I Used To...
Blog #126
January 12, 2022
Hello, beautiful ones. Happy Wednesday! How's your day today? Mine was not that good in the morning coz my head hurts a lot and that made me go offline. I just sleep for almost 2 hours but when I wake up it was still the same. So after taking my lunch, I let myself be busy with house chores so I won't focus on the pain that I am feeling.
After doing lots of chores it was still the same so I took a pain reliever. After an hour, it's not that painful anymore. Later, I remembered that I haven't taken a cup of coffee since morning, so I immediately grabbed one. After how many minutes the pain subsided. I then conclude that maybe my body misses some coffee since I am used to drinking coffee every morning.
#Coffee completes my day
I used to...
Think that I wasn't enough. But later I realized that I am enough, it's just that someone or others can't appreciate me. They aren't contented with all the things I did and ended up hurting me.
Think that when I do good to others, they will treat me nicely too but I was wrong. Whatever good deeds we made, people will always do have negative comments to tell about us. That's one fact about life.
"Just be ourselves, know our value, and don't mind what others would say about us. We are who we are, that's all that's matters.
I used to...
That I am not capable of doing something. I don't have confidence within myself that's why I let other opportunities slip away without taking every chance of it.
But now when opportunities come on my way, I tried taking risks even if there are lots of chances to fail. I may fail while taking those chances but it's okay, at least I tried. It's better than doing nothing at all.
"All things are possible to be done as long as we believe in ourselves and we have trust in God"
I used to...
Stay to the place where I am comfortable. I am afraid to face other people and engage with them. I am too shy to voice out my opinions coz I am afraid that what I shared is not acceptable. In short, I am afraid of rejection.
But when I joined noise.cash and read.cash, slowly I came out and tried making friends. These two platforms make me feel comfortable and it allows me to express all the feelings I have without being judged by others.
Slowly, I tried voicing out my opinions in regards to some issues about life and other things. As others would say, all opinions are acceptable here coz every one of us has different understandings of some things.
"Don't just stay to where we are comfortable, step outside of it and learn to explore this beautiful world"
I used to...
Say yes to everyone whom I am closed with or even to the people around. I said yes coz I don't want them to call me selfish. I used to say yes always even if it has a disadvantage on my side but one day I learned, it's not bad to say No once in a while especially if our kindness is been abused.
It's okay to say no. Saying no doesn't mean we are selfish, sometimes it's part of valuing ourselves.
"Say no when it's necessary"
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I am used to say Yes as well sis, isn't really inevitable by saying always yes khit nahihirapan. I like this article sis. This could be a great entry to make.