Past, Present, and Future Topic with my Friend

I'm laying on my bed when my phone vibrates. A message icon of messenger? I opened my phone using my finger print password because I'm lazy to type 6 digits numbers. When I opened it, I go to my messenger app and then, Open the one new message(s) from my Friend. She is my Former classmate and became my friend during my High School days.

Our conversation starts when she told me about this one:

Translate:

Her: I'm serious. About (name of my Ex) I just have something to tell haha

Her: Because I chatted with him last night.

Her: Then, he told me that he still loved you.

Her: Because there is something holding him that you told to him before about after graduating like that.

After reading this messages from her I am not surprise anymore because when I was with them during our outing days, He is acting as if I am still in a relationship with him and I was annoyed because of that.

The Graduation thingy is, It's all about before I broke up with him, I told him before that he should concentrate to his Study and to his Future. Then, we will talk about it after he will graduate college. But, I already forget this thing because I don't have feelings to him now.

So as a response to this,

Translation:

Me: Luh, Please tell him to forget that already.

Me: Tell to him that I don't have plans of marrying.

That's true. I don't have plans of marrying someone because I'm still young and if I ever marry someone, I think he is not the one and when my Friend asked me a question:

Translate:

Her: But soon, Can't you see him as your Future Husband like that? Hahaha

Me: Nope.

Back then, My love for Him fades when I realized this one. I already know a long time ago that we can't be together and I don't see my future with him. To be honest, He is too kind for me and I don't like someone who is very kind and a boring person. Even if I see him everytime or I am at the same place with him, I don't have feelings to him already all I can just see to him is...he is just my Friend. That's all.

Anyways, I just start this by our conversation about the past and now that we are talking about this, she opened up the topic about marriage. I was surprised because she is the one who opened up about this one.

You know back then, this friend of mine is not drinking alcohol. But we are all surprised because when we are at the outing, she is a good drinker already. I can't count if how many cups we drank but she is still not tipsy which is all I can say is, 'We are not getting younger anymore'. Looking at them, they are now grown ups and they are now mature.

I was sad because we are not young anymore. We are now at the stage about talking about our plans of our life. It is so very akward at first but I think, this is the start of being open to each other right? If before, we are just talking about our dreams of what we will become in the future, which is Now. Now, we are talking about our plans if we will be get married, like that.

Translate:

Her: Me too, but I have plans of getting married.

Me: I don't like to get married.

Of course, I didn't told her that I like to get married too because I don't like to think about that for now. My mind is still full of dreams, goals, plans, problems and how can I find solution by this problem and marriage? There's no enough space for that for now.

But speaking of marriage, I am curious why people like of getting married so I asked her if why she likes of getting married? And she answered me this:

Translate:

Me: Why you like to get married? Let's change the topic.

Her: -cursed- Because I like to give birth to 3 children.

Me: Ay, Triplets? HAHAHA

Her: Gagi, no! 3 Children but not borned at the same time! Hahaha

At the end of this sharing about our conversation, I laughed because of the thought of her having triplets kids in the future because her Ex before is one of the Triplets. I just remembered her relationship with that Guy and I can't stop myself from smiling because of how they became in a relationship.

Final Thoughts...

Having a conversation right now with my friend about this topic...It was so very akward but you know what? I am so very happy right now because they have their plans of marrying someone in the future. The thought of them having a Professional Husbands and Wife makes me smile because I know that in the future, they will become successful. Now that they are all near of Graduating College.

I can't wait...to meet their boyfriends and girlfriends and they will introduced it to me in our Next outing. But for now, I can'r stop myself from laughing because we are all single! You read it right. We are all Single! They are all stressed to their relationship with their activities, assignments, tasks, quizes, and exams and I am also stressed to my Family problems and plans of how I will start this goals.

We are also have this time during our outing when we are talking about life and I can't believe ghat we are all have the same thought and sync saying these words, "Why it is hard to become Adult?" Then we look to each other and laughed.

How about you guys, do you experienced to talk with your Friends about your future plans?

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