If I will measure the success that I already achieve in my life, I can say that it's already in kilograms - say 50 Kilograms. That much? Oh wait, you'll be wondering why I say it's already that much I base my success to every little things that I did for myself and for my family, or every little things I achieve on my own little way. Every little things as in even the hard poop that is so hard to push because of eating too much cornik, but because of my determination to release it all I finally and successfully release all of my shit. Yay, it's a success!!
Well, actually we can't really measure the success that we achieved in our life. If we will include those times that we fall while walking to the path we chose to take, every time that we push ourself to stand up that's already a success. We will stumble upon in different problems in life but, with our will to resolve all of it, that is already a big success for us too. That's where your success will start. It will continue as long as you choose the right path for you.
But, can we really tell if it's really the right path for us? Well, we can just look at it as one hell of adventure, we can just find it out along our way, if we encounter more problems by taking the wrong path, we can choose to back up again and continue to climb? And your decision to push forward, that's already a success. Because you didn't falter, instead you took it as challenge. And more obstacle in life is waiting for us while we're taking this adventure.
Braveness and strength is needed in facing it. You need to sharpened your knife so that those people who will try to take you down and bury you alive will be wash away by your own strength. Once you finally do that, then that's a big success for yah! Not letting other people affect your thinking and doing what you set for your life, that's already a big success. Savor it, show them what you got! Pilipinas Got Talent!!!
Ahh, I just remember - those moment in my life where I thought passing my project will never make it in time. Seriously, even when I was still in High School, my best enemy that time was my laziness. Instead of doing my project beforehand, I will set aside it first than doing the most important thing and once the deadline was just around the corner that's where I will cram. I know, I'm the one to blame here that's why I almost didn't make it.
But still, I did make it with my determination and my fear to my Mom I push myself on finishing it and then yes, it's a success. I finished it on time. I know I should learn from this. But this continue until College. I always cram because of doing first those unimportant things, lol. It really become a habit, a bad habit. Even if the outcome is always a success, we shouldn't really make this thing as a habit. How many times did I experience it, I can't even count in my hands, lol.
How about the time that I feel alone and loneliness was eating me. I thought I will be crazy with a lot of crazy thoughts on my mind. I have a friend where I can ask for a shoulder to cry but, after you get home. You still can't help yourself feeling lonely because of the kind of family you have. I even question my existence there but, I still overcome it. Overcoming those negative thoughts that keep on lingering on my mind was a huge success for me. I was able to stop myself from doing bad things that I'll surely regret now if ever I let those negative thoughts eat me.
And how about those rejection that I get from those people that I love. Well, I once feel rejected from my Mom because of those things that I really want to do but she won't let me. I feel like she didn't love me that's why she's doing it to me. I feel like, they are making my life miserable on purpose that's why the resentment on my heart for them is just overflowing. But I successfully remove my resentment toward them, they didn't say their sorry but time really heal it all. And the thought that they do it for my own good, is all I need for those heavy feelings to vanish.
Another thing, when I successfully travel alone from Mindoro to Batangas. That I thought I can't do it because I'm afraid to travel alone, but still I did make it. I overcome my fear and because of it I successfully met my sister in the pier. And if I let my fear to travel alone overtake my body, for sure I will never get to experience to be with my sister again. Even if it's only a short time, at least I get to be with her, bond with her and travel with her. That is actually my last bonding with her and It's a success, and it's a success yes but still, not more next time 😢.
Every little achievement that we get, that's enough reason to celebrate it because it's a success of ours. When you feel itchy at your back but your hand can't reach it, all you have to do is get a stick or a hanger and kamutin mo, then it's a success. Nawala ang pangangati, pero yong pangangati ng mga talipandas sakit na yon kaya di na yon mawawala. Or when you feel like you're gaining weight that's why you decided to lose weight and you successfully lose 2 kilograms, that's another Success right.
Success has no ending, you'll continuously get a success if you have a lot of goals. Coz even the smallest things can be your success.
Ahh, why writing this is so exhausting. I feel like my brain was squeezed just like lemonade. Maybe it's because I'm bored? So, expect that this one is boring lol. And I still hope you get my article coz parang naguguluhan ako, lol. I mean, I'm not sure if I construct it well? Anyway, Happy Reading 💙.
By the way, a lot of people was writing about success that's why I copy them. I only copy the topic but not the whole content okay. What's written here was base on my experience in life. Some was shared already on my previous article. So if you want to check, then go. Good Luck.
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Yes. Acknowledge even the littlest success that we accomplish each day. Feeling ko naman lahat right path yung dinadaanan natin towards our destination. Sometimes we are familiar with it and sometimes we want to take a different route even if we do not k ow if it will make a journey shorter or longer. Pero with that path I know we will learn something from it and that's what makes it the right path. Hehe. Kinaption ko yan sa Instagram ko pero not exact words kaso never ko napost. Nakasave lang siya noon. Tapos nung nagpalit ako phone, akala ko masesave yung mga nadraft ko. Hindi pala. Huhuhu.
Anyhow, mahirap talaga kalaban yung "mamaya" na habit. Kahit ako I keep on delaying things na kahit alam ko ang panget ng feeling ng nangangarag ay dinedelay ko pa din mga bagay-bagay. 😅