Bad day
Let me just take a breath. This morning I wasn't in my good disposition. It's because my wallet has gone while I went back home. I was on the market buying food for breakfast and launch. I roam around the market to find a good quality vegetables. Good thing I found fresh squash and eggplant.
I just bought ingredients like onions, garlic, and other seasonings. I also bought 1/2 Lolo of pork. I've just also included chicken breast and crispy fry. What a delicious breakfast for us. But it has a opposite outcome. When I reach at home that time i realized my wallet was gone. I speculate that it was fall down while I'm riding my bike. That's was so sad indeed. It's because the amount of change left was about 500php. That's $10 of total.
What should I do now? What should I reason out to my father? I try to go back to where did I goes by. I also try to asked some people put there but they responded they've nothing found that money. Well, if someone saw my wallet I know for some reason they'll not return it anymore but I'm not generalizing. There are those who are good in heart. They have emphaty about the feeling of lossing our wallet.
Unfortunately, there's nothing return to me so expectedly my wallet won't get back at me. So, I'll just move on, and tell my father what happens. My got disappointed at me that time. He just said that amount of money can sustain us for three days or a week. He said I'm so reckless that even the most important thing I didn't care. So, i explained that it was not my intention to lost your money dad. It's an accident.
Even though it was impossible to find I still roam the palace where I passed by. I watched left and right. Ask people, interrogate them. But sad to say I went home without nothing. So, I'll just transformed my disposition. And I think that someone found my wallet and didn't return it. It's really hurt for me coz forst of all it's not mine. Im so regrettable that time coz that money is came from my father's sweat. He strive all day on rice field. He works for us.
Hope that who ever found my wallet hell definitely use also those amount to help her/his family. It's okay not to bring back that money and use it to help her/his family. That will satisfy also me. I'm life there are things that immediately gone without any valid reasons. We must be careful on everything we had. Alot of individual who has no sentiment for how does it feels like lossing one of the important things I'm life.
We are still fortunate cause we survived
Hello, there people! How are you? What's the condition of the weather? Well here in our area it seems that the rains gradually stop. But that's not the indication the the storm is leaving. It's still there. We must be careful. While scrolling in fb I saw horrible phenomena happened. Due to our place is saturated with rain expected that every land or soil is getting soft.
It's getting worst. This typhoon has a unique movement than the previous cause it remains for almost two days of raining. I'm not sure if that exactly what I count. Correct me if I'm wrong. Why does our country seems to often visited by some horrible typhoon? We all know that we are facing the western part of the Pacific and majority of the typhoon formed were came from there. I our case we immediately evacuated our area seems the water level is elevates.
My mother told us to keep our luggage immediately. We are very fortunate for having our neighborhood such a good heart. They let us stay in their abode for how many hours until the typhoon stops. They gave us food and water. I couldn't imagine where should we stay if they're not good. Other people seems to have a good heart especially helping in times of trouble.
I'm so thankful to above for he gives us people such a good heart. But the typhoon seems not to leave us cause the sky is darker as before and whirlwind is still there. What in the earth? Why does this typhoon leaves us? Is Agaton stays here forever? In some reasons there two more consecutive storms will follow. Now, we are still fortunate cause there are no lives has put into an end. But due to misfortune one woman is in great danger. She was accidentally dropped by a live wire and it hits on her umbrella while walking.
God is still working for she was able to survive dispite of that incident. There are good people who saw her and rashly call an ambulance to help her. The General Hospital is trying there best to accommodate and save her. Fortunately, she is in good condition right now. We have no idea about our future so we must also think that everything we make step be sure to have a good faith with him. You know what I mean it's God.
In some point typhoons are reminders for us that there is a powerful being who have control. Well, if you believe in scriptures you'll believe also that he can make calamities such as earthquakes, storms, tsunami and everything that is beyond the control of man. Flood also has different cause it might be the consequences of the wrong habits of a person, such as throwing garbage in river and canals. It can cause stuck of flow of water and when heavy rains come it will flood. God also give punishment through flood. The main evidence of that is when God make a worldwide flood that only the paired animals and Noah's family has survive.
It is how it works about flood with two different cause. Infact there so many things that a man cause flood. Cutting trees also is one of the main reason behind uncontrollable flood. It us who can make through with this, let's perform what's the appropriate thing to do. Let's collaborate to each other and help. Offer a helping hands while you're at a steadfast moment cause that strength will have an end. So, if times come that we need help people whom we helped before will remember us. Our help is vice versa.
Right now I'm still helping my brother in cleaning messy things that Agaton leaves. But first, I just bought snacks for our prolong general clean cause we started for almost 5:00am and until now we still making things clear. You might think that why I'm writing? Is there exception to you brother while cleaning? Of course no hehe, I told him that I need to write first my content for this day.
Yes, he knows about this platform but he doesn't have any interest in making articles. He said it will just give him headache, hehe, 😅. He doesn't know how to compose single paragraph. I've already told him that it has a huge income but he wasn't fascinated despite of that. Anyways, he has his own income in restaurant as a service crew.
Life is about creating yourself
I don’t know about you, but every year I try to do a little better than the last. We learn new things, make mistakes, experience setbacks, and have breakthroughs. Life often seems like the ebb and flow of a wave, however, amid all of this chaos, if you try hard enough you can manage to make a lot of progress. So much so that you turn around and can hardly believe how far you came in a single year.
But it takes work. And you need to be willing to do the work from the moment the New Year or resolutions starts if you want to create a real transformation in your life. Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.
It’s important mentally to leave the year behind. A lot happened, I’m sure, and you probably had your fair share of challenges, but if you hope to make progress this year you need to leave this all behind. This could be something as simple as taking a short walk on the beach and allowing yourself to let the past rest behind you.
Set goals for the year or reevaluate them if you already have. What do you want to accomplish this year? You won’t get very far if you’re not clear on what you want. List important assets you need to accomplish those goals. Chances are, you don’t have everything you need to accomplish your goals. Make a list and figure how you’ll acquire the assets you need to do that such as skills, new contacts, and others.
Reach out to one person that can move your career forward. This is all about building professional connections. Most of us have a hard time bringing ourselves to make that initial contact, let alone build entire new relationships with people. This is about taking that initial step, everything else tends to happen naturally from there, because we’re motivated to continue.
**Perform an act of kindness**
You’ll notice this doesn’t seem to fit with the theme of this week. However, I’ve found that most of us have lost touch with or never knew the power of helping others without expecting anything in return. This knowledge, and the understanding that you always have the ability to exercise it, doesn’t just make you happier and more fulfilled, it can serve you in your career in a big way. Such acts of kindness are the perfect way to start off a long and beautiful business relationship or personal connection.
Closing thoughts
The Near Year is a chance to start fresh and do something you have never done before. But if your goal is to make real progress, then you have to be willing to do what’s necessary. It takes hard work, persistence to make this thirty-day challenge happen. But if you do? You’ll be strapped to a rocket and ready to make this the best year of your entire life. Whether you follow this thirty-day challenge to adapt your own, use this as a framework for creating the change you want to see in your life this year.
Never give up
Hello guys today I'll share with about If money is your goal, never give up. Do something every day that moves you toward your most important goal. This is a vital success principle that generates energy and enthusiasm. For you to maintain your courage, confidence, and self-motivation, you must be doing something every single day that gives you a feeling of forward motion and progress. Your job is to build yourself up to the point where you genuinely feel unstoppable, and the only way that you can do this is by refusing to stop, by doing something daily.
Resolve in advance that you will never quit once you have started toward your goal. No matter how many setbacks or obstacles you experience, make the decision that you will keep on picking yourself up and persisting until you eventually succeed.
By deciding in advance that you will persist, no matter what the difficulty, you give yourself a mindful edge. When the difficulties do arise, you will be mentally prepared to plow through them rather than quitting. Your willingness and ability to persist are what will eventually guarantee your success.
If money is your goal, remember that most of the people who are wealthy today started out with no money at all, or even deeply in debt. Almost everyone who is on the top today was once at the bottom. Almost everyone who is at the front of the line of life was once at the back of the line. Almost everyone who is wealthy today was once poor.
Most of the rich people in the world are self-made. That is, they started out with nothing and worked their way up. Our world today has alot of rich people. Many of these are people who started with little or nothing, and by changing their thinking, they unleashed their own inner potentials to achieve extraordinary financial results. And almost anything that anyone else has done, within reason, you can do as well.
Imagine your perfect lifestyle, if you were financially independent and you could live any way and anywhere you wanted, what would you change? Take action on your plan immediately. Once you have started, discipline yourself to do something every day that moves you toward that goal. Never miss a day until you have achieved it.
*Are you in earnest? Seek this very minute, Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it. Only engage and the mind grows heated. Begin and then the task will be completed.*
Dream big dreams
You begin the process of becoming unstoppable by dreaming big dreams. Since everything you create in your world begins with a thought, the bigger the dreams you dream, the bigger the goals you will achieve. All successful men and women are dreamers.
They continually allow their minds to float freely when they think about what is possible for them. They look at the unlimited blue sky above them as the only limit to everything and anything that they could possibly be, or have or do.
Successful people continually practice ''back from the future'' thinking. They project into the future several years and imagine what their lives would look like if they had achieved all of their goals.
They look back to the present, from the mental vantage point of the future, like looking from the top of a high mountain down to where they are actually standing in the valley, in the present. They then look at the path that they would have to take to get to where they want to be in the future.
You should therefore visualize your goals with as much clarity and vividness as possible. Visualize your goals *intensely* and create within yourself the same feeling that you would have if you had already achieved your goals.
*Visualize* your goals frequently. Replay a picture of your goal, as if you had already realized it, on the screen of your mind as many times a day as you possibly can. Visualize your goals for as long as you possibly can, preferably just before falling asleep each night.
The more skilled you become at moving from the dream through the goal to the visualization, the more motivated and determined you will be. The more clarity you develop, the more courage and confidence you will have, and the more unstoppable you will become.
The most important part of dreaming big dreams is for you to define your ideal *future vision.* It is for you to think about what you *want* before you begin to think about what is *possible* for you.You dream big dreams by looking into the future and imagining that you have no limitations holding you back from achieving anything you set your mind on.
Detach yourself from your current situation and allow yourself to dream. Pretend for the moment that you have all the time and money you need.
Imagine that you have all the connections and contacts, all the resources and opportunities, all the education and knowledge, all the skills and experience that you require to be, have, or do anything that you could dream of.
Imagine your ideal lifestyle. Imagine your ideal job or income. Imagine where you would like to live and how you would like to spend each day, each week, each month. Imagine your ideal family life. Imagine your ideal state of health. Design your perfect life in every respect.
Most people are held back by their self-limiting beliefs.The way you burst these mental chains is with a dream list.The very fact that you can write down something that you would love to have someday means that you probably have within you, right now, the ability to achieve it. Let your mind float freely as you write. There will be lots of time to organize and evaluate your dreams later.
If you were absolutely guaranteed of success in the achievement of any one goal, big or small, long-term or short-term, what would it be? If a billionaire took a liking to you and offered to write you a check to cover any goal that you could clearly define, what one goal would you choose?
The path to forgiveness
The way you forgive is simple. Each time you think of the other person, you use the Law of Substitution and say, *''God bless him/her; I forgive him/her for everything, and I wish him/her well.''* It is not possible to bless and forgive another person and simultaneously be angry or upset. The positive thought cancels out the negative thought.
You can speed up the process of personal liberation by accepting responsibility for your share of what happened. Very few negative events that lead to anger and resentment occur in a vacuum. Almost invariably, you did something to contribute to the situation. You therefore need to have the maturity to take your share of the responsibility.
You can then say, *''I am responsible. I shouldn't have gotten into the situation in the first place, or stayed in so long. I should not have done what I did. I forgive him/her completely and let it go.''*
It may be difficult for you to forgive at first.These words will be hard for you. Many people have built their entire adult lives around their grievances. They are afraid that they will have nothing else to talk about if they stop complaining about their parents or their bad marriages. But don't worry.
When you forgive others and let them go, you soon begin to feel lighter and happier. As the thoughts of anger and resentment fade away, your mind will fill with positive thoughts.You will have more energy and enthusiasm. You will feel stronger and more confident.Your whole future will open up before you, like a summer sunrise.
Don't worry about what your friends think or say when you decide to forgive people who have hurt you.They are probably tired of hearing your complaints about the unfortunate events of your past. In fact, when you start forgiving, you will often find that the only common bond between you and certain people is your gripe sessions. When you decide to forgive others, you may no longer find them very interesting to talk to.
Learn to forget negative emotions, always prevails positive. It may enhance yourself and ease from being wrapped by the problems. For me it's better to forgive than to remain our great hatred in our heart. It will just affect our mental state. Never mind those minor mistakes. Everybody have that mistakes, so we should always be aware of our thoughts. Learn to forgive. Although many people won't forgive cause the people who committed mistakes doesn't repent their mistakes. They just choose to remain in silence, like they don't do anything. So, let just be aware of our actions.
Changing the quality of thinking
Changing the quality of thinking. The way you think and feel about yourself, including your beliefs and expectations about what is possible for you, determines everything you do and everything that happens to you.When you change the quality of your thinking, you change the quality of your life, sometimes instantly.
Positive thoughts are life enhancing. They *empower* you and make you feel stronger and more confident. Positive thinking is not just a motivational idea. It has measurable, constructive effects on your personality, your health, your levels of energy, and your creativity. The more positive and optimistic you are, the happier you will be in every area of your life.
Negative thoughts bring about the opposite. They *disempower* you and make you feel weaker and less confident. Whenever you think or say something negative, you give your power away. You feel angry and defensive. You feel frustrated and unhappy. Over time, negative thinking can make you physically ill, and even poison your relationships. Positive thinking leads to mental health and peak performance. Negative thinking leads to mental illness and decreased effectiveness. Your goal, therefore, if you want to live a wonderful life, is to cultivate positive emotions and get rid of negative emotions.
The elimination of negative emotions is the most important single step you can take toward health, happiness, and personal wellbeing. Each time you take complete control over your thoughts and feelings, and discipline yourself to keep them positive, the quality of both your inner and outer lives improves. In the absence of negative emotions, your mind automatically fills with the positive emotions that generate feelings of happiness and fulfillment.
*''Your mind can hold only one thought at a time, positive or negative.You can substitute a positive thought for a negative thought whenever you choose.''* *You can apply this law by deliberately thinking about something positive whenever you want to cancel out a thought or feeling that makes you angry or unhappy.*
Your negative emotions have all been learned, beginning in childhood. And what has been learned can be unlearned, sometimes quite quickly.You can learn any habit or skill that you consider to be either desirable or necessary. Especially, you can learn positive, constructive ways of thinking about people, money, health, and other factors to cancel out negative ideas that limit your potential and interfere with your success.
Many negative ideas or attitudes are based on false premises. Sometimes a negative idea about a subject, or a negative attitude toward a person, can be completely reversed with a single piece of new information. You could suddenly learn that an idea you had about yourself or another person was not true. As a result, you could change your thinking in an instant. Be open to this possibility.
Justification is what you need.
Justification is what you do when you rationalize or create a reason for your anger and unhappiness.You tell yourself, and whoever else will listen, how badly you were treated and how dreadfully the other person behaved. You continually rehash the situation in your mind.You repeat all the reasons you have for being upset. Each time you think of the person or situation, you become angry.You feel entitled to your anger, as if you have paid a high price for it, especially since, in your estimation, you were such a good and virtuous person.
I like myself
The most powerful words you can repeat to yourself, especially if you are feeling tense or uneasy about an upcoming event, are the words, ''I like myself! I like myself! I like myself!''
Whenever you say, ''I like myself!'' your fears diminish and your courage increases. The words, ''I like myself!'' are so powerful and positive that they are immediately accepted by your mind as a command. They instantly affect your thoughts, feelings, and attitudes.Your body language immediately improves, and you stand straighter.Your face becomes more positive and cheerful.Your tone of voice becomes stronger and more confident.You feel better about yourself, and as a result, you treat everyone around you in a warmer, friendlier way.
You begin the process of changing your thinking and changing your life by going to work on your self-concept.You start by developing a clear, positive, exciting, and inspiring self-ideal, consistent with the very best person you can imagine yourself becoming. You develop a positive self-image by imagining yourself performing at your very best in everything you do. Finally, you develop high and unshakable levels of self-esteem by loving and accepting yourself unconditionally as a valuable and worthwhile person.
Most of your thoughts and your responses to the events and people of your life are determined by your *basic premises.* These are the ideas, beliefs, opinions, and conclusions you have come to as the result of inputs and experiences starting in childhood.They constitute not only your self-concept, but also your *philosophy of life*.The more you refuse and convinced you are of your basic premises, the more they predict and control everything you do, say, and feel.
If you believe yourself to be an excellent person, loaded with talent and ability, friendly and popular, healthy and energetic, curious and creative, and destined to have a wonderful life, these basic premises will lead you to set goals, work hard, develop yourself, treat others well, bounce back from hardship in life, and ultimately succeed. Nothing will be able to stop you in the long run.
It is not what happens to you in life that is important. It is only *how you react* to what happens. It doesn't matter where you're coming from, either. All that really matters is where you are going. And where you are going is limited only by your own imagination. And since your imagination is unlimited, your future is unlimited as well. These are the basic premises and beliefs you need to fulfill your potential.
Unfortunately, there are several myths that we accept as we grow up that can sabotage our hopes for success, joy, and fulfillment later in life. Let's look at these self-limiting beliefs one at a time.
The correct basic premise for you to develop, or belief for you to have, is that not only are you good enough, but you have the ability to be excellent in any area that is important to you.You have unlimited potential to be, do, and have more than you have ever achieved up to now.
The most powerful words in your vocabulary are the words that you say to yourself and believe.Your self-talk, your inner dialogue, determines all your emotions.When you talk to yourself, your subconscious mind accepts these words as commands. It then adjusts your behavior, your self-image, and your body language to fit a pattern consistent with those words.
From now on, talk to yourself only in terms of what you want to be and do. *Refuse to say anything about yourself that you do not sincerely desire to be true.*. Repeat the powerful, positive words, ''I can do it!'' over and over. Prior to any event of importance, repeat the words, ''I like myself!'' Say, ''I'm the best! I'm the best! I'm the best!'' again and again like you really mean it.Then, stand up straight and strong, put a confident smile on your face, and do the very best of which you are capable. Soon it will become a habit
Could you be a perfect person in every way
Imagine that you could be earning twice as much as you are earning today. Imagine that you could be living in a bigger house, driving a better car, and enjoying a more expensive lifestyle.
Imagine that you have the ability to be one of the top people in your field. Imagine that you are one of the most popular, powerful, and persuasive personalities in your social and business world. Imagine that you are calm, confident, and unafraid of anything. Imagine that you could set and achieve any goal you put your mind to. This is how you begin changing your thinking and changing your life.
The starting point of eliminating your fears, and releasing your potential, is to reprogram your mental hard drive with new, positive, constructive, and courageous beliefs about yourself and your future.
Your self-concept has three parts, like a pie divided into three wedges. Each is linked with each of the others. All three elements together make up your personality.They largely determine what you think, feel, and do, and everything that happens to you.
Your *self-ideal* is the first part of your personality and your selfconcept. Your self-ideal is made up of all of your hopes, dreams, visions, and ideals.Your self-ideal is composed of the virtues, values, and qualities that you most admire in yourself and others. Your self-ideal is the person you would most like to become, if you could be a perfect person in every way. These ideals guide and shape your behavior.
Great men and women, leaders, and people of character are very clear about their values, visions, and ideals. They know who they are and what they believe in.They set high standards for themselves, and they don't compromise those standards. They are men and women that others can look up to and depend on.They are definite and distinct in their interactions with others. In everything they do, they strive to live up to their ideals.
The second part of your self-concept is your *self-image.* This is the way you see yourself and think about yourself. It is often called your ''inner mirror.'' It is where you look internally to see how you should behave in a particular situation. Because of the power of your self-image, you always perform on the *outside* consistent with the picture you have of yourself on the *inside.*
All improvement in your life begins with an improvement in your mental pictures.Your internal images influence your emotions, your behaviors, your attitudes, and even the way other people respond to you. The development of a positive self-image is a vital part of changing your thinking and changing your life.
The third part of your self-concept is your *self-esteem.* This is the emotional component of your personality, and is the most important factor in determining how you think, feel, and behave. Your level of self-esteem largely determines much of what happens to you in life.
Your self-esteem is best defined as *how much you like yourself.* The more you like yourself, the better you perform at anything you attempt. And by the law of reversibility, the better you perform, the more you like yourself.
The more you like yourself, the bigger the goals you will set for yourself and the longer you will persist in achieving them. People with high self-esteem are virtually unstoppable.
Your level of self-esteem determines the quality of your relationships with others. The more you like and respect yourself, the more you like and respect others and the better they feel toward you. In your business life and career, your personal level of self-esteem will be the critical factor that determines whether or not people will buy from you, hire you, enter into business dealings with you, and even lend you money.
Something amazing happened
Once upon a time there was a woman, about 30 years old, married with two children. Like many people, she had grown up in a home where she was constantly criticized and often treated unfairly by her parents. As a result, she developed deep feelings of inferiority and low self-esteem.
She was negative and fearful, and had no confidence at all. She was shy and self-effacing, and did not consider herself to be particularly valuable or worthwhile. She felt that she was not really talented at anything.
One day, as she was driving to the store, another car went through a red light and smashed into her.When she awoke, she was in the hospital with a mild concussion and complete memory loss. She could still speak, but she had no recollection of any part of her past life. She was a total amnesia.
At first, the doctors thought it would be temporary. But weeks passed and no trace of her memory returned. Her husband and children visited her daily, but she did not know them. This was such an unusual case that other doctors and specialists came to visit her as well, to test her and ask her questions about her condition.
Eventually, she went home, her memory a complete blank. Determined to understand what had happened to her, she began reading medical textbooks and studying in the specialized area of amnesia and memory loss. She met and spoke with specialists in this field. Eventually she wrote a paper on her condition. Not long afterward, she was invited to address a medical convention to deliver her paper, answer questions about her amnesia, and share her experiences and ideas on neurological functioning.
During this period, something amazing happened. *She became a new person completely.* All the attention in the hospital and afterward made her feel valuable, important, and truly loved by her family. The attention and acclaim she received from members of the medical profession built her self-esteem and self-respect even higher. She became a genuinely positive, confident, outgoing woman, highly articulate, well informed, and very much in demand as a speaker and authority in the medical profession.
All memory of her negative childhood had been wiped out. Her feelings of inferiority were wiped out as well. She became a new person. She changed her thinking and changed her life.
There's a moral lesson behind this wonderful story. The woman seems to eliminate those negative sentiment on her heart. The most important is that she was transmogrify her personality. What a lovely story.
Thanks for reading guys hope you enjoy it. By the way it is just fictional story.
I have sleepless nights
Every successful person has experienced countless temporary setbacks, obstacles, and even outright defeats, in the course of his or her life. But it has been the ability to respond positively and constructively to these defeats and to bounce back that ultimately has assured success. This quality of bouncing rather than breaking will determine your success as well.
If you are a normal, intelligent person, you will organize each area of your life to avoid failure and disappointment as much as possible. You will think ahead and anticipate what could go wrong. You will then take the necessary precautions to guard against setbacks and problems.You will weigh and balance different options. You will select the course of action that offers the greatest likelihood of success.
Disappointment comes unbidden. Disappointment comes in spite of your best efforts to avoid it. Disappointment is inevitable and unavoidable. As sure as the sun rises in the east and sets in the west, you are going to experience disappointments in life. And the more goals you set and the more things you try, the more difficulties and problems you will have.
Since you can't always avoid disappointment, no matter what you do, the only thing that matters is how you deal with the disappointment when it comes upon you, unwanted and unexpected. Do you let it overwhelm you? Do you blow up, become angry, and blame or attack other people? Or do you roll with the punches, and respond effectively?
Successful people deal with disappointment by taking it in stride. Unsuccessful people allow disappointment to stop them. Successful people recover and continue forward. Unsuccessful people often quit and go back. Motivational speaker Charlie Jones says, *''It's not how far you fall but how high you bounce that counts!''*
Most negative emotions are triggered by frustrated expectations.You wish, hope, or plan for something to happen in a certain way, and when it doesn't, you react with impatience and anger. This is quite normal. If you care about a result, you are going to be hurt if you don't achieve it.
The challenge is that emotions are triggered instantaneously. For this reason, you can have very little control over your emotions and reactions at the moment that something happens to you. It is too late. When the disappointment occurs, you will react instinctively and habitually, depending on your previous experiences. When things go wrong, it is too late for you to think of fine and noble thoughts.You simply react.
One of the best ways to change your thinking, and your life, is to prepare for disappointment in advance. Set yourself up to bounce back quickly by practicing mental prepreparation.
Mental preparation enables you to prepare internally for the inevitable disappointments of life and work, even though you do not know what they are or when they will come. This is one of the most powerful of all thinking techniques that you can use to gain and keep control of your emotions, assuring that they are primarily positive and constructive, no matter what happens.
This trial by endurance seems to go with the territory. Every time you try to be or do something more or different, problems of all kinds will arise in your path. If you are not prepared in advance, they can discourage you and drive you back into your comfort zone.
Instead of waiting for the inevitable problems to occur, you mentally prepare for these inevitable difficulties before they happen. You say to yourself: *''Today I will face all kinds of ups and downs, difficulties and setbacks, but I will not let them get me down. Once I start toward my goal, I will be unstoppable!''*
It's base on your mindset
Put ruling values at the base of the goal-setting procedure. Each goal needs to be linked specifically to a regulating value. For instance, if variety in the workforce is a value espoused by your organization, then, at any rate, one goal must further variety. Each goal ought to be linked to a regulating value. Short-run, mid-term and long-run goals are then based on the solid foundation of your values. If the goal you set is congruent with and lets you live your most significant values, you're more likely to achieve the goal.
Arrange goals in all aspects of your life, to sustain your life balance. The balance likewise helps you achieve goals as every aspect of your life is exemplified in your goals. You're less likely to go through warring priorities if each aspect of your life has a value-based goal. Arrange goals in these areas.
✓ Loved ones and Home
✓ Financial and Occupation
✓ Spiritual and Moral
✓ Physical and Wellness
✓ Sociable and Cultural
✓ Mental and Education
Till one is committed, there's reluctance, the opportunity to pull away, always ineffectiveness. Regarding all acts of initiative and creation, there's one primary truth the ignorance of which obliterates countless ideas and brilliant plans: that the minute one decidedly commits oneself, then providence moves also. All types of things happen to help one that would never otherwise have happened. A whole river of events comes forth from the decision, raising in one's favor all fashion of unexpected incidents, meetings and material help which no man could have dreamed would have come his way. Whatever you are able to do, or dream you can, start it! Nerve has genius, magic, and power in it.
Trust you are able to achieve the goal:
Each of us bears a little voice in our head. It's the voice of our subconscious mind, judging self. On a day-to-day basis, we lock in self-talk; we judge every situation we encounter. We talk about events and plans in our minds. Our commentary is both favorable and damaging. Favorable ideas and planning support the achievement of our goals. Damaging ideas and comments sabotage our self-respect and self-assurance, and negatively affect our ability to achieve our goals.
Hear your voice. You are able to alter its tone by trusting in yourself and in your ability to achieve your goals and resolutions. Utilize this unconscious critic to positively confirm your goal setting success. Paint a brilliant final result. Traditionally, goals were instituted around measurable results. This works well if the results are measurable. Don’t tie yourself to arranging only measurable goals, however; you might find yourself centering on the trivial, as it's measurable, instead of on your most significant results. Occasionally the most significant goals, the non-urgent, vital goals, are difficult to measure.
"Research alternatives for a business in the net”, is hard to measure, whereas the steps, when you make a conclusion, are simple to measure. “Study about fresh options and thinking around performance management”, is hard to measure in any substantial way. The following step, “design a fresh assessment system”, is simpler to specify and measure. With goals that are difficult to measure, begin with a picture in your brain, that you place on paper, that describes the result you're looking for. Make the picture as brilliant as you are able to.
In the quest of your goals, you'll without doubt face matters that swerve you off track. It's all right to be frustrated in the process. Face your letdown, learn how to cope with it, but don't let yourself be plagued by it. As long as you carry out the VIPER model, you'll experience success with your goals. Regardless of how hard a goal may appear to be, it will be possible to accomplish it.
If you feel the goal appears unattainable, it's because you haven’t uncovered the fundamental set of patterns and paths that let you accomplish it. When you successfully do that, you'll find that the goal is exceedingly accessible. Remember that the earth’s most successful individuals have set huge goals and accomplished them as they kept their steadfast vision. When you properly draw up the map associating you to your end destination, all it takes is doggedness before you finally accomplish your goals. As you go after your goals, remember to savor the journey. Goal accomplishment is but one stop; the journey is the longest of the whole procedure. You must savor your journey.
Curiosity lead us to try
There are things that are beyond on our prior knowledge. We can't figure out what's beyond our control. Curiosity leads us to try something different. Something unique, for us. It takes us from upliftment or downfall. Sometimes our curiosity gives us happiness and negative results. You know successful people have the curiosity.
Mark Zuckerberg and other people who come up with curiosity tend to have a bright future. There imagination is out of their timeline. One reason why Facebook exist is that Mark Zuckerberg have company collaborating each other to come with the idea of Facebook. He is one of the most biggest earnings in the entire globe.
Billions of dollars goes to him. I never know how did he spent that amount of money but there's only one thing that we can expect from, he raise funds to help people in community. This guy is amazing. Maybe he is destined to be a billionaire. He just stated on his speech in one of the most prestigious institution that with his colleagues he can't even build the idea of social media, Facebook.
Curiosity also leads him to discover more. It has a big help for him. Curiosity drives towards our hierarchy of success. We might know that it is crucial to have curious on a thing. We have to find out what's our inner thoughts. It's an advantage to have curious cause it leads you to do steps on obtaining our goals.
Long time ago, before the civilization begin. The curiosity begins only to those people who have shape the world right. They are philosophers, mathematicians, ancient astronomers and many more. Because of their curious to the things that is observable here inside and outside of the globe. They tend to study more on facts rather than opinion. Why is it there is day and night?
It one thing that drives them to gather empirical evidence and come to their conclusions. I believe also to those mathematicians before like Isaac Newton, contributes what we are seeing now, buildings infrastructure and other stuff that is related to mathematics. It so astonishing that there are numerous of people who strive hard just to justify their own theory about the things.
I'm so grateful for them cause our civilization right is getting improvement. Scientist and other people who are responsible for the invention of gadgets and other high tech stuff. It makes the lives of every people more convenient and free from ease. There curiosity is indeed important role to come up with their ideas. Imagine if they don't have curiosity to various things happening ?
I might think that we are still living in a supreme ancient way of living. Curiosity gives us hit to get rid of our apprehensions. We can't guarantee that our speculation is true. We must try and get some ideas to prove that we have the right credence on our theory. Sometimes we have to learn from our experience.
Closing thoughts
Just like when we are young ones, we tend to explore places and try to find rivers and seas just to have fun with our friends. In my experience our company really curious about monsters in the river. Old people from our barrio always insist that there monster in the river. There are number of children died because monsters will drown kids in the river. So, my friends are really curious.
We decided to play and have fun in the river. We go to the deepest part of the river. Although, we have so much apprehensions on that time. What if monsters will attack and drown us? After an hour of waiting no one tries to harm us. So, we concluded that those monsters are just a myth. It is not true. We are happy to tell other kids that the monsters are not true. But, my grandfather scolded us. That day we are prohibited to go in the river and also we are not allowed go farther.
Keep going
Motivation makes you feel as though you're full of life and ready to accomplish anything you have to in order to accomplish the goals that you've set for yourself. **Keep Going** Motivation, we're all giving chase to it, but few of us comprehend it, or why we lose it first of all.
What is implied by motivation?Motivation is the innate desire to accomplish a goal, blended with the passion and vitality to work towards accomplishing that goal. People who are motivated have a want to take on fresh ventures and satisfy the requirements essential to finish the undertaking. Motivation is a characteristic that we all need in order to accomplish anything in our lives. Without motivation, we'd all merely give up at the slimmest inclination of hardship. Motivation is the initiator that inspires and encourages us to be our finest.
Somebody who's motivated will do anything it takes to be successful in accomplishing their goals. Motivation may alter your life by inspiring you to get everything you wish out of life, regardless of what others try to tell you. It's possible for somebody who's stricken by poverty to become motivated and turn everything around into a life of abundance.
Motivation provides us the passion that we require to start exploring our options in life as well as the bravery to see these aspirations through to reality. If you're distressed with your present situation, it's most likely due to the fact that your present situation doesn't motivate you.
You have to take it upon yourself to determine what it is that you really want out of life. Consider the type of lifestyle that you wish to lead and the sort of career you wish. When you know what makes you happy and alter your life center, you'll be excited to leap out of bed each morning. Why we drop off our motivation,
Three basic factors lead to the loss of our motivation, they are:
Deficiency of direction. You won't be motivated to accomplish your goals if you don't understand what those goals are.
Deficiency of self-confidence. Trusting you'll fail is the best way to see to it.
Deficiency of focus. Not recognizing what it is that you wish will lead to wondering if you ever wish anything at all.
If you lack motivation, you likewise lack ambition, exuberance, and zest. Motivation makes you feel as though you're full of life and prepared to do anything you have to in order to accomplish the goals that you've set for yourself.
When you discover your motivation, you'll be more pleased, you'll have more vitality and you'll be able to see the favorable results clearly in your brain.
You have to enhance the motivation inside you and waken your inner power to push yourself in the direction of accomplishing your aspirations, regardless of how great or small they might be.
Closing thoughts
Arrange goals. If you arrange goals for yourself, discovering the motivation to accomplish those goals will come easier. Complete everything you begin. Make a promise to yourself that regardless of what occurs, you have to always arrive at the finish line. Unify with like minds. Favorable attitudes appear to be contagious. Encircle yourself with like-minded individuals who have the motivation that you seek. Don't postpone for tomorrow what you are able to get accomplished today. If you dilly-dally, you'll get lazy and lose all motivation to succeed.
Never quit. Patience and doggedness to keep going and remain strong regardless of what comes along will provide you the motivation you require to succeed. Perpetually remind yourself that you are able to win. Envision your goals and how pleased you'll be when you've everything you wish.
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Are you familiar with your V-i-p-e-r
Are you familiar with Viper? Well, let's find out what it stands for. It's just an acrynms of something that represent significant idea.
V isualize: Truly visualize the goal
I mplement: Implement techniques to succeed in the goal
P lanning: distinguish plan factors based on the techniques
E xecution: Get moving on the plan and goal
R ecap: evaluate the outcome and future steps
VIPER is actually a term that is used for several different things, snakes, cars airplane....things with power. With VIPER, you’ll discover that it gives you the might to crack even what appeared to be the most difficult goals in the past.
Goals you never believed doable will begin coming within your reach, and in a matter of time, subdued. I personally accomplish my goals and it's worked marvels in achieving my goals.
Don't let the simpleness of the model fool you. While these five steps appear very easy by themselves, they're the core of successful goal achievements, particularly for big goals where the What and How toward accomplishing them becomes subtle.
That being stated, VIPER isn't a miracle pill which omits the hard work to accomplish goals. VIPER isn't an elixir which lets you accomplish your goals without hoisting a finger. At the end of the day, you still need to put in the time and energy for your goals.
But with VIPER, you'll discover the goal accomplishment to be significantly simpler. Rather than success being a random, hit or miss event, it will become a predictable, securable outcome.
You'll begin seeing your goals come to fruition and wonder why you fought so long with them in the first place.
**VIPER**, You frequently see a lot of other self-help authors expounding different techniques to goal accomplishment. A few discuss how goal accomplishment is all about not shilly shallying, being motivated, relentless, self-disciplined, just doing it, etc.
At best, these can be fluffy, air-filled techniques for goals. While these tools are crucial to being sure, they don't provide you any insights as to what precisely are the central steps required to accomplish your goals.
Doggedness and want may take you far, but they may only take you so far without a suitable strategy to hold everything united.
You surely can't rely on doggedness and want alone to accomplish your big goals. A smarter, more integrated approach is required instead of simply haphazardly trying different things.
Things to recognize about VIPER:
Good for any goal. What goals are you going after? Getting a job you love? Slimming down? Increasing hits on your blog? Arranging your business? Bettering your health? Purchasing a new house? Constructing stronger relationships?
Regardless of what goal you have, VIPER is wholly applicable and relevant. In brief, it may be utilized for literally any goal in the world. If we take the example of constructing a bridge, this is what we'll see with the model:
Visualize: Truly visualize building the bridge. implement techniques to build a bridge, like overcoming wind resistance, seeing to it the bridge can support its own weight, amidst others.
Planning, distinguish plan factors like bridge location, size of a team, safeguards, precise sort and number of materials to use in construction, and so forth. Keen step is needed in the success of the goal.
They’re separate parts of a system that makes it whole. Attempting to try any of the steps will endanger your chances and level of success.
He steps happen in sequence – implying the first step needs to be completed prior to going to the second, etc.
Therefore, every step ought to be specified as precisely as possible prior to moving to the next to preclude disruption and rework. Say, for instance, you determine the goal for yourself to drop off 20 lbs. You arrive at a series of techniques and plans.
Nevertheless, as you begin dropping off the weight, you discover yourself feeling worn out, unhealthy and appearing weak.
You recognize that you don't just want to lose 20 lbs of weight; you really simply want to be fit. Since the cornerstone of the goal is different, this alters the steps, like an expanded focus on training, selecting healthy foods, rather than simply slimming down.
The further you are in carrying out the goal and the larger the magnitude of alteration in the initial step, the harder it will be to re-script your plans to reflect the change. Therefore, it's crucial to be stringent with each step of the model.
Advancement through the steps represents your goal being evidenced in your mind to physical production. As you begin with the beginning step, it's basically a creation in your brain.
As you move through the steps, you're basically taking that virtual creation in your brain and giving it physical form and shape in our world.
Better fit for medium to huge goals. VIPER is a model for attaining your huge goals, which you’ve attempted to accomplish but hasn’t succeeded, or you feel are too overpowering for you.
If you've little goals, which you're fairly confident about, it may be quicker and more effective to forge ahead and conquer them.
Going through each of the five steps requires an investment of time and effort, which may not pay off, with modest goals. The bigger the goal, the more essential the role VIPER.
Gets you ready for success in your goal. Holding this orderly approach to goal accomplishment helps dramatically step-up your chances of success for 2 reasons: first of all, if there are Issues with accomplishing the goal.
You are able to always review and discover exactly which stage the issue bobbed up, then fix it from there. Secondly, it sees to it that all bases are covered and you don't leave any stone unturned.
Mistakes, Personal Experience, and Strategies
A lot of individuals are guilty of attempting to undertake their goals utilizing a series of trial and error approaches. They arbitrarily throw their energy out there with all their might on the few steps they acknowledge, believing that this will get them to their destination. They handle their goals in a hit or miss approach and then hope that everything will turn for the better ultimately.
Although it might work in the short-term and on littler goals, it doesn't work with huge, long-run goals. For instance, you might get away with dropping off 5 lbs of weight by simply eating less and working out more, but to drop off additional weight and sustain that weight loss calls for proper strategy.
**The Basics**
A lot of individuals have this misconceived notion of goal accomplishment as they only come into contact with the events of others’ goals. They're not tangled in all the thought-processes, intricacies and literal planning that went into the accomplishment of those goals.
Have a look at Olympians. They don't win their medals because they merely blindly train daily. There are a lot of things that happen behind the scenes, like training by the most beneficial coaches, suitable diets, self-help courses to put them in the correct mindset, studying the correct techniques, and so forth. Microsoft didn't get to where it is today because of luck. It was by conscious strategizing and preparation that allowed the company to carve its particular niche in the market.
I've set and chased a lot of different goals in my life. My universal approach toward goal accomplishment in the past was to merely center on the goal intently and do everything I could to accomplish it. The most I'd ever done in terms of preparation was to simply distinguish my end target and engaged an arbitrary length of time in my calendar to work at it. That was it. Beyond that, it was all about just trying to get there. After all, that was what I believed success in goal accomplishment came down to. A mixture of one’s want of the goal and one’s doggedness.
While I did that, I confronted deviating successes depending upon what the goals were. For goals like making great grades, they were accomplished as long as I maintained assignments. Additional goals like bringing in more revenue, building my own business, and doing well in my previous job were all within my reach also, as long as I kept banging at them.
Nevertheless, there were particular goals I had trouble with. For instance, my dieting goal. I was never obese but I hoped to be slimmer. For the following 3 years, I noticed myself dropping time and energy attempting to hit the goal but bombing in the process. I tried out all kinds of different diets. I attempted counting calories.
I tried out different sorts of workouts, exercising daily, to not working out in the least. When I began on the goal, I'd come through in losing some weight in the beginning week. However, it never survived beyond that. After the beginning week, matters would go along status quo, and it was a matter of weeks before I'd go back to my previous eating habits, commonly eating more as well as I felt deprived.
It was absolutely puzzling and disappointing, as I couldn't understand how I'd get so much success with other goals, but not with a goal like slimming down.
Well, it wasn’t because I didn't desire my goal enough. I unquestionably felt that I was as passionate about this goal as I was about other goals. I believed that perhaps I wasn't relentless enough about the goal. Nevertheless, if I wasn't, I wouldn’t have expended years of my life working at it, would I? Something has to be wrong with the way I was attempting to reach the goal.
I finally got sick and tired of being on an emotional rollercoaster, questing after, and bombing repeatedly at this goal and beating myself up over it each time I bombed. I sat down to have a look at my state of affairs and name how I might truly hit this goal. I began looking around for tips. I was working at my business daily. In my daily work, I was always presented with big business goals and I had to deliver. I considered how I'd handle those goals to finally conquer them. Then it hit me what I was missing a suitable strategy to accomplish my goal.
A lot of big companies breathe and eat strategy. That led me to my fruition. To put it plainly. If strategizing has been guiding multibillionaire businesses to success through the years, wouldn’t it add up to practice it in my personal life also, to accomplish the same degree of success?
I began employing the precepts I discovered toward my weight loss goal. I established a vision, distinguished the roadblocks I was facing, discovered counteracting techniques, made particular plans, did a tracking sheet, etc. Inside the 1st week, I could tell matters were changed this time. I recognized, with a deep rooted sense of certainty that I was going to win. Sure as shooting, years afterward, I had dropped off 20 lbs. It happened so easily that I questioned why I was fighting with this goal for so long originally.
Then I recognized as long as I utilize the same operative precepts and abide by the same formula, that I’d realize similar success as well. And that was what occurred when I employed it for all my goals from then on. All of a sudden, goal accomplishment became much simpler. The doubt that used to surround the success of my goal quests dried-up in the face of this newfound perceptivity. It felt astonishing, as it was like I had exposed a secret.
Although time and energy still have to be invested, the action of goal pursuit has twisted into a predictable science. I recognized as long as I abided by the same process in all my goals, I'd decidedly face certain success and triumph.
I've put down the fundamental elements of what I was doing so as to share it so you can get the same success too.
Growing an adopted child, it's not easy
Adopted children can grow into problematic children. Who can potentially become emotionally disturb. The same thing can happen to biological child. Adopted children can be inherently dangerous because of their genes.
Regardless of the environment and upbringing they grow up in. This can be apply to biological children too, they may have your genes, but the environmental factor is not within your control.
You already have you daughter and son. Isn't that enough? Maybe that's what God had planned for you. Well, maybe it was part of God's plan for us to adopt a second child. These were the thoughts that spiraled through my mind before I adopted this girl. I will not mentioned her name cause it's controversial.
Let me share this to you about, the story of husband and wife who really wants to adopt a child. Though the idea of adoption had occurred to us before, it wasn't something my husband and I were very eager about. However, signs and circumstances encouraging us to do so quickly manifested in our lives.
As a parent of both biological and adopted children, I'm not trying to say that one way of growing a child is harder than the other, or better than the other.
My point is to say, that moms of adopted children have stretch mark and labor pain stories. Their sterch mark are emotional stretch marks. Their labor pains are the pains they carry in their heart for the mama of this broken world.
That doesn't get to hold her child. Adoption is similar to a growing baby inside your tummy. But instead of your body doing everything by instinct you're doing all the work voluntarily and emotionally. Instead of your body instinctively knowing what the baby needs to thrive, you're looking at a two year old and learning about what previous trauma may be making him feel like you are a threat to his safety.
Instead of your body knowing exactly how to keep your baby warm and safe, you might be trying to bond with a baby that's never known safe and warm this side of the womb.
Instead of your voice and heart beat being the one that baby has heard for 9 months inside of your womb, you might be going about you day with a heavyweight baby in a wrap on your chess to help them learn your voice and heart beat and draw comfort from them.
Instead of your body giving of it's energy to breastfeed your baby and losing hours of sleep due to nighttime feedings, you might be rushing to a child bedside multiple times a night to sooth night terrors and giving of your emotional energy to help the process of healing.
The growing of biological baby is involuntary. You give yourself whether you desire to or not. Your body makes sacrifices without you commanding it to.
The growing of an adopted child is voluntary. You choose to give of your self, you choose to make sacrifices for the sake of another. Adoption in our family, has given us a greater understanding of the heart of God. We tend to help adopted child because we don't want to waste their life.
Somehow, there conflict rises when your biological and adopted child simultaneously growing up. As parents you must be neutral. Learn to balance the situation. Being mellow to all children, it's giving a realistic love for them. If a parent decided to buy toys, it must me in equal division. As parents shouldn't be bias cause if you use to it, of course conflict will rise.
Parent should give toys everybody if he wants to buy toys. Don't just be one sided. Learn to be justice. Crimes may occur if someone knows that he/she is neglected, just like in last few years ago I think you're familiar with maguad siblings, I will not narrate the whole story cause it was so horrible. Violence prevails when the suspect noticed that she was neglected and seems not given a love. I'm just showing this cause I know some of you here already know that news.
Before, adopting we should responsible also and accept the adopted child to be part of the family. It's hard to think that you're part of the family but you feel a slight barrier to their biological parents or even their siblings. Sometimes we forget the love that we should show to them, and also they are merely creating a hearsays on their mind that he doesn't belong to the family.
It is not easy to adopt a child. You should be aware also of some history of a child. In other phenomena, since it was a child there's nothing we can apprehended cause child are naive. We still shape their traits through showing our deeds. It is not a guarantee also that we raise them good and our expectations they'll be also good children. In some forces like social media and company or friends, they also make an influence of the behavior of a child, so we must do everything not to have them with bad influence.
Life has its experience
Life has its experience. We're in this life to learn from experience. We have and then use the teaching to grow, evolve, and become the best version of who we are.
Life is not stagnant. We are always changing, this is the nature of life. Respect and love yourself completely. Trust the beauty of impermanence. Walk away with humility, courage, and grace from people, places and things that do not serve your highest ideal of life.
If walking away feels to impossible right now, which is normal, begin incorporating at least one thing into your that brings you joy and serves your growth. From now on I'm going to start telling people you're committed to misunderstanding, me and I don't care to explain myself to you instead of over explaining myself.
We're in this life to learn from every experience we have and then use the teachings to make choices, and take the actions that are aligned with our highest ideal for life. Think of yourself as the butterfly, were surrendering the past and flying into the present, making the life the life decisions that will shape the future. The present moment is our perfect teacher, helping us to become the greatest version of ourselves. We waste our whole life preparing for the future, not realizing that the only way to be happy is to embrace each moment.
Life is filled with hardship and joy. This is a great truth so make sure everyday you spend time doing one thing that brings you joy and a smile to your face. Just for today, just for a moment choose to do one thing that will bring you laugher and peace in your heart. Don't wait until everything in your life is sorted out, and then you will relax and enjoy your day, no, find moments of fun and happiness now. Don't wait for tomorrow.
Be brave, take risk. Nothing can substitute experience. I write about this because for me finding the words was so important. Finding the words give me a little bit of power over the sickness. It was the first step in my treatment and day by day with the words voice how I endure it. I was able to find the right help to anybody.
Our expectations of experience somehow gives us the hint towards happiness. We need to value our happiness. As our experiences allow us to be independent. It also make us matured. People who engage experience probably they are honing their skills in all aspects. Have you ever wonder to some adventurer or vloggers who engage with various experience they tend to develop their communication skills. A lot of them are sociable.
That's the things that experience can give you. It develops our personality. You know alot of people right now are introvert. We can't say they really tolerate of being introvert instead they just use to it. They just want a simple life. For me as I observed to some introvert individual they are literally have a brilliant mind.
I don't say majority of them are not bright. It is only my observation. You know our experience can develop our personalities. Its an advantage of being an adventurous person. As I mentioned earlier that life is not stagnant. Life is always changing. We keep on find the best version of our self.
We change because we want the best for us. Experience somehow our stepping stone in achieving our goals. Have you ever been through with unforgettable moments? Well, that's the reality we have. Our unforgettable experience is situated in our long term memory. Some people have bad experience.
They try to forget those negativities but it can't be, it's because when we have unforgettable experience it means that's for long term. As time passes by it will diminish on our mind but not necessarily forgotten. All of us try to merit our self by our achievement. It's one thing that a person should be merited. Why? It's because we are thirsty with encomiast.
Let have an example, an employee wants himself to be promoted. So, he keeps on trying to please his boss through his works. He strives on his works. He try to do everything just to be promoted. For you it is good? I think its good cause he just want to be promoted.
There's nothing wrong about that. What wrong is that, if he do undesirable things just to obtain what he wants then we can presume that it's not good. A lot of people make undesirable things just to be praise. People take advantage to their co-employee. How sad it is right? We should not take advantage to others. It the things that I can't accept.
We should be responsible. We should not take advantage. Take time to focus on you goal. Don't just take that all things are granted. We must exert effort to our dreams. Things makes sense when we can feel our success especially through our endeavor.
Determination define our success
I want to be a independent person. Like, I don't want to be a burden with my family. I want to learn from different individual who can stand on their own feet. I started to think whats the best solution on how I can transform my life.
I work hard for my dreams. Sometimes, even though I doubled my effort but still I can't meet of what I've expected. Maybe, I have a small amount of income. Life is short. We must live to the fullest. We will strive for our dreams.
Let me share this to you about the story of a man. He is so poor. Even a single coins he doesnt have. One day he wants to change his life. He want to immediately change his bad situation. It is because he was surrounded with negative people.
He work as a service crew. He just appreciate his job. Its because his co-workers are good at him. He stay there for almost four years. He was thinking that his salary isn't enough to sustain his needs. I will not be contented with this amount of salary, he just said to himself.
So, he quits his job and try another one. The owner of bakershop posted that he was hiring. He saw the post. He immediately grab the opportunity. He appy that job without knowing how much salary he could receive. He was interviewed and unfortunately it happens. He doesnt like the job aside from a low wage its venue is hostile and hot.
He was disappointed to himself. It makes him think if only he didn't quit as a service crew he'll received weekly income. He started again to search for a job. He saw a poster and states the company needs stuff in the office. Unfortunately, he wasn't qualified cause the company needs literate individual who can manipulate computer.
That time the boy seems to give up and found nothing but disappointment. He just ask himself why I am so fool? The people around him just stare at him. Like, they are making gossip at him. He decided to enter in college. But first he think how can he survive at school without any support to anyone. He search to any individual who offers scholarship.
He is so happy that time. One retired police offers him a good scholarship. He immediately accumulate his things and transfer it to the house of police. He strive hard and he try to be a good boy. Sometimes because of tiredness he was late to woke up. And he found that the police was preparing food for breakfast. Hes was shy and tell his boss that he wasn't wake up early cause of tiredness.
The police understand his situation. He just tell the boy that dont be pressured by problems. The was happy because the police is so kind to him. To tell the the story short the boy graduated on his course and he was so happy. He is an honor student. The police was happy for his achievement and congratulated him for his excellent performance in the school.
As a personal thought about this story, I salute the boy for his dedicated mindset. Well, we all know that what makes him strive is that because of inadequate of money. He need to strive or else he'll remain poor until he will get old. Many of us are making plans on our life. People are so hardworking. They need to take a risk just to obtain something.
For me, I will also do the same to what the bot did. He wants to be an independent guy. Like, helping his own family is his main concern. There's no hindrance to success as long as you are determined to obtain what you want in life. Life is not a race. No matter how old you are as long as you have strength you can have the success that you want.
Learn to exert effort to your goal. Accept positive vibes not negativities. You always encounter toxic people. You just not allow them to intervene you life. Let them struck your success. Be courageous and create also friends that will help you towards your goal. It is not only us who goes immediately towards our success rather we need company to help us in times of trials.
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