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Match making Good evening readers, I'm back like I never left. I remember making a short post even though I'm not sure if I published it or not but I think I did, it stated why I was going to be away from readcash for a while. My phone developed a fault that I couldn't afford to repair with my own pay as a student and this is also the only extra platform that I can get paid but unfortunately my phone couldn't cooperate with that goal. Well, you think I'm back? I'm not so sure yet, I just decided to come back again to make this post through someone's phone, hopefully I would be given access to this phone anytime I want it but if not, I guess I'm still away for a while. It's not going to be too long, hopefully because this year is going to be a very good year for everyone. Oh yeah!!! It's a new year and this is my first time on this platform this year. I still owe you a HAPPY NEW YEAR greeting, I wish everyone of us the very best this year and a huge cash out at the end of this year. Thanks for your support, I wish to render my support too this year. Bless up 💓 To my story, it's going to be a short one tho... Mrs. Stanley had delay in child birth and after about fifteen years of marriage, she later gave birth to a boy. She decided to pamper this child to the fullest and didn't even mind about spoiling him. Fred had everything he needed at his fingertip and didn't lack anything, his mum was reach and it was really evident on him. After his secondary school, she decided to fly him out of the country to further his education, his mother has always been his deciding factor and he could barely do anything without telling his mother. I'm not against telling your parents things but as a man, you ought to have some things you can solve by yourself, this wasn't Fred, if he was going to change his soap, his mum must know, he doesn't even eat without telling his mother, *(that's exaggerated tho)*🤣 but it was almost that bad. Mrs Stanley has a childhood friend, Mrs Smith in the city and she would always ask after Fred anytime she was with her friend and this went on and on until he was about to get married. When it was almost time for his marriage, his mother began to show concern and her friend would always tell her to allow him choose by himself but she wouldn't listen. She wanted to choose a wife for him, who does that tho? In the long run, she asked Mrs Smith about her daughter, Stella and Mrs Smith made her understand that her daughter would never accept that deal but she insisted that they asked her and truly she declined their offer, deep down inside Stella's mother, she also wanted it and when she got home, she tried to convince her daughter into this contract marriage letting her know how rich this young man is, she told her mother that she'd think about it and give her a reply the next morning. The next morning came just like the next minute and Stella was awake when her mother rushed into her room to hear her opinion. Stella has been wanting to travel abroad and she felt this was a great opportunity, without her mother knowing her plan, she decided to marry Fred and she treated him like a king until he took her overseas, she got him to sign a couple of letter and asked for a divorce. This was the first time Fred would be in devastation and he hurriedly called his mother, she was shocked but was that surprising? To cut the story short, Stella got almost all his property and married a white man which gave her the citizenship Fred couldn't offer. Do you think Stella did the right thing? Who's at fault in this scenario, Mrs Stanley or Stella? I need your contributions in the comment section 🥰 Thanks for reading ❤️

Marriage When we were much younger, my dad never wanted to hear us talk about marriage (myself and my siblings)😀. What did we know about it anyway... I was still in primary school and didn't know a thing but I knew I wanted to wear a Cinderella dress😂. There was a day I was talking about it with my mum. Can't remember exactly what I was talking about. It was either my wedding gown or the number of children I'll have (those were my favorite marriage topics)😁, I didn't know my dad was listening. You know how Nigerian fathers can be😂. Sharp sharp, he reminded me to face my books. One of my mentors some time ago mentioned something about marriage that made a lot of sense. I'll be very honest. When I attend weddings, part of the focus on my mind is the attire of the couple and how radiant they look, food, pictures, constructive imaginations of how my wedding day would look like and how I would look the love of my life in the eyes and say I do. I never really pay attention to the vows. My mentor on the other hand, can recite the vows word for word. When he attends a wedding ceremony, he pays attention to the vows and how deep it is. He said many people go into marriage without thinking of what they're committing themselves to. That's true. Who doesn't love the paparazzi that comes with a wedding ceremony. The beautiful dress, the food, the pictures and the moments spent awwing and creating your own mental image of a happily ever after with the love of your life. I used to hear my parents when they pray for us since we were little. They'd pray for God to give us good spouses. It's still part of their prayer points till date. God bless them ❤ I've been learning about marriage recently and I must say this. Truly, marriage is beautiful. God is so creative to have come up with the idea and it is his desire to give us men and women after his heart with whom we will raise wonderful, godly homes. I used to wonder why despite this desire of God for us, so many people still aren't fulfilled in their marriage, even after claiming to have been led by God. But I've understood that there are several reasons, part of which is going into marriage without a faulty understanding of what marriage entails. Marriage is not all about wedding gown and a beautiful reception, or just getting a good spouse either. I've gathered from the sermons I've listened to, books I've read and people's experiences that there are certain things we need to unlearn and a whole lot to learn before going into marriage. You don't start acquiring these knowledge when you've found Mr Right, you start way beforehand. I'll share some things I've learnt with you, kindly share what you've learnt too😊 ▪ When it comes to marriage, don't be carried away by what you see on the outside. People can package themselves really well when they need a partner (He prays alot, she dresses well, he's wealthy, she's hardworking, he's a pastor, she's a choirmistress etc.) Allow God lead you. ▪ Don't expect to start hearing God when you need a spouse if you haven't heard him for once in your life. Build a relationship with God way before you start thinking marriage. ▪ Your spouse can never take the place of God in your life. ▪ If you have a bad character, marriage is not a character changer that automatically transforms you to a saint. ▪ Marriage is not a solution to sexual immorality. Masturbation, fornication (adultery, in marriage), addiction to pornography, homosexuality etc., doesn't end automatically because you're married. Get your deliverance before marriage because it can be the end of your marriage. ▪ Marriage is not a confidence booster for low self esteem. ▪ Marriage is not the solution to all of life problems. ▪ Marriage doesn't grant you a ticket to heaven. ▪ Marrying in God's will is not a guarantee for a blissful home. If you're not willing to work together as a couple towards it, expect it to crash even though God led you. ▪ The fact that you're from thesame denomination is not a guarantee for your marriage to work. "I must marry from my denomination" is not scriptural, and God cannot be stereotyped. He can lead you to a saved heavenly minded Christian outside your denomination. ▪ Also, marriage is not for boys and girls. You have to be mature- physically, mentally, emotionally and be capable of sustaining an independent life. Maturity is not defined by age alone. ▪ Whatever baggage we carry about in our lives, need to be dealt with before marriage. Don't expect your spouse to do what only Jesus Christ and yourself can do for you. Marriage is not magic. With magic, you can wish away whatever you don't desire, but with marriage, you have to be intentional and committed. The devil is more intentional about attacking Christian homes now that he knows the time is short. We can't afford to open the door wide to him. Start being intentional about your own home now. Oya share your thoughts. What else should we take note of🙂 ©OLUWABUKUNMI Thanks for reading ❤️

I caught him with another lady in bed **Date: 13/11/21** **#Article 3** Good evening read stars, I'll first start by apologizing for posting a little late today but I guess I haven't passed schedule yet but that's not an excuse for not writing tho, it has just been a busy day, I had to support my boyfriend's hall in the mini inter hall competition they played today and that was how my day has been. You might be interested in this story and think it's my life story but I'm telling you not to judge me by whatever you read here because everything is fictional and all the names mentioned here are also imaginary. I gained admission into the university at the age of nineteen, you might think that's quite late but that was due to some challenges I faced right in secondary school before I graduated, I couldn't even graduate with my mates because I had an issue with a teacher, I don't know why he hated me so much that he failed me in his subject which was a compulsory subject to pass to qualify for promotion. Wait🤔, I think I remember why he hated me. He is actually a student teacher, I mean a teacher that was just allocated to my school as a corp member, I was lucky to grow mature early enough and that was what he was probably attracted to in me and was why he kept pestering me that I had an affair with him, I rejected him blankly and promised to report him if he molests me further which he actually did. I reported him to the school authorities and he was almost sacked but he was given a query instead but that didn't teach him a lesson, he just resulted in hating me and that's not fair but I guess God has a plan for everyone because I'm enjoying where I am at the moment. Back to my story, I gained admission in the year 2019, all my friends were in 200 level when I just gained admission into the university and because of this, I was determined to graduate from the university with a first class but that became a blurry dream when I entered 200 level and guys started approaching me with their love talks, I friend zoned all of them but there was this resilient one, Charles, he wasn't for defeat, he was always on my neck and never got tired of being by my side, I kept putting him on hold and waiting for him to pull clear but that plan didn't seem to work. He was caring, no doubt, there was even a time that I needed money to start up a mini business to survive in school and he came through. So, I decided to give him a chance or benefit of doubt like some people would call it. Truthfully, the relationship was the best I've ever had at that point because he was just too nice but I kept suspecting that there was something about his over caring attitude, he was like that to everyone too and me being skeptical would make me feel like I'm jealous because he was also so free with babes. This has even caused a lot of arguments but he always claimed that there was nothing between him and those ladies and I believed him. We kept this relationship for close to 3 months when he came to me and asked if I could help him with $700 for him to secure an accomodation because he claimed we weren't having enough privacy at his friend's place where he was squatting and I reasoned with him and told him that I'd think about it. I gave it a thought and called him over after three days of his request, it wasn't like I didn't have the money but I intentionally delayed it so that he won't think it was easy for me to get the money for him because it was really my savings and some other amount that I could gather from my parents and extended family. He came 2 hours after I had called him, probably he was in class because he was also a student of my school. As soon as he came, I explained how hard it was for me to get him the amount and he promised that he won't mis allocate the money and also promised to return the money in less than 6 months. We even both went to where he was going to rent the house and after he got the apartment, I assisted him in carrying some of his loads to his new place and left him with the arrangements, after his seventh day in the new hose, I decided to pay him a surprise visit and bought a particular bag he has been craving along for him. On getting to the gate, I could hear the blaring music from his apartment and was wondering what kind of party he was hosting that I didn't know about, I moved closer to the door, and it was even clearer that the music was coming from his own apartment. I knocked and there was no response, so I decided to turn around and check through the window of his room, I really wish I turned back at the door because I couldn't bear seeing him making out with another lady in the same apartment that I borrowed him money to rent. I couldn't hold my tears but he couldn't hear me cry because of the loud music, I left the building with my eye bags filled. I swore not to call him again and get him arrested after 6 months if he refused to return my money... That was how I had my first ever heart break and it was really pathetic. I need you to show your thoughts in the comment section ☺️ Thanks for the love ❤️

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How I lost my dog and $250 **Date: 12/11/21** **#Article 2** Good afternoon here once again, I've been so happy since I joined here yesterday, the level of welcome that I've received since I joined yesterday has been heart warming and I hope it continues this way. On a sunny Saturday, I had woken up late that day because I went to party over Friday night, it was a really nice party even though I didn't plan to go but thanks to my friend, Stephanie who came to drag me out of my house to follow her and I really didn't regret any moment going out that night apart from the fact that I woke up real late, around 12:53pm on Saturday. I hurriedly took my bath and made cereal to give me strength till I got to my fiance's place. I was running late already because I had a date by 2pm, he started calling me around 1:30pm to be sure if I would still be able to make it to his place because he knew about where I went last night. I left my apartment in haste but as soon as I got to the gate, I saw a young man carrying a puppy, it was all these pet breeds, an American husky to be precise and I really fell in love seeing that dog. I have been a dog lover since I was ten when my father bought a dog, although it was a German shepherd, it didn't stay too long before it was poisoned by our jealous neighbors. I remember how hard I cried when Bella died, it was really a sad moment for me and the whole family infact because she was just a year old, my dad promised to get me another dog but I refused and insisted that I wanted Bella again but that wasn't possible, that was why I was curious when I saw this guy with the dog. I was lost in the moment and even forgot about where I was headed as I approached him to as if he was the owner of the dog and if it was up for sale and this conversation ensued; Me: hey, how much would you like me to offer you for this puppy? God's power: I'd really love to sell you this puppy but it has been booked already and I'm even just on my way to deliver her to the owner but I can help you get another one if you're still interested. Me: oh that's a nice idea but I'd be glad if you could get me a Samoyed breed instead, would that be possible? God's power: well, I'm a dog dealer and I cannot say it is not possible but it will be hard and it would cost time and money. Me: I would go any extent to get it, just give me your phone number He gave me his phone number and told me that it will cost at least $250 and I was surprised but I knew the dog is going to be flown into the country, so I agreed and advanced a payment of $100 to him so that I'd balance his payment when he brings the dog. At this point, my man was already getting angry because I was not showing up and I was also ignoring his calls but when I finally got to his place, I apologised and explained to him why I was late and he understood and even promised to complete the payment for me which he did almost immediately as he wired the remaining $150 into my account and I was thankful for that as we headed towards KFC, this place is known for chicken specially, I have always heard about their specially made chicken but that was apparently my first time of going there and it was all fun as I enjoyed every segment of the date. We had chicken and chips and couldn't even finish it and had to take the rest of it home. Let's skip Sunday and go to Monday when I called God's power about the dog and he said the dog just entered the country that day and he was going to get to my place latest on Tuesday and I couldn't wait to see my new pet. Tuesday morning came and I didn't see God's power, I called him again and he told me to be calm as he was going to bring the dog that evening. At exactly 5pm, I heard a knock on my gate, I ran down to open the gate and he was the one with my pretty pet dog. I gave him his balance and appreciated his service as I closed the gate after him, we also had some other talks but that's not necessary here. I carried the dog inside and gave it it's already prepared meal that I bought from a store not far away, this dog was very jovial and active for the first three to five days that it was with me before I started noticing how lazy it had become, I complained to God's power and he asked me to pay another sum of $80 for the treatment of the dog which I did, he took the dog away and never returned. I kept calling his phone number and he didn't pick up, this was very saddening until I found a way to arrest him and he was charged to court, he explained to the court how he was scared after the dog died, he claimed to have been scared so he couldn't face me and tell me that the dog had died. The judge asked if he was a vet doctor and he said that he wasn't, to cut the long story short, the court asked him to pay only the $80, that he took from me for the treatment of the dog because according to law, he had completed the first part of the contract by delivering the dog to me and anything that happened afterwards was my fault. **My conclusion** Always seek professional advise when you're going to get something that you know nothing about, be it a car, take a mechanic along or a dog or any pet like my case, take a vet doctor. I was ignorant of this and I paid dearly for it. The essence of taking a professional along is to check the well-being of whatever you're purchasing so that you won't regret buying such thing. Do you have any contributions to this? You can add yours to the comment box. Thanks for reading 😊❤️ All images including the lead image are gotten from unsplash.com

My journey into readcash... **Date: 11/11/21** **My first article** Good afternoon here, it's a great opportunity being among intellectuals here, although I am new to this platform, I have taken time to go through a lot of people's posts and I've seen the level of intelligence being shared on this platform. I'm really amazed and grateful to be here. I was actually opportuined to have heard about read.cash because I was just privileged to be around when my friends were talking about read.cash, I was curious to know more about it. She told me all I needed to know about the website concerning the types of article I can write, she also advised that I stick to a particular kind of writing style so that people would notice me for what I write. I also went through @Abhay 's account and saw the wonders that had occurred. A lot of people have been blessed through this platform and I also want to be a blessing to this great community... **My objectives:** My first aim for joining this platform is to build my writing skills, I have great interest in writing and reading. I am infact known for reading big books in my school but it's a pity that I couldn't study the law I wanted to, it's a long story on its own, the reason why I'm not studying law but I guess God has plans for everyone of us in this life and that's why I've decided to stay cool where he has put me. Moreso, I've read articles and I noticed that more people write on crypto currency and other staking businesses and I've tried hard enough to increase my knowledge vastly on crypto currency and it's exchanges. My next objective is to meet people of like mind, you can imagine how nice it is to find people that think just the way you do and based on what I've read so far on the site, I've been able to figure out one or two people that will definitely make potential great friends, it is something to be able to express your mind through your writings and it's another thing to be understood by the message you seem to have conveyed. I would like to meet people who can interprete what I write and love me for what I write because I could be an emotional writer sometimes but I'll try to bring that to the minimal. The overall reason of being on this platform is the obvious, to make money. Yes, it might not be the most important of all my reasons tho but trust me, the earning part of this platform is also an exciting idea, it lightens up my imagination and makes me think even better and deliver better articles. Who doesn't like money? Maybe you tho😂 but I do and I'm ready to impress people here so that I would be able to get engagements on my writings, either by liking, commenting or even upvoting my posts and comments, everything is pretty accommodated and appreciated. My next objective is to grow steadily in the learning of BCH as a crypto currency, I really want to be a specialist at this digital currency and as such, I must be a very good holder of this coin. I have heard laments on how BCH has been falling in value these past few days and I can just only hope it gets better and better even before next year comes. My last aim is also to get the badge of one of the best tippers and I hope and pray I'm able to do that because it takes discipline to keep giving even without receiving sometimes but with the help of you all, my future sponsors and supporters, I hope that my aim becomes a reality because I also like being noticed by people and that badge would be a dream come true. In conclusion, I am ready to give my best to this community and I pledge to do what I can to attract the best of sponsors and upvotes to my page and I hope I will get that fulfilled in coming days and I pray I don't disappoint my mentors. I am grateful to @Abhay @Queen001 , @James2k21 and others that I enquired from to write this article. Thank you all very much and I hope to see your massive engagements soon...