Secret Recipe: How to have a best relationship?

Being in a relationship is hard because we always experience the same as like what the stories you have read in the novel and or romance books and if what you always watched in every movies. From the beginning of being in love at first, to the middle of the story of experiencing things being complicated and in the end of separated to each other- oh well nevermind my bitterness because not all of the love stories are have a tragic ending because there are some couples who are being strong no matter what happened because they loved each other (sana all).

As you know, I don't have boyfriend right now. I don't have a suitor either because I don't allowed them to court me even if they are confessing how they feel to me. Why I am writing these article for today? Because I will be your Love Expert for now.

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Since I read a lot of romance genre of dramas and I read some romance and novel books before on wattpad, I think, I learned a lot about relationship because of them and to be honest, I'm tired of reading or watching romance genre because they have always the same plot. I mean, if how the relationship of each character work in the story. They have always the same reasons, if what will happened to the both of them, etc.

So what are the secret to have a best relationship? If how your relationship with your partner will stay in a long time? Let me dicuss to you a few things that I observed and learned.

Being Honest to each other

The first thing that I observed in each relationship is if how your partner will become honest and to be trusted to their feelings.

One of the most common problem that I watched and obseve from the couples in every drama or read in the book is when they tell lies to their partner because of the antagonist's plan to ruin their relationship. Love triangle problem. Not because they want to but because they have a reason and they don't know what to do so they choose to lie to their parther or someone day like just so they can save them from the antagonist of the story.

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Another thing is when your partner lied to their personality. They are faking some things about them because they want to be perfect to their partner. In our society, being rich, without a past relationship mistake, being still v!rgn those are the example of lying to their partner because they don't want them to be disappointed. In order to be like by someone, you should become perfect.

For example is in the episode 10 of School 2017. The Girlfriend of their top student of their School lied to him about her personality. The Girl is living to their school as a daughter of one of the Taxi Company even in reality, she was a daughter of a taxi driver and she is just living in the apartment with siblings.

In their 200th anniversary, her boyfriend knows the truth and he was disappointed to her because she lied to him and she didn't become honest.

In relationship, being honest to each other is important. You should always tell to your partner everything even if they are not asking. Because if you are not honest and once you lied to them, it will broke her trust to you. Your partner will always doubt you, they will not trust you anymore and it will also ruin your relationship.

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There's nothing wrong with being honest to yourself. If you have a bad past or whatever you are. At least you tell to your partner and you don't lie. If a person really likes and love you, they will accept you whatever you are and if they don't, that's not love.

Being Open to each other

You know what is the reason why there are some relationship that ruined? Because of the lack of communication. In every situation if there are some things that happened and you both have a misunderstanding or you noticed something is strange or not right to your partner, you should start with a honest and calm conversation. Because,

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Hearing to each other worries and problems can't be solve by a fight or argument. If you both being honest and you both don't like to fight with each other, you should start with talking you should talk everything that you observe, what worries you, what feels you uneasy, like that. Because if you are both open and you both have a serious conversation, everything will be solved. You can give advices, you can think if what would you do to solve the both party's problem.

Being supportive to each other

Ah, it feels nice if your partner always encourage you. It feels nice to have a partner who can support, encourage, and compliment you being supportive to each other is the best right? If what you would like to do, if what are your plans, your dreams, they will always support you. You both can be the number one fan and being in each other's side despite of the everything happening around you.

Lavish them with compliments, kind words that are often assumed and not spoken. When the other person fails or simply feels down or insecure, your encouragement is an opportunity to build them up by showing your sincere support.

Turning your lives into fairytale

If you really love that someone make them happy as long as you can. It doesn't matter if it's expensive or just simple what matters the most is your sencerity and effort toward your partner.

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Surprise your partner with lovely little things. Try to bring something new into your relationship. You know, girls like romantic things sometimes and they are carrying those happy and unforgettable things in the rest of their lives.

And last,

Respect Each other

It’s important to respect the opinion and decisions of your beloved, even if you disagree with them. You should also respect your partner’s friends and family. That is what we should always consider. Even if you both have a fight or arguments, we should be careful to the words that we will let out.

Anyways, if you can't stop your mouth and you are guilty, saying sorry and ask for forgiveness is the key.

Conclusion...

There are a lot of important secrets if how you will have a best relationship. However, we should always remember that there is no perfect relationship on this world. We may experience difficult, hard, and we suffered from a lot of emotions, I just wished that you are strong to handle them all very well.

If these things that I mentioned above can't work with your partner and you both decided to separate to each other. It means that he/she is not for you. We should also accept the fact that not because you meet them it doesn't mean that they are already for us. That's life.

Anyways,

• Honesty

• Trust

• Effort

• Support

• Respect

Are the examples if What are the most important thing in relationship. I don't know if how I should explain my answer to you. But based to my experience of love, I experienced them all. Being Honest to my partner back then but ended up because of his lies, and betrayal. I don't even experienced of receiving support, to make it short, all of what I mentioned above, I don't experienced them all.

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