Shine bright like a diamond

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Have you been in a situation that you're loosing interest about yourself, that you're thinking that your life is useless?

I have read a lot of articles about the importance of self-love. For me, self-love is the fruit of loving God first, because if you love God then you're doing your best to take care of yourself as you're His living temple.

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5 years ago, we are having bible study and they had invited this missionary from other county. Since she is a nurse at the same, she was focusing her discussion about the proper ways on how we must take care of ourself especially our health. We are separated from boys, they also have their own discussion area, so we are just all girls that time. She asked if we already have boyfriend, then all of us said none, and added that we are still studying.

Hearing our responses, she smile genuinely and said "I am so proud to all of you, when I was at your age I like to go to a party and have my boyfriend. There's a lot of girls that when they reach teenage they already engage into something that they must not "

She was asking about how we are, about your studies and anything that we are doing getting to know each other like that. Until she told us that we must treat ourselves as a living diamond.

We know that diamond is the most expensive and precious stone in world, or let us say in the universe, which is the Pink Star Diamond.

Why we must treat ourself as a diamond is that we must set ourself as expensive and precious. Think about a jewelry store, you may see different kinds of stones. These stones are place into it's own label and kind, but one thing that stand out is the box or the glass where the diamond placed in.

Being a woman, we must treat ourselves as a expensive stone, that a poor man can't afford. We are not talking about financial but a man who have the wealth of love, effort and faithful.

If you're a person who loves to read science book, or a student having science subjects; then you know that diamond don't shine on it's own. Light is the main source why it looks shining, we see it's bright by 3 ways; and one of it is the reflection.

In life, the light is our hope. If you cut the hope within yourself then how can other people see you shining? Remember that when someone left you behind being broken hearted, then that's only mean, that person can't afford how expensive you are.

Also, treating yourself as a diamond can also be imply to men, it's not only the girls who are the victim most of the time but also boys.

One of my boy bestfriend was so proud of his gf. We are far with each other, but I can see the happiness that he have through social media. I support his happiness, but I am not 100% sure about the girl as I don't know what kind of woman she is.

One night, my boy bestfriend contact me crying because the girl wants to break up with him. I got curious why it happened that I know my bestfriend is a good person and once he is in a relationship he will only stick to it. I asked him why and he said "Bestfriend, she chat me for the last time. She said "I'm sorry, these are all lies." This means that the girl don't really love my bestfriend, she just came with that relationship for some reason or maybe she don't have a trip.

I felt pity to my bestfriend and scold him at the same. I know that he was hurt but I feel bad that he didn't take care himself as a diamond. At first, I already warn him for falling inlove easily but he didn't listen. Still must be careful.

Lastly, what I want to convey for girls is to protect yourself until the right man work hard to get you. While for boys, build within yourself the love and dedication for success, if you finally found the partner of your life, treat her as a diamond of your life.

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Ganda naman ng message mo sis... Sana mabasa 'to ng iba lalo na mga millenial girls ngayon.. Ganda ng story

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2 years ago

Everybody we should do Self love. This is the most important things for us and when you finally got your partner treat him/her as a diamond. I love it your concept dear ❤️

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2 years ago

I love that concept of loving God adequately before you can love yourself well. Infact that's something I realized not so long ago. You're indeed a diamond, never hide your light.

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2 years ago

Unless you value yourself and know your worth, you'll never treat yourself like a diamond. This process starts from within, from you first.

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2 years ago

at first, I thought about the song "shine bright like a diamond" by Rihanna and then you have taken all my interest in the topic it is really so enlightening.

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2 years ago

All women are as precious as diamond, we just need to realize it. I really hate those people who uses others for their own benefit, for gaining some joys by playing with other's innocent heart. This is why I believe we should not fall in love easily we need to understand everything about the person with whom we are going to build a relationship.

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2 years ago

Diamonds always give light. One should enlighten oneself before enlightening oneself in the light of diamonds. Only then will your love for yourself grow.

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2 years ago

We women's are diamond itself, just being ourselves and treating ourself us the most expensive stone that's worth more than any thing is the best thing we must do, we are not just any stone that is mistreated, we need to shine the brightest always.

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2 years ago

A diamond one can shine brightly and the hardest to break, so as a human we must be like diamonds to protect ourselves. We're all worthy like diamonds, we must keep it on our minds.

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2 years ago

Women are really as precious as diamonds I agreed with that. Men should treasure their women for they are wealthy. In your friend, like a diamond, they always try to break it out. But the diamond is the hardest stone on earth, no matter how they break it apart. Diamond is strong and not easy to break. Be a woman worth of same value as a precious gem hehe. Good morning.

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2 years ago

Yes shine like a stat beacuse when yu glow than everyone wil focus on you and have time for you

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2 years ago

It is also true that a diamond, apart from being the most beautiful is also the hardest substance in the world.. A woman of strength of character in addition to beauty is the best treasure in the world

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2 years ago

We need to build ourselves and don't see ourselves as worthless,but see ourselves as a precious diamond.

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2 years ago

Women shine like diamonds, so we should not settle for less. I actually love the thoughts that you shared here my friend. It's a reminder to all the girls out there. Know your worth, indeed.

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2 years ago

We shouldn't see ourselves as worthless but worth good value. We are just like a diamond that is expensive and rare to see. One of the ways to do this is by setting our priorities right and doing the right thing. We should never settle for less and also respect ourselves more.

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2 years ago

an extraordinary analogy, be like a diamond will never fade by time and have its own image as an expensive item, as well as our lives can always keep our lives from being polluted and the true protection is only in God.

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2 years ago

It is, God made us as the highest among others, so we must set a diamond as the highest among all the stone.

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2 years ago

When I have a good conversation with a girl, it makes me feel proud. And that's the power of girls. I feel good reading this.

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2 years ago

Life of a woman, there must be some point that we must have this what we called "girl talks" :D

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2 years ago

I felt the pain with your bestfriend sis. The girl is only using him because she has a purpose. She's really a sinful. She's playing the feelings of a guy. She didn't deserve to your bestfriend sis. I know someday he will meet a girl who deserve to your bestfriend sis.

Yes true sis, once we committed to someone we should make our partner as a diamond. Treasure it with our life. Make them special. Love them unconditionally.

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Sobra Sis, siguro naging way lang bestfriend ko para pasayahin sya pero di talaga sya yung gusto ng girl.

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2 years ago

Oo sis grabe yung ginamit niya lang yung tao.

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2 years ago

This is called woman power. Rise girls. Well said dear.

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2 years ago

Thanks Devil:)

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2 years ago

My dear friend, you said very nice. We can become like a precious diamond and show our worth to others, it is enough to have a little more faith in ourselves. And seek those who know our worth, and appreciate it.

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2 years ago

True! Those people who knows each and everyones worth are those who are the real rich people in life.

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2 years ago

As a girl we always try to poolish ourselves especially our character, and make ourselves strong and like a diamond so no one break us and our hearts🔥

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2 years ago

Totally right Sis. Strong and precious as diamond.

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