They are watching.

Yup children eyes and mind catches things very fast. They will observe and learn what we do, good or bad they don't know. They will just see my father and mother I doing it must a good thing to do. Seriously every parents should see this apart from disciplining them, we should also discipline ourselves.

We say a lot in front of children now and I think they may have learned to understand. Children are now the age to learn. We will say it in front of them and they will learn by watching it. So we should think and talk in front of them. Especially parents need to be more aware. If they fight in front of the child, it will leave deep scars on the minds of the children.

Children these days are very smart, they learn everything their parents do either good or bad, and stick to it till they become an adult. As a parent, we should be very careful about the kind of words we say, our actions(what we do) in front of our children about following the bad step.

When I became a mother many years ago, a wise woman told me, remember that a child comes into this world as a blank canvas and you are the first artist who's going to be drawing on it. Children live what they see.

This is an important message on so many levels. On the one hand, it speaks to abuse and how patriarchal society can be- the man who is all important going to work and the woman who must stay at home and serve. And while this arrangement is fine, there's nothing wrong with it, and there are many homes where the father is the provider and the mother the caretaker of the home and nurturer of the children, unfortunately, and all too often, we have seen that in arrangements like these, the woman becomes the outlet the man may use to pour all his aggression and frustration.

This story also speaks to the abuse of children from their exposure and the cycle of abuse that continues in the children who witness and are moulded by this and who then grow up and adopt the same beliefs and practices. It is great that you have shed light on this important topic. As adults, we must do better by investing not just money, but values, morals, codes of behavior, etc., into future generations. Have a great day.

You are a mirror in the eyes of a child!

That was very true dear. Children's learn and conclude that everything that they saw and heard was always right or okay to say as they can see the reaction from others that they mean for agreement. Children's learn from adults, they learn from what they saw and observe, just like us. If parents and guardians was aware with their actions, they may become a good influencer to their children's. However we weren't perfect, nobody's perfect either, sometimes we do mistakes and our children's might accidentally saw what we did. If we wanted to correct the mistake that we did we should take time to explain, teach our children about the mistake and which and what they must not follow or do. But sadly sometimes adults are not willing to be a good influencer, as sometimes they only laugh if they heard or seen a bad behaviour or a wrong action from children, and so children thought that they were funny to be laugh and nothing was wrong with their actions. Parents and guardians, remember that our children's behaviour was actually our own shadow, so be a good example and have a beautiful shadow.

Few days ago, I was discussing this with someone. About how our neighbor(a couple), don't know when to set a boundary. They have hot arguments while their children (4 of them) are present. They even go to the extent of cursing each other and each others' parents forgetting that their children are present at the scene watching them.

Charity they say begins at home, as well as every other thing. Patriarchy and internalised misogyny runs deep in the society. If we must change this, we must start first from home, and teach our children to know better and not be dragged into the the patriarchal and abusive sea of the society

I know of a boy in jun. sec. School who always pick on girls and would always want to quarrel with them. I don't know what happened in school one day and his both parents were surprised by the principal. After sometime, we started hearing loud screams from the principal's office,it turned out that this dad and mom were quarrelling shamelessly in the school premises...

I really expected Aditya to say this because I guessed where this conversation was going.. I became sad but not shocked.. This happens in many Indian households.. the wife is to serve and husband to take advantage of their partner. YOu are right, kids are learning, learning everything from us

Sometimes the father is a smoker and advice his children to not smoke but even after all this advice, they finish by smoking because they are watching what you are doing not what you are giving as recommendations.

Oh my, we actually had a discussion about this one earlier in our house, Miss. And that is very true. No matter how much you teach your child through words, they'll learn best if they see a real-life example, and it is very sad when children get to learn the wrong ones. 

Children listens, watch and thereafter emulate the things they see from their guardians - in this case parents, so we must be careful how we treat ourselves in their presence.

When I saw" I'll beat her", I knew that was the end of a nice story😂 Parenting really matters because Children mostly mimic what they see

The children are watching us and anything the learn now will be sticked to their head like writing in a rock. Children of now a days are very fast learning so the parents has to caution each other the their behaviors.

I was surprised in the end. I was not expecting that although in reality that does happen. Kids emulate adults. Always put in mind before you take action or say anything what kind of example are you to the those around.

Ahh i have seen that video, in that video clip actually director was trying to coney the message, that children do what they see, children speak what they listen. This kind of treatment of parents is so common in entire Asia.

Children is like a blank Tape from the very beginning but they will record all of the happenings , it is not right to show the kids how violent the world is..

Children are very sensitive and pick up lessons from us as parents, the things we do in their presence matters a lot since it becomes a way of life for them.

I ha already watched this video on YouTube. Children's are vey curious about everything, they loves to mimic their elders. They do not even that the things which they are mimicking can be proved as worst too. This is why we need to do more good things in front of childrens instead of bad things.

See ehn, the kids that are born in this new generation have the brain to photocopy every action they see.. Thats why parent need to be careful what their kids watch and how they act I'm front of their kids. Even till date, I can't watch a movie with a sex scene with my dad😫😫, he will still chase me away, odindin idan of the house..

Children's are way too smart nowadays,we need to be cautious with whatever we do in their front as they learn fast.

Children have a curious pair of eyes, making them the best observers in the world.