Why do you care?
Why do people care or have a care to other people? What are the reasons why you have a care for other people? And why you want to show care for everyone?
For this Article we will going to talk and answer those questions. If what is caring for me and what is my observation to people who share their care to other people.
But before we will continue this discussion about caring, I would like to say that this is my personal opinion and if you also want to give your own perspective about the word 'Care' you can comment down below. Remember that you are free to voice out your own opinions!
I started to show my Care to other people when they needed my Help. I learned to show my care by helping others as I watched from Television or reading books because I always watched some shows, and read some books that I can able to learn some lessons.
Back then when I was younger, I don't know but after watching some Telivisions and reading some books of how they care to other kids and other people, I also start doing things that as I help my neighbors and other kids by doing simple things to my former town even if I am just born to be a poor kid.
But despite of me of showing some Kindness to everyone, I can't avoid of having some enemies because of this. Why?
Because we are doing the right thing and that is one of the most difficult thing that human can('t) do. Because we do the things that they can't do in the first place and it will lead to jealousy.
What I mean is if we are doing the right thing, other people can say words to you, people will say many hurtful words just so they can manipulate other people and look different to you and as a result, many people will hate you because you are doing good than them.
Why People Care or Have a care to other people?
We care because we can't stand seeing things that we makes we feel different emotions. We care because that is how we show our love to other people. Like we care for our friends because they are part of our life, we care for a stranger because they are also a human, we care for the animals because we consider them as a family and other reasons why we give care for others.
For me, I never stop giving care to others even if sometimes, I wanted to not give a care to others but I failed because I can't stop my self. There was a moment that when I was Grade 4, someone is being bullied by my friends my friends before wants me to join them and blackmailing me that if I will not join them they will never consider me as a friend. So me, as a person that I'm scared that I will lose some friends, I force my self to laugh and join even if I don't want to. I said to myself, "Hindi ikaw yan" This is not you. So at the end of the day, I decided to talk with my classmate who was being bullied by my friends and my friends so that act of mine and they will also bullied me but that time, I decided to don't give them a care and do what my heart wants.
Because I learned that it is hard for me to pretend to be the person that even if It's not me. The real me.
What are the reasons why you have a care for other people?
I sometimes not think the reason why I have a care to other people because when the moment that I give care to other people, I just do it and no reason I just want to help because they are in needs.
Well, the moment that I started to care to others, I often recieved some bad feedbacks from other people since when I was young. Like they often see my Helping and caring actions to others because I want to gain attention and I wanted to be praise by many people and not because I just want to help because they are in need and I can't stand seeing and watch other people suffer. As a response,
I don't use Helping and caring others because I want to gain attention, that I want many people to praise me because of what I did. Because, I'm just a simple person who have a care and love to other people. I'm just a imperfect human and I do believe that we should lift up each other to the times that we are all in needs and not make each other suffer more.
Why do you want to show care to everyone?
Because that is how I can able to show my love to everyone. You know, I'm not good at saying words like 'I love you' to my Family, Friends, and other people who I care about because it always makes me feel cringe even in person I never said, I love yous to my exs. Lol because I prefer saying it through my Actions.
"Action speak louder than words." As they said..
When I care to someone, I always ask them if they are okay, but, my Friends, cousins and my Sister often dicline to answer my question as they feel it strange and kill the mood. HA-HA because when I ask them, I sat beside them first and hesitate if I will ask them or not then all of the sudden, I will ask them a question like that so as a result they will laugh.
But do you know that sometimes that is the question that we always need? Because we forgotten to ask our loved onces if How are they. So, I advice you to ask that your Family, Friends or a stranger sometimes because no one will ask them how they feel or what going through to them.
Too much concern will make you become toxic
Despite of the Good result of the things that we are doing when we show our Care and Help to others sometimes, it also becomes bad to give too much concern to the lives of others. One of my Example are those people who are good at judging, critizing, and gossiping about others lives- like someone's problem is also their problem.
I was laughing sometimes because of those people who are giving too much care to my life. I appreciate those efforts of giving informations about me to othee people even if sometimes those news are not even connected to one another. They always changed some words that maybe, they are afraid of Plagiarism. HA-HA Choos! But seriously, It is not bad to give Care, Help, and concern to other people as long as you will not cross the line.
Giving Help, concern, and care to other people by just helping them with just small things when they are in need is the real care but caring too much about their lives is not.
Conclusion...
I wrote this article because someone became problematic again to my earnings lol. When the moment that I posted my help to 150 dogs to my Facebook story, Someone said these that I didn't noticed the message due to I was focused here and to noisecash I just noticed it today.
"Halla tumutulong na dipa naman mayaman."
That someone said that I was already helping others even if I am not yet rich.
Once again, a lesson for everyone. Helping and caring for other people is not about being rich and poor or what is your Family status. Even the people who are just living on the street can able to help other people by small things and that is to help our mother nature that other rich people can't able to do it.
Even if I am not still rich and I'm still starting to earn for achieving my goals to my life, that will be not a reason for me to not help others. Because I care and I like to share the blessings that I recieved from above and that is not bad. If other people give some helps big or small amount to other people, you don't have the rights to complain because it's their money and they have the rights to do whatever they want to do because it's the labor of their hardwork.
And that is for today, I just voice out my thoughts about Helping and caring other people and I hope that you learned a lesson after reading my Article! Thank you for reading!
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I love to help others din but as of now I am not capable so pinagpray ko nalang sila po, mas mabisang tulong pa yan. ate tanong ko lang po papano po yang txt na parang gumagalaw?