August 2, 2021
Hi Lovely Readers!
I must admit it's a tiring day today and how I wish I have that stock of ideas where I can just pull out a topic to share with you. Just like a library that is full of books but instead of books full of ideas that I can write about and share it all with you. I know there are so many topics out there that I can write and I thought I already have picked one this afternoon but as I sit here in front of my laptop I just don't know where to start.
And just because I can't think of any topic let's just talk about being single since I'm one of those singles. Just don't ask why ok? Because I really can't answer that question. Speaking of questions let me check if there are questions out there that are intended for single persons.
After consulting Dr. Google here is what I found, 40 questions that single people are tired of hearing. Let's pick 10 questions and I'll answer them for you, no I changed my mind let us just make it six questions. I'm a woman so yes, I'm entitled to change my mind every 10 seconds. LOL
https://thoughtcatalog.com/rania-naim/2016/04/40-questions-all-single-women-are-tired-of-hearing/
Let's start.
Do you think you’re being too picky?
Am I being picky? I think I am, especially now that I'm not young anymore, As you grow with age you just can't pick someone that will come to you without thinking of a lot of things unlike when we are young. Not that I'm saying that you can't be picky when you are young, but when you are young and pick the wrong person you have a reason because you are young and you didn't think so much about it. Having mistakes like that when you are young is still understandable, but when you make a mistake like that when you are a bit older you will hear words that you don't want to hear from the elders. So yes I'm being picky. LOL
When was the last time you went out on a date?
When? April of 2019 in Perth. Yep, that was a long time ago. Details? nope let's not talk about the details. LOL What happened in between that period up to the present? Who can date nowadays? Unless you are in a relationship but risking going out these days with someone you hardly knew is not practical. That is why I haven't gone out to date ever since then.
What do you do on weekends?
It's pandemic you cannot go out on weekend and besides I'm busy with my store. Thank God it's pandemic I have a reason why I'm not going out on weekends hahaha. But before the pandemic, I usually went out, have coffee with friends, dinner, or movies with friends, and if time permits yes I'm going out of town with them, and was lucky that before the locked down started I was able to go out of town with a friend and went to Zambales, it was December of 2019.
Isn’t there someone you at least like?
Yep, I do have someone that I like. The one I dated last April 2019. But we are so far away from each other so I'm not sure if it still has a future.
So how long have you been single?
How long have I been single? I'm not sure, I think for about 3 years now.
Do you like the single life?
Do I like it? Seriously? I'm loving it actually. There's no pressure, there's no fight but of course, there are times that I miss having someone but it doesn't mean I can't enjoy being single. I have a lot of time to know myself more, to love myself more but it doesn't mean I'm not welcoming anyone, however, if there is someone out there who will make me fall in love with him why not. I still look forward to having someone I can share my life with but as for now, I'll enjoy being single and pamper myself with things that I want in life and things I want to do.
That's it, those are the questions that most single women are tired of hearing especially from elders and from relatives. I know their intentions are good for asking those questions but I also think some people are not being sensitive enough to ask those kinds of questions. There are questions in life that are not easy to answer and there are questions that are better left unanswered.
If you are single I challenge you to answer some of these questions too just for fun :)
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I also love my life as being single. Okay na ako sa maging tagapayo Ng mga heartbroken Kong kaibigan hahaha. Tama na walang masyadong pressure kapag single ka at Hindi ka namomoblema . Enjoy na lang muna pagiging single Kase kapag nagka jowa mag-iiba na Ang lahat.