"Getting through a BREAK UP"
What's up ladies and gents? How's you day this last Wednesday of the month? What are the things that made you busy? How's your holdings or earnings there? I bet, everyone are very much excited for tomorrow's recap time kind of articles. I am pretty sure of that, especially that there's a little pump of the current Bitcoin Cash. As for me? I might not include it because upon looking my Bitcoin wallet, I only have small amount being stored in there. For all you know, I just withdrawn it for an important reason. Still not a bad decision.
Anyways, yesterday I have published an article regarding the types of person after a break up and I am very sorry for I really forgot to mention about a type of person that can easily get through with it. And the ones who accept that it happened. Real time, big time! As for today's blog, let me share with you some tips on how to get through a BREAK UP. Of course my dear brothers and sisters, this piece is based on a Tiktok content that I saw just this morning. I just can't think of a good topic to write as of this moment. For some of you here already knew that I am currently having a fight with my partner. But yeah, I should go on and I chose to divert my attention through writing and spending my time in here, hoping that it can ease a little of my pain. (Sigh)
So, without any further ado, bare with me for I will be going to start our discussion. Lols. XD (Teacher feels yarn?? Haha)
Cry it out.
- Just cry and cry until your eyes run dry. "Iyak lang nang iyak." I tried it myself. Effective naman siya sa'kin. Maybe it depends on us. Ako kasi, crying for me is my best medicine. Like, everytime I have problems that really breaking me down, I just cry. And it so happens that the other night, I did it. The next day, I felt so relieved. Gumaan pakiramdam ko talaga, especially that I prayed and cry it out to God.
Cut them off.
- This is not easy, but if you want to really get through a break up, you have to cut them off. Like, deleting pictures, unfriended them, deleting their contacts. Keep or throw out the things that he/she gave to you which makes you you think of him/her. That way, I think it can help you to easily forget about him/her.
Distract yourself.
- Find new things that can make you busy. Find new hobbies. Try new things that you've never tried before. Work out or you travel to other places, especially those places that will calm yourself, where you can relax, unwind, and that can give yourself a peace of mind. Because when you are distracted, you can easily forget them.
Focus on yourself.
- This is where self love starts. You can find your worth and you should put in mind that you don't deserve the pain they have caused you and never let that happen again.
Remember that there are a lot of amazing people.
- Always remember that there are a lot of amazing people out there. Whether you like it or not, time will come that you will meet someone that will treat you right. Don't close your doors.
Be kind and gentle to yourself.
- Healing takes time. God's time will heal you. Don't hurt yourself. Don't torture yourself. Don't do things that can cause you pain, like stalking him/her on social media. No! Don't do that. You will just be hurting yourself if you do it, especially when you found out that he/she has a new one. Huhu.
Everything happens for a reason.
- Know that everything happened for a reason. Even you still don't know what really is the reason. Losing that person is not a loss. Sooner or later, you will realize that you made the right choice.
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Did you get it? I have come to questioned myself, "Can I apply it to myself, if ever it might happen to me?" Aigoo! Erase, erase, erase. Have you noticed, almost all of my articles this week is all about relationship. Lols. Let's enjoy life like our own. I'm working on it for the betterment of myself. Selfish yarn? No! I just learned to value myself more than anything else. So, that would all be all for this blog my Readcash fam. Thank you for spending your time. Take good care of yourselves!❣️
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MAY THE GRACE OF THE LORD BE WITH ALL GOD'S PEOPLE!😇
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|#234| 29th Article of the Month
|03.30.2022 @4: 53 PM|
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