand when he fails to do exactly, that is when the broken promises will comes it. 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Seek for the right information *The right information brings knowledge. And knowledge is power, sharing it is empowerment.* -*Seth Godin*- Hello to all my readers, my good friends and my able sponsors, I am so honored to be part of this great platform called read.cash. Everyone here is important to me, I am here because you are there, I always come around to meet with your instersting post, to also learn new things from you so as to gather more experience in other to defeat every challenge that will comes my way. I can say that I have in one way or the order gathered some instersting information here on read.cash platform. I celebrate everyone's grace of writing, I don't want to mention people's name because I know if I do, my ink and my paper wouldn't have space to content all of them. And I wouldn't like to risk my brain on such issues. Information which is the act of having right knowledge about a particular thing, we have right information and wrong information, it is not all the information that are correct, some are fake ones which means the wrong ones are not helpful to us, the wrong ones will keep us dormant and stop us from growing. It is the right information that will change us both financially, academically. It is through getting the right information that we become updated on what ever will happen in the next two to four years to come. *The more people who have access to this vital information the better society will be.* -*Russell*- Image source We have to seek for the right information, according to Russell's quote he says that "The more people who have access to this vital information the better society will be.' lf we can get him right, it's therefore means that people that have access to the right information will transform the society. There are people that have the good access to the vital information, but they don't take actions towards it. They only people who will change the society for better are those that will put in their much efforts. An information that is 100% sure of, contributes knowledge to those that get it. Then knowledge which is said to be powerful, when distributing it to other people it's become empowerment. The right information is a straight and direct information, its an information that is sure of, and once a person who was seeking for it finds it and takes action on it, it brings in more enlightenment, it's brings in more changes that can place him up top if he were below. *The modern globalizing world information sows the seed of prosperity, and those who are without access to information are at a distinct disadvantage when it's comes to building future for themselves and for their children.* -*Shashi Tharoor*- Image source Information is very important, anyone that is with the right and good information can easily succeed in life, because they had access to the right information. Everyone have his or her own information, there are people that have information of how the world will be in the next 20 years to come. And it might be because of the information they had and they have to work according to it. They are many people that have the information on what to invest on this year that is going to give them much gain by next year.. *The world is not ideal, and the only weapons we can give to our children is information. Information which is not pretty, but honest..* -*Christina Saralegui* *-* The right information becomes the only weapon we can use in today's 21st century, honest information is what the parents can transfer to their children if they must need their children to become successful in life. Lead Image from source

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How to deal with discouragement *Discouragement is the enemy's favorite tools to use against you. He knows there is greatness inside of you. Fight back get your life back.* -Unknown- *Obstacle don't have to stop you if you run into a wall, don't turn around and give up, figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.* -Michael Jordan- Discouragement is what we face in our everyday's life, and if I want to put it across like a question if there is anyone that doesn't get discourage or experience it sometimes, I believe a lot of people will come out with good response. While I will only ignore someone that claims that he hasn't experience discouragemnt in his life before. We are all living in the world that is full with positiyv and negativity, we are living in the cazy world, in which if you listen to what people would say to you, you will get confused and get discourage. *I feel so honored to have you all as my sponsors, I really appreciate my two new sponsors, thank you all for such generosity.* As far as life is concern there is no human that will not experience it, but the only thing is that we need to overcome some discouragements, so many things that exists today exit as a result of some people overcoming their discouragement. Some people can loss confidence through many ways, it could be through people that they were putting their hope on suddenly turn them down, or it could be through what they listen to that make them get discourage. Learn to deal with discouragement, the ship in an ocean doesn't sink through the water that disturb it's movement, it's only sink when the water get inside the ship. There is no need of letting what people are doing or saying to discourage us from doing what we suppose to do, we can always deal with discouragement and make out way from it, discouragement is involve in the battle of success. There are so many ways one can deal with discouragemnt which can also be known as loss of confidence and stands out as a winner instead of a loser. We can overcome our discouragement through the following ways; Be likely to put your focus on things you can do best Be likely to put your focus on things you can do best; what do you know you can do best.? What do you know that you are good at?, what do you know you can deliver when ever you are being call upon? Love doing does things and be more focus on that, that is exactly where you will gain much confidence, even when people would wants to discourage you, and it will be too late for them to do it.. Learn to admit discouragement to yourself Learn to admit discouragement to yourself, admit it's knowledge , also recognize it, people who never feel discouraged have not yet arrive the battle field, they have not yet experience the world. Ask questions from those who has gone ahead of you Ask questions from those who has gone ahead of you, ask them if they have felt discourage before,and if they reply you with yes, get to know how they manage to overcome it, and from there you will have a good tips on how to deal with yours. Learn to solve a small challenges on your own Learn to solve a small challenges just on your own, if you must become man enough it wouldn't be every challenge that you will take to your parents, they are some that you will handle by yourself Learn to encourage yourself and someone else Learn to encourage yourself and someone else, by so doing you will gain the confidence and some other people will be there to encourage you in your own days when you will be battling with it. Let go of some certain things Learn to let go of some certain things, when you see that thing are getting out of your control, don't force yourself in. Just let go of them and be free your mind. Conclusion If that bad circumstances gives you twenty reasons to get you discourage, write down up to a hundred reasons that should keep you encourage.. Don't' be discourage it could be that last key in your bunch that would open the door, discouragement is the devil's most valuable tools. Lead Image from source

Use your tongue and count your teeth *The tongue has no bones, but it is strong enough to breaks heart. So be careful with your words.* -Unknown- *The tongue is but a small, soft fresh. Yet it is capable of breaking the strongest bonds and destroy the most powerful relationships.* -Yasir Quahi- A very good number of us have make a great mistakes though the bad way of using our tongues, our tongues can do many different things, it depends on how we use it and it becomes useful to us, and they are ways we use it and it becomes harmful to us. We can simply cause numerous damages through the wrong way of using our tongues, though we might see it as a very small organ in the body but it is so piosonious than the snake poison, it can quickly kills and destroyed. The tongue can cause explosion that can explode more faster than the bomb, alot of anger that people get are most generated from the tongue. Anger and hatred originated from the lies and false accusations that the tongue gives. There will be no reaction without a force, so most of the action people do take comes as a result of the misusing of our tongues, the moment we fail to understand the demage and the violence that our tongues could cause that's where we create more harms to ourselves and to the people around us. Sometimes alot of people will even dream of coming up with words they know it will cause fight and separation amongst too parties, people will just wake up with hatred in their hearts against another brother or sister, it might be this other sister had offended her in one way or the other but she still holds back the pains inside looking for way to revenge the sister, and since there's no other way to revenge than to cook lies against her.. to plot evil against a sister by saying what she didn't do. Use your tongue and count your teeth before you say anything you want to say. Use your tongue and count your teeth is like a proverbs, it means know exactly what you are saying don't mix words with words, think twice before you release any word form your mouth, because once you say a thing that is what people will take. Use your initiative when ever your are speaking, know that people are really after those wrong words you would say than the correct ones.. Image source Use your tongue and count your teeth in anything speech in anything you might say, be wise in saying, be conscious of what you want to say at any giving opportunity, know that the way you speaks is how people will regards you, it is good to say the right and direct thing at a time than beating around the bush. The word we speaks are not just mere words there are power that lies in the tongue, so the words we release also goes out with power., We have to be very careful of what ever we must say in other not to cause anger or hatred amongst others.. The tongue can paint what eyes can not see, our words are invisible, therefore it can paint what our very own eyes can not see automatically, the words we speaks are like spirit it's quite difficult for us to see it. And even without our notice it is still doing what we are ignorance of, it's still causes problems and seperaring people from their relationships. Our tongues has it's own advantage and disadvantage, our tongues can beautify and also destory, it's all depends on us and the way we uses it. Use your tongue and count your teeth in your mouth, we need to be careful before we say anything that we want to say, we don't have to say what we are not sure of, we don't need to just imagine what to say especially when we are telling stories about others, we can become a murderer, of course we know that murder is not done only by the using of gun or other weapons, our tongues is also a mighty weapon that can wipe out the whole family in a second, the false information we give sometimes can kills alot, so let's be mindful of the way we use our tongues. Image source I had a story where a man when to jail just because of the wrong words her girlfriend made against him, they once had a misunderstanding amongst themselves, and they also displayed their angers in different ways and been the girl she is, she started calling his man names and saying all sorts of things that is not even true, she never new that the neighbors had heard all those names she was calling her man, during when they had the misunderstanding. She called him name's like fraudster, thief, rapist, kidnapper and others criminal names that is not acceptable in the society. Like it is said after heavy rainfall comes the sunshine, after all the quarreling, they all settle down as girlfriend and boyfriend, they couldn't even remember what happened in the past. So there's one of their neighbor's child that normally love being around this two lovers house, it happens the boy did something that the parents wanted to punish the young boy, and the boy ran into their house since he love going there, so when the two lovers had what the parents wanted to do with the little boy, they decided to hide the boy from them. To them though their thoughts was to safe the young boy out from the parents punishment. But when the parents had an information that they have hid the child under their roof, and they quickly remember those names the girl friend had called him some days past, the parents decided to take an immediate action by calling the police for them without even informing them, all what the parents said against them was that they wanted to kidnap their child. The parents told the police everything the girl friend has once said against his boy friend, when the police asked the girls friend if she had once said a thing like that she said yes, but that, it was just through anger that she never really meant. That it was just a name calling, since the police has gotten all what they wanted, they said if you his girlfriend had said that he is a fraudster and a criminal who are we to alter out such words?. He is exactly what you have said about him and nothing changes, upon what other people said, the police didn't listen to them anymore. And this is how the innocent man when into jail just because of wrong words her girlfriend once said against him. You may easily recover a slip of steps than a slip of a tongue. Once you make mistake with your tongue it can be so harmful to people, we should try as much possible to count our teeth using our tongues in other not to cause innocent ones to faces the penality there do not deserve to face.. 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How to discover a child's talent ll Greetings to everyone one, I hope you guys are doing well.? I'm doing great over here through the grace of the all might God. I want to continue with the topic that I couldn't complete yesterday, this would be the second part the writing, for those who would like to read the first part you can read it here. Let's start with the business of today, we are going to discuss on how to discover a child's talent when a child is young, the only time to discover a child's talent it at their tender age, if we want to discover their talents in a good way that it will also benefit them, this would be done at their young age, we are going to catch them young before it's get late. It's at their young age that the parents should focus very very well on their children to know exactly what their kids can offer. It's from the childhood that a child will begin to demonstrate what is inside them, most of their talents are been discover from their tender age, it's at their tender age that the parents should be so close to their child in order to notice what their children are up to. Research has shown that if we want to help our children to get what they want, to behave well,or anyhow we want our child to be, we should catch them at thier young age of one to seven years. Research has made it clear, it's at this age that they will listen, it is at this age that their brain is not much loaded with alot of things, at their age of seven they don't have decisions. It is what you deposit in them that they will become. At their age of one to seven they are just like a visitor coming to leave in your house in which you as the owner of the needs to give the visitor the rule and regulations that governs your house. Image source You will be the one showing the visitor alot of so many things in the house, so our kids from their tender age are like the visitors to our family and to the entire world, they will listen to what we are telling them at their new age. They will like to ask so many questions to have a good understanding, if you can see it with me once a child knows how to speaks well, they kind of questions he or she will be asking the parents, the parents will even baffles at some of the questions. They are not just asking for asking sake, they are a good observant, there are a lot of things they need to understand before they start asking those questions, though I have been seeing some of the parents will take most of the questions their kids will ask for fun, before they ask questions it could be there are things they don't understand, and some of them since they are new they don't know how to put in the questions correctly, but inside the question there is something they need to understand before they bring out the questions. And I want to encourage the parents not to become tired of answering their kids some questions, because some of their questions are very important to them, even when they are not able to put the questions rightly, the parents should be the ones helping them out to get their answers right. The parents have a lots of works to do for their kids if they must want their child to succeed. Apart from teaching your child in the house the school also have a vital role to play to develop your child, so if the school is not good enough for your child I would advice parents not to send their children to such school. Learning today is a composition so if the school doesn't really match up to the school standard that is across the globe, I would advice the parents not to send their kids to such schools, today's learning is based on composition if not there wouldn't be school composition and brain challenges. Image source If the parents should want the best of their kids and to helps their kids get their dreams right the school have to contribute to the growth of our children. There are so many ways we can help our children to discover their talents, if the parents wants to help their children to discover their talents, they should; Be open to their ideas and their aspirations; Encourage their abilities; Accept their mistakes; Don't pressurize them. Be open to their ideas and their aspirations If the parents must help their child to discover their talents, they must listen to their child's ideas their aspirations, they should be always ready to give a good and correct answers to their child when they ask a question. A child once asked a question that baffles me, he saw a man throughing balloons in the air, and this has been the man's business for a longest time, when ever there is an occasion like children's parties and of such, the man will come with his balloons, he will be throughing the balloons in other to attract the children to buy it. One day as he was throwing the balloons in the air a young boy walked up to him and said Mr. Man why is there no black balloons here in the sky? I have been seeing some different colors but I have not seen black color?. And the man didn't give him the exact answer, he told him that there is no black color yet that he should buy any of the color he sees. And to me when I heard the question I knew that the young boy would be an inventor, through the question he asked, I knew the boy needs people who understands his questions and give him a correct answer. We have to listen to our child to know exactly what they want, and where they are driving their questions to. Encourage their abilities They are times that our child will do something that we know those things they do is not just easy, we have to encourage our children when ever they do something that we know that they have tried their very own best, we have to encourage them when they do a good thing with their ability. Most kids value encouragement unlike adult, when you encourage your child's ability the will eager to do more. Accept their mistakes There is no body that has grown beyond making mistakes, we should not think that they will not be making mistakes, they are not an adult, there are the most people that should be making mistakes, they will make a lot of mistakes in so many ways, so it's left for the parents to correct them from their wrongs with love not with anger or with hatred. Don't pressurize them We don't need to rush them when trying to help our kids to discover their talents, talent is something that worthwhile and it will take time before our kids achieve their real talents, it is not through rushing that they will it right. We have to nurish them with good care, know that you are to help them and helping needs tolerance, when the parents wants to help their child to discover their talents it wouldn't be a thing of putting pressure on the child, you wouldn't force talent to come out of the child, all you need to give your child is time and a lot of encouragement and your assistance. It is good to help our kids get their talents right,at their tender age, catch them young at their tender age, know that the children is our greatest investment, they would be the ones representing us in our absence, they will be the ones standing in our places when we become weak in our adulthood. It is good we do everything possible to help them get their talents right and stand well in other to help us in the future. Lead image from source

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How to discover a child's talent "*What makes a child gifted and talented may not always be a good grade in school. But a different way of looking to the world and learning."* -Chuck Grassley- *Every child is a different kind of beautiful flower, and all together make this world a beautiful garden*. -Unknown- *A child is like a butterfly in the wind some can fly higher than others. But each one flies the way it can.* *Why compare one against the other?* *Each one is special.* *Each one is beautiful.* -Unknown- I have been hearing some kind words from different people, people would say a thing like, wow that child is so so gifted, or that child is so talented. Or people will ask some questions when seeing a child's performance, they will ask who is the father to that child?, or who is the father to that child? Most times they parents would want to be known by so many people through the kind gift that their children have gotten. The talent of a child can open so many doors of favors to the family, the talent of a child can place the family in a high ranking. But I want to say that a child talent may not always be a good grade in school, A child who is talented will only needs the support of the school, but much of the talent is not gotten through having good grades. Talent is natural skills, it is the ability and the desire that every child is born with. Every child is talented, They were all created differently, like what I have been seeing, some parents would want their child to become exactly like them, it would be if the father is a doctor, he will also wants his child to be a doctor too, or if the mother is a nurse she will still want her child to be a nurse also. But at times let's also know that we are not in the industrial age, we should know that the industrial age has passed, before we start making choice to our kids we should know that. Every parent should know that we are in the industrial age, we are now in the 21st century where the most humans capability has been replace by artificial intelligence. In the connected age that we are now, most of our kids are having different talent that is also corresponding to the new age, so the parents should not expect thier child to still comes up with those olden age skills, the world have changed, and the children mentality have also changed through the way they are looking into the world. If you can see it with me from the world scale scenario .The first revelation we had was the industrial revolution where we using industrial skills, we were using the industrial skills to operate which simply means that was what suit the revolution, and after that we had the computer revolution. Where so many people also abandoned the industrial revolution and go after the computer revolution, and they also used the computer skills to operate. Now the world have changed and the revolution are also changing from one to another, and before we want to make a choice or to help our kids to discover their talent we should also look at the revelation that we are into, we are in the technology world today, we are in the connected revelation where everything is been function through technologies.. Today's revolution is different from the industrial revolution, so I would advice the parents if they really want to help thier kids to discover their talent they should give part to their kids, they should allow thier kids to lead the way, they have to stay back and watch thier kids, by listening to their kids ideals. Children must be thought how to think not what to think, they have what to think already they only help and assistance they need from the parents is how to think. The children of this century are seems to be so smart, that is exactly what a friend of mine told me the other day. He said Gently did you know that the children of nowadays are so so smart! And I said yes why wouldn't they be smart?, are they not the in the smart world?. I asked him during your time didn't you hear something like smart phone? He said no, and I told him the children of this new age are so fast to grow both in knowledge and skills. They are very very fast to catch up something. I would like to stop my article here for today. I am not done writting on the topic yet, I wouldn't want you to get bored in reading because the article will take much of your time before the conclusion. But I promise to still continue with the same topic by tomorrow for those who are interested. All Image from source

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Those who would not quit are sure to win ll Those who would not quit are sure to win is the second part of my article, for those who didn't read the first part of it you can also read it through here. https://read.cash/@Gently/those-who-would-not-quit-are-sure-to-win-1-8c894f88 Those who would not quit are sure to win, there is a hidden treasure ahead and it takes those with blodness to achieve it, quitters can never always win the race, winning race needs people who are ready to do and never to stop it half way. I know there are things that our thought will tell us most times which we should listen to it. We don't have to listen to our doubts, our doubts will at times discourage us to quit from a particular thing that we will not achieve it, or that we will not have a successful end. But I think we should be able to control our minds and doubt our doubts. Is either we become a master to something or a slave to it, it is our choice, if we always choose to become a slave to our doubt it is left for us, and if we become a master to our doubt it will still be for our own good. Nothing can really drain us down than self-doubt, it can really empty our emotions, once we start something I believe we should never quit. Problems and challenges will always manifest themself in failures as well as success. Re - Set, Re - Adjust, Re - Start, Re - Focus, as many times you want to.But just don't quit. Try as many times you want to, but don't quit. When you fail never stop trying the most important is to try, try and don't have in mind that you are a failure, and don't also be ready to listen to what people will say, let it be a business between you and yourself, when you try and fail be happy with yourself because so many have not even try like you do, try and still try again, don't quit. It is through trying that you will get some secret that people wouldn't want to reveal to you untill you know them by yourself. Re - set Reset untill you have the good result, don't get tired while resetting, it is through resetting that you get to the initial state, if at some point you set up a plan and it's doesn't click, it is never meant that it wouldn't work, don't go back or get discourage all you need is quite sometimes , to reset a thing needs time requirement , you have to sit back and reset it. It is just like you trying to reset a radio or a Televison channels, all you need to do is to keep searching, keep tuning untill you can get the correct station that you are looking for, you have to keep searching for the require channels before you can get the actual channels, most of the channels will not just come the moment you get the appliance on, you have to search for your favorite, the same is applicable to our dialy life, if we don't just get what we want instantly all we need to do is to give it sometimes, we have to reset it again and again and again until we get it right. Re - adjust It will be a very good thing and a very good story to tell, they are stories to tell when we over come a battle, they will be no stories to tell if we fail to over our circumstances and our barriers, great and good people are after your successful stroy, it is only those that wants to mock you that are waiting to hear your failing story, they wants to get something that they can laugh at you. But there are still an opportunity to proof ourselves not to become a failure just like they think we will be. We can re -adjust every circumstance that we might face, we can always adjust it again to get gains from where we made some certain mistakes, we can always modify our mistakes rather than quitting, quitting is the final wristle in the game of achievement, the best way to correct an error is to rectify where the mistake is coming from instead of running away from them. Re-start If in the process of trying to get something right and you don't get it right, the best decision is not to quit, but to start again. There are some situation that needs to be re-start, it would be unless you re -start before you get it right, you can take a break and re-start over again, take a break and start over, look for some skills and strategy that will suit the problem and start over again. If you are taking break to restart a thing, don't just remain with the old skills you put in before, go for extra miles, go for some research and come out we more techniques to carry on the work. Even the devices that we are using sometimes require re-starting, and once it's requires for re-starting and we don't restart them they will misbehalf and become malfunction, there are most times that we might want to quit without being observe re-starting, restarting is very important in some certain areas in life. Re-focus At times to look once is never enough, we have to look as many times in other to get good thing out from our looking. To be focus is never enough we have to stay focus and re-focus. Re-focusing will take us to way we made some certain mistakes, when we set our eyes and our mind back to a particular thing we did, we can always recover where we mistakenly put things wrongly and from there, we can always correct it and get it right done. Be focus and re-focus get it rightly, don't conclude yet when you are not done, never allow quitting to be part of your language, don't quit stay focus, re-focus again, don't get tired of it, you know more than what you think. Those who would not quit are very very sure to win. Re-set, Re-adjust, Re-start, Re- focus. As many times you want to. But never quit. Lead image from credited source

Those who would not quit are sure to win 1 Re - Set Re - Adjust Re - Start Re - Focus *As many times you want to.But just don't quit.* -Unknown Those who would not easily quit are ever sure to win, the winners do not see it very easy to quit in what ever plan and target they want to accomplish. It is only the losers that easily quit, the winners will not easily quit because they know what they really want, and where the are heading to, the winners have their own direction and their own dreams and visons. They know that if the stop on the way that they will harm themselves and people also will laugh at them, but why the losers always like to quit on the way is that they don't know what they really want in life and they lack direction to follow. My mentor use to say, that you fail does not mean that is the last opportunity, there is always another chance to try again, failure is not the final step, but quitting is the final step that one can take and become a loser completely, quitting becomes the sure way and that is final. If you still want to have what you aspire for, don't ever think about quitting, if on the way doing it and you get tired, get a rest, relax yourselves and start over again. Do it and don't quit because the moment you quit it will take you something to start over again from the beginning. A wise man once said, instead of him to start a particular thing and get quitted on the way without achieving his purpose, let it be he didn't even start it at the first place. And that is exactly what we normally do, we will just start a vision we had and we leave it on the way without achieving the important thing we wanted. When at a point we become tired and feel like quitting, let's always think about why we even started it in the first place. We can't just start something without having some reasons we started it, it could be one reason or the other, let's always think back those ressons before we draw our final line. Remember the saying that says, winners never quit, and quitters never win. If someone must be a winner he must be ready not to quit, he must be ready not to give up in any angle of life, because if at a point he does, he tend to lose the winning position. Quitters are those who will not win at all because the moment they experience difficulties they will withdraw back, they will not want to go further any more. We have people in different categories, quitters are those who are waiting for ready made, while those who will never quit are the ones that will be the producers and the manufactures. There is nothing that we might want to accomplish that will come to reality, if we quit, there is nothing that would have being in existence, if our past great inventors that invented everything that we are using today get quitted on the way. No visoin that will just come to reality if we quit it, there's no dream that will come to manifest if we give up on the way. It will be really good not only to us, but to our entire generations to come, that if we have a dream to accomplish we should make effort to complete it for our good and also to their own good, there will no need of quitting on the way. We should try and bring all our visons and dreams to reality. Those who would not quit are sure to win, while I say that those who will never quit are sure to win is that, they are still alert. There are still lively, people who would never quit are like people who are running a relay race which their ears are after to receive a moving sound from the refree, there are always on the mark, there are always marking thier time to move with their barton, in other to win the best position. The quitter and not always alert, once they become tired of a particular thing the next step is to pack their belonging and move their way. Image source Those that always quit can tell stories, they will give you an excuess that you will even pity them in the end of their story telling, they even know how to comfort their heart, before you even start having pity for them they will tell you not to worry about them, that they will sort out themselves. Those that always quit will not like to listen to some other people opinion once they make up their mind that they are quitting, it therefore means that they really mean what they say, and there is nothing a person can say about that, once they take the decision of quitting, they don't listen to people's encouragement anymore. The people that always win are not those who never fail, there are those who never quit. If you are that person that always want to win then be ready to experience alot of failures and mistakes, because that is where you learn to become bold enough. Failure is what thing that will prepare you for your champion. A person who was once a failure some years back who never refuse to quit as become a winner today. Everyone who are on the top, didn't just start from the top they all start from down before they can get to the top that they are enjoying today. So if we most enjoy also we need to experience failure from the zero level before we can upgrade to the top level. Quitting because we don't just want to be uncomfortable will prevent us from growing and hide our talent. Show me someone who was so comfortable in his or her comfort zone, and I will show you a person whom his future and his talent has not yet been discovered. Quitting from an important thing which will help us tommorow, just because we don't just want to be uncomfortable will not do us any good or move us further. To be continued............. Thanks for reading. Lead image from source

Turn your trials into triumphs *Don't let your trials blow you down, let them lift you up.* *-**Woodrow kropp* Trials are not meant to destroy you, they are not meant to kill you, trials are exams of life. In which without trials there will not be any promotion in life, and what ever we might aspire to achieve. Trials are the first steps we take before we can stand out, they are not to kill, but are meant to renew us, they are to make us become triumphant. Trials are things that will brings out our hidden glory, it is what will bring out our potential, that is just like an exams to us. It is just like school that we go, there will be no promotion to another class without and examination, so the examination is what will qualify you to enter into another class, it is the exams and test that you have been given that will explain if you deserve promotion or not. We can always turn our trials into triumphs, we can always defeat our trials, we can over come them. Most of the trials that always come to us are just simple to over come, but when we allow our fear or when we become ignorance of what to do at the right time to overcome it, that is when we will see all these trials as something that is very very diffcult to our liking. There is one thing I always use to say. God will not allow those trials that he knows you will never overcome to come to you, God who created us knows our capability when it's comes to testing our faith, so we need to be always strong, because if we faint in the days of adversity it's therefore means that our strength is small. When ever you see trials coming your way know that it is time for you to take another level in life, because there is no exams that someone will take that will not require a promotion to another level, any trials we overcome marks another beginning of new faces and promotions in life, if we are always become afriad of trials when they knocks our door, it is time to start facing it with confidence to overcone it. If we refuse to fight our trials and over come it today there is no too ways about it, because they will still come back again tommorow, like we know if we run a way from fight we leave to fight it again another day, if we run away from trials, from challenges of life, they will still meets us again tommorow in an unexpected hour. So I will say that the best thing to do instead of trying to escape from this things, we should see how to overcome them, because the exams of life are not those once that we have been writing on the papers or on our accessories, but there those things we will practice and even when we become tried of them they will never stop coming our ways. Challenges and trials can occur when ever we need promotion, it will be one step battling with challenge at the back, and two step success awaited at the front. But always be thankful for your trials, if you are being tested, you are being perfected. Which means you have a divine purpose and reasons to rejoice. Image source Most of the trials and temptation that comes our way, comes with goodnews behind, good things will not just happen, nothing good comes easy there most are prices attach to it, the price could be the trials, the price could be like a kind of struggling before getting it, but it will only take those who have the strong mind to challenge their challenges and get the good things behind those trials. Your challenges was not sent to defeat you, it was sent to increase you. It was sent to anonnces your name to the entire universe, those that will over their trials will always wear an hamor of honor, they will be crownded with crown of glory. There will be no triump without tri, the only difference word there is ump. Life is not fair and I don't believe it will be ever fair to us, there is no need of waiting for life because our time are still counting, they more we delay our time the more we are getting old, so the right thing to do is just to do the needful by seeing trials as a stepping stone, and a passing road to every success. Knowing that life is always full of burdens and trials, but there is no matter what type of hardship we are facing now, we should never stop it half way, always have in mind that you only have one choice, that is to keep moving forward ever, and backward never. Trials is just an opportunity to test something, it serves like a test to see someone's capability, trials are used to beautify our lives, some trials in life are not meant to make us fail but to make us see how far we can fly. Those thing we can do, it is to make us see how good we are in some specific areas. It is every good that we put in our effort and discover who we really are through trials than been staying without knowing ourselves. Sorrows may last for the night but joy comes in the morning. All of our struggling are just temporary, but the sure thing is that it's will gives us parmenant satisfaction in the end. In the end of all the exams you will really enjoy, triump is a conclusive story following an effort, some temptation you once overcome, it is a testimony following the trials that didn't pull you down. You will definately rejoice over your victory. Thanks for reading. Lead image from source

It's all about you *If you are searching for that one person that will change your life, take a look at the mirror.* -Unknown Look on yourself, stop looking at other people, the moment you start looking at other people you will likely fail yourself. When you start putting your whole trust on other people you tend to be a loser, because those people are still humans just as we are, and they also have their own problems too. When we depend on people rather than depending on ourselves, we made a very wrong mistake that will definately affect our lives in the future. I have gone through so many things, and I have be hearing it from some people complaining how they were disappointed through looking at others instead of looking on their selves. It is all about you as a person, it is all about me as a person, self motivation is important and it is good that you become the first motivator to yourself before other people comes in to motivate you. Look around yourself, admire who you are, stop looking from afar, because the people you are looking from afar are standing from a distance, it could be before they reach you it's become too late, or you might not really know the person's mind that you are looking from afar. Stop looking at people to be the ones helping you out in every challenges you go through, always try your best, give in your effort and also trusting on God. If people will assist you they will do, but don't let all the whole load on people to start it for you. Unlike what I do, and I don't know about others, if I want to help you I will only assist you, I will ask you how far you have gone already, I will ask you what and what you need to complete it, and from there if I see the need of assisting you I will do. But if at the end I find out that you don't have anything to show that needs my assistance I will work away. I believe that is exactly what people of nowadays are doing. I read a post from princessbusayo some days back,where she said that her cousin who is in Senior secondary two came to her and told her that he needs money. I can still remember what princess said she replied him. Princess first ask his consin, can you write up to nine hundred - one thousand words? And he said no, she said the same cousin came back again and told her that he wants to join Yahoo boy and start making money. Princess also asked him do you have a laptop that you will be using? According to princess she said that the boy in question is not very good in word spellings. I really wanted to use an example from a active writer from the read.cash platform I didn't just want to go afar, I like looking around and believing on people i go through their writings everyday. To point out my view, my question is why did princess didn't just register her cousin on any of the blogging platform and start writing for him since her cousin was looking for a way to make money? Or why did she not buy laptop for him? Why did she not start everything from the beginning for him since the boy was her cousin? than asking him some questions. I really want to conclude what I said, people will only assist you, people will only help you when they see your alittle effort, no body would like to start from the beginning for you, you will be the one starting for yourself and others will assist you, and from there you become your real you and stand out. Had it been when princess asked her cousin if he can write up to nine hundred to one thousand words and he said yes, or had it been princess saw his capability in writing, do we think she would have not assisted him to start making on his early stage?. Most people are waiting to see what you can offer before they can recommend you to others, no body will recommend you to go and work for some body when he does not know what you are up to. No body love disgrace or disappointment in life. It is about us, it's all about our life not others, life that we are living is like a battle field, it needs preparation, you need to be well prepared if you most stand out, you need to be prepared privately while hoping to demonstrate in the public, anything that has a show room has its own work shop. You're already important, you are already matter. Stop looking at people today and start looking on yourself, your are the nature's greatest miracle, no body is far better than you, believe that no body can do it more than you, they might just be better than you in some certain areas. You are also better than them in your own area, keep the fire on in what ever you are doing. Don't look down on yourself, and even when people look down on you tell yourself that your are better than that, you can never be what they are saying you are unless you accept it to be the where they say. You were born to be real, not to be perfect, you were born to rule, you have every right and everything it's take to rule your life. You have everything it's take to rule your future, nothing is possible, it's depend on the eyes you see those challenges, it depends on how you deal with every bad situations, so it is all about you. The destiny of a mighty man lies in his hands, no body is holding your future than you. It is not who you are that holds you back, it is who you think you are not, it is those things that you thing you would not be able to do that weigh you down. It is a man's thought that diminish his vision. It is never too late to be what you might have been. Thanks for reading.. Lead image from source

Carelessness does more harms *Attention leads to immortality. Carelessness lead to death. Those who pay attention would not die, while the careless are as good as death already.* -Buddah The word carelessness can does more harms, to people who never take their time when doing a particular thing. There are most things that happens due to our lack of care, when we become careless in doing things without care, when things happen from there we begins to put blame on other people. Most of the problems we have on a daily basis happens from our own carelessness. Carelessness is very bad, once we allow carelessness to occur the next thing that would happen will be unimginably, it will just happen without us been able to imagine how it stated and what could be the cause of it. Carelessness can send us to early grave. Carelessness can just kill a person when he or she never expected die, when ever we become careless about our lives the next things we will experience is harms. The incident that would happen through our lack of care will be unquestionable. Sometimes people do take this word for granted, some mistakes we made and our careless life can bring us down completetly, so I think there shouldn't be any reason we become careless when it's come to those important things in life that we suppose to be very careful about it. I see the word carelessness as the ever greatest sin in life, this word can cause us to death, it can also open our lives to more danger, when we become a victim of carelessness every time, we are likely to disappear from this present world .The greatest sin is carelessnes, I used to say that poverty is the greatest, but I didn't know that there is other harmful thing that is more worser than that, carelessness become the greatest sin which there is no forgiveness, we can't always seek forgiveness from carelessness the moment we commit it, the next step is for us to have our result. Carelessness sometimes will not even spare our lives. Caralessness is worse than a theif, because some times a thief will listen to you and knows your condition, but carelessness will not do such, carelessness will not spare your life. The moment you disobey it's rules, it will deal with you mercilessly, it is worse that a thief, it can runs your life down between a twinkle of an eye, and cause you into a deep tears which it will take you a longer time to recover from it. It is good to be so careful about our lives in other not to suffer, or lose everything through the lack of our care. What carelessness can cause Our lack of care can cause so many things which we going to see as we continue reading, and through this we will at least understand one thing or the other. We will derive something that at least will make us to be more careful in life. Our careless life can lead us to; Loses of property and lives; Untimely death; To be stagnant in life; And causes more harms. Our lack of giving an attentions to things that are important in our lives can cause all these things that is been mentioned. Lose of property and lives Our careless life can cause damage, it damage our most important asset through our lack of care, we can destory our houses, our car, or even our business places through our inability of taking good care of it. We can easily set fire on our house through our sily carelessness, we can just set fire on our car through our carelessness and that is the same in our business premises. The carelessness we made sometimes comes through our lack of knowledge, and sometimes people with lack of educational background are likely to make this mistakes. People will just on thier gas cooker and keep unkowningly. People will just expose fire to where there's likage of fuel or gas. Or some people will just drive their cars without cheeck the necessary things if they are well kept in places. Most of this aciddent that happen, happens rhrough our lake of care. People will just set fire on their property and causes accident that will even affect more lives through their carelessness. Untimely death Carelessness can easily send us to our early grave like I have said. An incident just happen some days ago, where a little baby of two years lost her life because of the carelessness that her senior brother did. The senior brother was about taking a bottle drink so unfortunately the bottle fell down from his hand while he was facing the drink towards his mouth, and he walked away without packing the breaking bottles, and he didn't also dried up the place. So some minutes later he had a cry and when he came out all he saw was her little sister struggling to get up from the floor where he scattered the breaking bottles and when away. It's happen while he was inside, the little innocent girl was just playing around the house, mistakenly she ran to the area where the broken bottles were, and where the drinks where also poured, so it was the the drink that first fall her down before the breaking bottles could now penetrate on her body and pieces her body. Before they could rush the little girl to the hospital, she had already die on the road through the kind of blood that came out of her body. Sometimes our carelessness leads other people to untimely death without even our notice, we should at least learn a lesson form others, we should be very careful on what ever we are doing so that other people will not fall a victim of our own carelessness. To be stagnant in life Most of our carelessness can easily make us to remain in one place, it would be instead of us go forward we start seeing oursleves returning backward, and through this actions we will be only be telling people of our past glory instead of our present ones. Carelessness can make someone to be stagnant in life, a person that once had a house can become homeless through his or her carelessness. People can lose their lives, thier people through fire burning or in one way or the other,and there will suffer alot before they can go back to the stage where they were in life. Causes More harms Carelessness does more harms, it be through carelessness people can go in commiting sucide, people can develop a high blood pressure through some incident that happen to them or their loves ones, so I see carelessness as something that can adds salt to injury. Ways we can avoid our carelessness There are ways we can stop our carelessness not to occur, when we give a chance for carelessness to happen, of course we know what it will cause to us as individual and others living around us, we also know that one man's food is another man's poison our careless act can effect the society as a whole. So I think we should tried to prevent ourselves from being falling to it. We can avoid carelessness through the fellowing. We can avoid carelessness by giving full attention in what ever we are doing. We can avoid carelessness by making sure that we avoid distraction and focus on what ever we ought to do at a time. We can avoid carelessness by making sure that we take our time and do things accordingly, not about being doing doing things sharp sharp. Carelessness does more harms, we can always avoid it. If we can see the pains and loses that carelessness causes to our everyday life, I believe we should be very careful in what ever we have to do. 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It is time to wake up *The time to change was yesterday, the time to wake up is now.* -Judge judy It is time for everyone to wake up from sleep, to be awake is to be alert, there is no body that will stay awake that will not know what is going on in the physical world, but a person who is sleeping will not hear nor niether know what is happening in the physical world. It is time to wake up and take our responsibilities so that we will not become a liability to another person tomorrow. Wake up everyday with a smile on your faces with a good reasons to live life, and also with some reasons to be happy with the gift of nature. Wake up everyday become more stronger than before, face your fears today and wipe your tears away. For there's more hope for the living, when there's life there is hope also, the only people that doesn't have hope are those without life, and those are people who are death. As far as you are able to wake up , you can stand a chance to win every challenges that life would brings. You are already a winner and not a loser, a person will only become a loser when he or she is not able to wake up and life again. The interesting part of it is that the moment you wake up, you are reborn and renew. Things that happen to those who are still on sleep can never happen to those who are awake, except it is you that permmit it to happen. It is time that we wake up today and say no to that kind of life we use to live yesterday, nothing will ever change until we decide to change it oursleves, change will only begins with us if we really need it, it's will not begins from other people. If you are the one that is desperate for something you will keep fear and doubt aside and go for what you aspire for. It will be your determination that will even wake you up from sleeping and set your mind to think outside the box, without determination human beings will still be so comfortable in their comfort zone, and even when they don't like where they are and the kind of life they are living. Without determination nothing will make a man to wake up early and start fixing things in place, and prepare himself against the new day. Determination is a wake up call to every human will, it is said that, when there is a will there is a way, and this is true, through my explanation and my understanding in the order way round, the will here is the determination. Why I say the will is the determination is that when someone has a strong determination against a particular thing, there will always be a way out for him to achieve his aims. Wake up from sleep and live, In your dreams, anything is possible, it is time to start dreaming. And when you have it, pursue your dreams with all it takes, don't feel discourage or get tired on the way. Dreams is everything about you and your future life, you start seeing yourself from afar through your dreams, so if there is anyone without a dream I will encourage such person to go and get one. What really makes some people not to wake up from where they are, is that they don't always set a goal that will eager them. Always set a goal that will make you to jump up from where you are. Set a goal that will not give you chance to waste much of your time, remember to wake up early and tackle the day before it's tackles you. Be on offense not defense. It is time to stop moving without direction and move towards our direction, because life is too short to be wasted on nothing. It is time to stop drifting and wake up, see life as a race ,when you are left behind, you are just fellowing people at their back, so follow time rightly if at all you need to see life in higher heights. They are people that are watching after you, you are someone's role model, someone is been motivated through you. When you know that you are an inspiration to others, you will always refuse to sleep, you will always aspire to wake up and contuine your works. Thanks for reading. Lead image from source

What is your passion? *If you can't figure out your purpose, figure out your passion. For your passion will lead you right into your purpose.* *-TD Jakes* What is your passion?, Do you have passion at all? Or are you just living life for living sake. Even if you don't have purpose, have passion for that is where you will discover your own purpose in life. If you are without any passion it's therefore means that your purpose will be unknown because it is through your passion that your purpose will be clearly be reveal to you. Passion which can be seen as a fervor determination towards something, it is a process where by someone has a strong powerful emotions towards something. When we say that a person is being passionate about a particular things, it's therefore means that that person is really in love with what he or she is doing, when people become passionate to something, their zeal is in what there are doing. Some people do use to say a word like, I have passion for singing, I have passion for dancing, I have passion for reading or I have passion for reading books, which means everyone has one or the other thing they really love rather than telling them. Your passion really would be reveal by you yourself and that is where you will discover your truly you if at all your are smart. There is no how someone will give a way for his passion that he will not recover his purpose, I am seeing this as the very easiest and common way of knowing your purpose. If you can give a chance for your passion to become your purpose ,and it will one day become your profession. It will one day become your profession in the sense that, that is what you have been practiclsing everyday, what you love doing is exactly what you will master. If you are always a person who have passion for singing even if they wake you up from sleep and ask you to sing a song immediately, you will sing it without even wasting time because that has been what you have being doing on your daily basis. You become a professional on what you have been doing on your daily basis, you will likely become a master of what you like doing not a professional on what you don't like doing. A professional is a person who has mastered in a particular thing which even if they called on him urgently he will still deliver what he has just because that has been his field. It is said that when the value of a thing is unknown that abuse is inevitable, abuse will always be inevitable in the sense that people do not really understand the value, when the value is not reveal to people that is when they will misinterpret the whole sentences. The truth here is that when people do not know what is really passion, that's mean that they might have passion and the passion become unknow to them. Doing what you really aspire for can be called passion, and forcing ourselves on what we don't truly love is not it all, it can never be called passion because we are only addicting it, we are just doing it just for doing, we don't just enjoy doing it. It is said that stress is only when we work hard for something we don't care, but when we work out for something we love is passion. We sometimes through away our passion and jump into what is not really our passion, some might be because of money and other things, but what I do know is that any money we are being paid is just a bribe, they are just giving us the money in order to blind our eyes from not being able to see what we have passion for. It is good not to work for money, but to work for our passions. It will be a very beautiful thing when ones calling in life, which is known as career comes together with passion, that is where everything will become normal and well match, the equation will be well balance. Figure out your passion, for your passion will lead you right into your purpose. You can do anything as long as you have the passion, the focus and the support. Thank you for reading. Lead image from source

Who do you listen to? *You become the sum total of what you eat, watch, read, listen to, and the company you keep.* - Unknown A calm greetings to everyone who has been taken time to scroll down my post, I know it is not just easy for someone to spend about four to seven minutes of his or her time on reading someone's post. So I really want to celebrate everyone who has fine time to stop by, I really own you guys more appreciation . Thanks for your encouragement, and also thanks for any contribution you have in one way or the other made. I am writing today on who do you listen to?, and l believe someone will at least derive something from here, who do you listen to? This is like a question that someone needs to answer to himself. There are people that become frustrated and stranded in life today, and this happen to them due to the person they listen to, or the person they make their mentor. I wouldn't say that to have a mentor is bad, but which of the mentor are you listening to? How do you know that he will mentor you well?, or how do you know that he will always be a good mentor?. Before we accept any mentor the best thing to do is to check him well, test him well, and also ask people about him, or you can go as far to see the life of people he as mentored already to see if he will be of good use to you. Really know who you listen to, know who you surrender to as a mentor in other to avoid had I know tomorrow, if someone just aspire to mentor you, the first thing to do is to check his life achievement and the level he is in life. I am saying this and I am also writing this article with some experience that I have gone through, most of those people that just aspire to mentor you without you in person being the one asking from them. It might be they have interest in you, or they see something that you have and them they lack it, some of them are with plan B to see that you become the one making money for them while they relax at home, some of those acting to be mentors are really fake, once they know that they are done with you they will dump you and they will look for another person to use also in the name of mentor. I was once asked by someone, a man told me that he wants to mentor me, that if i allow him to mentor me that I will never regret of meeting him, but to me I did not say anything, he said that to there is an important thing in me which I do not know what he meant. But when I when to meet with him my spirit man told me that he doesn't deserve to be my mentor, and I was not satisfied with his life achievement. When I saw what he has really achieved, my mind told me that I shouldn't accept him to mentor me, that if I accept him that that is exactly how my life would be when I grow up to his stage. So it is very advisable to know who you listen to in life. My mentor once said, if you listen to a wise person you will also be wise, and if you listen to a fool that is exactly what you will become. If you associate yourself with the rich people you will also attract their riches but if you associate yourself with the middle class of people that is exactly who you will become. Everything in life today exist as a result of copyright, most of the things that is happening today is as a result of what the past people who were before us did, it could be the where of thier life style, behaviors and other way of life. Everything that is happening today does not just happen as if it is a new thing, all this things happening some has been in the past decade before our own generation copy it. When you listen to someone you will at least learn something new from him. If you keep accompany with three millionaires the next person to increase the number to four would be you. And if you keep accompany with three thieves the next person to complete the number four will be you bacause they are who you keep your company with. If a goat give birth to you, you will behave like a goat and if a lion give birth to you, you will also behave like a lion. You become a product of who you listen to. You become what you listen to, you become what you watch, what you read, and the company you keep. You become what you listen to in your everyday life. The energy flows where the focus is, and what you also watch in your everyday life with passion is what you will become. Nobody will read art subject and expect to be a good scientist, you become the exactly subject you read in school, if you want to be a good scientist you will read science subject not arts subject, and if you want to become an artist that is where you will go into art subject and read those subject govern the arts. The music you listen to on every daily basis will always become your life sound track. The people we are listening to really matter to us because if we make a mistake to listen to the wrong people instead of listening to the right, we will also become wrong and atmost times it will be a time wasted if we listen to the wrong group of person's. We need to close wisely the people we listen to in other not to regret in our future, because they are people you may listen to today and before you know it's affect your future life, they are people that are just living without creating impart into our lives, they are some that will just weaken you down totally through what they teaches you. Thank you for your time. Lead image from source

Always learn from your mistakes *When you make a mistake, there are only three things you should ever do about it: admit it, learn from it, and don't repeat it-* *By Paul Bear Bryant* *A mistake should be your teacher, not your attacker. A mistake is a lesson not a loss. It is a temporary necessary, detour not a dead end. -* *Unknown* As we keep living life every day, we are also learning from our past mistakes, life is teaching us a lesson everyday and most of the lessons we learned from life as become our experience, we keep learning everyday, and learning never stop, the very day we will stop learning or stop making mistakes is the day that we die off, but as we keep living life, life will never stop to give us the other part of it, and if life does not bring to us such experiences I don't think life would be meaningful at all. There is no one that is above a mistake, we just try our best to avoid some but yet still we still see oursleves sometimes making it. And to me some times I make some mistakes I always use to be angry with myself, I would use a word like why me? When did this even happen and while did this word called mistake even come to existence?. But before that a word would come to my mind, that as far as we are still breathing in oxygen and sending out carbon-dioxide, we are always open to mistakes every day. It is said that a person who never make a mistake never try any thing new, and this is to confirmed that there is nobody that will not make a mistake, as far as we aspire to go for new things, to take new steps and also to have new experience in life. Humans are like an apprentice in the world, nobody is an high land, nobody has really mastered all the falling and the rising of life, life is an illusion, it is today's reality and tommorow an illusion, it is not just straight like we might thought it would be. A little mistakes is a mistakes, and a big mistakes is also a mistake, what a little mistake can lead someone to ,the biggest one can also do. It is left for us not to see mistakes as small or big because the harm that the small mistake can do the big can also so do the same. A mistake is a mistake once someone falls into it, it's deal with you without taking any permission from you, it does not even regard your integrity, it deals with you as usual, even if you are a little child or an adult when you tempered into it's territory, it will use you as rag without even looking at your face the second time. The word mistake which means someone to commit an unintentional error, to do or think something wrong. Yes some mistakes we make come unintentionally, and some errors we make are not from us, we as humans do not intentionally do it, mistakes happen when we are not even alert, it comes when we do not expect it to come. There is nobody that will be intentionally want mistake to happen, when he or she knows the outcome of what every mistakes will brings. Mistakes become very painful when ever it happens, but in years letter a collection of those mistakes is what we called experiences. We derive experience from some years mistakes we made, and we also create an awareness from it. But my mentor always used to tell me that each time I realise that I have made a mistake, that I should take immediate step to correct it. I am not saying the pass mistakes to be corrected, but I am saying that we should try our best to correct it in other not to make that same mistake again, if we keep on making the same mistakes, it therefore means that we have fail to make a correction, and we have fail to learn from our past mistakes. Form Paul Bryant's qoute, he said when ever you make a mistake, or when ever a given mistake is occur, that there are only three things you should ever do about it which is; Admit it, Learn from it, And don't repeat it. Image source Admit it When ever you make a mistake give it an entrance, let in, permit it to happen because if you are not ready to permit or let in some mistakes, it therefore means that your are not ready to open to learning. My physics teacher once advice me that if I want to learn quickly that I should be ready to make mistakes, he said I should free my mind to answer questions and also make some contribution even when I think those contribution will not be accepted, he said in every nonsense there is a sense in it. And that was how I summoned courage to answer question in the class and it will happen when ever my answer is not correct he will still encourage me while telling me the correct answer, and to me I really enjoyed those days but I never knew he was helping me out, in such a way that it is good to admit every mistakes and that is the most easiest and migic way to learn. And today I don't want to brag that I am good in physics but through those mistakes I made during learning time has really help me to stand my ground in the subject. Learn from it Learn from you own past mistakes, and also learn from the ones that people have made. When you do this, that would be the best way to handle some mistakes when they comes your way. Learning from your mistakes or some other people's mistakes is the best way of gaining more knowledge from bad experience so as to get improve. Learning will always expose us to so many new things, learning is important in life, we become who we are through leaening, learning is right from when we were babies, from step to step until we become a grown up person, that is why it is said learning never end, and if learning does end that's mean our personal growth and teaching would become dormant. There is power in learning, if anybody refuse to learn it's therefore means that he has just denied himself of knowing some certain things, because it is in the place of learning that somany secret about life would be reveal. A person who have an experience about a certain mistake he made in the past years, and also learn from it can never be the same with a novice that has not have an experience. Don't repeat it When you fine out yourself being in a victim of a certain mistake, it is advisable that you try all you can not to repeat the same mistake again. Even if you might fall into another mistakes but let it not the same one you made before. Never be someone who always like repeating one mistake because if you do, you are harming yourself and it's therefore means that your are not a learning type, because if someone wants to learn there is no how he will like to repeat a mistakes he has make the second time, note that mistakes are always painful. If you keep repeating the same mistakes, those mistakes will draw you backward, when others are moving forward, repeating the same mistakes will demot your life, and otherwise making people become mockery of you. It is very good for everyone to be careful in life, no body will able to explain the bitterness and the pianfulness to your own understanding until you face it yourself, so try everything to see that you keep yourself from making the same mistake everytime, life would be so insteresting and beautiful when we become smart to admit our mistakes, learn from our mistakes and not to repeat it again. Thanks for reading. Lead image from source

Loss of confidence Most people do lack what we know as confidence, people become scared when it's come to confidence, like it's said that self-confidence is the most important thing in life, so when we lack it, it's therefore means that we are not ever ready to live life successfully, because I see discouragement as man's greatest enemy. The word discouragment is just like a blocking stone to a man's prosperity, there is nobody that would eventually do what he or she suppose to do when discouragement comes in, discouragement appear with so many characters which those characters are even ready to weigh you down, and I realize that if a man gives a way to discouragement to used him, it's means it has open up his doors for negative thought to rule his mine without even taking permission from him. Confidence which we know is the very important thing in life, and if someone lacks it such person has already miss out some important things in life. Most success that comes at some times come because we refuse to listen to other people's discouragement, like we normally know that discouragement shows it's face when it sees good things that comes your way, nothing will never disturbs a man when he is not doing anything, I mean when he is not taking any steps, like I normally say, the greatest time in a man's life is when he is been celebrated, and when he is ready to take life responsibilities, discouragemnt will come from left and right to stop him from doing the right thing that could help him in the future. The word loss of confidence which I know can be seen as discouragement, discourage can cause a person not to do the important things he she or she suppose to do at a given time. Discouragement will make someone to keep prolonging the little thing he or she was suppose to do, discouragement is very bad, it is not good for someone to give way to it, or even allow it to develop within us, there is how we can just let a way for loss of confidence to generate from us through some certain things, when this doubt is inside of us we will not doubt our doubt, there's no amount of motivation that will work on someone that has a doubt in his him, a wise man once said if you want to changes a man's pocket first change his brain it is from the brain that he will think twice. Discouragement can make someone to see everything that happens to them as if things doesn't turn to their favor, people with discouragement always think that nature is cheating them. Discouragement which can also be known in the other way round as loss of confidence, can causes alot of so many things in people's lives. When we listen to people's discouragement we will remain dormant in life. When we discourage ourselves, we will not ever plan of coming out from our comfort zone. When we give a way for discouragement, we will not achieve our goals at the right time. There is nobody with discouragement that will meet with success at the right time. People with discouragement are not always open to opportunities . People who always listen to other people's discouragement always end up their lives as a slave. A person with discouragement is always a loser in a given composition or battle. Life doesn't really needs people to listen to people's discouragement if you have a dream target your dream, don't always think that people will always support you with word of encouragement every time. They are people that thier work is mainly to kill people's dream with thier words of discouragement, so it's advisable not to adapt everyone's advice. And at some point if nobody seems to encourage you on what you have to do,then encourage yourself. Thanks for reading. Lead image from source

Over thinking kills our happiness Over thinking can destory your happiness, it is not advisable in the medical terms that people should joke with thier thinking, over thinking can quickly kill our vibes, and if care is not take it's can just lead us gently and slowly to our early grave. There is good life in the other side, if it's seems life does not offer you exactly what you need just calm your spirit and your mind, it's not how you take the thought higher that the solution will come. Not that people shouldn't think using their head but the fact is when something becomes excess it's turn to poison, so in the order where round, everything that is in excess can hurt sometimes, we have being hearing of things like over dose, over feeding over do, and all these things if we want to fellow them accordingly we will experience some disadvantage that is attach when they say that something is excessive, when something is excessive the wise people would saybthat there is a danger it in. People with over thinking does not really live long because the more they think the more they causes harms to their inner life, we all know that there are much secret in happiness, people wth much happiness can stay for a day without eating any food, but when people sees them they still become healthy and smart, but people that are sad due to their inability of letting go of some heavy thought that they have in minds will become so weak and unhealthy, even if they eats the complete balance diet everyday. So people with much thinking should let go of some thought and free themsleves from some thought, over thinking will not do anything to us than to snatch our happiness away and brings in fear and sadness into our lives, over thinking will take away the good things away from us and leave the bad. And before it's does that it will first blind our eyes not to see any reason of living life, it's will hide the good side of the world from us while presenting the bad side to us, so that we will continue in sorrowing. Over thinking will never shorten tommorow to today, or bring back yesterday to our present day, there is no amount of over thinking that will stops the sun from shining or even stop the rain from raining, when it is exact time for something to happen it's will definately happen there is nothing a man will do to stop the necessary things that suppose to happen when it is time. Like we know there is time for everything under the sun, so when ever is an appointed time for a particular thing to happen it will truly come to manifest. Things that really makes people at times to develop overthinking habit Most times I know why most people develop the habit of over thinking, it might be one reason or the other, people do develop such habit especially when they lose important thing that was so reasonable to them, people thinks with all amount of their strength mostly, When they lose their jobs; When they lose their love ones; When they get tired of some certain abuses; When life does not offer them what they expected. When they lose their jobs Most people sometimes will put all the thought on their head by thinking all sort of thought that they don't even suppose to thing about. My mentor once told me if your boss fired you from his job, don't worry you are not the one that he fired, that it's the work that he fired not me in person, sometimes the work we even became so scared of loosing at times if our effort and the skills we putin in the job, is being calculated we will see that the money that some of our boss pays us doesn't really worth our effort. So all these money they give us at the end of every work we do for them is just a bribe to keep us working while they are the ones enjoying our effort and our time. To me I don't see any need of people becoming over thinking when ever they lose their jobs, there is no need at all, since it is not our lives that they sack, we still have hope against the fellowing days to come. So keep overthinking away and have a reason of making your life so meaningful. When they lose their love ones People do develop the habit of over thinking when ever they lose their love ones which was so important to them, but at the same time I know as a person it will be so painful to lose a person that was so important to us. But to me I would say that when ever we lose our love ones that we should not kill ourselves, and our happiness with much thinking because it is not how we think about the person that he or she will return back to life. If we still keep thinking much about our love ones, we might harm our health at the point, over thinking can lead to a very deadly sickness which I believe that we all know about that. When they get tired of some certain abuses People think much when they get tired of some different abuses, and some of this thought can lead to depression which at some points people do no longer have the option, but the option that they are leave with is to commit sucide and end it once and for all. People have developed this high of thinking through what they are passing through, sometimes you might even called someone that is sitting close to you, or at times you might want to ask them questions, but to your greatest suprise when you called them and they don't respond until you work close to or touch them that is when they will respond to you, and to you if you can't quickly understand what their problem is, you might think that they purposely silence you without knowing that thier mind is not saying what their appearance is saying. So people have experience alot of abuses and maltreat from their parents, friend, even in a relationship that they are into, so these things has been a result of the over thinking that people have sometimes. When life does not offer them what they expected Yes people do develop high thinking when when what they really expected in life fails them, people will come up with over thinking that kills their happiness, people will become disappointed and stranded, and some will feel as if they are left behind, people develop all this feeling when life does offer them their plans. They are people that was expecting to build house last year, marry a wife or a husband last year, buy a new car last year. But unfortunately they couldn't make it up to their expecrations, they became angry with themselves and through this they take their thought higher. Over thinking can easily destory all our target in a given day or even through out our life span, so I would advice everyone not to take everything that happens to them as if that is the end, there nothing over thinking will do to us than to kill our happiness. Thanks for reading. Lead image from source.

People with their secrets Many people are with secret in their heart, in which if there want to open up all of their secret, most people will become scared of some hidden things that the heart could keep. Some people's heart carries a lot of many secret, the most people that can keep secret for so long are the kind of wicked people. There are some certains secret which people keeps in their heart that causes them to do the undo, that is to go beyound in doing what they don't suppose to do, there are some hidden secret that people keep in their mind in other to revenge some other people in the future. There are some secret that people stored in their heart for so many years, people can keep some old things in their heart for so long, and it could be those that they are even keeping the secret against have even forgotten such incident long ago. And most secret that people keep in their heart are the kind of secret that will hurt people in the future, some secret that people keep sometimes are secret that will bring fight among other people, secret that would bring hatred against friends or against families or love ones. The mind is pre-occupy by so many things , the mind is sometimes holding evil and good things. The mind is made up two things which is good or bad. It is the negative and the positive thought that controls the mind, the mind is either positive or negative at a given time. People can even transfer secret to the next generation even when the people that was with the secret dies off, there are some wicked people that had evil secret against some other person and it might be throughout their life time they couldn't revenge, and instead of them to letting go of such secrets, they transfer it to the next generation to revenge it. I have had such story before where a father was about to die, since he could not recover from the illness that he had, then he called all the children who was present and keep a word by telling them not to relate or share anything with the neighboring compound, and he sealed the word he kept with a very bitter and strong course, that the children were even afriad of making mistakes against what the father had said. But to just tell a little story about what made the father to keep such word, is just a simple thing that the father would have just settle between his neighbor and work away, but he did not do it rather he when ahead with secrets in his heart, and when he was about to die. He didn't even died with the secret rather he when ahead and still prolong the secret by telling the children not to associate in anything with such family. People do keep some secret and at times when I listen to it, it makes me feel so bad and sad. Most times I even ask myself some questions while some people keep some secret things in their heart that they do not even suppose to keep, some people keep unreasonable secret that doesn't even make any sense at all, I don't even think that it is a most that people should keep every secret be it bad or good in their heart. This heart that we have, do we also think that its also needs rest too?. Even machine and robot sometimes misbehave and get tired at some certain point, so the same with the heart that we use in keeping secret from January to December, I think in my own opinion that the heart should be left with some single thought to also help the mind to function probably well. When we see things that we should clear off, please let's try our very own best and clear it off to avoid our minds to be contacted by the virus disease that is caused by some negative and evil secret that would not take us far, let's delete some evil secret while keeping space for good things to come in. When the cup is full with water there will be no space again for another water to go in, the only thing is that the water will overflow and pour on the ground. The same thing with our heart when we allow our heart to be full with bad thought and bad secret, there will be no space for other things, except it is either formated or being deleted for some space for other things. When the heart is occupied with so many things it would turn to too much of load to the brain, so to keep everything safe and protected, we have to keep our mind free from keep some evil secret. How keeping secret can hurt Keeping secret can really hurt and if time not taken people can decide to commit sucide and just end it for life. We all know secret is just like the truth, which the truth will definately comes in the end, irrespective of how long people might hide it, secret will definately comes out in the end, in the end the mind will get tired not to hold it again and then people will hear what they were suppose to know, but at this point it will be very painful when the secret comes not at the appopriate time. Something just happened some few days ago, and this has really make me understand that people are worster than devil when it comes to keeping secret, and I don't even know if keeping bad secret is a talent because unlike me I cannot even do it, it means I don't have the talent. Imagine how a woman decieved her husband she claims that she loves for over eighteen years, she lives in the same roof with the man, do everything together with the man, and all their plans they planned together with her husband, but she was living with her husband with a very big secret in her heart for eighteen good years not even eight years but complete eighteen years and some month. Through what I heard, the woman claims that the man she is living together now which is her husband was the person that pregnanted her, and though the husband did not argue alot with her since they were then in a relationship, and he thought it could be the truth, and to him he thought that the woman he was into a relationship with was a good woman not knowing that she was using his brain just because of the money he had. So when it was like that the man decided to take her as his wife, he when ahead and did all the necessary things for them to become husband and wife, and after everything they when back home and continue their marriage. After some month the woman gave birth to a baby girl and the man was very excited that his bady is born, but to the wife the wife knew very well that the man is not the right father to the child. To rush the story, from the very first day, the father took every responsibility of the father upon himself and being that he was so hard working and caring. What pains me is that the wife knew that this man is just innocent about the pregnancy, that the man is not the real father of the child, the woman took the pregnancy from some other person and lie to this her us husband that he is the one responsible while it wasn't the man. So after this man has suffered for both of them for eighteen years, doing everything, having in mind that he has a beautiful daughter who will very soon become a graduate, that is when the wife could reveal the secret to the child, and she did not even tell to the husband first, and when the duaghter heard the story she was so disappointed at the mother and she when straight to the man who's the mother decieve her of being her father, so the daughter with the anger said alot of things , like why would the mother do such?, If she knows what she has cause to both of them. And the daughter said that there is nothing that could make her to forgive the mother for such evil that she has done. The duaghter after expressing her anger she packed her belonging and work out from the house, while the man sent the woman away saying that he can never continue with such evil woman, that for her keeping such secret for such numbers of years that she can likely kills. So there are some secret that most people keep and when the secret is finally reveal it becomes something that can destory lives and put heart break among others, so there are people with secrets, there are people who are ready to transfer secret from generation to generarion. Thanks for reading Lead image from source

Don't waste your life for someone else Never waste your precious life for someone else, because they are a lot of people that are just in existence to destory other people's future, while they are expecting to use your own effort to achieve their own aims. Don't put much of your effort to impress people because those same people that your are trying to help are the same people that will turn against you tomorrow. They are the same people that will lure you into temptation or plot evil against you in times to come. My mentor once advice me to love less, he advised me to love less that if I open my heart widely to love someone that I might be easily to trap by the same people I love. He said I should love less, and even if I love people he told me not to open all my secret to everyone, that it is through some secret that I open to people that they will use to bring me down. If you really want to live long on earth learn to keep some secret, never open all your secret to everyone irrespective of how the closeness might be. It might not be everybody who needs help from you that are really in need of help, some are just asking for help from your in other to bring you down to their taste. They are most people that are not happy about your progress, or happy about the way you are living life. I recently discover ways on how people use to runs people broke, some people do not borrow from you because they lack the money, most people that borrow from you, borrow to just destory your plans, it might be they know exactly what your target is and they in one way or the order wants to borrow and destory your target. Many people are describe by the wise people like the snake when passing on the surface of the water, which the crossing mark does not seen, and most of the people that will waste your precious life for nothing can not be seen through their working steps, the way they talk, or the way they behave in their physical appearance. People that would waste your life for nothing are the same people laughing with you, eating with you, drinking the same cup of water with you , the people that will destory you are never far from you. Why do people accept risk for other people? People sometimes people accept risk which will waste their lives for no reasons, they accept risk that they don't even know the outcome of what will happen in the end, especially most of our youth have given their future to the adult because of nothing, most people have sold their lives, their time, their passion, infact they have sold everything they have just because of the following thing that they don't even know if they will even get it. Some people at times waste their lives through; Fake promises Money Material things And to impress other people. Fake promises People always decide to take some risk that can lead them to death or life in prisonment, just because of some fake promises that people promised them, people take risk that is against the law of the given conutry or against the states, just to achieve some people aims and target. A lot of people are ready to promise you heaven and earth just to lure you to what you may not accept to do on your own, people will bring up fake promises that them, themselves knows that they will not be able to redeem those promises and when we hear of these promise we fall into what will lead us to destruction. Money Most people are always likely to waste their life because of money, we know that money answers our neeeds, money can prevent us and safe us out some certain things, but we should not allow people to use any amount of money to bribe or destroy ourlives. I discover that people waste their lives through the amount of money people promise them, some people that wants to waste our lives will buy us with money by sending us to go and kill, steal, liar or commit others crimes that is against the law, and in the end they will escape while we will be the one facing the penality. Material things Most people are ever ready to make us become useless and frustrated in life by asking us to do one thing or the other that will not land us well, people will come to us by telling us lies that if we do this or that, that they will give us the latest car, the latest mansion and others material things. We know people are so eager to have all those things, but I think if we relax our mind by not seeing the material things like the breath we breath and focus on the important things we supposed to do, we will have all this things. Impressing other people If we keep doing things to impress other people we will definately fail in life, if we always try to impress other people we might misbehalf at some point, There would be a time where people will need help from you, And when you don't have or when you cannot satisfy their needs you might become scared or become angry with yourself that you were not able to meet up their needs, and through such act you might hurt yourself through having some bad feelings. So I don't see any need of you trying to impress other people, the people you are trying to impress by borrowing when you don't even have just to impress them are the same people that will harm you badly. Thanks for reading.. Lead image from source

Life is tough *"Life is tough, my darling but so are you".* *"When the going gets tough, the tough get going".* Life is tough and we don't need anyone to tell us about it, we have seen it already, I have come to realize that life story doesn't have an end you only end it for yourself the very day you disappear from the world through death, life is tough and we also need to become tough if we must keep going, we need to be strong and resilient that is the only way we can win the war of life and stand out as champions, we wouldn't keep going when life is tough and we are weak, like we know we if a competitor develop weakness in a given composition such competitor has already planned and to me I should advice that such person should stay back instead of going to disgrace himself. Accept responsibility in life know that it is you that who will get to where you aspire to go to no one else, if you look beyond the toughness of life and create success it is you who creates the success and if you allowed the tough life to weigh you down it's you who also create the failure for yourself no one else, I like saying that if a person refuse to accept a responsibly such person will be a liability to others people, such like the family, the friends and others in the society, because when you denied yourself of taking some certain responsibility and task you suppose to do which will be useful to you, you are harming yourself so badly. Life is tough my darling, but always remember that the mind is infinite, it is only your doubt that is limiting, our mind is without limit it can adapt a positive or negative, it can adapt large or small, but it is our doubt that is limiting us from giving out a try to see if we can have the best of every opportunity that knocks on us, life is tough and we are aware of it, there no time to waste time waste time for life to become fairly with us, it's our duty to zero our minds and move forward by having in mind that the world would one day be fair to us, we shouldn't wait until the world become fair with us, we are just humans we do not know when it will be. The mind is always open, when we say that someone is open minded its therefore means that the person has not limit his or her mind, someone that always open up his or her mind does not lacks, because his mind is always ever open to opportunity and some new things are free to come in, good things normally happens to those who are ready to accept it, if we need a solid and enviable future for ourselves, we need to establish it, we easily take a charge of our future only when we take control of our income source, life is tough and so we are, we can become a boss of our own and abandoning the tough part of life to be. Life is tough but people are still succeeding, people are still making names, people are building houses here and there, and sometimes I do ask myself a question, people are complaining about how the world economy is bad, how the bills and everyday prices are going high and yet people are still building and buying things, building the biggest mansions, building hotels, buying private jet and purchasing money on so many things numerous to mention, but when I remember the quote that says "wealth is the product of man's capability to think". Which means there are people that doesn't even rely on government there are capable to survive even without the help of government just because the have think and planned well. Even when life is tough, the tough are still going without looking to see if life is tough or not, because their minds are not listening to the tough life it's only their ear that hears it but that can never stop them from going forward, war does not finish the whole generation at least it will leave some people alive, so the same happen when we say that life is tough, it is not everyone that feels the toughness that life offer at a time, when life seems to be tough also be tough with life also, never let life to be so tough with you and you become friendly it. The world economy is not the issue the issue is you, you become the issue when you think that its suppose to be your government that should be doing everything for you, where by there is power in you that you can discover and change the world to another heights entirely, my mentor once said if you want to get rich, you have to move, you don't need a new job; that all you need is a new address, all you need is a new address means you don't need to rely much on the government work, you a new address which is a business of your own, and I believe that is exactly where no body will query you, no body will sack you from work, with the business of your own you control your own well of income. My humble thanks goes to `@ Talecharm` for seeing the need to encourage me in my writing journey, I really appreciate your sponsorship renewal, thanks in a million ways. Thanks for reading. Lead image from source