Date Night, Who Pays The Bills? Hey π I would love to know your thoughts on this. Do you think men should always pay for dates?
Some women say they have to dress up, put on makeup, look good for the date and that cost money so the men should take care of the bills. Some men and women think the bill should be split, they both pay equal parts. What do you think? *If you're reading this remember to Like, Comment and Subscribe π*
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Men are to pay for sure!
Why?
He's the man! Where I come from, men stay in front
I agree I think men should pay but not because you had to look good for him, looking good should be for yourself. If he is inviting you out then he should pay, If you're inviting him out you should pay if he can't afford it. Most men will never allow a woman pay for a date.
Looking for a guy, is more like the responsibility of the lady
We dress up to go out every day with friends and family and don't expect anything so what's the difference.
The difference is the person involved. In this case you and a guy alone
If you're dressing up differently cause of the guy, that's your choice, you want him to see you in a particular way, you feel like if you dress up like that he may be more attracted to you. Women want to look good for men too not just ourselves, I don't think the man should pay for that. If you can't afford to dress up and look the way you want maybe don't go for the date but if you really like each other I'm sure however you look would not matter β€οΈ
Me! I want my lady to dress well
does the boy ask her to have makeup? or to be in expensive dress up?...so why these much excuse? love begins when you become a human being...so first be a human then go on a date!
Thank you! men never ask for all that, they just want your presence and your company. As women, we like to look good for ourselves and also to attract men so I don't understand why any woman will say that.
yes women love to do that...but while paying why they make excuse of that expense... one surely can spend for her beauty...but she should also have some pays in date
In my opinion if it's a first dates, and the man invited you of course he should pay for it. But if you're in serious relationship you should split the bill, the feeling is mutual you're both committed the effort must also be equal.
Exactly! I and my partner split the bill sometimes, and some times when I'm taking him out I pay but most times he pays π
When we go on a date with my boyfriend, I usually insist to split the bills or at least I'll pay for the car gas. As for me, it should be an equal distribution because women have this ego of fair treatment π
Same here, I always try to contribute in one way or another but most times I let him do everything cause he loves it and i love it when he does things for me.
I do that too. I tell him that I'll pay for the bill but if he insists, then I'll let him be. π
Always works π
Trueee. All the time πβΊοΈ
I think it depends on the person actually. Personally, I'd like to split the bill but there are times maybe 1 in 7 dates where I'd love to be treated. And I'd do the same too. But if it's a date in a restaurant, I think it would be better if the guy pays since I'd probably treat him when we eat fast foods. A bit complicated but hahahahaha
When I'm in a date, I actually don't want him to pay most of the time because I think, it's somehow shows inequality. Money don't show the love of man to a woman, it's their personality
Men love to do it π€ Maybe
For me, It should be eqaully split or they take on turns on paying bills. A bird can't fly if it has only one wing.
Taking turns to pay the bill is fine, but we can't force people to split the bill, what if they don't have?
On first date it would be flattering for a girl to be treated and gentleman of the guy who offers to pay for the bill. But it would be great if they take turns on the next dates. Give and take is important and the one who invites will have to pay for it ofcourse.. π
Exactly, the first date should be the guys responsibility especially if he invited her out. For me I think if you're inviting me out then you should pay the bills, If I'm inviting you out I will pay for it too except you want to pay then I won't mind.
In this time and era it should be both to pay for their date night.