The Wind Blows Regardless- AI has come to Stay
There have been a lot of debate on the view of Artificial Intelligence AI, some have been positive while an equal other has been negative. The negative view has always been championed by the notion of putting Human off their jobs - Taking up human place thereby rendering a lot of current workers irrelevant. Other negative view will make you remember the popular movie 🎥 Terminator where machines in human like form took over the world., in the same breathe birth the saying that AI will grow into being Sovereign and unable to be controlled by it’s programmers and from thereafter “Chaos”, funny right… but do they actually have a claim?
The Smartness and rapid delivery of the AI is breathtaking, but way more than that its capacities are unimaginably scary. I saw a video Ads made fully on Artificial intelligence and I couldn’t differentiate because it has been so improved, so clear and so human like. Early this year there were a lot of Jobs being done on Ai, and one could tell from the motion, to the animation, to the voicing that this is clearly computerized, nevertheless fast forward to today, those gaps are slowly being closed.
All inventions however must be accepted as growth is a constant human thrive, but just as we can see some inventions comes with their downsides which we have no choice but to accommodate alongside. For example- Guns or Fire arms , vital in restoring law and order, Protection and Economic dominance however you can tell the menace it is to the society. Electricity a very deadly energy source, more catastrophic on a yearly account of burns and fire nevertheless it’s the order of a new age, some people will even argue on Television, phones, social media but should be or would be eventually do away with them, NEVER right?? Today you read this article because of a necessary invention accepted by all. In same vein Ai. Let’s talk on the possible downside we are sure to see.
Lack of Trust-
Scam will so much be on the rise that people will have no way but to learn to combat it and the only way we see is mutiple verification. Imagine for a minute that with the help of AI, someone can make your image turn to a video, write a certain prompt and boom you are there saying things you’ve never said in your life 🤣, these will be so rampant and many will be initial victims until we all lack trust and almost returning to the Stone Age where seeing becomes believing or should I say Physical interaction becomes the new order of business.
Extinction of certain Job Roles
Your 5 years old son can create whatever it imagines into life, Give you a clearly photo of himself in places he has never see and it comes out perfect. Early detection of how to stay relevant in the coming age is key. Not necessary the need to quit a job, but how to ensure you are still required regardless. This applies to so many job roles including areas you think they won’t because humans never rest till perfection is achieved. Someone somewhere is trying to make robots that can successfully carry out medical operations with accuracy void of human errors, sounds like it won’t be trusted so fast, ok then wait till it has more success rate compared to your trained professionals.
Feeling of being Monitored
Because the AI is so smart it can pick up emotions, put pieces together and know what you do for work, Know how you reason, know the things you typically search , they can know you better than your partner does. Oh Yes! Currently the Google search knows people more than they partners because people are their true self when alone, when you see that nobody is watching. Many more people will build intimate relationships with their chat box, voluntarily because they have found someone or let me say something that won’t judge then, explore their hidden fantasies and keep it between themselves.
indeed will be a new age, a scary time, but nothing replaces Humans, all things are for Humans and Humans will always be the motive behind all things. We will always figure it out when we get there.
It’s Closer Than you think!
Mind Fax
Nothing transcends into reality than the mind. And I wish the inner workings of the mind can be understood to explicitly explain how thoughts being the first and primary stage can birth all there is today which just a major ingredient being a determined mind. Most success stories aren’t supernatural, no are angels sent to build the world’s amazements of today… nahh!!! Chilling out with a creative or renowned person who has achieved will bring you closer to know there’s nothing different between this being and anyone else other than the mind will to do it… Just Do It ✅.
Notice how fear comes to affect our response to everything happening around us, some have believe that there are forces working against them, so if something good is presently happening they are already looking for where the bad is coming from. If they get a deal today, they are most likely to experience something troubling, not because there is truly a force on their back at all times, but because fear is already a smoke and its negativity is fed upon by the devil, so yes it comes, many who know this take positivity very seriously.
Ever wonder why people are so big on positivity as though life doesn't just happen, more like are we saying as far as we remain positive then bad things won't happen, not so, there would be natural occurrences, but be sure you'll win Everytime, so if you fall sick, be sure that sickness can stay long in the body because you are mind and thoughts are already rejecting it, this positivity does nothing more than pleasing God, which in reality is all we need to please, so when you're broke and you are positive to be rich, it's more as a prayer already, for the bible says "without faith its impossible to please God".
Same feeling we get when we are being bullied physically, same feeling we get when our minds play are plagued with fear, it can get so intense that we feel helpless and moody, funny how many people are presently bullied from their thoughts, not yet reality but already so scared, I'm not talking phobias alone, there is the place of phobias and there is the place of actual overthinking, thinking about the worst case scenario and dwell so much on this thoughts that it dents the mood, it could even be thoughts partaking to a person, and this thoughts overtime being to affect the way we view the person.
You'll be shocked to see how many people are presently affected by mere imaginary things rather than actual occurrence. The doubts, the sudden change of attitude, the decrease of affection, all from an hunch, all from a thought or even a dream, we've got to stop, maybe be careful but they deserve our full love especially when they are really putting genuine efforts. Seeing we never know for sure, then choose to love and be at peace.
The "smart ones" as they claim would not wait for it to happen in reality, they would have already start acting on suspicion and putting on defense as though its about to happen. Its risky because you can end up doubting someone who is putting work to make things work, a little slide off would appear as a sign and boom comes the attack, all this could end a decent relationship or friendship, I advice it's best to give the benefits of a doubt, up until it happens in reality, I presume that whoever we claim to love is worth giving the shot, so remove every doubt so you can give your 100% into the relationship.
Our minds constantly seeing the negatives cause of the environment it operates in, the world is filled with different theories and perceptions, most of which are controlled by wrongs and negativity, in a gathering of two or more people, acting on positivity makes you feel like you're so unreal, like you're not truthful to what's really going on. Its almost like expecting things to go bad and go to worst is the way we all should operate, once you start fixing your mind on positives and greatness, you start making enemies, well understand the usefulness of staying positive as it truly pays off.
Negativity is a bully of the mind, fear is a bully of the mind, learn to chase them out, if expecting bad to happen is normal, then expecting good to happen should also be normal, so why not pick sides, pick the side you'll prefer to dwell on, and no matter what is happening around, stay on your side, its really isn't that hard, doesn't come easy to stay positive though, but over time with conscious learning we become experts and we can then do it easily.it really work guys, to believe in the best, to believe life would be great even when in a deep mess works out and events turns out beautiful at last.
The world is only a field, we are players, yet the rules are not made by us, and neither are we officiating the game, our God is, and he works on rules and just as any game, he can make a decision if he wishes too, we can only complain or be favored however we must obey his rulings, knowing this we should look for ways to get favored by him officiating our lives, and we can please him by staying positive, by removing fear from our minds and believing as though the goodness is here. The bible says "for God has not giving us the spirit of fear, but of peace, of love and of a sound mind" build a sound mind today.
Fax rightly.. transmit positivity and determination from the mind into your reality.
Who Is Home For Christmas?
Merry Christmas everyone, I trust we have having the best of times, Christmas should be enjoyed, especially being that it's also the last week of the year, there's no better time to rewind and just relax after a year long work and stress. We all have the various people we would love to spend this quality time with, mostly family and friends. In most occasions friends comes in between but mainly we'd be spending the Christmas with family, just like me. It Christmas and so I had to come back home, I decided I'll be spending the festivities with family and then hang out with friends also though.
It's a good feeling to be meeting everyone at home, especially when it's been a long time since you all last saw or gathered together. You know that catching up and different stories coming from everyone, it's really a fun time, let's not forget the cooking and food, that's indeed the best time, that homemade delicacy, you'd eat on Christmas till you're filled and tired. Do what you must do as long as it's fun and it's a show of love, this is the season of love so it's got to be all love spreading around.
How is your Christmas going over there? Hope you went home this christmas, who is home for Christmas, hope you're having the best time. Or would you not be going home, how then do you intend to spend the Christmas, with whom and where. Well as long as it's going get you the excitment you need. Sometimes all we really want for Christmas may be to be with someone special, someplace special or even alone, it doesn't really matter how we are used to spending our christmas, all that matters is being happy, even if that means being alone, although I don't see how we can spread love with being alone.
The festivities does not last forever in a week time it'll all be over so its important that we utilize our time well. Enjoy every moment with each and everyone, make good memories that would make you smile whenever you remember, you never know how soon you'll see them again so make each moment counts. And ensure you remember the reason for the season being Jesus. Jesus should indeed be celebrated.
At the end of the Christmas and all this festivities we'll all be smiling, because we have make the best of the moment. Merry Christmas everyone and a happy new year in advance ❤. I'll love to know who you're spending your Christmas with.
Always Take Time Out To Remember
Remembering is that one habit that we don't exhibit as much as we should, the fact that we forget somethings is bad enough as a missed opportunity, people should get what they deserve as it becomes a lesson to them, a good person hope to be remembered someday when he or she needs the assistance, now imagine you forget and refuse to help, how would you feel when you get reminded? In same vein a bad person needs to be remembered also or else he could feel like it's all right, the fact that we can remember keeps them in thoughts cause it can come back to hunt them in the future. God gave us the gift of remembering, we aren't just exploring it enough yet.
Another essential need for remembering is how it helps us stay grateful, hopeful and positive that things would turn out great. Its good we make how time to reflect on our past and be grateful for how far we have come. Cause each time i have been face with a newer challenge I get so down, most times I forget that the previous challenge I overcame was greater than this new one I'm facing and it would be only logical that I be calm in the midst of this trouble, if I can overcome the previous, then I can overcome this new one raising its ugly head.
Have you seen someone whose self confident that he would win during trying times, and you wonder what gives them such boldness, how can they be so sure and so relax, especially believers in Christ, I've seen people literally walk out of sickness just by saying this can't be me, sickness has no hold over me and start acting like there's nothing wrong with them and just like the sickness has ears, zoom off it goes. Just when you ask them what makes you so sure, they often say they have been through worst, and the same God who helped overcome the previous has assured them to always be there.
Such awesomeness, to like a life as a cheat, when others are struggling with trying to live by strength, you're relaxed, your task is just to trust and wait. Its often said, those who can remember are those who know how to appreciate best. Imagine helping a friend out and he's always appreciating you, indeed you'll be glad and when next you can help him or her, you wouldn't want to think twice, well same with God.
There's a popular story in the bible, it's tagged the story of the 10 lepers, now Jesus healed all 10 of them and so they were excited and indeed they were grateful, normal reasoning should tell us that they would have said their thank you, in fact show great amount of joy and appreciation to Jesus, he healed them off year long disease, and so they were mandated to show theirselves to the high priest so they can be assessed and allowed to live among the people once again, but just when they were running to the high priest in excitement, one of the lepers was thinking different.
Others were already imagining their lives anew and what they want to do, how they want to surprise their family and so on, but this one leper was thinking on how best to show his gratitude to who helped him, and so he ran back, left everyone and left every excitement just to say thank you to the man who healed him, this caught Jesus compassion and he blessed him more, he made him completely whole, that means no more traces, not only was he healed, it was completely impossible to think he was sick as his skin was anew.
You know sometimes we should remember, how God has been there for us in time past, how we needed some things and we got it, everyone sometimes have needed a miracle to happen, something that we can't get by ourselves, some things that we know would only be a supernatural intervention for it to happen, and indeed it happened. Of course that moment we are grateful, we say our thank you and dance round with gratitude but then we forget the essential lessons we need to learn, the lesson meant was for you to be rest assured that though he's invisible to the human eyes, yet he does exist and most active, in fact the best option you can count on, not your spouse, not your parents, God indeed is the best help anyone can get. We often forget, so this is a call to remember.
Do you remember when you were sick and it felt like you were going to die, but here you're smiling as you're reading. Do you remember when you were praying to get into the universities, and God gave it to you. Do you remember when you didn't know what to eat, but now you've got enough to eat. Do you remember when you were looking for a job and it felt like your prayers were silent, now you've gotten a job. Do you remember wanting to have a kid of your own and now you've gotten a kids of your own.
Now when you keep remembering, don't forget and when next you're faced with something tough, just know that All would be well. You have won in the past, and hey you'll win again. Let's Always Remember.
Thanks for reading.
What Makes You Happy?
It's no jokes that some people aren't really happy. We can't continue to live through life without genuinely being happy, what makes you happy should be identified and done, well it should also be analyzed first so it doesn't appear to be something with potentials of causing harms., but what does give happiness without risks, some source of happiness are quite cunning, we all want to do It but doing it would raise lot of questions so a larger group of people would prefer to stay out of it, while a good number of people who doesn't care would carry on regardless.
Happiness is an essential part to our living and should not be taken for less, people need to be happy for more reasons than just smiling, being happy does so much to the body both internally and externally., it does so much to the mind also, and ofcourse the mind is where it all begins. So you wouldn't be wrong if you said happiness is as a fuel, since the mind is the powerhouse, like every generator, it'll need a good fuel to get it started. There is no better fuel than the mind and you'll be surprised how efficiently a happy mind would function.
Funny how happiness is now closely associated with Money, we don't get to be too happy without having enough money to buy the happiness, its almost as though its impossible to be happy without money. When you think of what would really make you happy right now I bet what most of us would think next is how do it get the money to get it done. It really doesn't just come out of the blue else it'll be the naturally calmness being mistaken for happiness. Something has got to trigger it in, you'll notice the unusual sensation, But does money have to be the ultimate entry trigger?
I would have said people wake up everyday for the pursuit of happiness, but then I would be somewhat incorrect, because some people are very aware that whatever they are going to do today isn't going to fetch them the happiness they want, they just want to survive at least. Some are even going to work not for themselves but for someone else or even to settle a debt, so such journey isn't a journey with happiness in view, rather I prefer we say people get up every morning for money sake. However Money isn't what we really need, people need to be happy, just in most cases money brings happiness in., but it's very possible to have the money but not happiness.
Have you been able to identify what would truly make you happy, if yes have to ever done it to see if it gave you the fulfillment you desired? Just as we know the human desire is never satisfied so I strongly believe there would be something sliding in as soon as that former desire is met. More reason why we can't go so crazy to the extent of doing something regrettable just because we want to be happy when we know it would never fully satisfy us. Imagine going over the walls for a particular need and just then you come to desire something else but the step taken already can't make it possible anymore., the desire would undoubtedly increase because its appearing impossible but also attached with anger this time, regretting the decision made previous.
Is there anything that would provide complete happiness then, or at least be a source of solace to say at least I have this so the burdens can be lighter? Well I can only think of a few, I guess properties like a house would do us a great deal especially in this times we are in. If we can secure ourselves a good house in which we own, even then other things are bothering us so bad, we can still be calm enough to treat a step at a time. Or what do you think? I wouldn't say a car can do as much as a house would do cause it can create more troubles in itself (cars). Cars depreciate with time but house appreciate so if someone is saving in properties for the raining days, a house would yield profit while a car maybe a loss.
Another great source of happiness is Family, yes family, the family could be so bonded in such a way that they are there for each other no matter the situation, this thoughts alone can help you become relaxed. And even position you to take up more risk, since there are family to fall back to. Money plays a role in family no doubt as it would make you feel safe to try out things because you know you can be rescued., but imagining the family isn't having money, then one might have to forgo family and find sources elsewhere, as the family can only advice and try finding possible solutions together. So build the family to have wealth abound it increases the chances of happiness.
Permit me to unveil the true source of happiness, which is being under the covering of he who has it all, that's our creator, God almighty. If you have been in his care you must have seen that he helps and I mean a lot. The issue is that it doesn't appear realistic to people but it's more real than our existence itself. Just being his child would bring in true happiness, yes with test but who doesn't get tested in life, life in itself was created to test us into learning what's right and wrong., but for total victory we must serve our God almighty. May God help us in our pursuit for happiness. Truthfully no one deserves to be unhappy, we deserve to spend our days being happy thereby becoming our full self since our mind is adequately fueled.
Thank you for reading. Keep Being Happy.
Deciding
Deciding on the next step to take actually comes naturally with living, we all have got to decide at some points in our lives, what we actually should be looking at is making the right choices that would lead to better and positive feedback. The main motive of the article emanates from the fact being some people are so wavering when it comes to deciding, the could take a stand and the next moment they've changed it, thereby showing that they were never certain nor deep rooted in their taken stands. Our lives is in our hands and no one else, we bear the hard and the good, so we must learn to make and stand on our decisions.
At home or even as employees, when our parents or bosses give orders to do something, we hurriedly go ahead to do it, go there, do this, do that, and we make it a priority and accomplish it, yes because of the pay I know, but we also have our individual desires, what we know we ought to do, but we not doing them. Tomorrow I'm going to inquire about that space I want to buy, I'm going to call that person to discuss the matter with, I'm going to wake so early so I can be there by 7am, but when it comes to the time to take due actions, we get tired easily.
Maybe because there are no body to put check on us, maybe because its just you doing it for you, so you don't take it so serious. That's where the self respect comes in. The ability to take your self and your self ambitions seriously. Especially for major ideas that do come to mind. As much as possible we all need to take our individualistic dreams as a major project, we need to take it more serious than others too. Its ours, so once its very believe in the possibilities of it becoming fruitful, then what's the hold up, let's go ahead and push it, and this pushing requires us to do what we say, and do it promptly.
No employers earns Lower than his employees, so if we also want to earn more than our employers, then we need to actively start pushing for what we want to do, and yes start doing them. A whole lot of people have heard this and were motivated, but when the alarm clocks rings, they are quick to throw it off. They are always Procrastinating the works. Till when I ask, when may never come. A quick study of most successful people would show a lifestyle of a man who is not afraid to work at mid night, who isn't shy to roll up his sleeves and get his hands dirty, just to prove he also can do what it is he has set his heart to do. This we must learn to, to decide and respect our decisions, much more than we respect others decisions.
Taking ourselves serious is often the hardest task to do. Often times we care for others much more than we care for ourselves, and then we get hurt and start feeling bad, well we can't change ourselves, that's just us. So many has got ideas and inventions but just don't think something great can come out of them, they probably feel its is a silly idea. I'm not that intelligent, so how can I pull it off, please let someone else take care of it. Often the mistake we make, so when we dream, we often don't live up to it, we wake and never bother to ponder on it, off we go to do our regular business, and we forget what we were suppose to take seriously.
So with this we begin to wonder on what is that we want to do, we go back to our sketch board and pick out those things we have written out, now we are taking it more seriously. When we say we are going all out tomorrow to do it, we are truly going after it, my business is now a serious business. I take myself seriously now. I can do the impossible, I can come up with a million dollar idea, I can oh yes I can. So its something we all need to start thinking about. How to respect our decisions, a self respect for what we want to do. Its discipline, self discipline.
Discipline is very valuable and not just in terms of business ideas but in general life also. Sometimes we have people around us, who treat us for less, and we need to have a big level of self respect for ourselves, cut them off and face the future with better people in our life. No one would take us seriously if we don't take our selves seriously first. Get self respect, know what to accept and what not to accept. You deserve the very best, don't you know, yeah you should know. When you see someone is toxic then we must make that tough decision to cut them off, a tough decision yes, and discipline would help us execute the plan. In all guys, let's learn to respect our decisions.
Thanks for reading guys. Make good decisions in every area of lives, work, love, career, even fun, know what's right and do what's right.
We All Need That Perfect Timing
I believe there is always a bit of luck in everyone's success story, yes I know hard work amounts to the larger percent of it, but there is always that place of luck, where it all clicks supernaturally. It's that time we generally call a perfect timing, it just happens to your favour, and as natural as it may appear to you, when you think deeper on it you'll realize it not so natural after all. That notwithstanding we can't wait, we can't keep waiting, we don't know when or how our perfect timing would come, it could be today, tomorrow or whenever but we keep trying because it's surely on its way.
A young graduate who has been in search for a job runs into an old friend, and after much pleasantries offered him an open position, now let's analyze this, where is the hardwork? And where is the perfect timing? Remember its impossible to take away the hardwork from a success story, as well as its impossible to take away the luck or perfect timing from a success story either, so in the above analogy, there is a place of hardwork and there is a place of perfect timing, can you identify them, ok let's identify them.
A job opening is mostly fit for people with a specific qualifications or skills, not everyone can fit in, and for one to fit into a specific role or job he or she must have studied on it, and in this case the author referred to the person as a young graduate, meaning he had gone to school to get his degree, he was only waiting for a job, and schooling is a process to, and so that's hardwork. Another hardwork to identify is keeping associations, as easy as it sounds, it's also a skill, a social skill, and should be identified as one of those needed habit we must intentionally emulate.
There are people who don't know how to preserve a relationship with people, they come across people day in and out but there aren't approachable nor do they receive approaches well and so therefore they are in mostly alone, the question of what if whatever they are doing for sustainable fails, what then could they be running towards or who then would they be running to for assistance, we need to constantly meet people capable of assisting. So you see a social skill of preserving association should not be taken as a mere duty, its actually work. But where then is the perfect timing?
Remember the story, the author says "runs into an old friend " this clearly shows unplanned, the meeting was not planned, it was very coincidental. He could have been anywhere at that time, other times their path hadn't crossed they were separate apart, but here they met, unexpected, strictly coincidental, it's got to be luck, and the encounter with his friend brought about an answer to his prayers, a job, that has got to be a perfect timing. Also the discussion could go in a different direction but they picked to talk in line to what he needed. The friend could have unbothered himself with his troubles but decided to help, that's a perfect timing.
Everyone knows at what point of time it happened supernatural for them, probably they have been trying but on this faithful day it worked marvelously well. This are the reasons why we don't take glory to ourselves, because our efforts couldn't do it all alone., no matter how sound or calculative you're as much as we are affected by natural factors then nothing is certain, so whenever it works best believe it was a good timing cause it very much won't work another day. We all need that perfect timing, we all have been trying so hard, but there would come a day when our stories would change on a singular act, it'll be so fascinating, remember to give God his glory, he made it work, the time is his, he makes our perfect timing.
Is it possible to miss one's perfect timing? I believe everyone gets it but it's all about our efforts on that faithful day, this is why you'll hear most people say "I never stop believing " so be mindful that some people do stop believing, they might have started out with much enthusiasm but along the way, they did give in to the pressures attached thereby leading to a decline in efforts. But it'll be unfair if they had to wait too long for luck to shine right, quiting early is never ideal, neither is mediocrity, its essential that we set our minds on what we believe and hold on tight, keeping its possibilites in mind.
You could take a time to reflect the perfect timing in your life so far, its always there, and when you realize how significant that little time had created in your present story, take a little time out to thank God for his help. I like asking some questions when matters like this arise on discussions, what If you didn't step out today, in some cases, what if you left the house earlier, what if you didn't pass through that route, what if your thoughts didn't think through that direction, what if you didn't learn this skill long ago, you see we are all blind to the future, we only hoping our actions we be the best options but we would need the future to answer if we were correct or not, so when things work out, it's never your efforts alone, there is the perfect timing attached to it.
Thanks for reading. Keep being great.
Show Your Love, Why Hide Love
It has gotten to that point where it expedient that people see the need to express love and show it enough for the other people to receive and truly acknowledge being loved. We frequently come up with different excuses as to why we are acting so hard as though we don't feel deep emotions or we aren't romantic, but then we all want someone else's to be all these to us, what do you call that. Not going to buttress that point that we all have one life which is so uncertain, so its important we cherish each moment with another and live with no regrets, these is so true, however more important, showing forth love is like awakening the soul, that little show of love does alot to a person psychological and physically, it also boost confidence which in turn does a lot of good.
If we can distinguish between children that were properly loved and those who weren't based on their characters, then how more important do we think that showing off love should be. Although I must agree that so many reasons exist as to why someone would want to hide their love from people, tangible reasons infact but hey most of the reasons are wrong reasons. Well most things comprises of both good and bad right. So yea, there are good reasons as well as there are totally wrong reasons. Yet in the good reasons you'll discover that it really isn't worth it. No one likes to be hiding, make him or her feel important, the love is sweeter when you know he isn't ashamed of you, it gives more security to the relationship.
Sometimes we must agree that no one is perfect and we must just make up our mind about one person and stick to him or her, unless you're a polygamist, then you can go by your culture, but on the normal no one loves to share, if you are mine, then you're mine alone, don't go about getting another. Already it loses its specialty, its pride knowing that it isn't you alone owning the person, then what's so special, this is applicable to both male and female, no man what to share his girl with another, and no lady likewise want to share their man, we all want to feel special, and it's our sole responsibility to make our partner feel better.
Now we see the reason for public proposals, a clear indication that I choose you over everyone else, you're so special to me, I so much prefer you to the world. These to some people is so unnecessary, though I feel they are somewhat scared of rejection, to others it's so necessary. A special person to you needs to know he or she is special, apart from the obvious fact that it makes them feel good, it also gives more assurance that this partner of mine is serious about me. Infact there is no need to consider and fret of rejection, especially as a man because you knew what you want and went for it, sadly life happens and the person didn't agree, well you feel bad and soon move on.
Maybe I dwell on partners too much, we shouldn't think this applies to only our partners alone, no, so many people are special to us, some from family, some from actions done, we aren't wrong to make them know that they mean a lot to you. As parents telling your kids "I love you" sends a good feeling down the spine, it increases the connection, in some homes, the kids-parents connection isn't so strong and while it could be other serious issues, it could also be resolved by an expression of affection. Don't find it hard to be expressive, you aren't too forward or embarrased when you're expressing your feelings.
Recently spoke with a married friend who I saw to be very expressive, he could see you in the morning and use over 10 minutes to compliment you, by the end of your time with him, you must leave with a huge smile on your face, though he did it alone to few people whom he was very close to, people could be funny and get the wrong ideas you know. So recently I was telling him how easy he does it, I don't think I can just see you and start complimenting you, you may feel I want a favor from you, cause that would be very unusually of me. However he replied me and his response opened my eyes to a lot of insight.
According to him, at first he wasn't that guy to be doing all that, he got married and they were just living normal I guess, and discusssion, funtime, sex , everything was just normal, then he really wanted to spice things up, he was still young, he needs that excitment in his life, and he principles can't allow him cheat on his wife, so after much thoughts and research he decided to spice things up, amidst buying gifts and frequently doing fun stuffs, he imbibed the attitude of expressing his love for his wife, oh my love you're beautiful, no you're extremely beautiful, did you change your cream cause you have a different glow today.... this got her smiling and the smiling positions the mood well, the food got better, the normal discussions got more interesting, sex was wow, cause he was happy and she was happy.
Why not, what's the hold up, why are you shying from expressing those heartfelt love to those who matter. Well there's firstly nothing to lose, and no point to be ashamed, as long as they are worth it, then they are worth being allowed to know. Good friends exist that have done so much already, parents has always been making sacrifices, partners has been by you through thick and thin, your children are the best gift of God to you, come on, don't be ashamed to tell it to the world, yeah, this is coming from me, I love you guys.
Thank You and keep reading. ONE LOVE.
Understanding The Season In Selecting Options
It's a new week guys, and its expedient that we strategize on how to better prioritize our activities for maximum productivity, and so today we would talk about isolating the target. There's a need for us to understand and know what best to lay more emphasis on, so that we would be happier and more fulfilled at the end of the end when compared to sorting out other things first. Although we really can't stay content and relaxed on a recent achievement or development for a long time as we are filled with needs and new quest to satisfy from time to time, however when put in comparison, sorting out some would prove smarter than others.
From time to time we are often face with so much needs to meet yet with limited available resources, and at such we have to be more prudent with our approaches, thereby comes the need to understanding the season we are in. Season in the sense that something maybe important at a particular season and unimportant at another season so there's a need to identify the season and act accordingly, I'll explain further. Should you be in a new place and there's a load lot of things to buy in other to be comfortable, among the list you've got to choose between a bed and a chair, which do you think would be more important.
If you have to choose between buying a fan or buying a fridge, which should come first. You see some times demands drastic measures, the needs would surely be sorted out, maybe not now but soon, but for now one is more important and so we isolate that one and run on the target, while most would prefer a bed as more important to a chair, others may argue for various reasons, of course a bed could serve its space as a seat also, and also for night comforts even for more than one person, so it should be the wiser pick for a chair could be preferred by another who maybe is accommodating official meetings or visitors.
So understanding the season can help narrow down what could be more important than other options as of the time. Understanding seasons helps in isolating the target more often than not. One could have to choose between buying a car or a house, while everyone should agree this should be an easy pick, others may find it difficult because they have an urgent need for both. Yes, getting a house is way smarter cause it has a higher lifespan and it also saves you alot of expense on securing a space. However someone who is very mobile, who's works nature demand him to mostly be on the move, he could pick out a car first, then starting looking and working towards the other direction.
At the end of the way we would be feeling better even though we've not yet gotten all that's needed, yet we got what would serve us more than others, this means we've used the understanding of the current season in our decision making, it's not just working blindly, it's now working on planning. Another benefit to this is the fact of putting the mind at ease, the pressures very much reduced, and you can now think more relaxed, not rushing or so desperate to get it instantly, so less wrong decisions would be made.
Rushes and desperation greatly influences our decision and more often would lead to wrong decisions. So in other to eliminate this intense feeling to rush things, its essential that we get it right, I mean get the right option to pick from among the long list of needs to attend to. And the easiest way to selecting the best option is by understanding the seasons we in presently. Seasons changes and so needs change alongside with it, for instance you could be at a point where you really need a new phone and so you're saving for it, but should someone gift you a phone, would you still get a phone with the savings, well I guess not, that season of need has changed to another need, so most likely the savings go towards another target.
Understanding the seasons and it'll help you navigate through the various wants and needs and possibly help you narrow down to a more vital need first, others would follow preferably also in sequence of their Importance.
I hope this new week would be awesome to you and you'll make better choices. Spread love around the world.
Does It Ever End? The Struggles
After reading this the thoughts of taking life slower comes to mind, not to kill ourselves over anything as it's all an unending race with unending target. Well you could decide to rest and just enjoy your moments but even at that you won't feel like you're enjoying the moment as much as you want to and so you need a thing or two before you can call it quit, well it never stops with a thing or two. Someone who has recently hit a jackpot would be presume to have made it in life forever and so he or she should just rest, well they never rest, they want more, we all want more.
In God we trust guys, One thing I've discovered is to enjoy the moment even while we pursue the bigger picture, yet we must believe it's all going to be alright and be a peace. Not just being calm like actually being at peace in mind and soul. Our faith should be stronger than our doubts this way we can constantly keep moving mountains. No matter what you're currently being faced with, believe that faith is a currency so valuable it can buy it's way through anything.
Someone once asked "Does the mountains ever stop", "Do we get to a point in life where we are not faced with any needs or wants, a point where we can just rest and say we've gotten all we needed? Well after much debate we discovered that the mountains never stop, there would always be something to pursue, there would always be a need, a want, a desire. As humans our wants are insatiable, we consciously and unconsciously aim for a newer catch as soon as one is attained. Even the richest man has a target that wakes him up at night, it may not even be something his money can buy out.
It's a funny life huh, yes I know right, how everyone has what they want in different views and reasons, you'll assume that with the level of influence money has on the world today that everyone is all about money and the issues of life they are battling with is somewhat related to money, only to be amazed at how some people are undisturbed about money, but something else entirely, the lucky ones though, yet the extent to which they prioritize the problem is the same extent a very poor man would prioritize his need for urgent cash, same pressure, same intensity, well everyone just want to get it done with as soon as possible.
It never really ends, and I guess it all adds up to giving life its meaning, imagine a life where there's nothing to bother about, no interest to get you going hard every morning, no Bills to motivate you into going hard next time, plus no hunger to get you needing cash regularly, I know this is the world we pray for and I really can't say how it'll be like, if it'll be great or uninteresting, but I say God knows best, actually should we still be in a Garden of Eden till date, i guess this would be the world we'll be enjoying, well God knows best. Now that we have to work hard, now that we have to keep putting up with each desires, we'll keep giving it our best.
Its worthy of note that some people have mastered the habit of contentment, it seems as they are not bothered and they have it all together, more like living that American dream, but its merely just contentment and finding time to enjoy the little they can, already you can't keep funding a fake lifestyle for long, there has got to be a steady inflow of cash to keep living the life, so work too is a major contributor. So if we want to enjoy our moments as though we have it all together, then we've got to work, be content and more importantly find time out to go out for fun.
I'm just thinking out loud, or should I say penning down my thoughts, because everyday we see the numbers of people setting out to work, a hot chase for chase, it's as though nobody really rest, as much as they should and so we begin to wonder, when does it end, when do we call it enough and say we can rest her and just be about the fun. But coming to think of it we gradually realizes it never really ends, we just have to end it for ourselves. We have got to find time to rest by ourselves for ourselves, we have to find time to go enjoy life as life has more joy to offer more than the four walls of home, school and workplace. Find fun guys, find rest, find happiness.
Happy Weekend guys, hope your day is going well, it's all about finding happiness guys, live happily.
Resourceful Humans
That's you right there, many may argue because not everyone has proven to be resourceful, and they are right, however they too can be resourceful because the ability to be very rational and productive with what we have at our disposal it's a gift common to man, however whither we build it or not is left to us, yet it doesn't override the fact that man as a being is a resourceful creature. Take a look around and see the amazing things we've done for ourselves, God man all the essentials and had to sort out something anything that would better improve the already created things, and so he created humans and in us he inputted the ability to be resourceful and multiply the beauty of creation.
Humans are the smartest existing beings and they can make do with a little and make it multiply into plenty. So are you resourceful? Well let me answer that for you, yes you are. As humans, being resourceful is in our nature, this should be a no shocker, owing to the fact that we are Homo sapiens that's is to say we have the gift of reasoning. We posses the ability to create, should you in any way doubt your resourcefulness probably because of the outplay of occurrences and situations in your life presently, permit me to assure you that your resourceful capacities are still in place, untampered with, just waiting for you to take charge.
Resourcefulness is the ability to get a solution, navigate through yet in difficult times. This we should have experience sometimes, or at least felt it too. Ever watched a movie where a character is being fought with, probably being chased, situations that warrants a good thinker to maneuver, what's your reaction while watching, do you also feel like you can outsmart the villain in the movie too, so yes we feel it often, we know we can manipulate things or events to our favour, especially when we need it so bad, more so we most likely have experience it too sometimes someday someway, maybe in school, at home, at your job sometimes where we just have to act quick, we call the shots and at such we must make good use of our brains in time.
Using everything to our advantage definitely sound like what a human would do, take a look around, in the beginning of times it weren't so, but as long as there are humans then there are bound to be development, new improvement and a counter tackle to every bad occurrences that might surface. Its not always easy, but we have proven over the years to be capable of dealing with anything that may intrude our path to having a good and healthy life.
Malaria did kill a lot of people, but as long as it didn't kill all, that was a mistake on its path, how we get intelligent to counter all this is simply amazing, many have rendered kudos to science, but then other areas are doing amazingly too for example entertainment, finance that's money, history e.t.c Government well not so much. Later on the malaria cure was developed, not only malaria has been dealt with, polio, cholera name it, yet the very stubborn ones have been given a substitute to curb its effect, like HIV, Diabetes, cancer and its like, which are today giving positive help all across the world, so we all are resourceful, we can think, we can comprehend, we can find our way through, no matter what we are faced with, we will find a way.
The other animals don't know how to heal their selves via herbs and they will mainly result to waiting it out and allow the healing process to happen by itself, yet they are surrounded by the plants from which their cure is found. Even a monkey isn't having a well developed brain to think on how to create a world it needs, or medically treat itself. But humans on the other hand have learnt to make good use of every thing in his environment according to the uses to satisfy our needs, after studies are being carried out on it.
Have you taking a good thought on the great and mighty amazements we have currently in our world today, sometimes you wonder how someone can think on something this extraordinary out of the blue, from thin air, today we hear a lot on electromagnetic waves and we just wonder how do you phantom that, or the fact that we can artificially feel a cool breeze blow us via ACs or fans, or the electricity, the light bulb, turning of water currents to electric lights via turbine, this light can then be sent via wires, why wire, how do you know what wires can do, why think to try them out, enough to think about, but then its simply a good study of your environment and what it has imbedded in it and what those components are capable of, this is a beginning to what we see today, humans making the best of they have and using their accessible resources and refining it to create magic in reality.
Now, let's talk about you for a bit, do you know you're very resourceful too, when you set your mind to achieving somethings and you concentrated to it, its as good as done already. Determination is one of our greatest weapon, when mix with emotions either anger or love then there's almost nothing that can't be derived. Yes sometimes we get angry to push us further, a man can be determined to get money but the moment he becomes angry and fed up, I guess he would do almost anything to get that money. In same vein when a person is in love with someone or something that already is a strong language to show that he or she is ready to go the extra length to see it fulfilled.
No one is useless or at least no one is totally useless, mostly it's just a choice we all make, we have the option to do something or do nothing. However should you do something, then you stand a chance to see things turn out favourable. What can you possibly loose, being resourceful in already in our genes as humans, work that brain, think hard, when the situation is harder then you think harder too, we have what it takes to find a quick and clever way to get out of every situations. Yes because we are humans and as such we were created to be resourceful.
Thank You For Reading, Keep Being Better.
There Is Power In Focus
Learning lately the power of focus, to get the mind fix on a target and pushing till that target is achieved, the human mind is so vast and can drift through thoughts, you can realize that all at the same time you've thought about 3 or more different things as you were just seated, however if the thoughts are not properly channeled into a singular thought, the possibility of getting the "what next to do" is very minimal. For effective actualization we've got to learn to channel our thoughts to a particular thing at a time only.
Many times we are stuck between two or more things to do, we can't seem to make up our minds as to what exactly we should do and so we continually stay in thought and the whole list remains undone. Like as its popularly said "Rome is not built in a day" and the journey of a thousand miles indeed starts with a step" when we don't start the motion we may never start the journey and at such the final price is still not achieved. The first step comes with making up your mind, it comes after you've prepared your mind to begin and focus on the goal.
A known fact that an eagle sights his prey from miles away, should there be a thousand in flock, the eagles still focuses on one and fix his eyes on one, that is the catch, that is what it wants for the moment, maybe after this, he could come again for another prey, but for now this is what I want and so it fixes its gaze solely on it and more often than not it catches that prey except for very occurrences where it doesn't. However the probability adds up to the favour of the eagle and so it's a strategy worth emulating. Fix gazed on the target.
Human wants are indeed insatiable and so there is so much to achieve per time, already you reading presently doesn't have to tell me to know there are some things you really want to get as soon as possible. Everyone at their various phase of life have their demands and as soon as we are fulfilling one demand there is another raising up, so there is a need for focus because not all our needs are that important, even among the important need there are some more important than the other and so we've got to place more priorities to achieving the most important one first.
One good reason for focus is that it helps you follow the plan. You could get some money with you and you already thought of buying something you've been needing for some time now, but it your focus isn't strong, you'll realize that you've spent a reasonable sum for an unreasonable item, something you never planned on buying, but when there is focus, there is a goal at hand to achieve, that's the target and so all road leads to that aim, there are no turning, all cut corners. And so we see that our trust for ourselves keep increasing so when next we plan on something we are sure we can achieve it for ourselves without introducing a third party to help our discipline.
Introducing a third party has most times proved productive and so its worth doing should you know you need it, having a focus most times isn't the issue as your mind has been all about this or that for a long while, only for the set time to come and another stuff is taking up your interest as though you want it more, so it takes discipline to know that you must go buy the book, you must follow the order and so as you've planned and not as your heart want at the moment, cause letting emotions override our judgment of this is not the best option, the best option comes from a clear mind having thought things through.
Another great secret about focus is that it calls the job done faster, when you're all fixed on something then your subconscious is all about that thing, you pray about it, your earnest desires are on it and because we humans are more spirits than we are body (flesh) therefore we are beginning to call that something to start coming to realization in the physical. A undying focus on something increases our faith about that thing, should someone so much want a house and presently far from owning one, he or she with good focus can start planning though but not be able to explain how they can get it (house) achieved in such little period of time.
This is why it is essential we always focus on the positives, we focus on the good, even on memories we focus on the sweet recollections, because paying attention to the bad memories can spoil the present mood and invariably decrease your expectancy of incoming goodness. Focus is a strong word, the greatest of people and animals shows this attributes as a fore arm, learn to channel your mind power on something great and see it work out faster than the normal. Already with focus comes planning and taking due steps, a good focus is a great motivation to get working on the goal, cause it's an intense desire, and please do pray about it too.
Thank you for reading guys. Set your focus on good things. Stay productive.
Choose Who Chooses You
Let's learn to save ourselves from the feeling of hurt and guilt, the regular human is selfish and self centered, including you, we all want to gain, we really don't enjoy not being favored, but we know what's right and what's wrong, this is the reason we caution ourselves not to take people for granted or use them for our selfish gains. This however is you, there are many others who don't care, In fact they learnt how not to care and are still not caring and just do what they like on the basis of "the world is a wicked place " or "other people have been wicked to them too".
It pays to be good, it really does, however you won't stay good forever if you don't learn to apply wisdom in your dealings with people, our time and efforts are investment, already it's an already established facts that time is money, so anyone worth giving your time and efforts to should be very worth it. It hurts when that person who you're so dedicated to is on the other side not dedicated to you in return. It really hurts to discover that whom you cherish so much is not willing to reciprocate the love, in worst case they want someone else. Well there always has to be somebody involved.
Especially as a man, in the area or love and relationship it's known that the men do most of the sacrifices, at least in this time we are in, so they are prone to getting hurt the most, however the ladies get more emotionally attached so it hurts too if they get hurt. There are been numerous cases where people gets so heartbroken after so much efforts that they almost go crazy and there really isn't anyway to pay them back or get them to feel as you're feeling rather than just letting them go. Letting go seems like the hardest route to take, but it's often time the best.
The beauty of time is that it heals, it has it's way of paying back for our decisions, should we make the right call, in time it'll surface and we'll enjoy the benefits of our decisions, but should we make the wrong call, it'll also surface later in time and we'll be aware of the decision we ought to have taken., so when you know the right call is to let him go or let her go as the case may be and you choose to do the opposite, you've got to be rest assured that soon you'll be hoping you made the wrong call, cause people rarely change except they want to., and we don't know how to change their mindset you can only try.
Let's learn to choose who Chooses us as well as we choose them too, its not enough to ensure they are choosing us first, we also owe them that assurance that we choose them also and they are better proffered than all else. Can you imagine a relationship where both persons are actively and completely rooting for the other person, as though they are the ones to benefit from the proceeds of their win, such relationship should be the true goal, the dream of every man or woman, getting a partner as that would surely prevent your mind from worry, whatever you offer would be a good investment not to be bothered about.
Stay on the goal, wait, the good ones are out there and be hopeful to see them and hold them tight. Cause out there in the street is not really a funny place, most of the boys out there just want to sex, and most of the girls out there just want the money, it's no longer news it's the reality of the world we live in, so be careful in your selection as it would determine how happy or sad you'll be for a time in your life. There are ways to be careful though, the signs are clear and visible, plus you should really try to know what's really in their mind, not to sensing, find out.
I pray God help us in finding the perfect one and also help us in letting the wrong ones go, we need to find it comfortable in letting the wrong ones go and just hope for the best. It hurts sometimes especially when you love deeply, that notwithstanding you'll hurt much deeper if you don't learn to pick up your pieces and walk away. We came to the world alone, we eat alone, grow alone so we sure can live alone, there's nothing bad with being alone, at least it's much better than being with the wrong person constantly throwing your mind into rollercoaster of emotions, you deserve that emotional stability, you need to be with someone who wants to be with you also, so bad.
Thank You For Reading, I was only thinking out loud. Yes, Choose who chooses you!
How Did We Get So Close
Life in itself is amazing and the way life operates is even more amazing. Every day we meet different types of people, some of which cross our paths, we engage with them into large or small talks or we even carry out a task together, but not everyone gets so close to us, yet there are some people in our lives presently that are so close to us, they are not family but it appears as though they are, and its because of their closeness, so the question is how did we get so close? I'll say it's all about the synergy, a balance in energy from both sides that brings about a heart connection.
It's very vital both hearts connect on almost same frequency, because should one among them not be feeling the relationship or friendship as much as the other, he or she would slowly withdraw thereby putting an end to such friendship or relationship. If there are no connection between both parties, then there can't be effective communications, and where there is a lagging communication, the relationship dies. Have you ever seen guys approach a girl, but the girl is so not into the guy. Except she was only hiding her feelings, its almost impossible for that guy to get her number or get her to pick his calls. She just doesn't feel the connection and yea there's no point stressing it.
We all need to connect in various levels to keep the rapport going smooth and for a longer time. The connections often happens in various ways. For most they need an inner confirmation. Often some people would say they felt it was just the right thing to do, their heart accepted the person and so they kept talking. Some also took it spiritual, as to hearing in their heart to stay connected with this person. While in the regular day we also have our ways of connecting, and it's by marking our standard. Someone who to some extent meet our fancy, this often affects our connectivity to a person. There are some times we may have seen and just say ok, I like this person, or rather, I might like this person.
Funny how good smell also influences connections, I never thought of that, I'd always felt like it would be the physical attributes, maybe talents, coupled with attitude, speech, but recently I've discovered a good odor also softens the heart, if I may put it that way. That good smell creates a good environment on it's own, a nice arena conducive for both parties to dwell, infact they want to stay longer, a hug wouldn't be bad too, especially with the smell of important, one might be happy he or she is talking with someone important, meanwhile it was a good perfume doing its job.
We all need that connection to make it all interesting. Never undermine the word interesting in a communication. When the conversation or relationship is so causal, normal, not exciting, not eventful,just plain, we most likely aren't anticipating to see that person again, the heart pumping, the thrill are often how we measure our desires for someone. Probably a trick as to why the social guys often have more people in their company, they know how to engage the people, they know how to make them want to stay, they know how to get them to come again. You don't need to feel connected to them, they can create a connection.
Call it a pawn, call it a trick, you still wouldn't be wrong, it's all gearing towards making a connection to someone. We can control our connection to someone, our feelings towards someone we know, but how can we influence someone feelings towards us. Normally it should be impossible to control someone emotions toward us, oh don't force a connection, if it isn't there from the start then don't bother trying, what's the point. If she doesn't like you from the onset, then just stop trying and move to someone else, one who would like you from the very beginning, well I hope you aren't that guy who gives up easily, cause if the feelings isn't there, we create one, well we can give up too, but not without a fight.
Back then in high school, some people were geeks, they had their clique, some were athletes, same had their cliques, the hot girls had theirs, the bad boys had theirs, they found theirselves, overtime the law of attraction brought they all together, and cause they were a perfect fit, they coexisted together. Now there are people who migrated from one clique to another, probably they were on the good boy side then transferred to the bad, or the hot girls transferred to a geek, and they also fitted in perfectly, so isn't it just about connection anymore, isn't the heart acceptance the key lock to foster effective communication anymore, well it's still the heart acceptance, it's still via a connection.
Simply put, from our angle we get that connection before we move, we don't really go for someone we don't like, except we are only going to play games, yet before we can take anyone seriously in our lives, there has got to be some sort of connection. Also they don't necessarily have to feel connected back to us, then we can work to enhance a connection, we have got to try, cause a connection makes it all worth the time. Like the bad girl transiting to being a good girl has to try her best to make it work, even if it entails her Reading extra hours. A guy who isn't love by the girl he likes would have to try and adjust in all way possible to make her like him, just we work towards what we want to achieve.
Thank You For Reading. Keep Mingling?
Wait For Your Kind Of Love
Relax guys, I guess one of the major issues we regularly see from life is the issue of association, to be loved and feel like you do matter, we can't feel this for ourselves, people are responsible to make us feel this way we do. Especially when we can see people being loved just how we want to be loved, people being cherished and adored, we really want to feel this kind of way also, we begin to crave for this feeling more and more, this cravings begins to place a demand, a demand of urgency, the need to get yours as soon as possible, this here is the reason for this article today, a call to tell you to hold on and wait for your kind of love.
The love walk indeed is an interesting one, one that comes with lots of drama and thrills, you can loose it suddenly and get so messed up and after all you would be fine, when you're ready to move on, you'll be fine. We can only know ourselves perfectly, as for others they would do what they want to do regardless of who or what you are, we can only hope what they are doing is in line with what we want them to do, cause when you find out you've been betrayed and disrespected, the feeling really isn't a good one, you've got to know humans disappoint and look for the next best thing to do.
Back to the love walk, we can sometimes have an idea of who we really want based on the kind of person we are, I mean our personality, you could need someone who is really transparent or with constant communication skill or you could be so busy that you need someone to be busy too and not so demanding of your time, yet in love. You could have a particular skin color that turns you likes so much or a kind of personality that best serves your appetite, all this you know already but with the rush to feel loved as soon as possible can get you deciding to settle for anyone coming next, so why not wait for yours., it's not enough to stay waiting, go in search of what you want, of who you want.
When I say wait for you kind of love, i mean wait for that person you'll truly cherish and adore as though you've gotten your prayers answered by God and you couldn't wish for any thing else, it's truly an awesome feeling to get someone or something you've been praying and hoping for a long while, when they come, the true essence of happiness is experienced, we live in a world where people don't mind using someone else to pass away time, and so soon as who they really want comes around, boom off they go and they just say bye to the other, regardless of the emotional trauma they'll be putting them through.
Humans are living beings and not moving objects, if you wish to make yourself happy then by all means do, but making it at the expense of another's time and happiness then its not good at all and we've got to act better on that, we all have got to try harder and better than just being self centered and all about ourselves only, there is the need to think through every intentions and see it what we seek to do is really what we seek, it doesn't hurt to wait and go after what you truly want, only then can we experience true success, we want it and we got it, its always better this way.
Another good reason to wait for you love is for you not to get into any deeper mess, often time we feel like it'll all be safe and simple to exit especially when it was simple to enter, however what we'll be doing during the time of the relationship is unknown to both parties, you would have guess it to be all simple and straightforward but in reality it's one turn to another, so in order not to get hooked down on something you really don't want, wouldn't it be best to be with who you really truly want, just saying though, it's a win win situation getting stuck with someone you truly desire.
So wait for your kind of love, the world is so diverse and you really can't say you don't see what you want if you're truly being realistic, it's out there, inasmuch as you're doing what you need to do to find it out, then be assured that it's going come to you but wait, moreover nothing good comes easy, however should something come easily to someone doesn't mean it's not good, in fact it could be the best gift, its left to us to find this out and spot this out for ourselves. There are really good people out there but the constant hurt and heartbreak keeps turning them bad, we really need to stop hurting people's emotions, If someone is not what you want then leave them be and find your kind.
So on the long run it's all left to us to fish the truth out, so to safe ourselves from confused people who don't know what they want and as such won't cherish us as much as we should be or worst still won't reciprocate our kind gestures. The worst kinds out there are those who aren't confused, they know they don't want you, yet just to keep themselves busy for a while they then get acquainted, for such case the hurt is inevitable cause someday it'll be game over. Learn to know people's true intentions, it wouldn't hurt to put them to test, just saying.
Thanks For Reading, Stay Loving and keep spreading genuine heartfelt love. Go get what's yours, don't just wait, go for who you truly love.
Competition Is A Scam
When someone makes you feel like you're not doing enough, and you need to step up and become better than someone else who is not living your life nor is he or she affected by the same factors affecting your life. Competition I say is a scam cause sooner or later live has a way of lecturing us and making us see that all that we held in high esteem as what matters really doesn't matter, and what truly matters is just as simple as doing your best per time per season. Moreover haven't you notice that we only what person want us to know, we don't see everything nor are we exposed to every information, so should your competitors be lying to you, you'll just keep swallowing the lies.
It's funny the amount of people who now judge their lives based on the social media standards, not just major celebrities, everyone has their exposure to the media space and so they post at will as much and anyhow they like, there could be someone out there trying to beat down your standards, you've bought a bag and they want to get theirs, you've taken the kids on a treat and they're now feeling like the worst parents, well life really shouldn't be that hard, we really shouldn't be that hard on ourselves. Take life easy as long as you're really doing the best you can, then go easy on yourself.
What really is the competition for? Who or what are the reasons why you decided to take such a burden on yourself, yes I asked who, cause sometimes people are the reason why we get so comparison minded, it could be your mom comparing you to someone else who just got married, or your spouse comparing you to another person who just got a new car, or it could you being the person to yourself always putting yourself up for comparison where in reality there shouldn't be any, at wor you compare with colleagues, at home you compare with neighbors.
What we really should be doing is getting motivated, and motivation doesn't place any need to outplay someone else's milestone. Motivation is only more of a call to do better for oneself. Seeing others we are geared up to try harder not to prove a point that we are just as good or to boast your reputation around, but a sincere call of I need to also try. The motivation mindset has more to offer as you can easily walk to the person and explain how you got so motivated by his work that you needed him or her to key you in on the process to doing it for yourself.
Back then in school we appeared like we were all in a competition to be the best, to come out top of the class, but in reality we really weren't in a competition, especially judging from my school, we weren't in a competition, cause during our test and examinations, we were all assisting each others with answers, so how can you call them an actual competition. An actual competition is a battle and we rarely see that in schools, we see that more often in real life comparison with jealousy and strive, could even be between close friends. Come on we've got to try better, get motivated not competitive.
Another downside worth mentioning is the area of emotional attachment, for those in a competition, they get so emotionally attached that it becomes risky, in other not to feel bad should they loose, they begin to try whatever it takes to win, and sometimes whatever it takes doesn't always leave nice options, whatever in some occasions can be very brutal and unthinkable, but those who see it as a motivation can even go as far as seeking help from the person and just save the stress of toiling and sweating, because he isn't so emotionally attached, he sees nothing wrong should he not win or get helped.
There really isn't much to life that's worth killing over or dying for, if there is a safer and easier route out then why take the dangerous and difficult route out of it. You really should be more bent on happiness and peace living than strive and competitiveness. Even those who treat the game as just a game more times emerge winners than those who get so intensely attached and soaked in, believe me I've tried this and it works, especially from playing dual players video games you'll see how the happy one is most times the winner, not everytime but they are really enjoying the game and would have little or no regrets.
Some of us have really need to take things more easy on ourselves so we don't lose our minds, there are already enough to think of, let's not add unnecessary burdens to ourselves, unnecessary burdens as unhealthy competitions when it really isn't needed, similarly let's not allow people dictate how happy we should be at times, the world is so judgmental, don't fall victims of its hypocrisy, people would compare you but they also don't have it all figured out, let's do our best and leave the rest to God. Go easy on yourself, just ensure you're doing your best and try not to give up.
Thank you for reading. God bless ❤.
Greed Vices
Greed appears as a friend to wealth but in reality it's an enemy, a big enemy at that, its fastly becoming the order of the day to pursue after wealth and to do it in any way possible, some ways could be decent and commendable however some other ways are not, and these ways happens to be where we see most people swinging towards. Coming to think of it, we realize there's something about the decent ways, as it requires patience and dedication, these virtues you won't really see in many people, it's the want to get it hurriedly, especially when we see others who are currently enjoying benefits, we don't want to be left out.
Greediness is a weakness, and if you're not careful to keep check on it, you'll surely lose, its a trait that firstly makes you think you're smarter and winning, but in reality you're surely going to lose and learn a lesson, well if you choose to learn at least, many people have been victims of greed aftermath and still continue living with greed without learning a lesson.
Most of the scam victims only got scammed off their possession because they were too greedy to notice there's a fault somewhere, when you are moved by what you stand to gain, get $1000 with just a deposit of $100, or there's a lot of Bitcoin you stand to get just because you're been supernaturally selected off the many people in the world, situations that are clearly too good to be true, but greed as a way of getting you over excited to detect something is definitely wrong.
Greed doesn't only apply to money, there is also a greed for power, a quest to be more respected among the rest, you want to stand out in the society, and when this cravings are becoming the sole core of your ambitions, you placing it before anything else and can do anything for this, becomes the problem, people today care less about repercussions for evil actions done, as long as they can get want they want they don't care about who they hurt in the process or what they push aside to accomplish this feet.
The trends of this modern age has clearly deviating the worlds morals, of course there are still many good people, but the bad ones are holding higher positions,are getting applauded although we are sure of their source, yet as long as they have the cash and the position they are adored, this is what the current generation saw in their parents generation and push hard for possession more than actually being good. Its as though there is little or no benefits for being good. Yes it seem as though but its just a charade, there are benefits of staying good, in fact thats where the true benefits lies.
Even as our societies priorities are seeming to deviate and according more regards to the those with higher financial status, thereby pushing more and more people into having greed, the selfish desire to possess as much as possible for their selfish gain, so they can have a say in among their peers, you can't blame someone who's tired of being regardless less right, well that's true, then how best do you deal with it, do you intend getting it at all cost, regardless of who you're hurting. How deep can you go to get what you need.
Shun greed today, it leads nowhere the gain is only for a moment, moreover its a trap leading to a greater loss in the long run and at such should be curb at the early stages, being a person of principles pay much more, being content with as much as being good can pay, set your limits, set your boundaries, money is not to be gotten at all cost, money ought to be strategically planned and worked for, trying to get it at any crooked means no matter what is a clear show of greediness eating deep, any when it plays back at you, it brings you to a bigger loss, so beware.
If people notice you have greed, they are just spotted something they could use to their advantage, should they be on the other side, and seek to hurt you, they can easily devise a means and set a trap for you, like I've earlier say most of the people who are scammed victims were scammed as a result of their greed, it's a weakness that can be exploited by the enemies to get to you, therefore be well guarded, safe guard your territory by being well informed, when there's something noticeable that could get to you, then its advisable that you find ways to curb it earlier, greed is bad. And can it be stopped ? Yes definitely.
Firstly acknowledge that you have greed, or have been greedy at least, then be intentional to think things through, don't let possession and aspirations gets the best out of you, seek to be wise and good at all times, and surely contentment is a good tool, of course you can push for more, more money, more levels, more possession but the right way, with the minimum repercussions.
Be contented, be happy. Thanks for reading.
Tiny Strings Of Hope
Sometimes its appears like there isn't anything anymore out there to look out for, many efforts have been denied and it's more like we should just call it quit and indeed we'll be justified to doing so, however this dream has been with us and we've been nurturing it for the longest time coming, we can't just give up without results, yet we don't want to keep dwelling in a fruitless journey, we just need a sign, anything to just tell us there's still something out there, hope, don't quit now and with that we can hold on a while longer still pressing harder, we also want things to work, we don't enjoy giving up.
I always give it up to the few people who have stood against all odds and have set their mark on the sands of time, the "who would have thought category of people, it's really amazing how strong the human mind is and how steadfast we can hold to something we believe in even when others don't and take us for a fool. Times without numbers we've heard of mind breaking records that started off with surrounding people advising the doers on the need to stop and focus on something else more productive with valid points, it takes more than stubbornness to not concur to the others, it takes believe.
One quote I love so much is the "if your dream doesn't scare you, then it's just not big enough", and I couldn't agree less, like it's so true, when we read and believe this, we would begin to accept the fact that we are set out for bigger works, and not just the regulars. When we look around and see how many great things people like us have achieved and then look back at yourself and it appears like you're far far behind. Indeed people are constantly doing great things even at international standards, and they are only people like you and I, nothing extra, just people who keep the dream alive and stayed pushing.
Moreover nothing great has ever pulled through without a corresponding great adversary, the world is just programmed that way, it would naturally repel anything that's coming to disrupt the balance of life, anything that would create a noticeable change in the order of life, the earth and earth forces would naturally repel, it takes faith and perseverance to prove your point that whatever we pushing for is worth coming to stay, may not be easy but once its accepted, we begin to enjoy all the years of toiling and stressing, and at last it's all worth it. Keep pushing on that dream no matter the hurdles, even if you're only hanging on a tiny string of hope.
Truthfully speaking though, there isn't any way measure if someone is wasting time and should call it quit already, it's a world of uncertainty filled with very volatile markets, its whenever you call it quit it truly ends, it ends on your remark and not on anyone else. A 60 yrs old man could still be hanging to his dreams and ambition and still feel fulfilled should he finally get it, it's all about him and his perception to his timeframe. So its never over until you say it's over, it's your life, your dream, its you who calls the shot and nobody else.
The world is filled with competitive people, if you won't do it, then be sure someone else would, maybe not now but pretty soon, its amazing how many ideas people have locked out in their jotters and thinking no one can ever steal just brilliant idea. Though on one really steals it but there's someone out there thinking so much and processing deeper who gets such inspiration as you, maybe more or maybe less but they are ready to act on it and that brings out the difference, because I solidly believe that all inspiration comes from God and his plans for the world at a particular time, but he won't force you into it.
He doesn't have to force you into it, all choices are ours to make, however the believes, the love for the idea, the thoughts of the future with it and the assertion that this is definitely what I should be doing is enough to keep you moving on the dream, but if for any reason you don't continue, bet believe that the plans of God continues and the world would keep increasing and getting more and more updated, so on the long run the world still gets what it should get just not with you as the face of it all cause you quitted, many of this are more reasons never to give up on what we believe, even if it's just hanging on that tiny Strings of hope.
Everyday we should be reminded that there's so much more to do, there is so much more the world can accept, in fact unlike a phone memory space, the world never gets exhausted, it can accommodate as many milestones as possible, your ideas and a million more all at a go, so keep pushing on yours. Keep the dream alive, indeed there isn't so much motivation out there, rather there are reasons to what to quit, but that is the adversity, keep hanging on guys, the benefits to a fulfilled dream is so amazing, and yes you're capable of making it happen, you're the best person for the job, no matter what just hang on and keep pushing.
Thank you for reading, and more grease to your elbow to everyone constantly fighting against all odds to bring their dreams to reality, you will surely win in Jesus Name, Amen.
Guys!!! Know Your Worth
I'm always having issues in differentiating pride from value, I guess there is a thin line and sometimes synonymous, however they really don't mean similar. Its essential for everyone to know their worth and stand their ground, cause out there is filled with people who are looking to milk the life out of you for a penny or below your due pay. Many crafted and hardworking individuals are frustrated presently because people don't value them as much as the effort they put into it. Like I love to say "it all begins with us, other people won't necessarily see what we see until we prove ourselves, so let's stand our ground and prove that we deserve more, we don't come easy.
So many people have been too forward, without getting the necessary skills or having the needed attributes, they had believed in themselves that they were worth more, but when the test came, they discovered that they were not yet there, worst still they lost everything. So we do need to be cautious about it, more reason why we need to know, know your worth is what I said, so know your worth. And be very sure about it, this helps our confidence level.
One benefits to knowing our worths is that it brings to us our due respect and rewards. Sometimes we see this happens especially in a work space, a situation where the boss knows little compared to those really doing the job, yet that key worker gets paid peanut, he could bear for a long time because he is in dire need of it, but as soon as it gets comfortable at least, it starts to demand for more, and luckily should get more, or move on to other better offers available to him. We know our worth for happiness sake, often we go through a lot trying to acquire the skill set we posses currently, we would be happy if only we earn the due compensation or more.
A graduate must have spent time reading and attending course lectures, sat for exams and proved his or herself worthy of the degree, more reason why you don't see them settling for less unless for dire situations. The economy and businesses too should not offer them less, as a way to encourage other younger ones to take time in grooming and equipping their self through schools or any learning institution. When someone stands their ground about their worth on any particular setting, before you criticize, take out time to evaluate if the supposed person is truly worth it. Its actually wrong to be given below your worth, when we should be enjoying more.
Often likened to pride I presume, often cause of the manner at which we demand our due compensations. Its good we also note that since we are speaking to humans and supposed head, cause a junior wouldn't be in a position to increase your pay, so if we are speaking to our superiors we must put their emotions in check to, speak your mind without getting them furious or angry, what we want is a revaluation of pay or due benefits, a tended up chaotic result is highly unwanted. Let the tone of voice be in check, all protocols duly observed, all this doesn't stop the actions we would take should they refuse.
Also in the other areas where our worth should be known, like in the area of relationships, no one deserves to be treated less in a relationship, to this I say, know your worth. Yea yea we all say "I am very lucky to have you" or "I don't deserve you, you're too good or lovely ", we all say that in order to make our spouse feel good and happy. He or She wouldn't go doing bad stuffs and returning back to say, you know you don't deserve me, so what ever I do you've got to be happy with it, you would not agree to that. So in relationships we must know what and what not to accept, you know when best to walk away.
Many ladies has been mercilessly beaten up and cajoled to stay with that same boxer of a husband, don't get angry yet, cause likewise some men has faced hell from the nagging unsupportive partner and still being cajoled to stick to her, they say there are no good men outside, so you should manage that which God has placed in your hands. Come on, there are a million and one good and responsible people out there, we can't afford to live an unhappy life, no not in this earth. Enough worries exist already, let's not allow more worries over situations we can easily change via our concious decisions.
In all let's know our worth, and just incase we realize we aren't yet worth what we aspire for, we shouldn't feel down because we can still work towards it. We can still grow into it, or simply work to increase our self values. We all want better for ourselves and it's a good thing to demand for better. Let's not stop and get weary in the current position not suitable to our taste, keep working, keep learning, when the time is right, we would get our due reward or demand for it.
Thank You for Reading. Know you worth guys, you deserve it.
Hopes To Find Love, True Love
True love exist isn't it? I bet many of you are already experiencing it, getting to know someone so much that he or she becomes a part of you, a part you wouldn't want to let go off, a part you wouldn't want to imagine letting go of, that amazing feeling of certainty, it's this person, it's her or its him. I want to feel that someday, I think I feel that already, still waiting on the certainty but I love this feeling, so fragile yet so strong, a feeling you want to preserve yet very careful, its just amazing, I hope everyone feeding us this deep emotional feeling stay true to the end because everyone deserves it, everyone deserves true love.
Its true when the bible said he who's find a wife has found a good thing, I thought i was a normal expression for happiness, maybe it isn't really that deep, so I as grew up and beginning to experience the affairs of the heart for myself, I slowly began to see the beauty of things for how good it truly is. What keeps a man up at night, as some would argue to be money or anything financial reasons especially when he is indebted already, but then what would a man not care about pondering about and going sleepless for would definitely be a woman. The feelings never dies, sometimes we get smiling at the imaginations alone.
It's something worth experiencing in one's lifetime, already we have seen some areas of love but we need to experience the spouse kind of love, let's not kid ourselves, this is the loveliest love, to see someone who your heart beats for love you back. Those extreme desires fulfilled by the one you desire, isn't that amazing, as humans we crave for this. We want the other kinds of love, they are all beautiful but this love involving a relationship and sexual fantasies, come on you know you want it to. Apparently God made us so, and created this height of pleasure, we all want to get to that height of pleasure, its amazing getting there not by coercion or force, but via love.
To crown this all, everyone else's leaves, parents, children, friends, they all leaves or at least they should all leave on a normal settings, and the only one staying all through should be your married partner, he or she sticks around longest than any other, so more than necessary we need to ensure what exist in between is love. The two has become one body, they both know what to do and how to do it, what to say, how to say it, when to say or do things, time has given the opportunity, but love made them so bonded. The feeling is supreme, we never want them to leave although they have been here for years, that little trip outside and we are already feeling the absence, oh I want you back. How crazy is this feeling called love.
Well we don't shift aside the other loves we experience, those from friends, family, and most greatly from God, we can't and shouldn't regard them less. I guess I'll discuss the love from God last, cause I know that is the greatest of it all. You see that from friends is just so amazing, like sometimes you can't just explain why. How does someone whose not your family get so close to you, and now at the point you both share a lot of experiences together, it just simply amazing. They don't need to stay around all times, they could be far or near and yet still do a lot of magical goodness to you, without any strings attached, truly good people exist.
On many occasions friends has stand in the gap for one another, and have helped lift one another, many people today holds their success story to the assistant of a friend, its clearly God in form of a friend, its simply mindblowing. And family oh yes family, they go nowhere, that's our forever supporting fans, they are with us and for us always, this love is truly beautiful. Sadly a large number of people aren't opportune to experience this kind of love from family, but hopefully they found the love via close friends, cause sometimes good friends fills the family gap.
Now we've talked about the loveliest love and that of family and friends, can we then talk about the greatest love of all, I mean the love of God, it is infact the purest, in other forms of love, our actions matters a lot, what we do overtime would determine how much love we recieve, even a spouse that is madly in love with you can soon fall out of love when he or she sees the love is not reciprocated well enough, but even when we were yet sinners in sin, christ was sent to die for us, he cloths the lilies of the valleys, as well as feed the birds of the ear so much easier it is for him to feed us and continuously he does, his love doesn't counts errors, not yet at least, he always helps and makes us the best we can be.
Love indeed is a beautiful things, among all love still stands as the most beautiful of all, be it money, be it fame, be it whatever, love is still what relates to our hearts best. You too would want to experience love, we all must see to experience this love, from family and mainly from our spouses, already the love of God is ever coming after us. Love is a beautiful thing and that is for a fact, for all those scared to love again I pray they heal and for those who haven't experienced true love, I pray they do, everyone deserve true love.
Never Be Afraid To Be Yourself
Being oneself is by far the greatest source of happiness and self fulfillment. Be happy for who you are and accept yourself just the way you are, people would always have their opinions, they would always have something to say but that notwithstanding it's up to us to do right, to make the right steps and become our best self. It always starts with hate and condemnation cause you're not doing what they want you to do, you're not becoming what they wish you to become but eventually when you've successfully made your mark in history, they would have no choice but to celebrate with you., so its always best to be yourself, be expressive cause at last it'll be you versus you.
I remember a colleague of mine who was working with us at the moment as a personal assistant to our boss was allergic to cats fur, when the cats gets around, he gets or reddish and ticklish and rashes, we also didn't know at the moment so we saw nothing wrong with it. It wasn't because he was scared to lose the job, he has been on it for a long time, he's not scared of losing the job, he was only not ready to express his displeasure working with the cat. Just an hello boss, I want to tell you I'm allergic to furs especially cat fur, please forgive ma, I didn't inform earlier and with this little play everyone would be together as at now.
Already that week was a crazy one and everyone had to work twice as hard, this colleague of mine has had series of quarrels with our boss, not necessarily a quarrel because he wouldn't return words with the boss but he sure wasn't happy. So one day our boss left to a meeting and left his troublesome cat behind, he wanted no disturbances I guess, so after the meeting, he called his associate and told him to bring the cat home but the assistant was saying he can't, finally he gave in and explain how he was allergic. Of course no one believed him anymore, we all saw it to be outright disobedience.
I too was guilty, I didn't believe too, I thought he was only being stubborn to the boss and some even got angry with him, throwing him all insults, is it because the boss picked you up and trained you, so now you betraying him, he couldn't explain anymore, and all this is because he refused to be let us in from the beginning that we wasn't comfortable with cats around. Now we think he's only trying to be stubborn and deserve whatever meets him. Not up to 3 months later we met his sister who told us all that we know, now we knows that's he was saying the truth, but he's not quick to Expressing himself, slow response. The world is fast.be fast.
No one would suddenly know what to do to you or how best you like to treated. No one can just know your likes and dislikes, all we can do is try to be moral, still we step on toes. It's not wrong to be expressive, maybe still with a gentle reminder, maybe start with a smile alongside a correct, then as it keeps being repeated you can keep increasing the seriousness of your responsiveness. Express yourself most times it needed, this wave they might not do it again. This way they have been informed and any continuous action could be regarded as a deliberate wickedness.
The main goal is to stay happy and to do this we need to be in a happy environment, where we can smile and be free, from within not being faked, we are truly happy. However when we bear so much we prevent ourselves of such happiness. You too need to be treated well, don't be scared to say he stop that, don't br shy to say hey continue, I like that. Speak, say it out, let people know what's really going on in your head, so they can be sure of the actions they ought to take and already know what your reaction would be to it. A student knows what the teacher would do if he did something bad and this helps to make the class remain sane.
I have found out that people really don't care. You see those few people who don't like to respond to actions done at them, they are always getting hurt most of the times. The feelings they have been preserving from getting hurt would most certainly be the one to backstab them. They truly get hurt the most, and their crime was only being too nice. That is not a gesture of goodness, when you refuse to be expressive to how you truly feel, it's rather a act of kind people, and this kindness often rarely pay, so be expressive.
Be expressive guys, you see what you don't like, try cutting it off in the shortest possible time, you see someone you like, come on, that too needs you to be expressive. Express yourself, this way you teach people how best to treat you. I like this, I don't like this, also makes you principled, people respect you more knowing you know what you want and you're always focused on it. Its not wrong to be expressive, what's the worst that can happen, any ways, now you have made your intentions clear. Come on guys. Be yourself today, Live for you and be happy.
Thank You For Reading, I hope you have a wonderful weekend.
What Do You Call Home
We all have our different definition and perception to what we call home, based on our experiences, what we've been through, and what we have seen from others. To some it can be a place where the whole family comes together, with the kitchen, the sitting room, dining table and the whole contemporary nature of the typical house, some others don't have this privilege of owning a good apartment, so they call their home anywhere their parents goes, should mummy go south today wherever she rest is the home, so home has become more of a person to them, not a place.
Some others don't have the privilege of habinb a parent or a family train them, so they have a whole different idea of home, home is anywhere they can sleep peacefully, it doesn't matter if it's under a bridge, or the backyard of a stadium, anywhere they can rest always and not be disturb, possibly they have identified that location as theirs, it could even be just a spot, that is their home, imagine a refugee camp with many people sharing a space, if they can identify someone to always staying in a particular spot, then automatically it wouldn't take long for him or her to start feeling at home there.
The definition of home really varies with regards to our upbringing, what we came to see has its was of shaping how we know things, that notwithstanding, there is something common to them all, each and everyone would agree that home is where they find rest. Rest is a big deal to the definition of home, when things are not going so great, and you just want to get out of that space, the next imagination is going home to rest. In the case of a severe mayhem, chaos or dangerous situations, everyone prays they can just get home, why home, why not anywhere else, cause home is that final stop, home has it's way of saying "now you can finally rest" even when the reality isn't so.
More reason why we recommend that we keep the home peaceful at all cost, for the most times a home isn't shared alone, its always shared with people, so there are bound to be some misunderstanding, however this misunderstanding are mostly sorted out cause of the strong relationship shared. Its really a frustrating feeling when you can't find good rest in the place you call home, outside is a scary place, we take courage to go out and interact with the world, it's good we come home to familiarity, make home peaceful.
When home is becoming more of pain than peace, we start seeing people try out other things to make a home, for some it could be finding a person who can give that home experience, so they are likely going to cheat on their partner with whoever makes them feel that rest and assurance once again, for some they find activities to artificially create the home experience since they can't get it naturally anymore, so you likely see them hit the bar and get drunk, or possibly engage in stimulating behaviors that can propel happiness, all in the bid to forget how they are feeling currently and burn the stress, cause home of rest is no more.
Everyone deserves home, and I mean a proper home, you do and so does the person close to you, the building is only an external factor, you could be the main reason why someone else sees where you both are as home, it means in you they find that peace, that comfort they can't find anywhere else. The emotions doesn't lie, we can keep hiding it but soon our true expression takes over, when you're not happy with whom you are with, it's only a matter of time, the endurance wears off, especially when you know there is someone else somewhere with the homely experience you seek.
I feel it's different from love, although closely related, but home is different from love, someone could be madly in love with you but not feel at home yet, especially where there are so many complications around the relationship. That's why the better choice of word is Rest. More reason houses are built with the intent of good comfort, so that you can really relax better as you come in search of internal rest. You want to rest your soul and the architect is saying allow me build you a house that you help you rest your body and sight, so your soul can rest in a better living condition.
Where do you call home? Who are the people contributing to make this place called home really worth it. Are there people who can call where you are a home? All this are questions of relevance, it allows us know who we care deeply about and those who care deeply about us. Home is where the heart is, where the heart wants to go finally. For some of us it's no longer where our parents live, we still love them but we are finding home somewhere else, with someone else, we are in love, we want to spend more time together with those we love, we want to come home to them and finally feel at home.
Thank You For Reading. Feel At Home Anytime You're On Read.cash
Imagine Life Without People Around
People can be annoying sometimes, and I mean very annoying, you'll just think it best to be in your own space at the moment, and for those who are truly bold enough to cut off totally from people and really be in their own space, I bet they would tell you they began to see the essence of having people around, people make life meaningful, our complexities, our differences in characters and ideologies, our differences in intonation, in lifestyle and fashion, our differences in delicacies, our differences in involuntary actions all makes life interesting, you'll want to see more again.
The reason you feel yourself now, the reason all what you've acquired and still acquiring makes you happy and gives you that sense of achievement is simply cause there are people to witness it., believe me life without people would be so boring and meaningless. Imagine driving a car and there is no one to compliment it. Just no there is no competition to make you tensed up, no body to partner with and do crazy things, no one to assist, no one to show your talents and qualities to, surely in less than a week, such human would have been feeling so miserable.
Humans needs company, from time to time we need someone to talk to, we need someone to play with, funny but we need someone to get angry at, we need someone to see what we can do, we need someone to criticize our works so we see from another perspective. The Bible rightly said "it's not good for a man to be alone" and so he made him (Adam) a help meet, a woman his betrothed Eve. That simply tells us that things whole concept has taken play sometime in the beginning of time, one man was alone without people and the Good God saw this and concluded that it isn't good for man to be alone, so conclusively its is not ideal for anyone to be alone.
I've heard a singer say he wish to be the only one in the world, having it all to himself, maybe he hasn't critically assess that decision, cause he would have rethought about that. The world is perfect just the way it is. Most guys would feel like being the only guy in the universe, being left alone with all the beautiful women around the world, it wouldn't be long until such fantasy would fade off, the importance of humans doesn't compass one gender alone, it applies to all, male and females alike, we need us in our numbers and differences to make it all perfect.
Have you ever been alone and started going down memories lane, and just remember some crazy people you've come in contact with, and how much you miss them and truly want to see them again. Could be how well they make you laugh, could be their stupid decisions and the trouble it gets you both into, it could be their way of dressing up, could even be their voice, there is something in everyone that makes them desirable, getting too close might firstly make you see your people as ordinary and nothing special, but soon we all realize we were chilling with the best set of humans all along.
There is another time in our lives were we gradually stop being around people, this people don't just go all together, they go gradually and it's a painful exit and you never can see or talk to them again, at that moment you wouldn't want them to go but they are gone already, it mustn't get to that point before we start living the benefits of having people around, we must not wait till he or she is dead before you start seeing the caliber of people you're surrounded with, you don't have to wait to start showing them your true emotions and how you truly feel about them, true friends are bonded by love, I love you bro, I love you sis, from the bottom of my heart i really do.
The biggest assets and best of investments has and would always be people, you can get everything else and they would one way or the other leave you be or simply depreciates, not giving you the values worth or your efforts, but you see people, when you invest or earns the loyalty of people, you've successfully driven your way to the world of endless possibilities, anything can be yours, cause we own everything, even the oceans are claimed by countries thereby overseen by authorities which are yet people, the golds are owned by people, the cars, lands, we own it all, so I mean nothing beats people, so having people around should be taken more for an opportunity than mere disturbances.
How about you, talk about you for a minute, is it worth having you around, are you really missed by the people around you, the answer is surely, it doesn't matter how bad an introvert you are, there is something about you that is peculiar to you and people just love you. You're full of expression and emotions, the way you do your things are unique, why wouldn't anyone want more of you. I for one have been staying on my own for quite some time now, and although I still like my privacy but I really need and misses the company of my friends every now and then, it's just amazing how one person and make you feel alive, then when they are plenty the joy is enormous. We make the world amazing, you're part of the reason the world is amazing, we are the best.
Thank you for reading, so next time that annoying friend comes around, enjoy him time spent, enjoy every moment of him, that's the essence of God putting us all in one space., to enjoy each others company.
Friends And Family In Business
Have you seen that postal that says "No friends and family in business", probably you've come across it on any store, alongside "No credit today" 😂, you'll think maybe tomorrow you can come take credit, but tomorrow the signage is still standing and it's never taken down, so everyday there is no friends and family in business and no credit. Well everyone in business knows how it hurt to run at loss especially when people are inconsiderate. Everyone has a soft spot, however that kind gesture may bring the downfall of the business, just like constantly lending out money, without sure refund.
Friends and family are used in signifying people who are dearest to you. At one time or the other, they mean a lot to you and you also to them. To you, they are irreplaceable and you just want to see the relationship strive to better and better on the long run. However friends fight and looking back at history, there are only two things strong enough to break years of friendship, I mean, those guys you always see together and it feels as though they can't live together. There are only two things strong enough to break it comfortably and that is love and money.
I don't want to dwell so much on love, so I'll skip to the money aspect, sequel to the topic it's clear we are talking about improving our finances, so I'll quickly drive there. Well for love, two best friends can be in love with the same guy or the same lady, and that is likely to cause a competition, a competition that would really hurt one at the end of the day. It takes a really matured mind to accept defeat and still be friends, cause the normal human would feel embarrassed and lesser, thereby trying to gain back ground and prove your worth, fights are bound to break out. Silence and acceptance is the easier route, but it's my friend we're talking about, do you want him to mock me?
The next big force able to break away any form of friendship is no doubt money. I guess the movie industry has done justice to this claim already, by showing us countless movies of betrayals and back stab all cause of greed, money in general. Everyone want money, oh everyone needs money, it's a strong hold on the world today. Money, money, money. I don't joke with my money, Do you joke with yours? Of course you shouldn't. Even families break out for money, how much more friendship.
How serious are you to pay back your friend, come on be sincere. Have you not hope and dreamt he or she tells you never to mind paying back anymore. If a stranger and your friends are calling you to pay back instantly, and you have a cash to sort out only one of them, which would you likely sort out and which other would you ask for more time. Of course your friends would have to bear with you right, it doesn't matter if he needs it urgently or not, cause that friend wouldn't embarrass you as the stranger would, or let me rephrase that, that friend shouldn't embarrass you, cause history has recorded some crazy twist, where the best friend turns bad. Lol.
Ok, we are still going, now what happens when that friend has no choice but to keep pestering you into paying back and you can't pay back yet? Ok let me help you think deep. The mind begins to think there is something going on sometimes, especially when you feel the friend doesnt need back the money and is just being wicked to you. Why can't you give me more time. Why can't you just do me that one favour, what do you want me to do. This constant pressure would most likely lead to overthinking and then to disappointment, then to anger. Finally you're pushed to the way and have to find a way to pay it back regardless cause that friend Keeps pestering.
Already this feeling creates a rift, you now besr this in mind, he begins to hide how he or she enjoys her money, cause you'll say,so you can't lend me money, but you can enjoy at a restaurant, but you can buy a car, but you can spend on your girl, in fact almost all regular spending would force you angry, the friendship is at a verge of fully collapsing, meanwhile you forgot that you swore to pay back and that friend only did you a favour by borrowing you the money. Now he or she is the enemy, it's the due time to pay what did you expect, change the contract, of course they would ask for their money, it hurts them more that they can use their hard earn money as they should and now that money has cause a fight with their best friend. Who is wrong?
As the one who needs the money, it's best to learn you to take that close person seriously, if you're saying to pay at a particular date, make sure to try your every best to meet up, better still you can be transparent, let them in on the progress that you're making to ensure you compensate him or her back for the good gestures. Never make it seem as though, he is your friend so he should understand and not bother till you're ready, that is taking the person for granted. Haven't you worked into a store and see the signs "No friends and family in business ", business are generally governed by rules, if you're faulting the rule then you're being wicked to the giver. its money landed so its business, treat it as such.
It's safe to let out what you know you can lose for friendship sake, when that friend comes to borrow, he or she is not thinking about the fact that this act is generally dangerous to friendship, but you know and can save it before hand by preparing your mind. What can you lose, in other words, if he or she can't pay back, you can keep easily extend the time or forget it completely without a fight. However In some cases they really need more than what you can comfortably spare, then its strictly business and you've got to be smart about this.
Know your friends, though you can never be too certain, but if you're willing to take the risk for friendship, you can do so. But make sure to beg the importance of the cash you're letting off. If the person is not trusted, then I advice you refuse. Even if he or she is trusted, it's still very risky to let go of more than you can spare comfortably. However it's your call to make, money isn't ruled by emotions, be smart with your spendings.
Thanks for Reading, what's your take?
September Came Happy
Every month is significant in their various ways, September isn't left out, intact September came with a bang, it truly came happy and it would stay happy. Forgive my manners, allow me wish you a happy new Month, we are into the last quarter of 2022, in no time we would be experiencing December and all its festivities again. Indeed life is so precious and moments should be enjoyed, I hope to enjoy every bit of September, and September luckily for me is a happy one.
Stay your day by praising and praying to God, none of all this would have been possible If God hadn't helped us through. Just yesterday I experienced a man get electrocuted, luckily for him the current wasn't big enough to cause burns or death, it only dragged him close and pinned him down. We took him to the hospital just to check if there were any causalities we weren't noticing and we thank God he is fine, and he is alive today to see the new Month, truly God does so much for us than we know or remember.
Every time is a good time for reflection and revaluation, however the start of a thing gives more opportunities to curiosity and the interest to want to know, to want to make things work out fine, the little time taken back to reflect would help us think clearly and remember more vividly, this way we can see how awesome God has been to us, which directly shows us that we are loved continuously, and then goes on to build our confidence and positivity, and ofcourse positivity expectations creates the right atmosphere for goodness.
You may want to start the month on a happier mood, it doesn't matter what happy by 11:59pm the previous day, this time makes a new time and a new booklet of opportunities., so start fresh, hope anew, in all put God first as this is the smartest move to make especially is this world of uncertainty, our only wise decision would be to stay in a position where we can benefit best in the past present and future, and that can only be done by He who knows the past, present and future, He orchestrated it all.
Do you have an expectation for the month, do you have a plan, do you have a desire for the month, in all the ball remains in your court, life is yours, take over, take control. Let God and wisdom guide your steps into the right patterns to live by. September is going to be so much fun, let's be more open minded and receptive to the unlimited possibilities that would be offered to us. And don't forget to spend more time with the people you love, spend quality time, a little fun at least, enjoy the Month.
Once again we welcome September, don't forget to smile today and expect the best to come to you. The New Month can be your charm, what you've been trying and now thinking of giving up on, well don't give up on it, let the rush and excitement for the new Month be a good push to trying out your dreams again, like they said it's never a bad time to get up and be yourself, enjoy life in the best possible way, and be happy. Already the month came with joy and excitement, you too should spread the love.
Thanks for reading. Welcome to the month of SEPTEMBER. Be Happy.
Costly Mistakes Affecting Trust
Trust is the bedrock of it all, for the longevity of any relationship and its solidity, trust is the main propeller, we must try to keep trust delicately, it's as a ceramic plate falling to the floor, its rarely repairable once broken, you don't expect someone who has raised his guards to suddenly put it down,its never that easy to regain full trust once broken. Some mistakes can be worked on, however some mistakes are so costly, they can put an end to it all. So importantly we can think ahead of our decisions, actions we should allow and disallow, all judging from their future implications.
This issues of trust is by far a great need for every relationship to keep standing. When there is no trust, it's as a building without pillars. So we need by all means to get that trust and ensures it stays. I need a trust worthy person to stay by my side, so do you too. As much as marriage has other areas of concern, trust gets us knowing that he belongs to me or she belongs to me. It's a responsibility for both, not one alone, both parties has the sole task to ensure that trust isn't broken, no matter how angry, or how bad things are, trust should never go down, it's the pillar that keeps it standing.
The best remedy has been to stay faithful. When we are in a relationship, we should stay committed, like really committed without looking else where. I guess it all starts when we start believing we can be too smart, like our partner would never find out. Maybe truly we have devised a good game plan we want to go by, and we think it's almost impossible that our partner finds out. Still don't know how well our plans have worked in time past, I still don't know how many of the cheaters still has a successful marriage till now, maybe there are those doing these for years and still not getting caught, but I know one thing, for every actions comes a reaction.
Don't attempt to toil with the trust earned. Don't try to think its easily regained. For so many this trust they've lost, still has a way of hunting them from time to time even when all quarrels are settled. Does it ever returns to normal? Are you sure you can continue living in a close space with this person you've lost faith in? Wouldn't you think of the worst whenever they are not with you. Can you cope. All this question being to run through the head of the one who has been hurt. Even when leaving my feel like dying they know they have to leave. And this heart breaks are hard to recover from. So hard.
Now lets say the deed is done, and we genuinely regret what has happened, in fact we want thing to return to normal, what do we do? Well don't skip the part I said genuinely, cause anything other than genuinely means you're still on the road to committing more wrongs sooner or later. And when you're not genuinely sorry, then I guess you weren't fully into the person you are hurting, and as much as possible I tend to encourage true happiness, so maybe it's best you end it, before doing what would hurt the most. In other not to be tagged as wicked or bad, I guess it's best the wrong is cut off as early is possible.
However for the genuinely sorry, don't try to shy away from the discussion, don't try running away and hidden behind let's just forget about it. How can the mind forget something that has bore a hole in it, its not that easy you know. Rather let's talk it out. Have a seat out and really talk it out, discuss the matter and discuss it smartly, I must confess some details might not be palatable to confess out, as it would hurt deeper than the actual thought of what happened, if you know what I mean. So at times Its best we discuss what happened and why it happened and try to assure that it would never happen, if you have to cry, do cry. Well if its genuinely, the tears should flow easier.
Many successful marriages has been through to worst of times, many wrongs happened which lead to trust issues and making them wave like it wasn't going to last, but love still brought them back until they learnt to stay faithful and trustworthy. A lot really gets resolved when you talk it out, it isn't enough to beg for forgiveness and say I'm sorry, most times we need to iron it out, this way we can tru preventing it from future occurrences. How are we sure you aren't going to do it again, how certain are we that whatever lead to the first wrong won't lead to another. We need to know you are really going to be trust worthy, so we need to talk about it.
Thought of making the title of this article "Talk About It " cause it all boils down to both parties settling the matter with a deep conversation, cause from it comes the next possible solution, if it's best the relationship is resolved or dissolved, all for the best. As well as from it can we see how sincere the other is, how much we truly want it to work, and offers an opportunity to really apologize and assure our partners it would never repeat itself again. So regaining that trust might not be easy dependent on the person hurt, but talking about it can help a great deal, as well as our actions afterwards must portray we truly are changed.
Thanks y'all, May God continue to bless you all. One love ❤.
Spending Time As Currency
Time well spent can make up for years of training and self development. Money is only a reward, the real ingredient to success is a time well spent, a time spent in going to school, a time spent in learning a skill, a time well spent in building a great relationship on social and emotional levels, a time well spent in observing a trend, and finally a time well spent in seizing the perfect opportunity. Knowing that we are in the business of spending, it begins to open our minds to true reality, every seconds we are spending, we're spending times, and how well we spent our time would determine how much money we would have for spending.
Time can also be lavished, but unlike money cause everyone has it, cause truthfully some people are poor without having a penny to spend, time on the other hand belongs to everyone and everyone has time to spend, as long as your breathing you have time to spend. Its a currency attached to life, from birth we all already have time, in fact you having time shows you're living, and when time is fully spent then you're no longer breathing. One great truth about time over money is that time could be use to get money, but money cannot be use to get time (in actual sense though).
Reason why I noted in actual sense is cause money is power and can create spare time for your, people are occupied with most of their days in search for money, you wake you so you can get ready to go make some money, you eat for energy to go make that money, then you spend most hours of the day in line with what would bring that money, and when you sleep is cause you're tired and you've got to sleep to get back energy to go again tomorrow and make some money. Lucky are those who enjoy the activities that earns them money, those who work on their passion, to them it wouldn't seem as though they are wasting time, however everyone is all for the money, gosh it serves our every needs, including the basic necessities of life.
Yet, those who have managed to learn to spend their time are happier than those who only know how to spend money, time is the oldest currency at one that we all start spending from conception, if a motivational speaker was at birth bed, he or she might as asked us at in fact "hey baby you've spent 2mins in this world, what have you achieved?, crazy right, now think deeper, that baby has already done something, she has made her awareness known by crying thereby saying, I'm here" that's an achievement too, those cries of the baby that brings so much joy. Why I brought up this analogy is to clearly show that we all have time to use in achievement, if a baby yet not matured in thinking can achieve something not with money but in time, we too can work with time to achieve a lot.
Growing up has clearly shown us the benefits of working with time more than we should work with money. Growing up we saw the trend to go by, firstly we learn then we practice, first we pay then we earn, first we listen then we can speak, and so an on and forth, there is a process of timing, skipping one level automatically spoils your other level result, one can decide to dive into business before first subjecting himself or herself to learning from another that's been into such business over a longer period of time.
Learning from someone who has been into it for some time is one good cheat we can explore, cause then we are aware of the mistakes and we are guided on how to prevent it in our case. We can learn either physically which of course is best and create a stronger relationship with your master or mentor, or online as we see mostly today, either ways there is a time of learning, and this currency of time must be well spent learning, should you not spend your time learning then cannot buy enough information to earn you that desired level of independence.
We spend money no doubt, in fact its what comes to mind when you hear us talking about currency, but then its also best we not we are spending a little by little penny of time with each passing seconds, no pressures though, this doesn't mean you have to work round the clock to utilize your time effectively, well how much can you do that, its only a while before your moral body made of bones and blood totally breaks down, so as much as you want to see good use of time, know that proper rest is also a good use of time, it conserve energy thereby making you stronger for yet another go, proper feeding or nutrition is another good use of time as its a way of sharpening your tool which in this case is your body for a better job next to be done.
Indeed there's time for work, to effectively pursue the Money, but sometimes we aren't supposed to spend the currency of time pursuing money, those time money comes secondary, as there are better and more important matters to spend on, for instance a time out with your family, these time should be created, money has never made any man but rather people make money, so it human over money, a person well blessed can give you a huge sum of money that can serve your lifetime, so investing time in people is by far a wiser choice.
Especially your family, your husband, wife, kids, siblings, parents those people aren't going anywhere, as you all are stuck for life, although there could be serious issues maybe, but the bond never breaks. Something worthy of note is a fact that money spent would be regained again, but for every time we spend, it is never coming back, every decisions we take in time we are definitely looking ahead to the result later on, to this effect, its a need to be cautious, we make mistake and we quickly learn from it to adjust and be better, we spend for better, time spent rational would surely hold a benefit to smile about tomorrow.
Thanks For Reading and remember Time is a currency guys, so let's spend our time wisely.
This Day Planning
It's no longer okay to wake up, get dressed and go through the entire day doing whatever you remember to do and taking things as they come, productivity is hardly achieved that way. Its widely known that a day that has been planned ahead of time would be better productive than a day not planned for, very few abnormalities occurs but in normal scenarios its the planned day winning it. No wonder our phones now comes with lot of reminders, we could set our calendars to a specific date, we could use a note pad, and most importantly though we hardly utilize it, is getting a daily To-do list.
How is your To-Do list, do you get all the work dome for the day, the best way has been to do it with a "Scale Of Preference", do the big things first then the second follows. No one has completely finish everything there is to accomplish over time, more reason why we need a "Scale of preference" to go by, this method has always been profitable for everyone who has followed strictly, as they at least who cover the most needful should time not be on their side, and of course time waits no man. We can only make do to the best of our ability while hoping we're able to cover as much as required, so at the close of the day we can smile and say at least we have done the important part.
To every areas of human endeavors, we can experienced misplaced priorities, which of course we would later regret and learn our lesson. Humans wants are insatiable so at that we can't afford to be moved by every feeling rather follow what it is we ought to do. A man can have $500 and has a list of things to do with it, probably there is a need that takes up over a 80% of the total money, at such its only wise he gets a well plan step to carry him on the to do list, same way satisfying that need first with the $500 is a risk to the other plans so that should go bottom as you place the most profitable ahead, which is of course investment, then food, then bills then comes your enjoyment.
Not restricted to finance alone, many have misplace priorities in the area of love, we all have relationship we are building or hoping to build and at such, its a necessary requirements than we place such partner in close proximity compared to any else causal friend or relation, given time to study the person, to know more about who you're looking to be with for a longer period of time, but this sometimes hasn't been the case as few have recklessly played with those who they really wanted, thinking it would all be alright, as we mostly feel like in the movies, our soul mate would surely end up with us regardless of our actions or lack of seriousness, until of course life teaches us yet another lesson.
In all we do, its a better choice to place things in order of their importance, this way we are conscious of what to give our energy to more than others, to actively see it become what we hope for, should there not be enough space or time for the other things we seek, yet we have this sense of accomplishments, we didn't watse time still.
Career is one aspect, we can't afford to play with, and of course we can't afford to misplace priorities only to regret that we aren't fulfilled or feeling too late to start again, our children would be well supervised to making the most of their time, utilizing each day to making their future worth smiling for. Time spent on social media platform that aren't helping grow in any capacities, not mentally, educationally nor spiritually should be curb to the nearest minimum, already millions of people are using their device to increase their income, while others are using their device to get poorer, it's just the sad realities of the times we're in.
Productivity is the watch word, so we should think things through, same way not all that glitters are gold, so also not all that we long for are and hope to get are really worth the stress nor worth we placing it above others. Many people in our lives presently needs to be cut off, who are giving more negativity than positive effects to our lives, and we are only deteriorating because we are placing them above the positive people, and this we need to end, in order to grow. Productivity is the watch word, we seek to grow and at such we need those who can help the course.
The way out is to intentionally think about our actions and present activities, what have we wrongly priorities, those misplaced priorities we should see to correct asap, then put at the top of the chain, options that we best help our growth. Everyone is someway guilty of having misplaced priorities, but everyone can correct that if we choose and work towards it.
Thank You. Plan your day ahead, plan your week ahead, plan your yearly goals ahead.
Life Is A Market, So Sell Yourself
There are different ways to view life and each view gives us a different directives to act upon. View life as a market, where everyone has various needs, some it's a product they need, some its services, some its money they seek so they sell, its left to us to know what we want and find a solution to our needs. Everyone needs money so the quest for money is generalized across everybody, but money comes for a solution being rendered, so what can you sell, yourself ofcourse, even if you've got a physical product, you'll still be selling yourself cause you'll require skill and personality, it doesn't matter what you have, everyone selling in the market are selling themselves out.
I need people to know me and know what I do, I need to sell myself out to the world, the world indeed is a general market place for everyone, there is everything in it, you can find every talent right here in the world, plus all talents having their own special trademark, something to show the awesomeness of our God, that he never runs out of creativity, so with everyone comes something peculiar and different, so that thing I can do has its own uniqueness, that craft of yours can not be done like you anywhere in the world. So we are all different in what we do, however you need to step out in order to be recognized.
No doubt everyone needs Money and we are all in constant search for the Money, the competition between each other is so much we need to be extra if we're sure we want to be successful. Moreover money doesn't come always to everyone, in fact money is so principled one can get it via acting on principle,and one of the major principle I've seen is the need to step out, step out of your comfort zone and be visible, then more and more people can approach you, with more public view determines more inquires and also with more inquires comes more profit, so we all need to be more visible to the public.
Imagine for a second you own a very big shop with so many goods, but the location where your shop is situated is quite a distance from where people do operate and you can't move the goods to the people are, because its not mobile, that is it can't be moved about like those pushing a coffee or an ice cream around seeking. So apparently tbat man who owns that shop is daily running at low profit and potential lost, it would be a wise decision for him to step out and set his store somewhere else where he can really be accessible. With more people present and visible to your craft comes more opportunities and income.
This singular motion of trying to step out is the reason why adverts are being made on TV, radios and our media platforms, everyone is trying so hard to be visible to the public enough that they get familiar with them. Presently there are some brands today that would make a ton of money by the close of today, not because they are used to the business or have experienced it over time but rather because he's a man of principle and this principle entails trying so hard to be visible to the public well enough to be popular.
Trying to be visible cut across all craft and talents, we would keep on being indoors and hiding and protecting, safeguarding what we can do ,good enough those times are dedicated into more training or exposure to be better. However it shouldn't take forever, as we go inside we ought to make up our mind as an individual to star, its everybody wish to be famous as fame gives better wealth, so we keep our heads high and jovial, trying to come around. Get outside and try as much as possible to return with the kind.
People make up the money, people give the attention, everything would matter less if we don't have people. But we wouldn't have the backup of people if we aren't visible, we would only be known by few if we yet refuse to come out and be known. We wouldn't get that much recognition when we are still in a hide out, that huge income expected might not be coming soon when we aren't yet in out close space invisible to the outside world, we all very much needed to come out and sell ourselves. Let's get to be known by people. Try to be seen, visible and in the mind of the public, then we can get patronized better.
So no matter what you do, sell yourself, there's definitely someone somewhere who is loving the things you do and how you do them, but they are still searching for you because you haven't yet try to be visible. It takes a few steps to actually step outside of your shell and be visible to all, firstly a determination that this is what I want to do, secondly active steps in taking the right spots, making the right calls, doing that extraordinary thing, everything to Come out and tell the world here I am finally.
Thank you!
Words kill Or Create
Speaking has always done more than mere communication of words, there are so many things embedded with a speech that can make those words travel far and deep into the hearts of the reciever. The tone of the voice tells so much, the manner at which the words are constructed tells so much also, the expression while speaking tells again, and the choice of words, so it's not just a regular harmless word as we presume, our tongues are more of a war tool, people, to families, to nations, to great companies and establishments fall constantly cause of the wrong utterances, indeed tame your tongue, be mindful of what comes out and how it comes out, especially to whom your words are going out to.
Words get to us, it'll take a lot of self control and confidence to shield yourself from hurtful words, like how sometimes we dress up for an occasion and though we've looked to the mirror yet we still don't have much confidence about our appearance, our mind keep playing us, what if the mirror lied, how do people really see. And should someone look at you with a not so pleasant kind of way, you become so uncomfortable, thinking you aren't well dressed, but when someone walks up to you and say you look beautiful, I love your dress, your confidence automatically doubles, and you become ready to storm the occasion.
Kids above all else should be a better beneficiary of your sweet words, don't forget to feed them these sweet words often, words like my dear you're special, you're incredibly gorgeous, words like you're the best thing that can happen to me, infact the world is lucky to have you, many think it doesn't really do much, well it does.
The real world is full of strive, people trying to suppress others, mates trying to bully others, colleagues trying to outshine their counterparts, and often the good ones are the victims of such scenario, but then we've got to stay good, yet we need our confidence, our self esteem to work effectively and efficiently, so we need to be constantly motivated, and via these sweet words, you keep motivating that person.
Well sweet words doesn't mean you've got to lie, when its noticeable that you're only lying to get them happy, your words begin to loose weight, we need a good level of trust if we know we want to keep them motivated over our sweet words. We need not to lie always, maybe sometimes when its needed and we would not be caught. Already there are few good things in everyone and this you could use and exaggerate upon to say to the person rather than lying. Pick the strong points and elaborate on them to give your desired motivation.
For instance, a friend at your office is having quite a challenge with the work load, he has not been able to successfully do as directed for some days now and this might be a threat to his employment, so you want to help boost is morale so he can get his act together. Saying he's very smart might be a lie, he too knows he's not that smart, but he's very organized, boom this you can use. If he is cute or smiles a lot is irrelevant to this issue, but his organization skill can be helpful.
Simply Just walk up to him and say, I know you'll get your act together, in fact I'm not bothered, I know you can do it, you've got one of the best organizing skill i've seen, you can plan very well and execute your plans without a loophole, when you calm down to plan on this I bet you'll find a way through. This way you haven't lied, you only exaggerated the truth and served the intended purpose.
Same way bad words hurt deeply as a knife, sweet words do the opposite, its gives a tingling sensation to the soul, its refreshing, say nice words to people, let them know they are loved, tell them how special they are, what do you have to loose, it's only words, however you never know who you might just be saving, you can't tell who's fed up with life and just need a reason to stay, depression is real, however kind words have helped few overcome. Know the benefits of saying sweet words and start applying it.
Here are my sweet words to you, you're the best gift of life, your creation was never a mistake as you indeed are a special one. Go out today spreading kind and re-energizing words to all you meet, words creates feelings, feelings creates aura, an atmosphere, let it be full of positivity, of happiness, you can do it. More love guys.
Thanks for reading guys. I love you all ❤.
@Brilliance