My Resolutions in 2022
“I will be generous with my love today. I will sprinkle compliments and uplifting words everywhere I go. I will do this knowing that my words are like seeds and when they fall on fertile soil, a reflection of those seeds will grow into something greater.” ― **Steve Maraboli** Quote Source https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/tag/resolution The above quote are resolutions by Steve and reading through them each and abiding by them are what makes you consistent in your words. Resolutions means **"declarations."** They are what you profess out of your mouth to do and have a positive change in yourself. Making resolutions is also the same as improving in your personal development and I want to posit that we all do have resolutions to make especially this coming year. Every day, week, month, and year, we write down our goals and resolutions and we make sure to stick by them. I have several resolutions for myself and by my determination and with God´s help, I shall be revisiting them as a reminder to me so I will not just forget about it. Writing it here alone isn´t enough, but to keep them somewhere else so you can always visit them again to help you through the year. ❇️ ANGER ISSUE This anger issue is hereditary and everyone in my family has this issue and I am always quick to anger. Though, I am always praying daily but I think prayer alone can´t work except I determine to put an end to it. Words get me angry quickly, but I am declaring to myself not to be quick to anger which I believe in myself and putting this note at my reach would help me too. ❇️ TAKING A DECISION IMMEDIATELY I am so weak at taking decisions or making promises and would not stick to them, especially when it has to do with myself. I might want to do something, or out of anger make a promise to stop a particular thing, but after relaxing, I quickly changed my mind. Though I am always fulfilling promises to others, but I do not to myself. I conclude things easily and after few minutes, I would change it. I am deciding to change and be slow to make a promise or decision to myself. ❇️ NOT KEEPING THINGS TO MYSELF I still feel like I do keep things to myself at some point. Most times, I can´t express myself when I am angry at someone. I prefer to keep it to myself, forgive and forget, instead of confronting that person. I want to be able to talk it out and forget immediately. I will surely work it out in this year 2022. Spill it out! ❇️ ONLINE COURSES I do this before but stopped at a point when I couldn´t focus or give more attention to it. Then, it was my studies that didn´t give me time for it, but now that I will be graduating soon, I would have time for online courses so I can add to my CV. ❇️ READ A BOOK EVERY MONTH Seriously, this is one of the reasons I would keep a copy of this so I can remember I need to read a book per month. At least reading 12 books in a year isn´t too much. I can see how beneficial it is to read a book daily to improve you and widen your knowledge. ❇️ MAINTAIN MY FRIENDSHIP ONLINE I have done it before and I will continue in it. I do not have much physical friends, but since I focus much online, I need to maintain the ones I call my friends. I want to keep in touch with them. ❇️ PRACTICE AN ACT OF KINDNESS AND GIVING I will never stop doing this since it´s part of me. I prefer to give voluntarily than doing it when you ask from me. ❇️ WRITE DOWN ONE THING I AM GRATEFUL FOR EVERY NIGHT With this, I have planned to buy a Journal meant only for gratitude alone. I love showing gratitude daily, but I want to make it specific every night so that when I look at my Journal, I will remember how it happened and this would help me appreciate God the more. This would take effect on the 1st of January definitely. ❇️ GO OUT ONCE IN A WHILE Perhaps if I should count how many times I have gone out this year, I don´t think it would reach 10 times. I do not go out unless I am forced to. I do not mean going to the market or school 😂 I mean taking myself out for a treat. I want to do this often, at least to have fun and see things outside instead of locking myself inside as if they have glued my body in the house. Lol ❇️ NOT GIVING EXCUSE Giving an excuse can never lead us anywhere unless we admit our mistakes and change from them. A successful person will never give excuse but takes responsibility of his or her actions. I don't want to give excuse again. I want my Yes to be Yes and my No to be No. I want to take responsibility of my actions. No one would beat or punish me, I just need to come out straight instead of beating around the bush. So help me God. Amen. These are few of my resolutions for the year 2022 and I am promising myself to stick to them. I will always revisit a copy of this so I won't have to deviate from what I have decided for myself. I want to see changes in me. Thanks for reading |December 28, 2021|
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You are an introvert dear. all yo listed there is quite common among majority of introverts. I also do not see you as somebody who gives excuses too. You look very strong both physically and mentally. 😀
Yes, I am an introvert. Lol Thank you darling
You got really nice resolutions. I'm considering improving my savings means and getting better with it daily.
Same with me. Savings is important too.
So help me God also, whaoo.. So many resolution... Well for the anger issue, it normal for words to get under my skin too, but what I do at that moment, I just view the person as a baby talking to me, or I see myself as a supreme being been talk to by his creature, I know the technics looks strange but it works for me.. And I hardly get angry now.. Just try to find something to move your anger away from your mind. It works.. Happy new year in advance
I quite understand you with the technique you used which is good. I will definitely try my best too.
I am glad to hear your resolutions for 2022, and I am sure you would be able to act on them with your determination. My best wishes to you dear.
Thank you, friend.
I us to have anger issues, in my part when I get angry and I talk to you, you would just hide your head. But with intentional efforts and God's grace, I could overcome it!
Some wouldn´t want another to talk when they are talking with anger. I hope we overcome it but I think we can´t finally eliminate anger in us, but we can learn to control it.
I love your resolution to read a book every month! I try to read as much as I can as well, really lifts the mind!
I wish you all the best, Princess!
Resolution are the best feelings we hold at the start of the year. We all have to make best to the upcoming year from the present and you have make perfect one. It will groom your personality and helps you to stay as good human
Yes, I believe it will. Thank you
I hope and pray that God will fullfil your resolutions Princess.
These resolutions are inspiring... Achieving all these takes hard work, determination and commitment. However, with two or more parties involved in these resolutions to checkmate one another makes it possible with ease because as we intend to make others better so would others intend to make us better. Am in these resolutions with you... I see God helping us!!! Amen #OkanlaDavid
That´s great then. I need someone to checkmate me so as to help me see if I am trying or not. Thank you for seeing this with me.
Well, i really do wish i have a resolution for self yet. Quite progressive of you, i would say.
I thought I was the only one that had the issue of keeping things to myself, I struggle with it a lot and I don't think I can keep up with reading a new book every month
You can if you set your mind to it 😊
These are really good resolutions. I also want to do some of the things you wrote here. I hope we'll both be able to achieve them
Yea, thank you.
Oh, that's a lot ha. That anger issue, I think I have that too. I easily get irritated over small and petty things. Just can't help it really. As for a resolution, I don't think I will list some. I know it will never be follow again that's for sure. But to you, Good Luck princess 💪😁
I will try my best with the anger issue. Thank you
All these resolutions are meaningful , and i love how you ended it with "So help me God" . I took up so many online course last year during the lockdown but this year i've relented, next year might be the year for me to resume back. Also, there was a time when i couldn't go a day without reading a novel of any genre, but now it's hard to read one. I'm looking at working on all these next year.
We just need to set our minds to it to make it work out best for us, and I believe it will definitely work out.
These are really great resolutions. It'll be nice if you stick to them. God will help you.
Too early to make a resolution ma. I might make one too. 😁
Yea, it´s too early but this will surely help us start the year 😎
So you're quick to anger 👀 I should probably start treading carefully around you, but it's great that you have decided to work on it. I was also taking online courses last year during the COVID-19 lockdown but I had to stop when universities reopened coz it will be hell trying to do two courses at the same time, I will definitely go back to the course when I am done with school.
Same thing with me. I took online courses during the lockdown but once school resumed, I stopped. Thank God I will have time for it next year by God´s grace. Thank you.
I hope the new year brings out the best in you friend... The first step to doing what you want is identifying them, she your have do this successfully... I wish you the best my friend...
Amen. Thank you Lucifan!
This is just like taking an oat .lol Well ma'am I trust what you can do, I know you're capable of achieving all those things you mentioned out. I think in the aspect of keeping things to myself, I'm not excluded, I always pray for God to give me the heat to say things out my mind anytime necessary.. because it seems to me like I'm killing myself inside. Doing out too, I only go out when I'm at home, but when In school, I maintain myself...lol If not hunger will kill me I'm school after spending the whole money one😂😂😂
In school, one needs to manage himself or herself with what is available. Thank you dear.
You already made your new year resolutions and here I'm a lazy person who are willing to make her own resolutions very soon. I too have a quick temper issue, actually I'm a short tempered person who easily show her anger and her love to people, I just want to change this habit of mine. Best of luck you, all your resolutions are really beautiful and meaningful.
Thank you Irene 😊
All these resolutions are really nice and u hope you're able to fulfill them all in the year to come
I'm happy for you that you have made new year resolutions and I hope you stick to them.
Great resolutions. Either way, I am also looking forward to taking some online courses that will award certificates. If you know any website I can do that, please share. All the best in keeping to your resolutions
I created an account with coursera.org then and I love the courses there. You can try searching too.
Thank you very much, I will do that immediately.
Great!!! I believe everyone should have resolutions for this new year. For myself my resolutions has already been written out and pasted near my pillow on my bed. So as I wake up I can see and work towards it.
That´s great of you. Putting it close to you will make you always remember.
Reading at least one book in a month, I think I'm also game
Yea, thank you.
Reading this, I think I need to write my own resolution and God willing I hope I will be able to keep to them. Yours is very impressive.
Alright then. Thank you!
After reading yours, it made me think of my resolutions too😂. I got that anger issue too before as I got it from my father. Thankful I was able to manage it now. Maybe maturity hits me.
Anger doesn´t know maturity. Lol. One just need to learn how to manage and control it.
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