Which type of setting do you need?
A beautiful afternoon to everyone, I won't say happy new month again rather I will say how is the new month to us now? Is it friendly or otherwise or are we just starting to get along? I will take getting along as an answer cos the month is still fresh.
We all are familiar with the meaning of setting and I don't think the definition is needed but most times we only know some words and we don't get to know the true meaning, so I will assist us with this so that we all can grab what I will say about it.
According to the Oxford dictionary, setting means a position at which the controls on a machine can be set or the place on a computer or other electronic device where you can choose the way that it works or looks.
We, humans, aren't perfect and so, we all need settings in our daily life. We need someone to set us or we set ourselves base on things we see and learn from. Let's take the phone, for instance, there's always a setting on every phone for us to set it to our taste and choice, it doesn't mean the phone aren't perfect for us but there is always a space for our set it cos it's can misbehave at any time.
Just like a phone is, that's how everyone is, we aren't perfect, we must have been moulded to the best mode but we still need one or two settings at every point in life as we journey in this world and as we grow up especially. When we are growing up, there are some things, we decide to leave and some things we decide to dive into and make it out custom, that's one of those settings we are applying to our life. I can say that we do set ourselves every blessed day as we wake up to see another day, we set ourselves from things we see, what we have read, experiences we have gathered, what we have heard and so on.
We all have different stages in our life that require settings, and they are;
Marriage settings
Relationship settings ( be it friendship or romantic one )
Educational settings
Financial settings
Emotional settings
And so many other areas of our life.
Some settings on our phone require us to flash the phone and we lost a lot of vital information but in the end, we actually benefit from what we want after flashing it, so is some event in our life that requires us to totally flash them off our head so that our life can have a good setting.
For instance, a lady that was raped when she was small, it is very difficult for her to remember and this event will be on her head for year's and it will keep affecting her life in all spheres of life but on the day she determines to bring up new settings to her by flashing off the event of her head, that's the day her life will start to receive good and change to a better working condition like a phone.
And some settings don't need flashing, it only needs a minor adjustment. For instance, a person that gets angry at any little things end up messing everything up and later regret her action because she must have said a lot of things to people that might help while she was angry but immediately she took the right setting by embracing patience in his/her life, all things will start to work for her positively. Such a person only adjusted herself to fit into such a setting that he/she needs for her life.
I will like to drop my pen here and call it a day, I hope we can grab one or two things from today's article and make a U-turn for the betterment of our life.
Know the type of settings your life needs and adjust yourself to it or allow people to adjust you by being open for correction.
Don't forget to thumb up, God bless.
Byee for now😍😍😍.
2nd November 2021.
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And sometimes we need to be restored to factory settings 😅. Because something we complicate our lives and we need to go back to our original self like factory settings so we can find peace and happiness