Men Can't Be Friends With Women
The other day I was talking to two guys about friendship with women, one guy is married and the other is single.
The single guy said he can’t be friends with women like the way he is friends with guys, he goes on to explain that when he meets a woman that he likes and finds attractive, he doesn’t think about being friends with her, he would tell her exactly how he feels about her and how he wants to be with her romantically, he feels like it goes in that direction with most women he talks to.
It’s hard for him to be friends with women cause he can’t be himself the way he is with his bro’s and that’s not the definition of friendship to him, he doesn’t want to pretend to be friends with someone he finds attractive. To him the people closest to him are; 1. Family, 2. His bro’s (brothers and male friends) 3. Acquaintances.
The second guy is married and has a female best friend, they have been friends since they were kids, they grew up knowing each other and have always been best friends for years and he also has other female friends. He said grew up around women so it’s easy for him to have a lot of friends that are women, he understands them and can relate to them easier. He doesn’t deal with all the issues his friend deals with.
I talked to another guy, he is in a relationship, he doesn’t have female friends now but he had a female best friend growing up. He said when they were younger they always spent time alone together and it always led to stealing kisses and touching each other sexually, at some point they were both in relationships with different people but when their partners were not around and they were spending time together alone as best friends, they would still have sex.
The other female friends he had also ended up as more than friends, some of them turned into a romantic relationship, or friends with benefits. He said men can’t be friends with women, especially if they like each other and spend a lot of time alone together.
What do you think?
Can men and women can be friends?
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Running Outdoors
Some pictures from my run yesterday 🌞
I love nature, the smell of the green grass and the beautiful sunlight 🌳🌲
I love running outside, I love the fresh air
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What's Your Star Sign?
Do you believe in horoscopes?
Personally, I don't believe in star signs and their meanings or characteristics but my star sign is Libra.
According to horoscopes libras are all about creating balance and peace, they relate and connect to people easily and are always willing to learn new things, they are easy going and sociable.
What is your star sign and do you have some of the characteristics?
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Are Men And Women Equal?
Do you think that whatever a man can do a woman can do it?
Some people say men are better at some things cause they are usually bigger and stronger than women and that's true but there are some places in the world where the women are usually taller and bigger than the men, does that mean the women would do the jobs meant for men while the men do the women jobs?
I don't think it matters cause now machines have been invented to do most of the heavy lifting jobs and a man/woman can operate it once they learn how to.
I think we should give everyone the opportunity to work hard and study to be qualified for a job, we shouldn't give them a job based of their gender and we should also not eliminate them cause of their gender. We should give people jobs based of their qualifications, we want the perfect person for the job.
We should treat everyone we meet differently because we are all unique and different in our own ways.
What do you think, are men and women equal?
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At The Gas Station
Can you spot your favorite energy drink?
Too much energy drinks is bad for your health, too much caffeine and sugar is not good.
Do your drink energy drinks often or everyday?
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A Storm Is Coming!!
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I took these earlier today, the cloud and trees look so beautiful 🌳 🌥
I think that's a dhl truck coming
Yes, someone is getting their package delivered soon.
There might be a storm coming later today
Learning how to use the panorama mode on my phone camera, I think I’m getting better at it 🤗
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20 Years Ago.....
A man came home for his lunch break and found his neighbors girlfriend drunk and passed out in his house.
He was scared and called his neighbor, told him to come home immediately! he asked if she was still alive and told him to check if she was breathing.
When he tried to check if she was breathing, she woke up immediately and started screaming for help, he tried to calm her down and explain to her that she was drunk and passed out in his house and that he already called her boyfriend and he is on his way.
Her boyfriend came and she told him a story about how the guy tried to rape her, he believed her, got really mad and threatened to kill him. When the police came, she told them the same lie about how the guy tried to rape her.
Luckily another neighbor saw everything from the beginning, he told the police she was lying about everything. Earlier he saw her enter her boyfriends home with another man, they were both drunk, she was cheating on her boyfriend and tried to cover up by accusing the neighbor of rape. He also saw her when she went into her neighbors house when he wasn't home, she knew where he kept his house keys incase there was an emergency.
They went to court and he was vindicated but her boyfriend still believed her and told everyone around that the guy was a rapist. After it was proven legally that he wasn't guilty, she was still spreading the rumor everywhere and it even got her fired from her job.
20 years later people are still accusing him of rape, people come to his business and tell his customers he tried to rape a woman. It has been really hard for him to own a business or work anywhere since them.
False accusations are not new and have been destroying lives since forever!
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Every Thought Is Optional
I don't think people understand how hard it is and the strength it takes to pull yourself out of a dark place mentally, it's the hardest thing to do.
The pain and situation may not be your fault, you can't blame yourself for something that is out of your control, but it's your responsibility to heal from it, move on and not let it define you or your future.
Don't look at yourself and judge yourself by this moment, instead see yourself overtime and you will see how far you've come and how far you can really go.
Every thought is optional, choose happy and positive thoughts!
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Don't Press Send!
Tip
When having an argument with your partner, friend or family member, don't send that long impulsive message or say all those things you think you want to say in that moment when you're angry and make things worse.
Write it down on a note instead, or write it on your phone, this would give you enough time to really think clearly and help you explain how you feel better, it would also save you from the mental stress of arguing and fighting.
Once you send that message, you can't undo it so don't rush, take your time before you hit send.
Little things like this make a huge difference!
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What Is Wrong With Me?
Everyday remind yourself that there's nothing wrong with you.
A lot of people think there's something wrong with them cause they don't think like others or they are not as smart as others.
You have to understand that we all have habits and behaviors to unlearn and learn everyday, you have new battles to fight, you may win some and lose some, they may take longer than you expect but you're a work in progress, there's nothing wrong with the core of who you really are.
Nobody is perfect no matter how perfect you think their lives may be.
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Online Dating Is Bad If You're Ugly Or Poor.
Is Online Dating Bad?
It's easy for good looking women to get lots of guys messaging them online, especially when they post beautiful and sexy pictures. If you're not good looking you may not as much attention or any attention at all because all the guys are focusing on the good looking women they see.
As a guy, if you're not rich or don't flaunt your wealth, girls wont respond to you when you try to talk to them online. Being handsome is a plus for wealthy guys but it doesn't matter if you're ugly or handsome, most girls will reply your messages when they see that you're wealthy and live a luxury lifestyle.
Social media and dating apps have made people have more unrealistic expectations, men and women post fake lives online just to attract people. After talking online for a while, when they finally meet in real life they end up being extremely disappointed and disgusted by all the lies.
I know there are exceptions where people meet online and get married and live happily ever after but it's really an exception.
A lot of people feel bad when they don't get matches or get any attention on their posts and it destroys their self esteem, it's really bad but this is the society we live in today.
To avoid being deceived or lied to, I think people should stop focusing on finding the perfect match to their personalities online, nobody is perfect they are all pretending to be something they are not, nobody posts their bad sides or habits online.
If you want to meet and get to know real people, go out more. I'm 100% certain you will meet people that would like you and find you interesting. Have conversations with people in person, have a good time, don't spend all your time worrying about finding the perfect partner, the best relationships happen when you're not looking for one.
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90 Days Rule
Do you think sex on the first date is bad?
When do you think is the right time to have sex with your partner?
There's a common rule women follow, it's called the 90 days rule and it says you must wait for 3 months before having any sexual contact with your partner.
Some people think it's best to wait for a few weeks or months or even years cause if you do it too early the relationship would not last long.
There are also couples that did it on the first date and they are old and still together.
What do you think?
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Shoot Your Shot
Do you think women should make the move to guys more often?
A lot of guys say women don't know how handle rejection, they don't know how to talk to guys and get really mad and pissed off when the guy rejects them, some women would insult the guy if he says no.
Guys go through rejections from women countless times and still don't react the way some women do.
I think women should understand that not all the men they like want them, they should learn to handle rejection better and don't give up.
If one or two guys don't like you or want you, it's not the end of the world, you can't force them to like you and calling them names wont help either.
There are a lot of happy couples that the woman made the first move, If you like someone tell them and if they don't like you back move on.
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Men Are Trash?
Do you believe most men are bad or trash?
Do you think they all have bad intentions towards women?
Society has made it impossible for men to be alone with women anywhere, a lot of men are scared of being alone with a woman, just the thought of a false accusation and how it can ruin their lives makes them stay far away from women.
Now women are complaining that men are avoiding them at work, men don't want to go on dates with them or be alone with them, they said it's unfair and they don't want men to avoid them like a plague.
What's the solution to this?
Is there a solution to this?
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Height Shaming
A lot of women say they can't date short men and these were their reasons.
They prefer tall guys, makes them feel safer, they don't want to look down when kissing their partner or talking to them, they want to wear heels and still be shorter than their partner.
When we told the same women that some men say they can't date fat women and can only date slim women because they don't like fat women, they said it's wrong and that men should not fat shame women and love them no matter their size.
Is it okay to short shame men?
Men or women, we can't change our height, there's nothing you can do to make yourself taller, it's our genes.
Being fat is a choice, you can always decide to change your diet, work out and lose weight for yourself, there are one million benefits of living a healthy life and exercising.
I think everyone should be allowed to choose, it shouldn't be one sided, if you choose to only date tall guys and hate short guys then don't force men to date women no matter their size.
What do you think? Is it okay to shame men for their height?
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Your Feelings Don't Matter.
Emotions are fleeting, how you feel right now will change and not matter in a couple of minutes or hours or days.
Separate yourself from that feeling of sadness or depression, it's a state of mind that can and will pass, it's not who you are.
When you're sad you can change it by thinking about something else or doing something positive to change how you feel, you have the ability to always change that feeling, so do it.
If you keep looking at the bad things in your life and continuously focus on them your life will keep going in that direction. Example, if you're riding your bike with your friend and you're looking at them and talking to them while riding, you notice your bike starts moving in their direction cause thats where your focused so you move towards it.
You need to find something you love that makes you happy and set a goal to achieve it. Focus on your goals and work towards it, wake up everyday and be positive and do your best to achieve them, don't waste your time thinking about all the other negative things.
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Who Does The Cooking?
Women, do you want your husband/boyfriend to spend his time doing house chores like cooking and cleaning? or do you prefer him spending all his time working hard for money while you do the cooking and cleaning.
Guys, do you want your wife/girlfriend to spend all her time working hard for money everyday and not have time to do house chores like taking care of her home? or do you prefer a woman that has all her time to take care of her home and also make some money on the side when she can.
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Do You Have A Type?
Is having a dating preference bad?
Some people say they can't date white people others said they can't date black people or Asians or Mexicans etc
Would you date a transgender person and is it discriminatory to say no? Does that make you transphobic?
Some women can't date short men and some men can never date a fat woman, is that discrimination?
Do you think society made you have those preferences and the society made you hate black or white or short or fat or trans people?
Do you think having a preference makes you a bad person?
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Her Husband Is Sick, She Is Looking For Another Man.
A woman is looking for another partner just incase her husband dies. Her husband is really old and in the hospital sick and battling for his life, she thinks he might not make it cause of his age.
She is very young and has a son for him, she needs a man that will take care of her and her son when her husband dies.
She says its normal for every woman to have a side man incase anything happens.
Do you think she is doing the right thing or she should be taking care of her husband and praying he gets well soon.
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Would You Stay Or Leave Him/Her?
If your partner gets another woman pregnant what will you do?
He said it was a mistake, he still loves you and wants to be with you. Would you leave him or stay with him? The woman he got pregnant decides to keep the baby and wants your partner to be in their life, how would you react?
Men, If your partner gets pregnant for another man what would you do?
She said it was a mistake and still loves you and wants to be with you and have the baby. Would you stay and be a father to the child or leave her?
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Are You A Racist?
Do you think all white people are racists?
Do you think black people cannot be racists?
Why?
She Is Angry Because Her Ex-Husband Is Very Happy
A woman is angry that her ex-husband is now successful and healthy, here's her reason.
She was married to him for 10 years, during this time he was miserable, depressed, no job, was home all day drinking.
She had several jobs and was working every other day to take care of them, she really loved him and supported him, took care of him and paid all the bills.
She tried everything to make him happy but it always led to more fighting, she talked to his family and friends and asked for their help but they couldn't help either.
There was nothing she could do to help him with his depression, he was sad every day and still couldn't leave the house and get a job.
After 10 years of being married, she finally left him because she couldn't live like that anymore and couldn't see a future with him.
A few months after she divorces him, she sees him in a restaurant looking very healthy and happy, he got a really good job and was very successful.
She is very angry cause she went through a lot and suffered with him for 10 yrs, now they are separated he is happy, healthy, not depressed and is very rich.
**Do you think she should be angry or happy for him?**
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I Need Help But I Can't Ask For Help
Sometimes we want to help our friends or partners when they are going through hard times by telling them what to do and what's best for them.
You have to realize that you may not be the best person to help them, especially when your conversations always end with fights, they are still figuring things out and may not be able to express or explain their pain.
Don't put pressure on them to talk, listen and continue to be supportive.
Don't try to tell them what to do unless they ask you for help and don't force your ideas on them, understand that it might take a long time for them to be comfortable asking you for help.
Do more research and find other ways to help them.
Don't try to save them it always ends up badly, if someone really doesn't want your help some times there is nothing you can do, you can try to force them but when we force people to do the things we want them to do it always leads to more fighting and resentment.
let people make their own choices even when their decisions might lead to more pain, it doesn't make you a bad person.
Sometimes you can get someone else that understands and can communicate with the person better to do the talking.
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If Your EX Dies And You Cry, You're Single.
A woman broke up with her boyfriend because he cried when he found out his EX-girlfriend was dead, she said it shows that he is still in love with his ex. She said it's the best decision for her because he can never really love her fully if he is crying over the death of his ex.
If you find out that your EX that you loved is dead, would you cry?
If you cry does it mean you still love them?
Would you break up with your partner if they cry when their EX dies?
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Heartbreaking
A man was accused of rape by his wife, she accused him of raping his 3 daughters when they were little.
Nobody believed him when he said it was a lie, he went to prison for a long time, he lost his children, was registered as a child molester, he lost everything and everyone.
His daughters never believed their mother, they always knew that their father was innocent. She told them it happened when they were kids and that they can't remember and insisted that it was true.
After 20 years she has now confessed after failing a lie detector test, she said it was a lie and she made the story up, she confessed to her daughters that he never raped or touched them when they were kids.
She was asked why she did it she didn't have any reason instead she blamed the man for not fighting harder for his children when he knew it wasn't true.
She asked them for forgiveness, they said they can never forgive her.
**Do you think they should forgive her?**
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