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Hatreds Make You Feel Worthless

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Have you ever felt like everything that surrounds you darkened your thoughts and bedimmed your heart? That everyone bothers you and angers you over small things and certain situations? The emotions that enclose your heart and make you feel sick. 

Hatreds is a feeling of intense dislike to others, a feeling of anger and disgust. All of us are capable of feeling neither love nor hate. Every being may express or experience hate. Hostility derives from a strong dislike or illness toward a thing or a person.


There are always instances and the perfect time to love and a time to hate. Hatred proves to be an actual measurement of evil in the world. Its ugliness may extend in any direction. Hatreds are on someone’s perception sometimes. Unavoidable adversity in our lives can trigger and intensify hatred: jealousy, failure, guilt, and so on. Hatred sometimes happens due to personal experience with them, such as having them say or do something to hurt you deeply or to cause problems in your life at some point. 

Instead of keeping grudges and hatred inside your heart, why don’t you choose to forgive? Hatreds are toxic. Maybe it’s hard to forget things that hurt you deeply, but keeping this poison will lose you. Hate is a strong emotion, the venom that pollutes our minds and suffocates our hearts. It can affect many aspects of your life, physical, mental, emotional, and relationships with anyone.

Hate damages behaviors. The more you hold onto the hatred you feel inside, the more likely it is that the hot coal of the emotion and sensation of negativity will burn you. Plus, the more you feed it, the stronger it becomes. The more hatred in your heart, the more negativity attracts your mind. 

Hatreds make you feel worthless. Your life will never be happy and contented when your heart seeps with hatred. You will never be genuinely delighted when you filled your heart with anger. Most of the time, we turn our feelings of dislike and hatred on ourselves, which is equally damaging on our behalf. The feeling of hate which turned inward can crush your spirit and impact your health. Feed hatred, and it will grow.

Like a lump of hot coal, the sooner you rid yourself of this toxic emotion, the minor damage it can do and the healthier and happier you’ll be. Instead of punishing yourself with hatred, learn how to deal with it and stay choosing calmness over chaos. Keep yourself in silence, and never react in situations that test your anger is power.

Let go of the hatred that can free you from sadness. You must keep in your mind that you will never please everyone and anything in this world. Aversions will make you feel weak, a terrible feeling, and a wasteful emotion. Hatred is similar to a two-edged sword.

When you cut them, you cut yourself that hurts you. Learn to forgive, learn to let go and choose silence above anything. Remember that you don’t have, and it is not your obligation to prove yourself to others. God knows you best. Let God and spread love.  If you hammer yourself with hatred, you will never build a life of happiness, and that will make you feel worthless. 



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Since then, pina-practice ko na 'yung anger management talaga. 'Yung dapat 'di ako mabilis na mainis or magalit sa maliliit na bagay lang lalo na sa mga walang katuturan na bagay. Example is 'yung mas lumalalang away nila Mama and Tita with their Aunts? I talked to Mama and expressed what I felt when they're throwing such daggers to us but in a calmed way. I don't talk back when I am hearing such bad words from their Aunts which was supposedly our Lolas. Yes, supposedly kasi I don't treat them as a relative anymore. I will just remain on having a poker face, kasi mas nararamdaman nila 'yung inis or negative energy sa akin kapag ganito lang mukha ko at naka-tahimik lang. Kaya ayun, never nila akong kinanti. Sana lang 'wag din talaga. As days passes by and as I get older? I am being a fan of ignoring and having that i-don't-care attitude.

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Alam mo, we are the same when it comes to family issues. Sa amin naman mga kapatid ni Mama ang nakakainis. I have not been talking since they throw bad words towards my Mom, and I don't want that. Ayaw ko sa lahat yung binabastos at hindi inirerespeto ang Mama ako. Ako ang makakalaban nila. But, in a different way. Just like you, I remain calm and I keep quiet pero iniinis ko sila through showing them the things that I can do for my Mama. Yung mga pagbili ko ng gamit sa bahay, pagbibigay ng pera, alam ko na sa ganun sila mas maiinis AND I DON'T CARE. Mainis at mainggit sila hangga't gusto nila. Also, hindi ko sila pinapansin. Alam ko na ramdam nilang off na sila sa akin, na dumistansya na ako sa kanila. Ayaw ko kasing makipag-plastikan sa kanila, LOL. 🤣

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Ay trulala. Sabi nga nila masarap inisin 'yung mga alam mo na may sakit na pagka-inggitera. 'Nung una di ako naniniwala pero sa kaka-observe ko? Ayun, totoo pala. Hahaha! Tahimik ka na lang kasi mas maiinis pa sila kapag nakikita nila na walang epekto mga ginagawa nila sa'yo. Hayaan na lang natin sila.

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1 month ago

Oo, may taglay silang inggit, ewan ko ba. Hindi ko nalang sila pinapansin para lalo silang mainis hahaha.

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Hahaha ay totoo yann. Kapg di sila pinapansin eh sila na ang gumagawa ng way para pansinin sila. Ang sama ko ba kapag sinabi ko na nakakatawa lang mga pinaggagagawa nila? 🙈🤣

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Hahaha. Oo nga! Minsan nakakairita na, at mema sabi nalang sila eh. Nakakainis lang minsan tapos ang sarap nang pumatol, kaso mapapaisip ka na h'wag ibaba yung level sa kanila.

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1 month ago

Medyo relate po ako sa article niyo. In fact, naiinis ako sa kapatid ko hehe pero di ko na lang pinapansin hehe.

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Hahaha. Hayaan mo na, kapatid mo naman eh. Mas bata ba o mas matanda yung kapatid mo?

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1 month ago

Anger is normal, but to hate is a different thing. But, we often use it almost interchangeably. Hatred is a strong feeling indeed and would paralyze your reasoning.

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1 month ago

Correct! Hatred brings out negativity and will also affect your credibility and ability to handle things. Minsan nagagalit talaga tayo, diba? Pero dapat yung galit wag natin ipunin.

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1 month ago

I would always recommend fairness anytime you have an issue on how to choose between two ideas, possibly opposing ideas. I will rather one is fair enough to condone and be temperate. Hatred can cause you some embarrassment.

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Hatred is something that will pull you down when not handled properly. Sometimes it is about how you can let go of the emotions, anger, and hatred you have in able to do things and improve yourself.

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