Why I Left My Fiancee At The Altar.
A prenup is a written contract signed by a couple before they get married, it determines how their wealth will be shared when they divorce or die. It's very common for wealthy people to sign prenups.
A very wealthy man left his fiancee at the alter cause she refused to sign a prenup.
He told her about the prenup before he proposed, months before the wedding, she said she would sign it. Months passed, before the wedding he reminded her about it again and she agreed that she would sign it before the wedding.
On the day of the wedding his lawyer told him she hasn't signed it, her pastor said they should go on with the wedding, the pastor tried to convince this man that the prenup didn't matter as long as they love each other.
At that point, he was really mad and couldn't believe it, she had months to sign it and didn't, only for her pastor to tell him that he didn't believe in a prenup and there was no need.
He knew he couldn't continue with the wedding, he left her at the altar, told her he was done with her, he really loved this woman and was ready to spend the rest of is life with her but it was obvious she planned with the pastor and that's why she insisted on using that particular pastor, they were old friends.
After the wedding was cancelled she was in her room and asked to see him, he got there and she was crying and sobbing saying she was ready to sign the prenup and they should continue the wedding. Note that a prenup signed under stress or duress will be invalid.
He went to his room and wept bitterly, he really loved her but he knew she didn't love him and was clearly trying to manipulate him to marry her cause he was very wealthy, she had other plans. He spent a lot of money planning a wedding, invited his friends and family when his friends found out everything they were glad he didn't continue with the wedding, they took him out to party and have a good time to forget everything.
**I think he dodged a bullet and she only wanted his wealth, what do you think?**
**Is he a bad man for leaving her at the altar or is she wrong for trying to manipulate him?**
Check out this article on why a lot of couples are breaking up this quarantine. https://read.cash/@Shitcoincharter/if-you-cant-quarantine-together-you-shouldnt-be-together-62c95503
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If You Can't Quarantine Together, You Shouldn't Be Together.
A lot of relationships are being tested during this quarantine, some couples decided to live together and they say it's the worst decision they made, they can't stand being around their partners 24/7 they can't wait for it to be over so they can go back to their apartment and go back to their normal routine of seeing each other when they want.
I think if you can't spend some months together you shouldn't be in a relationship with each other, except you're not in a serious relationship and don't want to spend your future and start a family with that person. If you're in a serious relationship you were probably living together and this lockdown didn't change much.
If you were living separately and decided to live together this quarantine, you now have an idea of what it's like to live in the same house with that person. If you can't stand living with them now that things are hard, how can you live together and start a family in the future?
**What do you think? Do you agree or disagree?**
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Is Age Really Just A Number?
Women, can you date and marry a man younger than you or must he be older than you?
Men, can you date and marry a woman older than you or must she be younger than you?
**I would love to know your thoughts on this, Comment your answer and reasons.**
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Date Night, Who Pays The Bills?
Hey 👋
I would love to know your thoughts on this.
Do you think men should always pay for dates?
Some women say they have to dress up, put on makeup, look good for the date and that cost money so the men should take care of the bills.
Some men and women think the bill should be split, they both pay equal parts.
What do you think?
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I’m Confused, What Should I Do?!
Do you always shut down when you’re confused? Or use being unsure as a reason to give up?
I know I do, but confusion should not be seen as a red light rather it’s a sign to do something even if it’s just taking a step back and asking someone for help.
Working through confusion is one of the best ways to learn new things.
Confusion and feeling unsure are not and should not be your stopping points, they are action indicators.
That action can be to go learn something new or revisit old things, or to spend time reflecting or to talk to someone.
Don’t let confusion keep you stuck in one place and don’t use it as an excuse to suppress your feelings or thoughts.
What do you do when you’re confused?
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Happiness Chemicals In Our Brains And How To Use Them
When we think about happiness we think love, money, family etc. We spend a lot of time finding ways to be happy but we don’t often think about the chemicals in our brains that makes us feel happiness.
Do you know that the feeling you get from a long hug is caused by a different chemical than the feeling you get after exercising?
Four chemicals and hormones in our brain DOPAMINE, OXYTOCIN, SEROTONIN and ENDORPHINS (DOSE) are responsible for that positive feeling we get when we’re happy.
Here’s how we can increase and use them in our daily lives.
DOPAMINE- The Reward Chemical
By completing a task
Celebrating little wins
Doing self care activities
Eating food
OXYTOCIN- The Love Hormone
Playing with a dog
Playing with a baby
Holding hands
Giving compliments
Hugging your friends or family
SEROTONIN- The Mood Stabilizer Meditating
Running
Cycling
Swimming
Sun exposure
Walk outdoors in nature
ENDORPHINS- The Pain Killer
Laughter
Essential oils
Dark chocolate
Watching a comedy
Exercising
I hope you can add these things to your daily routine and make yourself happy no matter your circumstances.
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Not All Women Are Women
This article is specifically for women but men can also share their views.
Do you think it’s okay for a man to wake up one day and decide that he is now a woman and that automatically makes him a woman.
He starts dressing like a woman and tells everyone he should be treated like a woman and called a woman. Does that make him a woman?
He has never felt all the emotions and struggles of being a woman but wants to enjoy all the benefits of being a woman.
Instead of saying Trans women are Women and Trans men are Men, isn’t it better for us to acknowledge that we have Men, Women, Trans Men and Trans Women?
Comment below and let me know what you think.
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Are You Manipulating People?
Don’t use apologies as substitutes for doing the actual work.
An apology with no intention of changing is just manipulation.
If you’re going to apologize always follow it up with a genuine plan of how you’re going to change and do better.
If you apologize and continue doing the same thing there is no change, you’ve made a choice to keep doing it.
Try not to do too much at once and don’t give up when it’s hard, small steps and consistency is key.
Have you ever been manipulated by someone? Share your experience in the comments.
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Saturdaaze
Hey, did you exercise today?
what exercises did you do?
Did you eat healthy today?
What did you eat?
How did you keep yourself healthy and fit today?
Today I did my daily workout routine but didn’t do upper body exercises cause my back and arms hurt from yesterday’s workout.
Didn’t eat breakfast, fasted until noon, ate some avocados and my favorite snacks peanuts and almonds.
For dinner I ate eggs, veggies, potatoes and chicken this was my only meal for the day.
Check here to see what exercises I do everyday https://read.cash/@Shitcoincharter/day-1-ab85db19
And here to see what I eat and don’t eat https://read.cash/@Shitcoincharter/your-refrigerator-must-be-a-garden-than-a-morgue-a4cec822
Enjoy your weekend 🧡
Will You And Your Partner Survive This Quarantine?
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This lockdown is taking a toll on some relationships and marriages.
A poll was done and out of 100 people 60% said the lockdown had a positive effect on their relationships while 40% said it had a negative effect.
Do you love your partner more or are you tired of being around them 24/7?
Has quarantine affected your romantic relationship positively or negatively?
How?
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Your Refrigerator Must Be A Garden Than A Morgue
Everything here about my diet is my choice and what I enjoy and how I stay healthy. This is not a diet plan and may not be suitable for a lot of people. However this is how I’ve been eating and living for years and how I maintain my flat stomach.
I Dont Eat
Bread, Milk, Cheese, Butter, Mayonnaise, Soda, Packed fruit juices, cake/pastries or anything with flour, Ice cream, Chocolate.
I may eat any of these things once in months, I drink alcohol occasionally once in 2 or 3 months.
Some of the things I don’t eat it’s because I react badly to them.
I Eat
Potatoes, Rice, Beans, Plantain, Yam, Egg, Chicken, Beef, Pork, Turkey, Fish, Prawns, Shrimps and all kinds of sea food, Lots of Veggies, Pasta(not often), Yogurt, Homemade smoothies and fruit juices.
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My Day
Hello 👋
The first thing I do when I wake up is drink a big cup of water.
After that I drink black coffee, no milk, little sugar.
I didn’t eat breakfast, most days I fast in the morning. Some days I might eat fruits or peanuts or almonds.
After my coffee I start my workout, these are the exercises I did today and I do almost everyday.
Jump rope until failure.
Body weight exercises.
Abs/stomach exercises with and without weight.
Squats, deadlifts and other leg exercises with and without weight.
Upper body, shoulder, arms, back, chest with dumbbells.
While I workout I always make sure I drink lots of water and also after working out.
After exercising I wasn’t really hungry, I drank my delicious orange and pineapple and spinach smoothie, ate some avocados and bananas. https://read.cash/@Shitcoincharter/orange-pineapple-spinach-smoothie-3d5c63da
For lunch and just throughout the day I ate some coconut chips and more peanuts and almonds (my favorite snacks I eat everyday) I also drink a lot of water everyday.
For dinner, my main and only meal for the day. I ate my famous chicken with pepper sauce and spinach with grilled sweet potatoes.
After dinner I don’t eat any food for the rest of the night, only fruits and lots of water!
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You Must Accept Me However I Am
A friend and her partner have been together for years, they love and trust each other and always communicate their feelings about everything.
He talked to her about how she has gained too much weight and she should do something about it. He explained to her how he cares about her and loves her and wants her to lose weight. She has gained 50kg in a few months, she says it’s hard to lose weight.
Some people have said that she should lose the weight others say she should leave him for telling her to lose weight.
What do you think she should do?
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Child Support
If a woman decides to have a child for a man after he clearly told her he didn’t want one, do you think the man should be responsible for the child and pay child support.
If she forces him or tricks him into having a child, what do you think the man should do?
Pls comment 🤗
Psychedelics- The Magic Pill💊
Psychedelics are drugs that can be used to change a persons perception of reality and thought process.
Chemicals like LSD or plants like MUSHROOMS (psilocybin) and MARIJUANA are common psychedelics. Others include Ecstasy, Ayahuasca, DMT, Mesacaline/Peyote.
In a safe space these drugs can help you process your thoughts and memories making it easier for users to rethink and reevaluate past thoughts and make lifestyle changes.
While under the influence users may feel sensations, see or hear things that seem to be real but are not real.
The biggest misconceptions about psychedelics are that they are addictive, the fact is that they are actually being used to treat addiction right now.
Research has shown that they can help process and deal with generational trauma that may have been passed through genes.
From my experience it’s amazing beyond words.
My advice is when trying psychedelics for the first time it should always be done in a safe environment with people you trust and love.
Always do your own research before taking anything to avoid Bad Trips.
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Do you think we should believe every woman that accuses a man of rape?
KISS
I don’t read long articles on read.cash and I’m sure a lot of other users here don’t.
When I see an article, I scroll down to the end before I decide if I want to read it or not.
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My Cactus 🌵
Hey guys 👋
I had a couple of cactuses but they died cause I didn’t take good care of them, only this one survived 😢
I’m taking good care of this one now 🤷♀️
Enjoy these pictures
I don’t know what type of cactus this is, if you do comment below.
If you like cactuses and want to see more check out @Lejay28 article with beautiful pictures of their collection of cactuses here
I’m definitely getting more cacti 🌵 https://read.cash/@Lejay28/cute-mini-cactus-garden-shotspart-1-35fd23a3
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Beach is Better 🌊
I took these pictures before the pandemic, I really miss being on the beach 🏝
My happy place 😍
Can’t wait to feel the breeze 💨 🌊
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They May Not Be Avoiding You.
Before you start making any assumptions about someone’s actions or behavior or thoughts always remember that there’s a lot you don’t know about that person, they may not be sharing everything.
Assumptions causes anxiety and it can really ruin your relationship. When you believe the assumptions, you create those thoughts in your head and they now influence how you see the person or the situation.
https://read.cash/@Shitcoincharter/7-ways-to-stop-anxiety-8a4fa73d
If you notice someone withdrawing from you, they might just need some space to process things. They may be processing a trauma or dealing with a mental/physical health problem or tired from working.
**What you can do**
1. Give them the space they need.
2. Ask them questions about it only if they are ready to talk, don’t pressure them to if they are not ready.
3. Remind them that you are there for them and love them.
4. Don’t cause yourself more anxiety by worrying for too long about what you may have said or done.
There’s a difference between just thinking and overthinking.
**Are you guilty of making assumptions?**
**Comment below**
*If you like this article read my previous one on how to stop Anxiety here* https://read.cash/@Shitcoincharter/7-ways-to-stop-anxiety-8a4fa73d
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Looking Stupid
When you reflect on who you were a few years ago you must look really stupid unless you didn’t grow.
A lot of people are afraid of looking stupid that’s why they give up easily, they stay stagnant because of the fear of feeling stupid, never growing out of their comfort zone.
If you’re feeling comfortable in your life you’re not challenging yourself enough and not growing.
Remember all the times in your life when you thought things were extremely difficult, did you survive them? Yes you did, they made you who you are today!
Dont be too proud to ask for help
The smarter I think I am, the less I know
Growth is a continuous process and sometimes feeling stupid is part of it but at least you get to know something you didn’t.
If you feel like you don’t know anything but you are open to learning everything, you will gain a lot.
***Have you ever reflected on your life and felt stupid ? Comment below.***
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Six the Good Doggie 🐶
Hey guys👋
My name is SIX
I’m a good doggie 🦁
I love chicken 🍗 https://read.cash/@Shitcoincharter/chicken-with-pepper-sauce-and-spinach-e7e967c8
My reaction when I see food 😋
See what I love the most about my dog Six and more pictures of him here.
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Watching Bitcoin this morning 🌞
Starting my day right 📈
Buying the dip
Enjoying this green smoothie 🍃🍹 https://read.cash/@Shitcoincharter/orange-pineapple-spinach-smoothie-3d5c63da
Have a great day 💫
Chicken with Pepper Sauce and Spinach 🥘
A quick and delicious spinach recipe I love. This easy dinner recipe has become my favorite, the taste is divine and it can be served over rice, noodles, spaghetti etc.
Ingredients
Chicken
Red pepper ( I like mine really hot)
Salt
Onions
Chicken seasoning
Spinach
Mixed spices made up of thyme, turmeric, cinnamon, white pepper, black pepper, coriander, bayleaves
INSTRUCTIONS
1. Add salt, chicken seasoning, onions and mixed spices to the chicken in pot without water. Also add some blended fresh red pepper.
2. Place pot on medium to high heat and cook until it’s ready or almost ready. Remove chicken from the chicken stock (the water from cooking the chicken) and set aside. Also keep the chicken stock aside for the pepper sauce.
How to make the pepper spinach sauce
1. Pour chicken stock in pot and add blended fresh red pepper sauce. Cook until the water gets thicker.
2. Add cooked chicken, add spinach.
3. Cook for a few minutes, allow to cool down and it’s ready to be served with rice, spaghetti, noodles, Grilled/ fried potatoes, plantain, yam etc
4. Enjoy with family and friends 🥘🍛🍲
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*Also see this delicious* *green smoothie with spinach**, it’s extremely healthy and good for weight loss.*
https://read.cash/@Shitcoincharter/orange-pineapple-spinach-smoothie-3d5c63da
Orange Pineapple Spinach Smoothie 🍹
When I was little I loved watching Popeye the Sailor especially when he eats his spinach and gets super strong to fight the bad guys
I love starting my day strong with this quick delicious green smoothie 💪🍹
**How to Make Orange Pineapple Spinach Smoothie**
Mix freshly squeezed orange and pineapple juice.
Wash spinach leaves
Add spinach leaves in blender with orange and pineapple juice
Blend until smooth
Enjoy your day 🍃🌱
I love spinach so much I started planting spinach indoors, I posted an article on how to plant spinach at home, it has pictures of the progress of my spinach from when I started planted it. I will be posting new pictures of it soon, I also added some new stems and they are growing fast!
https://read.cash/@Shitcoincharter/growing-spinach-indoors-from-stem-a58af07b
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This post is for the 420 community
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Vegetable Stir Fry 🥗
I love vegetable stir fry cause it’s quick and easy to make. It’s healthy, good for weight loss and very delicious.
Ingredients
1. White onions
2. Green beans
3. Sweet corn
4. Chicken sausage or liver
5. Green pepper
6. Carrots
7. Pure soya oil, good alternative to vegetable oil
8. Soy sauce
9. Chicken seasoning
10. Freshly blended ginger and garlic
11. Home made mix spice. Made up of tumeric, cinnamon, white pepper, black pepper, corrinader, bayleaves
You can also add meat, chicken, prawns, shrimps, pork.
How to Make Vegetable Stir Fry
Wash and cut vegetables
Pour oil in pan on medium heat
Add veggies, sausage, liver, chicken
Add soy sauce, chicken seasoning, my homemade mixed spices, blended ginger and garlic
Stir for a few minutes until veggies are tender.
Things you can eat with vegetable stir fry
Rice, Noodles, Spaghetti, Pasta
You can store your vegetable stir fry in the refrigerator for meal prep
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Do you love vegetable stir fry? what do you eat with it?
Failure is a sign of progress.
If you find yourself repeating a bad habit or it feels like you’re going back to your old ways or you feel like a failure, don’t beat yourself up.
Being aware that you’re failing is a sign of progress, once you realize your mistakes you can make changes. It’s difficult but extremely important for your progress.
Instead celebrate failure, learning to embrace failure brings success, it’s one of the best ways to build mental strength.
*If you liked this check out my previous article on how you can deal with* *anxiety* https://read.cash/@Shitcoincharter/7-ways-to-stop-anxiety-8a4fa73d
7 ways to stop anxiety
I’m guilty of almost everything on this list but being aware is the first step.
Stop these 7 things that cause anxiety.
Thinking the worse scenario is the only scenario.
Comparing your life with others.
Assuming all your emotions are facts and acting on them.
Making everything about you or an attack on you.
Overgeneralizing, taking one mistake and applying it to everything.
Focusing on only the negative when there’s some positive.
Making assumptions for what others might be thinking about you.
Being aware of your thoughts is the first step to stop anxiety, once you’re aware you can now take action to prevent these thoughts and replace them with a new and better way of thinking.
*Do you get anxious a lot? How do you deal with it?*
It’s okay to be Indifferent about an opinion
Everyone has them cause they’re cheap to have.
This is just my opinion
A lot of people will hate you for having opinions that are different from theirs, hate from friends, family and even on social media. Most people only listen to respond and force their opinions on you, they don’t actually listen to you.
It’s very difficult for you to have conversations about your views with these people and you don’t want to risk losing them so you stay quiet.
Sometimes not saying your opinions about everything gives you peace of mind.
I think it’s better to be quiet but you also don’t want to look like the nice guy, always in the middle, too scared to pick a side, agrees with everything and everyone even when it doesn’t make sense, always saying your opinion doesn’t matter cause you’re not rich or popular.
My advice is never talk about a topic if you don’t know anything about it and haven’t done any research, always do your own research. I feel like this should be taught to every child in school.
It’s okay to not have an opinion especially if it doesn’t affect you in any way.
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