Unapologetic

I would like to ask why are people making fuss about the matter the same people are doing the same thing in secret, the only difference is that hers was leaked out.

Even some criticizing her might be doing things worse than she has done

The question you asked, if there's unforgivable sin? I also don't know, maybe there is especially when it involves killing.

Youth are getting too liberated these days to the point of filming themselves while doing such things. I can't blame them since they are out of proper guidance. The most important thing there is she changed herself and apologized. I believe that she can be forgiven. Even a murderer can be forgiven when they serve their sentence, be remorseful, and apologized. Her sin isn't that great to be not forgiven. Society is just full of hypocrites and judgemental people, that's why.

This is why guidance of educated adults is really important to curious, adventurous youth. If none, then these young people do things that their adult selves will surely regret, and sadly, there's no turning back. What goes into the internet stays there forever, and will haunt her for the rest of her life. But it depends on her whether to stay strong to overcome it and accept her mistakes as how it hones her to become a better person.

I remember Kin Kardashian in the story, not gonna lie.

Forgiveness is not easy most times especially when it's the unapologetic people that are involved, but it's usually the best way to go. Forgive, learn lessons and be more careful

We must learn from our mistakes and not make them again. I think everyone deserves a second chance as long as they don't make a mistake again.

The biggest thing I have found about Nigerians is that we are hypocrites. Some of us do things worse than what she has done everyday but we open our mouth and judge others.

I guess it is they say “na who dem catch be thief”

We human can kill someone by our criticism. If someone had made mistake and is begging for forgiveness we should give a chance. But we instead of forgiveness started character assassination till she/he committed sucide. It is really bad evil in many progressive societies. We should condemn and discouraged these sorts of actions in our country.

Check and you'd find those people chastising her even after she apologised are people who fornicate. Just because they are not recording it and the internet doesn't know... People change.

We owe People apology in some actions we take, just as you said... those that are directly affected by the actions.

Like me now, now matter how stubborn or strong I tend to prove and commit a "good crime", it will touch down to my parents, not just my parents, to the church, to my community as whole.

When super Eagles lost the ticket to #Qatar2022, it touched the 90% of Nigerians and most of the players took it to heart to apologise. That's how the life is

I love this article, just as Jesus said, he who is without sin, come cast the first stone, we are humans and we are by nature desperately wicked, so I feel we should be ready to forgive anyone, but help them see that they can be different just as many have lived a better life.

It doesn't really matter what you do people will still complain so just do yourself

You'll be surprised at the caliber of things those people that criticize her are doing. People are quick to see other people's faults but are blind to theirs. In this life, just do your own thing, make your mistakes, suffer the consequences and move on. We learn everyday or not🤷‍♀️

Sometimes I am scared of making the mistake of condemning someone for an act.

The truth is that no one is perfect and the fact that someone was caught doesn't mean that we are saints, God is just still protecting our secrets. Many of us have done worse in the past, pleasing people is impossible.

She should forget about how people feel or what they think and move on.

I do believe you owe the public an apology, but yours is to give it, is up to those who will accept it to, and for those who will not, not to, but what matters is that you've done your part.

Whether it would be accepted or not, ours is to apologise. It would be on record but we should mind our actions too.

It's sad how the past mistakea stained to her even until now. Guess no matter how much you wanted to change, if people will bring our your mistakes because, you will still be judged.

Our adventures most times comes back at us. The said undergraduate has had her share of a carefree life and that shouldn't be a yardstick to judge her. Everyone has a weakness. There is no sin that is unforgivable. We should release people from the trauma with tie to so as to allow for continuum. Like Jesus said:

He that is without sin, let him cast the first stone.

We can forgive but it's not an easy process. Some we can do so easily but not all. Yes, we all deserve second chances. We all commit mistakes. Who are we to judge then? What we can do is be more accepting and move on. Learn as much as we can from those experiences.

For me, I believe that she owns her family apology and few people that are close to her, the internet never forgives, the video is already everywhere and people won’t delete it from their phone or blogs, it might take time for her to heal, but she has to try and heal and stop apologizing for the video going viral, no one is above mistake, but having a sex tape is 50/50, that’s what she would have known from the start.

Feel sorry for that person who's past have worsen her today. It's write that it's was unethical but if she confess that it's her past and she has been changed second chance should be given to her

At times, apologizing is good when it's done at the right time