Be ready to move on whenever you feel disrespected, neglected, lied to or when you notice the other person is not who you thought they where.. Keep your senses and eyes open so that you won’t have to waste days or months or years of your life with someone or a position that’s you don’t get cared for.. keep your standards and values high so that anyone you come across with will know from the start, you love yourself and will not accept anything less than true happiness..
You deserve better, you’re beautiful inside and out know your worth it takes a lot of time to understand a situation and then do something about it.. You’ve got to be there to know how it feels’ that a big lie, if you don’t do anything about your problems now you’re taking it over to the new year.. find happiness in everything that is going on presently, secondly you must have knowledge of the fact that you are you and you must love yourself more..
I talked about this in an article few weeks back and I got so many beautiful comments.. and I hope that you got the message and you never had to be told twice, you understand who you are and that’s the main reason why you should know your worth.. be kind to your self, you’ve been the whole back bone of your relationship but still you are not shown love, it wouldn’t hurt to say to say it, there are a lot of things going on in the world today..
Truly that’s how rejected or left out you’ll feel for the rest of 2021, that ain’t going to happen.. You are empress and empresses and you deserve more than what you get all the time. So please pay attention, nobody is going to be in the best place to give you an advice because they really don’t know why you face and I’m in no good position to tell you to change anything.. Only you can understand because it’s you who face all of this, it’s your decision to make.. Most times those little things we ignore causes depression and grieving..
After everything you’ve done or try to make right, you get ignored sometimes shown the opposite sides of love and you can’t take this anymore.. save yourself the stress and energy, and even if you can’t dismiss the entire relationship or whatever it is please don’t let it bother you.. All I’m after is that you cross the month of December in good health and in the right state of mind.
There’s a recent story someone told a friend and it was about a man with six children and he everything his wife does he so much detest.. and even to the point of beating her mercilessly in front of the kids and now decides that he wants to take a new wife.. She literally didn’t do anything to him and all he sees was a side that only him could see and not anybody else.. She doesn’t want to leave and wants to protect the marriage even though that’s not going to happen..
Where am I driving at with this?” she was still trying to impress him by all means possible neglecting her own health in the process, the more she does that it agitates and makes everything worse than it is.. But what baffles me is that she still wouldn’t stop showing love to this man and I don’t really know the main reason why even if she’s always abused..
This is a recent story and is still happening, it’s so painful to be in that situation but my advice is to just look after yourself much more give yourself credit, motivate yourself, pray and commit it to God if you have to.. don’t let your 18 days later be in the hospital, Or any other worst case scenario. I trust that you will be more of your favorite self, he or she will be surprised how you stay happy in this whole thing..
Thank you for reading… happy new week and stay blessed and productive for the rest of the week.. Be ready to move on if that isn’t the right place for you anymore or talk to people that can help you through the process..
I need your advice for that lady coz I don’t know if I gave her a good advice or not.. but if you have further suggestions kindly drop in the comment section..
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December 2021
The truth is 2 things are there - 1- people belonging to the older mindset tries to save their marriage at any cost 2- people when loves you in an extreme manner
I won't do any personal comments but I must say that we are living in a post-modernisation era where everyone deserves to be treated equally its not the era of patriarchal mindset instead it's the era of Equality, where human dignity is valued and definitely should be valued.
Another case which could be related it the lack of education and awareness especially in developing and poor countries and therefore, the authority must conduct sessions to spread awareness among the people and must encourage people to join these sessions because in developing and poor countries people really do not take interest attending these sessions, and also the stakeholders like the UN body responsible for human rights and issue should be much more active than it already is.
I now do not want to in-depth, sorry king gozie but maybe I will also try to address this topic if you do not have the problem that will lead to copying your ideas) tell me in the comment if you want me to publish or not?