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If I'm smiling, I must be going against the Tide Date: 2nd March, 2022 Wednesday I'm tired of making people happy without reasons. Too many people around me, think that I can do anything. Well, hello! Yes, I can. But that doesn’t mean I will do anything you want. Just have some common sense. If I'm smiling that doesn’t mean I'm happy with you. Maybe I have some other plans in mind. Maybe I am thinking about the curse I'm bearing on my shoulder. It's not necessary to make people please at their own ways. Sometimes you need to stop of being a pawn of people. Ask me, I will show you the ugly side of it. I am actually sick of people with nasty desires. So here my people, take a lesson. Stop pretending that you can handle the unnecessary pressures that people giving you or I must say, oppressing you. Stand against this cruel rules & burn them with your smile. Yes, it will be enough for them as I think so. I am doing so. I have stopped pleasing people. Why? Because they started demanding more than they can actually have. I know their worth, I know their abilities and I refuse it. I know they can't go back from here. So I stepped back. This is my policy now. Will you listen to your host, my friends? Then here are some tips.
Stop Listening People When you fail to bring smiles on their faces, they will smash you here and there with their words. Now if you start listening them, it will make you feel awkward. Because those words are enough to make you feel down. You may start judging. Look at me. This is totally different situation. Stop listening to them. Step Backward Does the Devil really want you to step back? Aren’t we inspire others to move forward? Yes, we do. But now I'm telling you to step back. When you don’t want to be a pawn or doll in other hands, you need to step back. You have nothing to prove. Just let them think that you have feared. Just pretend that you are scared so that they will not bother you again. Burn them with Your Smile This one is my favourite. Let me tell you something brother. When I step back from them and let them feel that I have failed, I start making my own path of success. I wait for my perfect moment to rise. Then on a very blessed day, I rise. People around me, shows their doubts, questions & negative vibes. I smile at them as an answer for their equations. That's what I do & now I am suggesting the same to you.
Make Notes Just write down the points that people are making about you. Make the notes. There is a positive thing too. Not always people do harm to you. Sometimes they truly want your success. That's why I am asking you to mark the points. Then work on it. Let's reengage our life. Their will be some progress. I hope for the best. Be clear about Goals Never set a blur goal in your life. Be specific and march forward it. You know better about your world. So I highly recommend you to be sure about your dreams and then start making path towards it. This is the high time you make the perfect choice. No one us going to set it, no one will be there with a garland. It is & it will be always you who will walk over the thorns & win the streak. Be successful in life and that’s the wish we really need. If you are unsuccessful, people will show interest in your bad luck. Otherwise they will feel jealous with your success. I can feel it. So remember, if I am smiling that means I definitely must be going against the tide. I am doing my best & I have stopped pleasing as I told you. I hope you have understood my concerns. I'm happy without their cares. All the pictures including the lead one are used from unsplash.com Thanks for being with me. ©Lucifer01
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I totally agree with you because people make more remour and take advantage from unnecessary things and make the people unnecessary pressurized by giving them unknown tension stressed without anything It's must be enjoying our own life
That's what people do.
Lucifer hehe my nick name also lu... I like your writing style and today is my first post I also mentioned you in my post you are brilliant I am inspired from u you got 300 subs
Hello dear. Thanks for it. I will check it.
Always give priority of your own happiness at first then some others.
Learnt from you dear. Such an inspirational.
I'm honored, Thanks bro!
"Burn them with your smile" is something I think about a lot... I mean, A LOT.. Trust me, it kills your enemies to see you smile.. that is why no matter how much you are getting hurt, always smile and keep their a$$e$ humble
And you are master at it. I know your capabilities and I respect your attitude.
Pleasing other people steal your own happiness. Why do you wanna live in the shadow of other people? Enjoy the light and your own shadow. If they are crossing the border, tell them to stop.
Look who's here! My sibling! Hello dear. So happy to see you.
Truth is no matter how hard we may try, we can never be able to please people in its totality. They will always want more and it's never worth it to displease one's self just to please others.
What a worthy words from you! Thanks.
Dear Lucifer, you said very nice, sometimes being in line with people's desires causes irreparable damage to ourselves and our lives. We must find our way and walk in the direction of our dreams, and with our success cause others to envy our lives.
Such an uplifting words from you. Thanks for the advice.
Life is too short to take things too seriously. People may want to bring you down with negativity out of jealousy, don't let them
That’s what I'm tired of. I need to focus on my life.
Life is so critical and so Short...we will have ups and down but we need to move on slowly and steadily in our lives
Indeed brother.
This is actually good advice. There are times when you help people to much that they start depending on you for all their needs and that's a lot for someone to deal with.
Completely true. They demand their wants to become your priority!
"Your own recovery should be your top priority".... Wishing you the best dear
That's how I deal. Thanks for it.
I'm actually new here but I have learnt from your write-up. We need not to set a blur goal, we just be very specific and march forward our goal. Lucifer, thanks for the advice 👍
Hey buddy, good to see you here. New or old doesn’t matter. You works will speak. Let's shine together. Welcome to the family.
I smile alot too but then I don't let people take advantage of that. If any tries to, I'll speak immediately and they'll begin to doubt if they even know me
It happened with me. Yes, I know the feel. Well, good to see you here.
Let's go for our goals Devil! Try to filter some for now:)
Completely agree with you mate. I hope it will work. Let's go. Thanks for that beautiful advices.
Thank you so much for this luci. Sometimes we must step back. I agree luci because sometimes people will advantage us. I love this one, setting a specific goals so that we are sure and we started to make it a steps to achieve it. Now I'm thinking my goals in life luci.
Be specific about that. You need that vision.
It's very funny when you read the notes you have made from what people think about you.
Too many. Some make me anger while some laugh.
I think my lips are getting tired of smiling haha but yeah what's the worth of being so sad, anyways I feel like this when I help people too much like they just depend themselves on me and I feel like being taken for granted.
I understand it dear. Be yourself.
I love that you always go with the truth and not with the beliefs that society imposes
That's not me. I'm not a pawn dear.
Pleasing other people is tiring. Been there, done that. Smile is the best weapon to shoo away the negativities other people demands from us. As what my acquaintances told me, I'm scary when I smile, they're confused whether Im being nice or not.
You are pretty with a good smile dear.
It's ok to be have smile always but sometimes it needs to control by your self it better than choose to avoid trouble Mr Lucifer
I appreciate your suggestion. Thanks dear. Just don't add Mr before my name, I'm not that valuable. Happy being normal.
I call you luci☺️
hay que tener mas confianza en uno mismo y para eso se necesita preparación siempre buscar aprender cosas nuevas y no necesitar de las opiniones de otros.
Estoy de acuerdo contigo. Buena suerte para ti.
That's absolutely right. Sometimes we don't need to walk together with the crowd, we can step back and make our own path to our success. People tend to failed on achieving their dreams Because they keep on listening to what's others want's them to be or wants them to do, which is actually also taking away their freedom. Our future was written in our hands not from the words of others.
Exactly. We decide to make our own ways. I'm tired of making others happy. Well said dear.
Thanks for reminding me Luci. Word for the day "burn them with your smile".
Well said! A smile can go a long way. Choose inner peace and not let others rule your lives. That's a healthy perspective you got there. Enough with kissing a$$. You are much more worth it than to be taken advantaged of.
Yes! Let us all do it in our own way. Smile at them, that is the power. We deserve that peace and happiness.
If you are not blending in, you're doing the right thing! Good morning, Luci!
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