Forgive- Yes. Forget- Never.
Date: 27th February, 2022
SundayLife is so beautiful & merciless both at a same time. I'm having a better time, you are having a better time but maybe someone else is not. The fun we are having now maybe a cause of problem for someone. That's how the life works. Isn’t it beautiful in it’s own way? Yes, it is. We are dealing with our own life. Many problems are there to solve and we do our job. Too many people with too many problems and solutions. Simple? No dear, not so simple. Human being can deal with any kind of pains. But one thing they can't handle or hardly do is betrayal. They often got betrayed by their own people, own blood, own friend, own partner. Whom to share this pain? No one. But the tragic never ends there. Those people return to their live seeking forgiveness and pledging not to do that again. What will a person do then?
Topic: Forgive-Yes. Forget-Never.
Recently I was seeing my friends writing here on this topic. So there was actually no need to write on this. But a kid changed my mind. A little kid was talking to his father. I was standing just beside the boy. His argument with his father and the father's explanation made me write this to you. Let's hear the mini conversation at first.
Kid: So, why are you shopping for uncle and his family?
Father: Because we are going to visit them. You have a new cousin.
Kid: Didn’t he filed a case on you? Then why?
Father: I didn’t forget that but I forgive him.
I was there, just there. They left me but I remained there. His last word actually has point. We should forgive them but never forget. I smiled and then started my bike. I had my lesson. Now, I'm here.
So first thing my friend we need to understand the motive of our sinners. They are really good for nothing and they stabbed us. Now, if we need to understand their crime, we need to go through their point of jealousy. You have the plus point because those people will come to you and seek forgiveness. Just check what they truly desire. You can have your answers first. Don't hesitate on this matter. Find out the reasons. Maybe they were jealous about your success. Maybe they were angry about your any decision. Maybe they were looking for a chance to take over your power for their own advantages. The reasons may vary from me but the culprits will be there for you and seeking forgiveness. After knowing their true colour what will you do next?
Always Forgive
In every religion, we are taught to forgive people every time. Because we need to understand that the Almighty is merciful too. We should follow it. We must forgive everyone. According to this law, we must forgive our backstabbing people, right? Yes, we should do that. No matter what happened to you, you must show your mercy and smile. May be their heart will change and they will become loyal. They will understand their guilt and quit those bad things. There is possibility for this. I must say that.
Never Forget
There is a simple thing with it. You can forgive them but please, never forget them. In this age, people seek opportunities to attack you and your legacy. Maybe your forgiveness allow them to plan something more evil for you. It is not a joke my friend. The world has seen enough people and incidents like it. So I deeply suggest you not to forget them who sabotaged you. Before giving a second chance, please check if they truly deserve that or not.
You have an honour to forgive them but also you have a duty and responsibility about yourself. Remember them, remember their nature, remember their crocodile tears. The changing world has taught people to fake out emotions too. How can you trust random people and obviously them who already betrayed you? So my friend, forgive them but forget? Never!
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Thanks for being with me.
©Lucifer01
How do one really forget? Forgiving yes, forgetting doubtful...