I Am Not In The Picture

Interesting

This story repeats itself constantly, it may be from your imagination, but it is not fictitious, it is very realistic, unfortunately there are parents like this in this world.

personally I think that it is something that should improve this type of families, there should be equal treatment for all

Oh very sad story. But now you grown up and now you need to work hard for yourself life. Yeah there is always discrimination between offspring because of parents. I am so proud of you. You achieved a lot of things by doing struggle.

actually this story has such a deep meaning because life has its own way. I am also almost similar to the content of this story when my mother left me with my two brothers since we were little and my father remarried. but I am always grateful for what has befallen me because the Almighty still loves me even though I live in the midst of a family which is not like it used to be. events like this have strengthened our mental and faith that life is a struggle that we must defend. do not be disappointed all that has happened because that is the real path for us to live. keep going and don't give up. although we are often not considered as one family but the point is we can still live.

I also have a friend who broke up with her eldest son's father. Then she got pregnant with another guy, and not to judge her, I just felt sad looking at their family picture without her eldest.

Then I suddenly remember my half sister who never had much of my father's attention because she was brought in his hometown when she was 3 months old. My grandparents raised her and I could imagine her feelings looking at our family picture without her in every occasion. So, everytime I post our family photo I always tag and insert her name. I miss her, I hope she's doing well in heaven..

It is a fictional story but it happens very often in real life. In fact, I can see myself in that mirror since I was the daughter of another father, but thank God I was treated well by that man. He gave me his last name and everything I need to study and grow. My story ended quite happily. Very good your blog, you put heart and feeling.

You've made a good decision ma'm ,living without a parent is like carrying a heavy load alone through a long distance . There is kind of love that parents can give,that no one else can .

This picture can be seen differently in broken families because my whole life has been spent with my parents. So I don't have a chance to know exactly what he's talking about, but I can feel it. In our family, my mother and father still have all the attention on our youngest sibling. They constantly watch over him and do not hide their interest in him. If something happens to him in an environment where we are all present, they will charge us. From this point of view, they are similar to ours, or perhaps those who have more than one child have a special interest in the last child. Maybe it's a positive discrimination in human genetics, hehe. You shouldn't upset yourself!

true yan sis, andami ko ng nabasa na gnyan, na first child sila pero naneglect dahil may new fam na. Nakakaawa ang emotional trauma ng bata eh, dadalhin tlga nila ang hinanakit nila hanggang pagtanda.

Oy bakit Naman nag iisip ka ng worst case scenario? Haysss

If this would be the case, I would better not have a relationship again. I don't want this to happen to my child. I know the pain of being left out even if I'm with them. What's more, if you are always purposely left out?

At intro I thought it was really you until mom called out Chloe! Heheh nice story, very relatable to some friends that I knew too.

This is such a nice story. Very realistic as it inspired by your own story. Though Chloe didn't treated badly, what she experienced is more painful than any physical pain. Emotional and psychological pain is the most painful pain. Hard to cure.

It happens in some of the families. Good that Chloe is not treated harshly physically but what she is going through is more painful. They say a child cannot choose his or her parents so as women, we should do them a favor by choosing kind men and good men to marry so they won't have to go through experiences like Chloe.

I know the feeling gaaad! Nung nagkaasawa si mama tapos itchapwera kami ng brother kong bakla. 10 palang ata ako nun. Tas 7 kapatid ko. Nahulog yung baby na half sister namin tapos si mama nagtatakbo sa labas humihingi ng tulong kapag ano daw nangyare sa kapatid namin na yun kasalanan namin.

Yung kapatid kong bakla nga gusto na patayin yung half sister ko nung baby palang sobrang selos niya na buti naagapan ko kasi tutusukin niya na bumbunan baliw diba 😅 kaya di kami magkakasundo kasi kulang kami lahat attention ni mama.

The child is innocent. The sins of the father are not the fault of the child. But it happens in reality. Unfortunate ones who experience scenarios like this will forever bear the trauma inside them. I hate to see someone suffering because of this petty reason.

This is just sad dahil nang yayari na talaga sya in real life. Nakakalungkot lang, bat kaya may ganong ina ano. Aung iba kasi ang rason nila deep inside, galit sila sa ama nong nauna kaya pati ung bata idadamay. Di nila sinasabi pero mahahalata naman talaga. Sana naman, di ganon 🥺

Masakit na realidad tuh sis, kasi talagang nangyayari tuh in real-life. Mahirap pero kelangan din makiisa nalang and endure the pain .

This is the sad reality in life. Not every child grow up with a happy and complete family especially if the parents cannot fix it anymore. That's why getting married is scary because of this.

Inspiring story, but on reality such problem is the fault of the mother who chose to neglect her first child. If a single mother should decide to marry again, the first thing is to be sure that the man she marrying will take and treat her child as his otherwise there will be problem. And it can get so bad and lead to suicidal thoughts on the part of the neglected child.

Naalala ko tuloy pamangkin ko. Kasi yung kapatid ko nabuntis siya tas di pinanagutan. Tapos nakahanap ng bago lalaki, mabait naman yung lalaki kasi tanggap yung pamangkin ko pero naaawa talaga ko sa pamangkin ko. Kasi na kina papa at mama ko siya, mas okay na rin kesa dun siya sa kapatid ko kasi palagi napapagalitan.

Isang araw nga nag bonding kami, nainis ako sa kapatid ko. Kasi sila lang tatlo ng bagong family niya at di sinama yung pamangkin ko. Kaya naaawa ako lalo at nakikita ko na na mas prioritize ng kapatid ko yung bagong fam niya. Paano naman yung isa? Kaya di ko rin masisi na minsan napapagalitan ng parents namin kapatid ko kasi iniitsapwera niya yung unang anak nya.

Nakakaiyak naman to ma'am Eybyoung. Merong talagang ganito at mostly nangyayari kapag yung mom or either dad mo magkaroon ng new family, parang hindi ka kasali. Parang lagi kang naiiwan. Parang hindi ka member sa family.

Ganito din friend ko ma'am Eybyoung. Everytime na magshare sa akin sobrang lungkot ko kaya sinasabihan ko siya na laban at magpakatatag lang siya lagi kaya kahit ano mangyari laban lang ma'am Eybyoung.

Kala ko syo. Kya ayoko tlga broken family m. Bhla na wala asawa..kesa lumaki anak ko walang kinikilalang ama..

I felt the same thing nun nagkakalabuan kami ng asawa ko. Naisip ko talaga na kaag naghiwalay kami eh di na ako mag aasawa at focus na lang sa anak ko. Madami kasing owedeng mangyate kapag nag asawa ako ulit and worst baka mapabayaan ko pa anak ko.

Akala ko talaga story mo sis, kasi sa first part eh. Tapos naging biglang Chloe un name.

I feel bad for Chloe naman. ☹️ Bat ganon? She was the first child naman sana ng mom niya. Kawawa talaga yung mga anak pag may iba't ibang family na yung both parents. Not all though, but yung mga affected kawawa talaga.

You should really be proud of your mother.. Mother is heaven on earth