Attitude and Altitude ( may I be great )
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9th of February 2022
Hi good evening lovely family ,@adereign, @infinity, @Balikis,@crytonag,@princessbusayo ,@ArticLEE . I've got So much family members ,I can't name all but I'd say thank you to you all , your love mean so much to me .
The unstable power supply for the past few days , really gave me a tough time each time, I couldn't get to communicate with my family through writing here, it feels like a part of me as been taken away. I feel complete now,since I will be interacting with my sweet family on an interesting topic . I'd like to know my family's view.
It's every human dream to become great in life, but there are certain qualities that must not be overided ,in other to become great and also maintain greatness.
There is a saying "your attitude determines you altitude"
CONSTANST
Attitude can also be called character. Characters isn't character, if it's not constant, I mean some people claims to posses a certain good character, if your character changes with change of environment then you definitely don't have character,
Why is 1 2 3 and A B C called a character , it's because they never change they are the same all over the world .
THE STORIES
Just be the same anywhere you find yourself , A guy pretends to be very nice,Godly, hard working in church ,just because ,he wants to marry a lady who has disciplined herself for years , he thought ,she was just going to fall into trap , God showed in a special , a certain person who had known the guy for years, starts coming to the church ,and after some days ,he had been going to the church ,he and the sister became friends, they started communicating this led to how , the evil guy was exposed .
Lack of good character will make you loose good opportunities , he could have just married the virtues lady ,if he had good character Indeed .
A lady who had been searching for job for a very long time , finally her good opportunity has found her ,but she missed it , because of lack of good character , had she known the , man who needed her help at the entrance , but she refused to help , will be the one to interview her, then she would have done better by showing a good attitude.
RESULT
marriage can't survive without a good character , the man and the woman needs to posses a good character in other to have a successful marriage
The leader and the led must posses good character in other to achieve great result .
A great future depends on character . Character is important because relationship is important , with relationship (some calls it connection) you can have success .
Modesty is not weakness .
The way we dress,talk,behave ,shows the kind of person we are .
I must always say this . A big thank you to those who constantly upvote ,comment and tip me .@fash-Tioluwa,@kristofferquincy,@jane,@ruffa,@Lixten,@farmgirl,@infinity,@ArticLEE and many others ,thank you for always showing love 💕.
What to do, when you like him (love)
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7th of February 2022
Good morning to my sweet family. I hope you had a good weekend,yesterday was boring to me, as I couldn't get in touch with my sweethearts on re@Balikis due to lack of power supply. @Balikis,@Fash-Tioluwa,@success,@cryptonag,@Fash,@Infinity, I have so many joy giver,I can't possibly name all,I'm the most excited today, cos I'm here today to interact with my lovelies @Garrethgrey,@Lixten,@Farmgirl,@ruffa,@jane.
Let's get into today's article , you will enjoy reading .
Guys are very lucky,when they like a lady,they can approach the lady, and take things further, if the lady gives in , it's a normal thing right ?, it's annoying why can't ladies do the same lol,if a lady should do that , she's sure to get the criticism of her life . Since we can't ask a guy out ,how do we go about it ,when we like a guy,Let's get into it .
MAKE A MOVE
You can make a move by initiating conversation, conversation o lol,not intitiate relationship,don't loose your self respect,by doing that, guys are meant to do the chasing.
Men like to help ladies,you can ask for his help on something .
Be available and accessible.
MOVE SLOWLY
Guys can tell when you're giving too much attention ,cos most guys are use to not getting attention.dont let your emotions betray you .
There was a day emotions betrayed a friend, she was just telling me how attracted she was to the guy ,when he came in , we changed the topic of what we were discussing , the the guy contributed to what we were saying, it wasn't something funny the guy said,but emotions betrayed my friend,and she started laughing uncontrollably,I found it weird .
Don't start buying him gifts, cos he might get into you cos the gift you're buying him,and you will never know,if he loves you or it's just the gifts ,that you're giving him he loves.
BE WHAT YOU WANT
Be want you want,in the sense,if you will get anyone to love , be sure to have the kind of qualities ,you like in the person.
If you want a bad guy then, you must be a bad girl lol
Same applies here too ,you want a good guy ,be a good girl.ladies and guy should be the kind of partner they want .
DON'T FANTASIZE TOO MUCH
We ladies naturally have the gift of fantasizing, be sure , he is the right person for you, ladies sometime create an unreal qualities of the kind of guy ,they want .
Remembered a lady, that told me all the qualities,she wants in a guy and they are so unreal , how can we have qualities of good and bad in one person . She said ,I want a guy who is spiritual,hardworking , and a little bit bad .lol
BE READY TO WALK AWAY
Don't be too invested ,cos you might,find out he is not the kind of person you want,you can only be attracted at first sight,you can't love at first sight, it's when you really know each other that , you can say , you fall in love
Be ready to walk away ,so you won't be controlled .
BE ACCOUNTABLE
Don't cut off your family and loved one , because of some you just met, sometime,that doesn't happens intentionally , the lady is just trying to protect her feeling for the guy,but you've got to be accountable , cos it's your family members and your loved ones ,if the guy ends up hurting you .
When you like a guy , make a move , I'm not saying you should ask him out lol ,some guys are just too shy to express their feelings,but when you make a move by initiating conversation,they can be more free and eventually express their feelings for you, guys like helping ladies and if you ask for his help and he is not willing to help that should be a signal that he is not interested in you , don't force yourself on anyone, because you're very precious,and you shouldn't allow anyone underrate you.
Special thanks to all those who constantly , read,up- vote, and also tip me .
I love you all .
Get you off the throne (humility)
5th of February 2022
Good morning lovelies , I've really been enjoying myself , there is so much love from read.cash family .@jane , @fash_tioluwa , @BCH- LOVER , @kristofferquincy and many more , thank you so much for your love, upvotes and comments.
GOD AND A TEACHER
Today's article is really interesting , it's important , everyone understands this .
It's should be well understood, that You needs to get off the throne ,It is when a teacher is forever a student , that the class is excited , schools always have that one teacher that keep the class in panic, it's attually ok to have principles, as a teacher ,but it shouldn't be an hindrance to the students learning , because when the students hearts are filled with fear , your teachings won't gain ground .
Got this from the maker's life style lol how ?
Can you imagine , while we were yet sinner ,Christ died for us , so he can draw us to himself , and make us understand ,deep things about him , love was what he use to attract us .
ACTING LIKE A CHILD
Teaching is just like getting off the throne , cos you have to come down, to the level of those you're teaching , lol this is funny , imagine teaching little children , you have to get down to their level and act like a child so they can understand what you're teaching .
Same with God despite being God ,he came to the world as a man , felt the pains like a man, so he can get us to know him .
I kNOW NOT
There is always a stage in man's life , when you just don't know , what next step to take (uncertainty), when vulnerability sets in.
Just aknowledge that you know not , and turn to God for help , get off the throne and let him step in , two drivers can't drive a car , it will be disastrous when one is heading in a direction and the other in a opposite direction.
Special thanks to @Captainkay, @George_Dee, @Gertu13, @Garrethgrey07, and so on fir treating my introductory post warmly.. I appreciate you!
My introductory article
**3rd of February 2022**
Hello read.cash family, i just say that I'm excited to finally be a member of this platform. This is officially my first article and I'm a bit nervous because it's my first time writing on a platform with a wide range of people from all over the world.
My name is Esteriox, a very friendly and free person, and will like to treat everyone here as family members because I believe that's that's we are. Since I consider myself a part of this amazing family, there are so many interesting things I'd reveal about myself.
I'm a very straight forward, I like to be very realistic and I believe in following principles. I love writing, it's one of the many things things I do for fun since it's something I find very enjoyable, though I'm not a perfect writer, I'm still learning and believe my writing skills will improve with time.
My name is Esteriox, I already mentioned it earlier but I want you to remember it
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I love writing and I consider this platform as a perfect opportunity for me to do what I enjoy doing while also earning some BCH in the process, that's a one stone kill two birds situation, or perhaps a Quad pro quo.
I'm very excited to be on this platform, I mean who wouldn't be.
I may be new here but I know a lot of people who have been on this platform for months and they constantly talk about how wonderful the experience has been so far. I sometimes do a sneak peek I to some articles here and I enjoy myself while reading them.
Before joining this platform, I've come across some wonderful writers like @olasquare who writes mostly on life lessons, @bmjc98 who writes about her Axie infinity and Pegaxy scholarship. I know she's a fur mom, I've read a lot about you and how wonderful a person person are. I've also some across some wonderful people as well such as @gertu13, @farmgirl, @justmyrambles01, @garrethgrey07, @sequoia, @coquicoin, @bloghound, @belozoriana, @king_gozie, @theblackdoll who writes horror amd fictional stories, @george_dee and so many other people whom I cannot mention.
I must mention @jane, a lady with a very wonderful personality, she lives and works in Hong Kong, a lady whom I admire
All these people mentioned may not know me, but I've found their articles enjoyable and am looking forward to interacting with them now that I'm here.
I almost forgot to mention that I'm an introvert, I don't make friends easily, but when I do I always make sure to keep them.
I'm a good listener, I love singing, listening to music and blah blah... I can't possibly mention all about me because there are so many things about me which I don't even know about myself. With time you'd get to know me better.
I'm a lover of God and I believe my life is controlled by him through my connection with him. I put all things into his hands so he can direct my path for without him I am nothing and wouldn't get to exist in the first place.
I almost forgot to mention that I was introduced to this platform by a friend @Kristofferquincy, he's been here for over 4 months or so and I must mention mention he's he's amazing writer.
I look forward to making new friends, having some fun, learning new things and earning some BCH here on read.cash.
I look forward to interacting with a lot of people here, I'm ready to have some fun while simultaneously building my finance.
Hello read.cash family, this is my introductory post.
Special shout out to @top.10, @fashtioluwa, @success.1 and many others....
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