Hello dear virtual friends, how are you today? One of my favorite topics I like to write about is modern psychology. Over thirty books I have read and attending seminars entitles me to write freely on the subject.
The articles I have written so far on this topic are:
Unleash your potential / Oslobodite svoj potencijal
Miraculous phenomena called sleep / Cudotvorne pojave zvane san
The power of positive thoughts / Moc pozitivnih misli - Part 1
The power of positive thoughts / Moc pozitivnih misli - Part 2
The power of positive thoughts / Moc pozitivnih misli - Part 3
If you haven’t read them by now, it would be nice to read them and leave your comment.
Today I will write how to take command of our lives.
The biggest problems or sources of negativity you have in your life today. How are you responsible for such a situation?
Think of yourself as the president of the company. How would you react differently if you owned 100% of the shares?
Decide today to stop blaming others for anything and instead accept full responsibility in all areas of your life. What should you do?
Stop looking for answers and start making progress.
View yourself as the primary creative force in your life.
Decide today to forgive everyone who has ever hurt you in any way. Get rid of it. Refuse any further discussion in this regard. Instead, focus on doing what's important to you, so you don't have time to think about it again.
Many people are still angry at their parents for not doing or doing something for them. They are trapped by the past and cannot tear themselves away from it.
Your biggest enemy is a negative emotion that hinders you, tires you, takes away all the joy of life. Be in yourself self-pity, envy, jealousy and anger. When you remove them from your thinking, your negative emotions will automatically disappear. Then you will be governed by love, serenity, joy and enthusiasm and your whole life will change for the better.
Stop making excuses
For some reason, people are constantly explaining and elaborating the reasons for their negative feelings. However, if you can’t justify your negativities you can’t even be human.
Refuse to rationalize and find excuses
Rationalization and justification always require you to declare someone or something else the source or cause of your problem. You assign yourself the role of a victim while making another person a “villain”.
Rise above the opinion of others
Psychologists say, "Everything we do we do to earn the respect of other people or to avoid that respect."
Responsibility as an antidote
Responsibility nullifies negative emotions. When you get rid of negative emotions and take full responsibility then you reach the goal.
Stop blaming others
"No one can make you feel less valuable if you don't agree to it."
Control your emotions
Whenever you complain or criticize others, you evoke feelings of negativity, anger and rage. Then you are the one who suffers. Being angry at someone means allowing them to control your emotions and thus the quality of your life. Positive emotions such as love, enthusiasm and happiness contribute to being STRONGER. You choose, you decide!
Develop a government strategy
You are responsible for personal strategic planning:
setting goals
making plans
realization of measures
work on achieving results
Take the helm of your own life
Orient yourself towards the future and think about what you want and where you want to go. Above all, you think about your goals.
Determine the place of your control
People with an internal place of control feel they are in complete control of their lives. With the right place of control, others control them.
Golden triangle
The three elements go in a package of responsibility, control and happiness.
It's in your hands. You have unlimited potentials, and it is only your responsibility to create your future. I wish you a nice rest of the day. @Jigglyspy
If you haven't read my new articles here are links to them:
A man with a big heart / Covek velikog srca
Breastfeeding - good for the baby but also for mom / Dojenje - dobro za bebu ali i za mamu
Unleash your potential / Oslobodite svoj potencijal
Her Majesty Milena Dravic / Njeno velicanstvo Milena Dravic
Miraculous phenomena called sleep / Cudotvorne pojave zvane san
One of the greatest people to ever walk the earth
A British lady who loved Serbia / Britanska dama koja je volela Srbiju
A voice that is not forgotten / Glas koji se ne zaboravlja
Naughty tricksters / Nestasni foliranti
Nikola Tesla on women / Nikola Tesla o zenama
Football legend of Eastern Serbia / Fudbalska legenda Istocne Srbije
It's sleeping time ☺️ / Vreme je za spavanje ☺️
Be as humane as Serbia in 1885
Volunteer of the Serbian Red Cross / Volonter Crvenog krsta Srbije
Thank you for writing this. ♥️ You are the captain of your own ship. You must also learn how to positively deal with things and problems in life for you to grow.