What do you wish, someone would tell you right now?
That I am doing good and that I am in the right path, the way to my destination. And the way that I am taking is going to hell pala no, lol. ( ꈍᴗꈍ)
You know I am just like the others too, a simpleton who love to be praise too. You just don't know but whenever someone will say something good to me I can't help but to feel kilig and happy. It's just that I feel like I am really doing good and that was noticed by someone. Like for example when someone thanks me coz of the good deeds I do to them. Tapos may pahabol pa yan saying "You are really kind." I know I can only be kind when I feel like doing a good things. But that one time, then someone notice it isn't it great and awesome? Like I want to do good more from now on. Hearing those, I feel like I am really a good person.
Not just this but also in out house. There are times that when I clean the whole house I have this need or words that I want to hear from my moms. Sometimes just to let them show that I am cleaning I will clean slowly just until they get inside because they are on the store. So for them to see me I need them to get inside first, lol. And when if ever they see me I am actually waiting for the words from them that can really make me feel good. Like "Aba, ang sipag ngayon ng bata. Ano kayang nakain". Things like that, simple words but enough to make my ears clap in happiness, lol. Is that weird? Hahaha I don't know but there are really times that I am longing for a praise, lol.
I'm like a puppy that will wag its tail coz her hoomans give her a treat coz of its job well done,. I mean, I think anyone needs that, anyone will react like I did because when they notice us, It is only mean one thing. And that is we are doing good to our works or to what we're doing right now. And that can make us work harder and to be more masipag than others. A simple sentence but to some that simple praise is enough to make them feel good and happy, like me. Everything seems easy if you are happy right and doing works is like a paper that is very light weight. Those words of encouragement that is music to the ears of some. We should really do that too often, praising those people who's working really hard.
Okay back to the real thing. This js just the continuation of my Positive Journal Prompts Challenge. This is the 7th: What do you wish, someone would tell you right now? You can look for thr complete list here if you also want to join this challenge.
Hmm, right now I can't think of anything or rather I don't want to hear anything from someone in my family aside from my crush. I wish this time he can tell me that he likes me too. Charowttttt, kidding aside, lol what I really wish that someone would tell me is not a word of praise or what but a words of encouragement. Coz to be honest, my laziness is getting severe now that if not for my goals in life I will really stop na and not move at all. My goal is so save and grow it by doing some business or maybe invest it but if I stop all of this, I won't be able to achieve that. And so, I really really want to hear some encouragement. Because doing it by myself is not enough anymore.
In the past few weeks if you will notice I am not that active on the comment section anymore. Sometimes I will just leave an upvote and go back again in doing nonsense. Like watching, browsing on facebook and may more. I mean, this socmed aside frim noise is what's really stopping me for being productive and I can't help it sometimes. I think I really need to uninstall my fb again aigooo. If I continue to do this and let laziness conquer all of my system then it is the end for me. How about my goals and the things I want to achieve. I don't know why but even here in home my laziness is just too much. Even though it is affecting already my physical body.
I just want to hear a little encouragement coz maybe with that I can go back to my old self when I first join here. Aigoooi.
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June 25, 2202
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Importante talaga ang positive reinforcement. This is what I have learned, some people have such Love languages which is an affirmation, they feel loved when their actions are affirmed and that is totally fine.