She made me what I have become
Having grown up from a religious family I learned it's wrong to treat people badly, I believed every human should love one another and treat others nicely but I was wrong, although that is how life supposed to be we living in peace and harmony loving everyone unconditionally without ulterior motive. this is just a truth in fairly tale, real life has made me see different kinds of human some are so inhumane that they deserve the name beast.
As the first child of my mother I had no one to look after me when my parents are out for work, mom couldn't take me to work this made her employ a helper who will be taking care of me. I grew up loving my nanny as my sister she meant everything to me, I became so attached to her even more than i was to my mother because my nanny is always with me. My mother was happy I am growing into a beautiful young adult she loved the relationship I had with my nanny not knowing there's more to what she is seeing.
At age 6 each time my nanny bath me she would insert a finger into my v*** when I inquired she said she is washing off dirts inside me. I saw that as a normal thing in fact I fell in love with the feeling I get each time she does that. It continued and the older I get the more I love that act it became so part of me that I always do that to myself when I am alone. I didn't see it as a bad thing at first until I turned 15 and gotten so addicted to it. Then I do go to my Nanny's room just to get touched by her. She is always happy to do that to me, she told me I can always come to her each time I need someone to touch me.
Years passed I realized I have became so addicted to her touching and because she is no longer there I started keeping only female friends who will always touch me. I never had anything with an opposite sex I hated being approached by men, even though I had anything with a man i was open because I had female friends who always touch me. That was how I became someone that loves same sex, my mother later found out about what I liked she was so disappointed in me but she never knew she was the one that made me that way through my nanny.
Of what importance is having a baby you can't take care of? Children get molested every now and then by their close relatives and helpers because their parents are too busy to observe some signs. When a child is exposed to things she is not supposed to get exposed to she display some signs which only an observant mother can detect, these signs includes
1. Withdrawal
2. Wanting to be alone
3. Sudden fondness to someone she/ he wasn't fond with
4. She tend to stay away from a particular person
5. Sudden shyness towards someone
6. She start hidding from everyone or from her peers.
7. Some changes on her body and on her walking step and sitting position.
Many children have been molested by close relative or someone they trust. Never leave your child at the mercy of others always have a good conversation with your child and give a listening ear to every complain they make. Learn to trust and believe your child especially when it comes to sensitive matters.
This is just a fiction by me to teach us the importance of good relationship with your child and taking care of your child.
Happy birthday to me🥳🥳🥳🥳
On this day some years ago, the sun shone brighter than it ever did the moon and stars standstill for the world was about to witness the kiss of an Angel and hehold she came with brightness that radiates beyond all surface and to every part of the world. Never knew angels could be dark but seeing her made me realize it's not the color that makes an angel but her uniqueness which is extremely extra ordinary.
A golden fish she is, always shining even under cover. I envy your strength and admire your courage too much for a lady but necessary for life's challenges. One word to describe you my dear is YOU, you are so original, so free but at the same time disciplined. You think I flatter you? No I don't this is just a tip of an iceberg because you posses more qualities that I can't explain.
I am so happy to have such a wonderful person, I am so happy to be this wonderful person, I am so happy to be me. It's my birthday today so permit me to crush on myself a little. Blessings of God upon myself are so unimaginable, I can't comprehend his love for me, I merited nothing but God gave me everything even more than I can ever think of. On this day I appreciate the work of my Maker in my life, out of nothing he made a super girl now turned into a super lady.
Happy birthday to me I am happy I made it, a new year has begun for me and I am grateful for it. I have made so mistakes some bad decisions, faced difficult moments that I almost gave up at some point but in everything I came out strong. To witness this new beginning to make things right, a new beginning to walk with my head up and shoulder high, I am not perfect but God always perfect my ways. Happy birthday to me!!!!
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Let's build our future generations.
What would be the fate of humanity if the next generation is doomed out of our carelessness and negligence? A Clarion call, a task for everyone. I envisage a generation of greater mindset, abilities sustainability, all is obtainable with our efforts.
Our actions and inactions affect the next generation, we neglect this very fact sometimes. The future starts now and tomorrow is the today we are living. What we plant today will germinate tomorrow. The next generation should always be at the back of our mind.
Motivate
How well do we motivate them to work and not to push their responsibilities to the next future. If we keep believing everything should be handled by the next generation then who are the next generation? We should know we are the next generation because every generation starts with the existing one.
Educate
For years, societies have under- and mal-invested in education. Education in all forms both formal and informal have been undermined, we convinced ourselves that our global edge in entrepreneurship and innovation could compensate for the failure to maintain a dynamic curriculum, engage our kids, and deliver to them an exciting and rewarding educational environment. Education is not limited to the four walls of school, remember knowledge is power.
Inspire
Inspire the young generation to start being responsible now, the journey of a thousand miles starts with a step and the right step leads to right destination. Everyone has a role to play in reshaping the future, let us take it upon ourselves to produce the generation of behaved and well cultured.
Enough of the complain
We should all hope that our politicians will step up to the important responsibility. But we cannot rely just on them. We also need to do more to help the next generation stand a better chance of overcoming the real threat of declining living standards - and this is even before we take into account critical sustainability issues that have to do with the multiple abuses of our environment and natural resources.
Our nonchalant attitudes and negligence to the future generations does big harm to our society at large. Time to let go of our present challenges and reshape the future. Lamenting over our bad economy and forgetting the future generations needs proper orientation so they don't fall into a mess like us. Build and guide them now for the future begins now. It begins with you.
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Archeological heritage.
Heritage is the full range of our inherited traditions, monuments, objects, and culture. Most important, it is the range of contemporary activities, meanings, and behaviors that we draw from them.
Heritage is a contemporary activity with far-reaching effects. It can be an element of far-sighted urban and regional planning. It can be the platform for political recognition, a medium for intercultural dialogue, a means of ethical reflection, and the potential basis for local economic development. It is simultaneously local and particular, global and shared (Center for Heritage & Society, University of Massachusetts Amherst n.d.).
Heritage is not only just about the past – it also defines who we are and shapes the future. It embraces both the arts and the sciences and it incorporates nature and culture.
Evidence and data from various countries in the world demonstrate that heritage assets serve as a catalyst, not only for conservation, partnerships, social cohesion, skills development and education, but also for job creation, infrastructure development, foreign direct investment and economic development.
The management of archaeological heritage resources has become an important and major component of heritage discourse. Heritage inspires and gives context to modern designs and planning. Heritage has become one of the central areas in many business and commercial enterprises; it has also become a source of entrepreneurship.
The archaeological heritage resource
An archaeological resource, as defined by ICOMOS is “that part of material heritage for which archaeological methods provide primary information” (ICOMOS, 1990). Archaeological heritage comprisessall traces of human existence, both in terms of places associated with human activities such as abandoned structures and remains of all kinds, as well as portable cultural materials (ICOMOS, 1990). The two main components of archaeological heritage resources are:
• the archaeological places and sites on the landscape;
• collections of objects housed in museums and in private ownership are normally referred to as ‘archaeological’ if they have been found buried in the ground or recovered from archaeological sites
(ICON, 2011).
Anxiety disorder (panic disorder)
The psychological well being of an individual determines his social response. Most individual live a life of isolation due to ugly experience which has dominated their psychic, they people have some form of disorder. Such individual have stressor which are anything that releases stress hormones in the body, this could lead to anxiety disorder.
Panic disorder is a part of anxiety disorder, People with this disorder experience sudden burst of anxiety symptoms, feel out of control and think they are dying. Panic disorder is a situation that occurs after going through a terrible experience like war survivors, assult and other traumatic experience. Such people always develop an overreactive automatic nervous system which easily goes into a fight-or-flight response. Although as humans we may have our fears which are mild and goes with time, people with anxiety disorder have sever fear which lower the quality of their lives.
Symptoms of panic disorder
**SOMATIC:**
These are reactions that affectl the body system and sometimes manifest on the outer body, individuals feel excessively distressed about their health and also have abnormal thoughts, feelings, and behaviors in response to their symptoms. These signs are under the somatic symptoms
Goosebumps emerge.
Muscle tense:
Heart rate increase
Adrenaline is secreted
**EMOTIONAL**
People under anxiety disorder portray some emotional distress traits, their subconscious memory is always crowded with fear thereby making them emotionally unstable. They display some disruptive features like:
Sense of terror
restlessness
Irritability
Salivation decreases
**COGNITIVE:**
cognitionaccording to online is a term referring to the mental processes involved in gaining knowledge and comprehension. The cognitive processes include thinking, knowing, remembering, judging, and problem-solving. They are the higher function of the brain, a person with anxiety disorder looses this function. The brain is sharow and circles in
Anticipation of harm
Exaggeration of danger
Hypervigilance etc
**BEHAVIORAL**
Attitudes of people with anxiety disorder differs with others behavior, some who suffers this disorder behaves like mentally deranged while others who can control themselves a little response to their sychological attack by
Escape
Avoidance
Aggressive
Freezing
And many other abnormal behavior.
Treatment for panic disorder
**Biological treatment:**
Under the biological treatment of panic disorder we have administration of Tricyclic Antidepressants such as imipramine are drugs that can help reduce panic attack, other drugs includes selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors,
**COGNITIVE-BEHAVIORAL THERAPY**
Hello @Ashma and @Dreamer I have missed you a lot.
Reference:
McGRAW-HILL (Abnormal psychology)
Love you so much
No mother, Philip loves me so much. He was angry and lost control of himself, he has apologized and remember he has never done a thing like this, it was all my fault. I shouldn't have provoked him, she started sobbing
My daughter, you are so wrong, the woman replied in a convincing tune, she path her at the back, cuddling her hair to make her feel relaxed, no responsible man hits a woman not to talk of one he married. This may be his first f hitting you but believe me, he has started already and it will continue unless you put a stop to it, you love him yes I know but you deserve some respect too.
I still can't believe what happened, she stood up staring into thin air, Philip has suddenly become aggressive, picks offence at every word I utter, he keeps late night and when I complain he called that nagging. I can't even remember the last time he said Sweet words to me, mother do you know the worst part of it all, she stepped closer to the mother, my husband has not touched me, I think must have offended hurt him so much because my husband never stayed this long before performing his conjugal duties, she was looking down to avoid eye contact with the mother.
You mean all these have been happening and you never cared to tell me? Now trying to look into her daughter inlaws eyes. My dear you don't need to be shy, I am your mother in law, now tell me when all these started. I need every detail.
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**Two weeks earlier**
**Philip: A** lot is going on in my life right now, my job is at stake because of that. How will I ever tell my wife that I can't father a child, I love her so much and I want her by my side always but she is not happy with her condition, she believes she is the cause of our childlessness not knowing I am. I need to set her free from this shackles.
**Tom:** what are you saying man, by setting her free you mean you want to divorce her? Make me understand because I am confused here. You and I know you love Nicole so much and she loves too, you just have to let her into the situation on the ground both of you can find solutions to your predicament, she loves you.......
**Philip:** That is the problem she loves me so much that she can never leave me but she deserves to be happy, I need to bear my cross alone. She is too good to be tied up in this fruitless marriage, I see how she loves children, how she wishes to be a mother, I watch her pray and fast every day for a child that will never come. I know she will stick with me if I tell her my problem but I won't. I have decided to take the bull by the horn. I will make her fall out of love with me that way she can leave me.
**Tom:** What? Do you think that will ever happen? The Nicole I know will stick with you no matter how you treat her. Please man think about this your decision carefully, even if you succeed in making her leave, what about you. How will you survive without her? You love her so much, I have never seen love so strong like what you share please don't throw that away......... *to be cont*
I didn't steal, I borrowed without your consent
Preparing my meal to the rate of my income, had no meat or any sea animal to add, just my onions and seasoning was all I could afford, but then I still enjoy my meal with happiness, preparing different delicacy in the same manner.
This was my normal routine until you came bad-mouthing my precious meal, you reminded me of how tasteless my food could be even though you never tasted it, I was angry and needed to balance my diet since you said I am malnutrition.
On that fateful day, It was time for my cooking, since I can't afford all the things you mocked me with, to make my food balance, I had to borrow from you so you won't insult my meal again, but here you are ranting calling me a thief, reported me to the authorities for theft. I am not a thief, I just borrowed food stuffs from you without your consent, i wanted to o be free from your bad-mouthing, what I collected from your room was borrowed and not stolen.
Note: This is just for fun
Word for today
Today is a day of wisdom, a day to share words that will better our lives if we live by it, our lives are mostly affected by our actions and our actions are influenced by what we see or hear. Words are strong weapon when it comes to human lives, it can either make you or destroy you. The words you listen to matters a lot. Time for the good words.
**Be indefatigable**
Another day with another blessing, new opportunities and new target. Begin your day with happiness, no regrets about yesterday, today you can set some mistakes right and learn from the one's you can't change. Be consistent never relent
**Give your best in everything**
Be the best of who you are, complaining about what you don't have will only make you lose focus. If you can't handle a little task because you want a bigger one, you can't handle the bigger one either.
**Always wear the winner's mind**
Appreciate yourself for every achievement, give yourself a challenge each day if you wish to achieve more. Challenges awaken our strength and ability, give your subconscious memory task to do and in return make you active more than you would ordinarily be.
**Accept responsibility.**
one lie begets another one, never try to cover a lie rather accept your mistakes and take responsibility. Honesty may seem hard but it gives peace of mind and trust. Let your yes be yes and no be no, no one takes a liar seriously.
**Acknowledge your creator**
Never neglect your creator, in everything always remember he is watching. Don't be too naive to think you were made out of science and not created by the creator. The day you start doubting the existence of the almighty, is the day you lost in the battle of life.
**Take corrections:**
No human is perfect, when you are being corrected take it and amend your ways, if you refuse to be corrected you may end up doomed. It takes a responsible mind to accept wrong and take correction.
@Dreamer did you miss me?
Individual responsibility
How can dog eat faces and the goat gets rotten teeth? The sins of the father shall follow the children, how justified is that? The evil that men do live with them and after them. This particular exact has caused a lot of trouble in the lives of many, making some so lazy because they believed their problems are generational. Different reasons people neglect individual responsibility
**Wrong interpretation**
In the Christian faith, the holy book said something about this in the new testament
"You shall not bow down to them or worship them; for I, the LORD your God, am a jealous God, punishing the children for the sin of the parents to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me, Exodus 20:5
"Maintaining love to thousands, and forgiving wickedness, rebellion and sin. Yet he does not leave the guilty unpunished; he punishes the children and their children for the sin of the parents to the third and fourth generation.” Exodus 34:7,
**Wrong perception**
These verses are what most people cling to when misfortune behalf them, they attribute every ill fate to be a generational course, but this is totally wrong. What you do affect you more than any generational course, that is why the Bible made it clear that we will be judged according to our deeds not according to our fathers deed.
**Nonchalant attitude due to misconception**
This doesn't mean that your actions will not affect your children, it will but not as much as their individual needs. Try to be good because karma will always catch up with evildoers believe it or not. It serves us what we deserve, you are an architect of your destiny
**Peoples behavior**
People often judge others based on their parent's deeds, transferring aggression to innocent children. Most people believes evil tree never beget good seeds, that is why they treat offspring wrongly due to the parents wrong attitude, very act promote hatred instead of love.
Psychopaths.
Psychopaths according to Hare are people who live a predatory life style, feel little or no regret, and little or no remorse, except when they are caught, need short term relationships, but see people in terms of how they can be used, Wolman sees psychopathy as personality disorder defined by a distinctive cluster of behaviors and inferred personality traits. To him, diagnosis is based on the accumulation of evidence that an individual satisfy at least the minimal criteria for the disorder.
He further said that psychopaths are social predators who claim and manipulate unsuspecting victims. According to Hare in his book, psychopaths lacks in conscience and empathy, they take what they want and do as they please, violating social norms and expectations, without guilt or remorse.
What is most striking about psychopaths, is that they appear extremely at ease with themselves. They can be articulate, they are often highly intelligent, and are regularly described as charming and convincing. The primary difference between psychopaths and other criminals is that, psychopaths are incapable of experiencing guilt, empathy or remorse. As a result, psychopath commit far more act of violence than other criminals. They tend to operate with a grandiose demeanor, an attitude of entitlement, an insatiable appetite, and a tendency toward sadism.
According to some scholars relationship for psychopaths is things of the moment, and their motto seems to be: out of sight, out of mind. Research has it that callous deceitful, reckless, and guiltiness are some of their potentials.The psychopaths believe that rules and morals are for the others, that is, weak people who obey because they fear punishment. No matter how bright a psychopath is, often very bright he/she may have inconsistent answers about his/her past events and are liars. They use charisma, manipulation, intimidation, sexual intercourse and violence to control others and satisfy their own needs.
To me they are manipulators, they attribute love and status to themselves, seeing themselves as highly worthy and important but prescribe neither love nor status to others, seeing them as unworthy and insignificant. This is part of my project work submitted to my school university of Nigeria, Nsukka.
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A freewrite prompt word, Air.
You feed both the wicked and the good, giving life to all living things plants inclusive. No man can stand a minute without you because you are life itself, so invisible to the eyes but effective and your impact so obvious.
The wind just like water is an enemy to the dead alone, they feel you not because the moment you left any living being, you are never going back. I want to make the best of you now you are still with me, touch lives and make the world feel loved.
According to science air is made of combination of gases and retain the earth's gravity, surrounding the planet earth and forming its planetary atmosphere. Air protect life on earth by creating pressure allowing for liquid to exist on the Earth's surface, absorbing ultra-violet solar radiation, keeping the atmosphere warm through heat retention, balancing the weather conditions.
The wind is a source of energy to human, making us active and fit for the days work, and a vital nutrient for the plants to grow and blossom. With air our atmosphere is conducive.
Beauty of the world.
I was hurt, missing your love and cuddle, our misunderstanding has escalated to the extent of not talking to each other, I felt so empty, my heartaches. Day and night I wet my pillow with tears. Why do you dig a hole in my heart? Life seems so incomplete without you, but today you make every right, you offered me the best gift that reassured me you still love me. With a special smile and deep kiss, you offered me a flower of love and now our love has grown stronger and deeper. I am so happy for the gift of a flower. That is the most beautiful aspect of nature, it brings two souls together and beautifies the world
When death snatched away my hero, my backbone I became so devasted and broken, nothing can ever replace his love, my father was my playmate, my instructor and coach. I feel so secured and happy whenever he is around. With his demise a part of me died too, it seemed my whole life has come to an end but you gave me life again. You presented me that gift that awakens dead spirit and courage, the gift of nature that is most attractive, FLOwer. You gave me a flower that consoled my heart, smelling the fragrance and seeing the beauty opens me to the beauty of the world. The gift of flower consoled and brightened my soul..
Feeling sick and down, my mouth bitter but I just couldn't take the injection. I have been warned against taking injection when I am on this but menstrual cramp wouldn't allow me rest. My stomach is on fire, I couldn't move or raise a finger, I laid down vomiting almost my intestine. Who will help me out, you came with this special tea that relieved my pain. Just a sip and my cramp stopped, I was surprised at the wonder tea then you told me it was made from a flower. A flower tea reliefs menstrual cramp and other minor ailments.
After putting up a magnificent building, well built to our test. We furnish with the best furniture but without the ladies finger, the most beautiful of the natures gift the house won't look nice and beautiful. Flowers helps in beautifying the house and enrich us with oxygen.
Most spices are made of flowers, lovely and fragrance flowers. These spices add taste and good aroma making our food more appetising.
Now we know the benefits of this beautiful ladies finger(Flower) why abuse it? Flowers are the best part of natures gift. Its advantages are numerous. Nature has presented us with this gift for our own good and to beautify the world. Also posted on Uptrennd by me.🤪
This is my entry to the contest ***Beauty of the world*** by @Dreamer, if you have not joined this is your chance to join.
Life is confusing.
**Most times I look at the time and realize it had gone far yet nothing came out of it, everything seems like shadow passing us without you getting a grip on cause life is too confusing.**
**you can try many things at a time, even when you try to take one at a time you still fail at a time, no one is free from failure no matter how perfect you are, you must have failed at one time, cause life is too confusing**
**oh! Alas, I have the best equals to life, the best antidote to it's venom but where, it's only in the imagination cause life is too confusing**
**Should I ride on a thread and on arrow at once before I can unravel this mystery? we live like the blind, always in darkness, most times it seems we are at the dead end cause life is too confusing.**
**The more you look the less you see, the higher the complications, no one can explain or sees what tomorrow holds, cause life is too confusing**
**I walk on strides dangling with swinging hands to the air, I don't know where to hold or lean on cause life is so confusing,**
What i learnt from COVID-19 lockdown
Coronavirus is a pandemic that has affected almost the whole world, for this it has no advantage but in every situation, there must be a lesson learnt, once you stop learning, you stop living.
Coronavirus also called COVID 19 is a highly transmittable and pathogenic viral infection, caused by severing acute respiratory syndrome Coronavirus which emerged from China and spread around the world.
**Lessons I have learnt from the pandemic**
**Closer to God:**
we draw closer to God now, some believe COVID 19 is a sign of end time and to be saved we need God's grace and mercy.
**Negligence to important things of life.** Before now people are more concerned about their businesses than their health, they find it difficult to go for a normal check-up but now every little cough leads to the hospital.
**Global unity.**
The world working together for a common cause; this pandemic has made me understand that the world can actually agree on one thing, we can actually work together irrespective of race. The world is seriously working together to proffer solution to this global menace.
**Family reunion:** we get to see some of our family members we have not seen for long due to busy schedule now we meet them more often.
**Spending judiciously, no more extravagant lifestyle:**
people are now conscious of their expenditures, they now safe because no one knows when this pandemic will be over.
**No man is immune to COVID 19:** everyone is taking preventive measures, even the richest still follow the safety tips because the virus is a respecter of no man.
**Creativity:**
New lines of businesses are coming up, everyone is trying something new since the old business is on lockdown, we learn a skill online, tried new businesses we can do from home.
Personal hygiene and healthy living: Now personal hygiene is taken seriously, no longer business as usual. We now wash our hands regularly and maintain other personal hygiene.
**Low rate of pollution in our environment:**
All forms of pollution in the environment is eradicated. Everywhere is calm and free.
There are lots of lessons learnt so far from this pandemic but I just out listed few. I have posted this on uptrennd too
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@Dreamer and @Ashma
Online love
People believe love can be found anywhere, churches, in the market or even on social media. It seems the online love is the most trending now. Dating someone you have never seen one on one, this kind of relationship is rampant these days. I am not against it though but I take every online relationship unserious, especially when you have never met for the first time. My reasons are simple
Lies and deceit
Disappointment
Mistaken love.
Online relationship is mostly built on lies and deceit, you claim what you are not and sometimes say what you don't mean because it will take time before you are caught. Online relationship sometimes it is seen as a joke to some people, or away to get over a bad experience especially relationship issues. The probability of cheating when dating online is high compared to dating someone you know.
Have you ever thought about what will happen when you finally met the person and he or she doesn't appeal to you and maybe you have fallen deeply in love? I will rather date someone who knows me very well, at least there won't be room for disappointments when it comes appearance. Pictures can not tell everything, your height, and the way you walk are not shown on pictures.
Mistaken love: You believe you are in a relationship while your partner doesn't feel like that.
These are reasons one can kick against an online relationship or love although some online love are pure and genuine but rare to find.
Can you be in a serious relationship with someone you met online?
@Dreamer @Ashma I need your opinions now.
Hello @Tunuu
Happy Birthday to an Angel.
I can't keep calm because it's finally here, the appointed day. Today an angel graced us with her magnificent smile. She is so lovely, wise and intelligent. Just like her mother, my super mentor.
On this date some years ago, the world lived in anticipation, my super mentor, heavily pregnant with an Angel, everyone was happy and anxious to meet this lovely Angel and then she came. From the day of conception, till date she has been a blessing to humanity, a word with her takes every fear and anxiety away.
To think that she is just **18** but filled with so much wisdom baffles me. An embodiment of beauty and knowledge. A true replica of her mother, generous to the core. Thank you dear for giving me the privilege to meet and interact with an Angel.
My dear on this day I wish you unflinching blessings, may your path keep reconstituting to excellence and amazing grace, may you exude unusual preciousness. Happy Birthday Remy
Friends let's celebrate this Angel who had helped me and others in many ways, your good wishes are all I asked for.
@Dreamer and @Tunuu please join me in celebrating my angel.
Plagiarism is not allowed.
You don't spam but you plagiarise. Plagiarism is a serious crime not just in our platform but in our different societies. Most people are not aware of the consequences of copying another person's article without referencing the person. The owner of a copyright can sue a plagiarizer in federal court for copyright violation.
Two weeks ago a post that was copied from another platform Uptrennd to be precise was sent to a group I was moderating, I rejected the article then warned the sender never to post plagiarized article again, to my greatest surprise, he was so proud of what he did, even went on to warn me to mind my business. He lied that the platform accepts plagiarism. This is a big lie, if the platform accepts plagiarism, then there won't be an OC batch or EXC to show that a post is original.
Unfortunately to him, he made another plagiarise post again today and sent, I rejected it of course, here is the post below
check the time, it's barely 4 hours as at the time I made this post.
Here is the original post from uptrennd, it was posted yesterday. I had to check his profile only to find out, all his articles were copied from another platform without referencing the original writer. This is absolutely wrong and should be stopped. You don't take credit for another person's efforts.
Get informed.
Information is the key and remember ignorant is not an excuse. Be the kind that never gets tired of getting updated. Each day comes with an event some good while the some bad, in all how can you know which really happened if you are not updated.
To achieve that you ought to get informed, seek information from the right sources. Entertainment has taken over to the extend we no longer have channels for news and update, everyone loves having a good time with the Hollywood, Bollywood and Nollywood characters.
An average youth these days chooses movie over the news, they tag news entertainment for the old. When was the last time you browsed about the happenings of the world? We follow every celebrity, get all their details but can never get details of what happened in our locality and the world at large.
If you are not informed, you are deformed. This is a wake-up call to us all, enough of the movie and other entertainment, get informed. If you can't read then listen.
Bitter truth.
Most times when we feel rejected when we are actually the one's that isolated ourselves. We sometimes craw into our shell seeking for someone to call us out.
You complain no one is reaching out for you, no cares. How many have you reached out to? Do you care about others or you just want them to focus on you. The World does not revolve around you. if you wish to be loved, cared for them do that to others first.
Most of us complain about having no friends, you make a friend today, tomorrow you are enemies. Don't you think you may be the problem? You can't keep friends if you are self-centred, you want them to always be at your beck and call when you are not doing the same for them. You want to be worshipped when you don't worship others. It doesn't work that way.
If you wish to get known, then make yourself known, mingle with others, socialize and have fun with others. You can start a conversation, stop hiding under the pretence of being an introvert. Stop feeling you are not the social type when you know deep down you really want to socialize but you are restricting yourself.
@Dreamer good morning, hello @Tunuu
I need assistance.
Today will be the third day I am receiving zero points and no payment from the platform even with my engagement.
I have never missed a day on the platform, I spend hours commenting on people's posts and I make posts too, why then is this happening?
Please the management team of @Read.Cashhere's any problem with my account. This whole thing is making me feel helpless here. Please look into my account, I need to start having points again. Three days without payment is too much. How long will I continue like this? Please rectify whatever it is that is keeping my points from adding
My woman my everything.
This is a movie that teaches about true love, and respect not minding financial status. It portrays the true meaning of being a wife. Standing by your husband and giving him his due respect at all time.
It is about a man who was jobless for years despite graduating from the University with good grade. Luckily to him he found love and decided to settle down. His mother and friends were against his decision because a man is meant to take care of his wife financially and not the other way round.
After many failed attempt to separate them, the mother realized she was fighting a lost battle and the lady the son wish to marry was a good woman, she has no option but to give her consent.
Few years into the marriage, the man still did not get a job but nothing changed, the wife still respects him, she gives him all her salary each month, still performs her duty as a wife, contrary to the mothers initial fear. Even when temptation came, the wife was still faithful. This made me husband love her the more.
Finally, the man got a job, a well paying job. Do you think things will remain the way they were? Nothings changed. The man bought cars for his wife, build houses for her and made her the only beneficiary to his life insurance worth billions of dollars. Every asset the man owe was registered with the wife's name.
What were you thinking, that he will start maltreating her? Noo doesn't be a killjoy🤪🤪🤪. It was a happy ever after.
@Dreamer thank you for always encouraging me.
@Tunuu longest time, hope you are ok now.
Take a bold step.
Time to take that bold step. Recently, I have been battling with a thought, I need to make a decision but confusion wouldn't let me. Each time I think about it I feel goosebumps all over me. The truth is I must make a determination it's either wrong or right so I needed to think deep to avoid the wrong decision.
This is a tough moment, I have prayed and sort for guidance on this for long that I am left with no other option but to take the bull by the horn I hope it's a good one though. Have made compromise and sacrifices for my betterment. I believe I am making the right decision.
Have you ever been faced with tough decisions to make, like you are in a state of dilemma, a little mistake can damage a lot. Have you ever made a big sacrifice or compromise in order to achieve something greater. Well today I took a bold step, I can't really detail the whole issue but I believe I am on the right track.
Life is all about risk, so here I am taking my own risk. I trust my instinct, on this note, I encourage us to believe and trust our intuitions especially when you are confused. Take that bold step, you never can tell if you will win if you don't try.
@Dreamer hello.
I am not happy, my points have been stagnant since morning, why is this always happening to me, all my hard work is always not appreciated. Does it mean I am not welcomed here or what? This is so annoying and frustrating. Since morning I have just 5.9 points, why?
What if I die today?
I am scared of what tomorrow holds, scared of what may befall me. I have lost that strength, the energy I always feel at the sight of terror. Fear wasn't my thing but now I embrace it like a friend. I am not ashamed to admit, my guts have failed me. Sacred of my own death.
What if this be my last, can't I live without having to go through the blade, the thought of it is killing me already, no one understands, they keep telling me you will be fine, yes, I believe them but what if everything doesn't get better. What if the worst happens? Doctors already prepared the theatre, they usher me in as if am going for sightseeing, everyone is optimistic.
Sorry, I am bothering you with my plague, I got to let it out. The weight is too much for me to bear, from the day I received my result till date life has been drifting away from me, not that it's my desire, no it can never be but it's my reality.
Life can be so unfair, inflicting a teenager with the sickness of the old. This is my darkest secret, I am letting you in on. Should this be my last, know that I love you and I am happy to have you. To every journey, I may undertake be it to the beyond or beneath, you are always at my bosom.
Consider this my last wish should I be no more, tell the world I loved her, tell my mother I wish I can stay more with her, tell my friends my soul will always be with them when my fresh is buried. Oh! How I enjoy living. Death is inevitable.
The pain will soon go away, my worries will end, the fear will leave me, no more sympathisers telling me sorry, it will be me alone in my own world when I die. This is not my consolation, I want to fight and live, the world needs me, my family everyone wants me around and I want to be around too but then if I can't make it, then this should be my consolation.
This is just me imaging what people who under go life threatening surgeries may be thinking before the surgery.
Do you think beating a child is the best way to correct the child?
Parenting according to online is the process of promoting and supporting the physical, emotional, social, and intellectual development of a child from infancy to adulthood. Parenting refers to the intricacies of raising a child and not exclusively for a biological relationship.
This task can be handful as many understand it differently, to some, parenting involves being too strict in fact beating at every slightest mistake while some believe beating is highly prohibited.
Form of punishment to melt on a child depends on the child, some children can be so stubborn that just a reprimand doesn't move them, they fear and respect beating the more while some can be so fearful that words put them straight.
Nevertheless, beating doesn't mean a child is loved less provided it is done appropriately, not maltreating the child in the name of correction.
So this bring us to today's question, do you think is right to beat a child or do you think words are enough to correct a child's mistake.
Hello everyone, I am happy today I lead a good fight. It was something worth doing. Meanwhile I am wishing us a peaceful night rest, it's midnight here already so I need to catch some sleep but before then, I need to finish up with what I started which is telling you about the first I lead.
Well it's a fight for the whole platform, a fight for our token, a fight against hoodlums, a fight against devaluation of the system. Here you can find the whole details
https://read.cash/@Ladyv28/we-created-the-spammers-it-is-our-duty-to-get-rid-of-them-ec5411f9
Do you believe your articles portray your real character?
Your posts or articles are like your image, they portray your true identity because you can't write in support of what you don't support in real, and out of the abundant of the heart the mouth speak, you know your posts are like your words:
The above exact was my friends ideology, actually we were arguing on something. He said ones post is ones true character, that what you constantly post on is what you have experienced or believe in.
He went on to argue that we feel so easy wring about our lives and experiences, well I somehow agree with him on that but not totally. I don't need to experience something before I write about it, I imagine the situation sometimes.
I
don't believe my post portrays the real me, actually I think posts are direct opposite of us, most times they are what we badly wish for but we didn't have it, take for instance, most of my posts portrays me as a tough lady but in real sense I am nothing close to tough, i present myself to my audience that way because that is how I wish to be seen.
Again, you will see an online marriage counselor who is divorced in real life, he or she gives advice to people online on how to save their marriage, always talking about forgiveness and how to live in peace but in real life he/she is nothing close to a peaceful person.
Well I think he may be right in some aspect and me I am right too if you ask me. Now i present the matter before us, do you think one's articles or posts portrays the person's real character? Please back up your answers with reason. Let's discuss.
@Dreamer @Ashma and @Tunuu I need your opinions on this
We created the spammers, it is our duty to get rid of them.
In the spirit of fighting spammers, I want us to think about this. First spammers are part of the platform they are users who had turn to parasites gaming the system instead of adding value to the system. They want to devalue our token through their constant upvote farming, but then how did these spammers get access to the system, they did that through us, we directly or indirectly build the spammers, I will tell us how.
**Poor orientation prior to registration:**
The person you registered, how well did you tell him or her about the rules of the platform or you just registered them for registration sake. I have had newbies asking me how to upvote, what are an upvote and many simple questions every read.cash members should know if you can't even teach the person you registered about upvotes and downvotes how do you expect then use them right.
**Over sentiment/favouritism:**
we often play politics or what I call favouritism in our upvote, you are from my place or I know you personally, therefore, I will upvote you even when you post rubbish and you are not from my place and I don't know you, for that, I won't upvote you even when your post is wonderful. This mindset is wrong, it's high time we stop. Upvote a post that deserves upvote and downvote the ones that deserve downvotes without being biased.
**In pursuit of Subscribers:**
Because I want to appear good to you, I will upvote every nonsense you post, so you can reciprocate and probably subscribe to me. This is engaging in upvote for upvote indirectly. It is absolutely wrong, your upvote is weapon uses it to favour the right people and punish the wrong one's. Don't build followers at the detriment of our platform. If someone is a good writer please subscribe to the person and upvote his/article which you found good if not, downvote. You get the value for what you give, it is simple logic.
Stop upvoting spammers, you are devaluing the system. Report and downvote every spamm that is the right thing to do.
@Ladyv28
