A Great Pretender and a Big fat Liar

It depends on the case. LOL. There were times that I can pretend that I am ok but there were also times that I cannot control what I feel. Some people who know me can easily tell what I feel. Sometimes even with a single text, they can already predict my feelings. But in general, I know I am not a good pretender.

I can consider myself too as a great pretender. I can laugh with you like nothing is bothering me but at the end of the day I'm gonna cry my heart out, ALONE in the dark. But there is one person that I'm so transparent with and I'm thankful to him for staying by my side and being the light in my dark world.

I am quite a transparent one in terms of my emotion. If i am not feeling well, my face shows it all, if I am mad at someone, that person will surely know it.

Pretending to be okay in front of the others is just a piece of cake but inside our room we can feel how weak we are yet we still choose to fight for ourselves kasi wala namang mangyayari kung magmumokmok tayo ne sis. hehe

As mush as pretending we are not weak is okay, we should also have at least someone to confide in, because if we just continue to hold it within, it may explode someday when we can't bottle it up anymore. Needless to say, these people who are good at pretending are really strong.

same as you I'm a totally great pretender especially to my friends. Ako yung tipo ng tao na hindi mahilig mag share ng problems baka kasi ijudge pa ako kaya wag nalang.

sanayna sanay rin ako magpretend kaso minsan sarap manamapal kapag pinipilit mo nanga ipakitang okay kamay umeepal pa

Yes Ate Nasanay din akong sarilihin lahat since wala akong kakampi nung mga panahon na wala si Mama sa tabi ko. Laki ako sa bahay ng mga Grandparents ko alam nyo na yan lagi kong nakwekwento hihi. Kaya nasanay na ako mag pretend at kahit para sakin hindi okay, or di nila naririnig side ko, sige lang ako ng sige. Pero ang hirap pala talaga mag pretend. Lahat naman tayo nakakaranas ng ganyan eh akala lang nila strong tayo pero hindi eh. Maiiyak nalang tayo gabi gabi. Mababaliw nalang tayo kakaisip. Hays pero that's life ate Ropa! Still fighteu ☺️💚 kakayanin to. Nakaya nga natin ng ilang taon eh, Kakayanin parin hanggang sa pagtanda! 🤩 Nu kaba, andyan parin si Lord wag mong iisipin na walang nakikinig kasi andyan lang siya handang makinig hanggang mailabas mo lahat.

Keep your heads up! Tapos ngiti lang Ruffa! Understand the circumstance, cry, feel bad, ilugmok ang sarili but you have to have the end part "Oh okay na all, move on na!" Then find your happiness. And be happy.

Fake it, till you make it. Stay strong ate Ruffa! 💗 And yes, we only have ourselves that we can depend on. Truly no man is an island, but sometimes we need time to be alone. It is okay to pretend if that is what we feel on doing so and if that makes everything fine. Okay lang din umiyak. Iyak konti, tas patuloy ulit. You are brave ateeeee! And make sure to always pray. 💗💗

Yes Imma great pretender Whoooo - whooo! - Freddie Mercury

Don't give up God is Good all the time po just keep praying always 🙏 We need to be strong and I know You can ..just follow your dreams ...more articles to you & Godbless 😇

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Cheer up po ate! 😊

for me it's ok to pretend as long as it for your own good.. d naman kailangan malaman ng tao ang lahat ng nangyayari sayo eh...

I'm a great pretender too.. I can pretend to be your friend, but once you stab my back, I can kill you secretly.. Haha.. Brutal..

Ate ruffa , waaahhh 😭. We really are so much alike. I can always relate to your articles especially when it's about your personal life.

This is sooo meee, I'm really good at pretending. I'm a great pretender tho. I always face people like nothing's happened. Sanay narin kasi akong sinasarili problema ko knowing na ako lang naman nakakaintintindi sa sarili ko 🤧. Tama ka po, just shake it off, mawawala din yan. Hindi naman kasi bago na sa'tin yung mga problema na yan.

Thank you for making us happy. Fighting lang ate ruffa 💪. Sana rin po ma crush back kana ng crush mo whahahaha

I'm not good at pretending as they see my feelings on my eyes. Sanay din Naman ako iexpress Yung nararamdaman ko as long na Hindi Naman makakaapekto sa iba. Mas mahirap Kasi kapag kikimkimin , mas okay Kung may Isa Lang kaibigan o kahit Kay Lord nalang pala na mapagsasabihan mo ng lahat lahat.

Silent battles rawr. Para sa akin, mas mainam ng iresolve magisa hehe kesa maka burdened pa sa iba! Hehe strong tayo e! Smile lang :)

Relate ako. Sometimes, it's best to just pretend you're fine when you're not. But other times, I'm straightforward and just say what's on my mind. But whatever you're feeling right now, know that you're not alone.

Magaling talaga ako magtago ng feelings pero dito, hindi. Para kasing ako pa masama haha, nakakasama ng loob haha joke

Been a pretender to my parents. I always tell them I am okay but the truth is I am not and I need them. They gave me favor but I declined coz I am ashamed.🥺

Yakang yaka mo iyan ikaw paba.💪. Strong ka kaya.

This is so me. A great pretender. My friends always saw me smiling but they didn't know that behind those smiles I put on my face, a fought a silent battle. But that was before. Now, I'm already fine.😊

At some point in our lives, we all became a pretender and choose to be alone. But no matter how difficult life is. I am still here standing and continue to fight. I am so happy to meet you ate Ruffa. You bring joy to everyone you met ❤

As for me, I'm not good of hiding, especially to my mama. She just noticed right away when I am feeling something unusual for her. Hayys.

I guess I'm not good at hiding to anyone aside from my family. Or maybe my mom notice pero di niya lang sinasabi. 😣

If its about me then I'm good of hiding what I'm really facing and remaining silent is one of my thing to fight against problems

F*** feelings! Don't let anyone or any feelings take you down! Just follow your dreams and keep marching!

Pero need din talaga siguro natin ng mapagsasabihan ng problema, para maiwasan nadin siguro na lumala pa ito.