I think we need to pull ourselves from our phone screens and start embracing mirrors, look to it and say "have I given my attention to timelines because I want to be considered as the dopest or the sexiest. Have I given my dreams less of me?, Have I given my mental health less of me?, Have I given my health less of me?, Have I given God less of me?, because the truth of it all is I wrestle with my own significance and I tend to see the less in me."
But if I sincerely want to see the best in me then that means I'm gonna have to invest in me.
If truly you want to be iconic and different then those Icons might have to see less of you. You cant be upthere all clumsy and completely clueless and you expect someone to come to your aid. It's a big lesson for me because I need to take back my identity and say "they can never be told by the number of likes, views, shares, mentions, tweet, dm's"
Why do we compare ourselves to someone else if all we see is just the highlights flashing back at us, the daring quests to become iconic is now held in the faith of icons. We rely so much in whatever we see that our attentions are divided and sometimes it's so strange how we can like the flaws of others that we also posses. When eventually it becomes revealing, we see how demanding we've already become.
A quick test let's say I present 3 characters to you. The first active character is right in front of you and what we all see is an Instagram picture of someone who just got a letter to be the new front runner of an international race....Then the very next section is to visualize that picture and the only thing you see and do is lead yourself to unhappiness then you operate out of obligation like you must do something at that time. Why not think about it as an exercise, think about what is bordering you at that point when you saw that picture and think about how your resources could have been because that's how powerful your emotions are and where you direct your energy is where your life will go.
The second active character,
Another Instagram shot of a person who just bought a new apartment recently maybe just displays the little efforts he or she did to achieve that success and all you can do at that very moment is to equally say "My life should have this same pattern" that feeling of yours is trying to tell you something so you can learn from it. If your life seems broken why not be more positive because you won't get better if you don't let that feeling pass. Sometimes you see a cycle of very good intentions such like the character just showed an achievement and then all you can bring out from that portrait into your self is failure and guilt.
The third active character,
Another Instagram shot of a model just show-casing her beauty and all you do is try to draw attention by following the same trail. I see a lot of competition going on, some will look a lot worse just posing to be the same exact person. It could be helpful though, sometimes it's really good to set your standards to people that you like and respect too, but there are definitely chaotic elements in there too.
You must embrace alignment, not just you trying to live somebody else's life but you believe and see what you want to become. If all you need to do in life is to be the best of you and nobody else, you gotta live your life in alignment, walk towards your goal and not the elements.
You have to express you self, be committed to change your lifestyle and if you want to be whatever it is you desire why not express it in you own different way. Your lives can both be the same, or even a lot better but you wouldn't be considered less.
Of all the scenarios, it was all the same point of view. One things is it makes you become a demanding thirst grid that just needs attention. So please take a little break, you've seen too much of the drama 'Focus' is the watch word and you'll be fine.
Back to the start can you see that you already have the answers to those questions, and you have rightly the chance to face it squarely nothing left out. So now how can you make amends, its very simple trace you trend and everyone will follow.
I love you all.
My first time uploading a screenshot of this checker, I hope it wouldn't be taken from a different perspective.
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We've often lived by comparing the quality of our lives with other people's. This is a real diminishing factor and wouldn't allow us grow to our full capacity. Because we'd be busy living someone else's life.