I never thought I would share my love story here because I think like "Who cares?" but I was inspired by @Yenand @Bestie plus the people who commented on my short post that wants to hear mine too.
Our First Meet
Our first met was April 3, 2011. I joined a clan texter group (Jeje days lol). April 3 was the date set of our group to have an eyeball. The eyeball was held at the beach, I arrived at the location in the afternoon with my friend. He on the contrary came in the evening. When he came I already had a shot of vodka (I used to drink a lot before, if you read my freewriting about alcohol effects "My Alcohol Insanity") you will read from there that I am an alcoholic girl before 😂. So back to the story, I already had some shots of vodka. When they arrived with his friend, he already catches my attention. He is tall, white complexion has looks, and very neat quality that . I was attracted to him, at first glance 😂. I am free and bold before when I like the person I will make the first move. So I went to him and our conversation goes like this,
Me: "Hi, I'm Dyosa (my codename)and you are?"
Him: "Hello I am BNT" (His codename).
We shake hands and I like it 😂😂
Me: "Never heard of you huh? And I don't have your number too".
Him: "Well, I already heard your codename but I also don't have your number".
Me: "Do you have a girlfriend?"
Him: "No, I don't have a girlfriend". (He was shocked by my aggressive questions 😂 and answer it reluctantly)
Me: "Wow! That's good then will you be my boyfriend?"
Him: Silent... (he was shocked even more and didn't even bother to answer me 😂😂😂)
Me: "Oh man, I'm just kidding!"
Him: "Oh? Okay".
Me: "But if you like the idea, we can have a try "😁😁
Him: Silent again... (Didn't answer me back lol)
Me: "I'm just kidding again, don't be so serious 😂 here, why don't have some vodka" (I was holding a glass of liquor and give it to him)
Him: "Sorry, I don't drink".
Me: "oh common, just one shot. Just take this one please". (With pa cute gestures lol but no effect 😂)
Him: "I am really sorry, I don't drink liquor".
To my dismayed, I drink it instead and walk out from his sight. I was like being busted twice 😂😂😂, it was my first time meeting a man who does not accept my offer and does not drink alcohol much (don't get me wrong, he was the first man I ask to be my boyfriend 😂)
That night I was convinced, that I will do my best to get him because I always have this attitude to get what I really want, to satisfy my ego. I do not sound like a lady right? Hahaha, that's why I said this is not a typical love story lol.
So days passed, after the eyeball our group moderators are sending group messages with the numbers of those who attend the eyeball, so I got his number and my evil plan started lol.
April 6, 2011, that was the date we agreed to feat each other since he doesn't have a girlfriend and me either. Featuring is like advertising its codename at the last part of the message it can be as being in a relationship with that person.
I never thought that it will last because we didn't have this normal dating it happened quickly just like a game. We are far from each other, I live in a rural place and he lives in the city. He has to travel 6, hours from his hometown to mine if he wants to see me. Our relationship only evolves in texting and calling each other. As days passed, we started to get to know each other. Actually, he started to get to know me, who I really am. Most people misjudge me for being a bitch or a slut because I drink a lot and jammed with boys. He also thinks that way, because who would have thought a fine lady will be so aggressive like I do? But when he finally know me, he falls in love with me and I succeeded in my evil plan lol. He became my shock absorber and listen to my story, my childhood is not pleasant and I came from a broken family that made me act like a rebel. People, hate me and judge me but him? He stayed. He never leaves my side, and never judge my actions. He was not my first kiss, I had flings but don't call them as ex because they are all useless who only after for sex. Among them, he is different because he afters my soul and that made me fall for him too 😍😍🥰, later he realized that my hymen is still intact lol and he even sticks to me more. We have faced so many struggles together and still holding on, he also helps me to get back my faith. He leads me closer to God again. I am a Christian but a backslider because of so many trials. God has given me someone I can lean on.
Now we are already married, we have also a beautiful daughter now. We are always in an LDR (Long distance Relationship) setup because he is a sailor. We are not always being together because of the nature of his job but I am pretty sure l always got his back just like how he supported me morally back then.
I admire him more when we had our daughter he loves her very much. He almost took care of her when she was a little. I never had a hard time taking care of the infant because he got it 😁
AN: Dyosa was just my codename not because I am so gorgeous but because I am wild lol.
I hope you enjoyed reading my not so typical love story, I wanted to elaborate more but I don't want to bore you 😂
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